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December 5th, 2016
I'm scared that if I take time off game that I won't comeback or I'll lose momentum
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dave7

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Join Date: 09/27/2010 | Posts: 1909

 Shit
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Tyler

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Yes you will lose momentum.

OTOH you'll gain more confidence in who you are as a person if you accomplish other things.

It's part of the game.  You can't do this without ever taking breaks.  Consider just doing a few minutes a night.

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Colt

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very real . last month i went out every fucking day and just stoped because of xmas. the "jumps" in game come from when you are frustrated doing the same thin over again, you can't get frustrated if you only go out like 1 -2 a week.
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TwoTyme

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Depends on the situation. Sometimes we have to take one step back in order for us to move 2 steps forward.
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JohnnyCanada

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Myabe this is just me, but if I dont go out for a while or take a break, I get super excited to go out. I seem to do good when I havent been out in a while. At the same time, momentum does also does work.
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lottery

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Join Date: 09/15/2010 | Posts: 248

I am taking off time for gaming due to career and business projects.

I think it affects you little bit but you can always get back on track. If you have the basic principles for it, you should do fine after coming back to the game. Every time you dont feel like going out or approaching, just think that you must do it regardless of the results, do it all the time and you will be back in track. Also when you off the gaming, whenever you have the opportunity, approach a woman, even if you just have to keep it professional and talk about daily work.
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G Bizz

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Join Date: 01/17/2010 | Posts: 525

Just value your time. That's really the only rule you need to follow.
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Portlandia

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Join Date: 01/28/2011 | Posts: 46

It will take you time to get back.  But the trick is to not beat yourself of for having "lost it."  If you do this, it will be a self fulfilling profecy.  Until you realize this:  You gotta view it like, Ok... X, Y, Z worked for me before to get game.  I just need to practice doing x, y, z again.  Also I found keeping a journal helps to record your thoughts as you make the transition back into game.  Basically a stack of thought patterns or mental mechanics that worked FOR YOU to return to abundance... After a while the process gets quicker and quicker and quicker.  I also find myself reframing everything different every time I come back.  Now I ACTUALLY screen girls instead of pretending to screen girls to see how they fit into my non-game life.  Also don't stress about stress.  I think many guys are trying to become NONSTOP STATE MODE.  And that is a great thing to strive for always in life, but realistically you will always have stresses in life.  Learn that stress is natural and you can't always be in state.
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