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December 3rd, 2016
Sensibility - fucking 13 girls in less than 2 months
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MADISON*

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Join Date: 07/07/2008 | Posts: 92

 So ya, 13 girls in less than 2 months 11 new girls, 2 old ones. And I almost never go out. Just putting a few numbers in there so people know that what im typing was tested.

You may know that I was heading into girlfriend zone in early December, but its seems to have taken a little break, and I have not seen my main girl in a few weeks, she is dealing with some personal issues alone in the family and cant really be what I would need her to be. So we are just keeping in contact until the time is right. But anyways, that has opened me up to meeting new woman. Its been going really well as a mater of fact. Almost as good as its ever been.

...it all started cause I felt like I was Wasting my time...

To me, being in a club for 3 hours hitting on chicks that aren’t that cool, so that I can take her home to enjoy 30 minutes of drunken pleasure was not worth it to me. It just felt like a bad time investment. With a low reward. So I moved over to chicks I enjoy my time and conversations with. and I will actively say this to girls “I like that your honest with me. i think all relationships need honesty, so we got a good foundation . I enjoy our conversations, your someone It would be a pleasure spending time with ( concept credit Alexander)” and I mean it when I say it. And they feel its not a line, because our brief interaction has felt legit so far.

The skill at become better at game, is really the art of becoming more “normal”

Choosiness is not attractive. However Sensibility is the in the top 5 attractive quality’s a man can possess in my humble opinion. If this is used in the right amounts, This is the MOST powerful stuff I have discovered in game ever.

If I had to guess the reason this all works. Is because it shows you are a man that wont snap, has boundaries, self control, and is emotionally mature. All the qualities a woman needs to see that you have to be alone with you in a private place and feel safe. Once she knows you are this type of man, she can let down her defenses and get sexual with you and feel safe. Its like automatic comfort and trust.

A sensible man also has intuition into how a woman is really feeling. It comes down to the questions you ask a woman when you are with her and the things in your life you are willing to talk about. As your self, are you willing to talk about your family goals or problems, your career ambitions, your feelings about subjects, or to ask questions about the real her.


For example:
Me: Are you lonely in life?

Chantel: Yes always.

Me: you can have sex with any man you want, but you cant find love

Chantel: i hope find love....cause i dont like have sex with many man


Me: I understand.


Chantel: its the same for you...you look great you can have sex with who you want


Me: not anyone, but if i want i can have sex everyday, but i like it better with a woman i enjoy to spend time with


Chantel: ohhh..thats cute...loll

Me: oh thanks, do you want to come over tonight for some wine - red or white?

Chantel: i if come....its red

(we then pick out the wine together on the SAQ website)



This conversation lets the girl know im down to hook up, but im not emotionally invested in making the sex happen. My words match my actions and behavior.

I have had 6 girls come to my house at 11pm this month for a first date. How? Honestly I say to them “I think your attracted to me, and that’s why your taking to me, and im happy about that, because im attracted to you to. We might have sex, we might not. And that’s fine with me, I dont really care. But if something does happen, it will happen because we both want it to” – next thing you know, im sending them google map directions to my house ;) – Demonstrating sensibility.

Its not that girls don’t want to have sex. They don’t even mind being sluts ever now and then, they just don’t want to be TREATED like a slut, even if they are going to be slutty with you. Meaning, she wants to be called, talked to, and have neutral time with you first.

You are basically allowing the woman a glimpse into your headspace and mind. Have you ever had a girl say “ I need to get to know you better” … I think this is what she really means. Its not technique based pickup, its showing you are a man with certain quality’s. Quality based pickup. Once the girl is convinced you have those quality’s, she is ready to seal the deal and move things forward.

Remember MM's old 5 to 7 hour rule? This disappeared from the community when RSD dudes having sex with girls 1 hour from meet to the bed. I can still do this 1 hour pull. But I prefer 5 to 7 hours because there is better long term retention and I want to pick a girl I actually enjoy spending time with. I just constantly keep the sexual tension in our relationship even though we could be having coffee, or shopping for soup at wallmart. I am still the same awesome vibrant guy, so im not worried about the vibe dying out. I used to feel like the 5 to 7 hours was for the girls, but now that time is for me ;)

I have not had LMR with the last 10 girls I have been with. im serious, I mean no LMR at all.
Sensibility might not be useful for the drunken bar star in the pub, but its something worth developing in your communication for retention, daygame, and online game.
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#1

duenher

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Join Date: 06/04/2010 | Posts: 246

totally agree
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Dr Feelgood

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Join Date: 04/06/2011 | Posts: 1521

Great! A nice reminder!

I think once I will be able to pull consistently within an hour, I will go back to the feeling/ method you described. But I gotta go through that phase first.
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iiSwoosh

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Join Date: 06/25/2009 | Posts: 1212

 gold dude, your shit is really underated--much props to you dude, very good information.

"Its not that girls don’t want to have sex. They don’t even mind being sluts ever now and then, they just don’t want to be TREATED like a slut, even if they are going to be slutty with you. Meaning, she wants to be called, talked to, and have neutral time with you first." my fav sentance, very true.
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#4

pringles

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Join Date: 04/28/2009 | Posts: 998

 nice angle on this whole pick up thing.....but you know you can achieve this in club scenarios's as well.....it's just another part of being an attractive man....IME if you include this in the club scenario as well while doing all the standard game stuff, you can achieve this longevitie effect and get a greater deal of attraction due to the larger range of emotions..... i mean there are girls i haven't talked to for about a year that have moved on with their lives but i know if i call them they will be DTF. Happened a couple months ago actually texted an awsome girl i had a fling with, she was about to go on a date, convinced her to ditch the guy she was going to see and we went back to hers. met her in a club btw and closed the same night.  I'd probably be like this if i didn't love pimpin in the club so much

Last time i had lmr was because the chick was on her period
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DJMarco

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Join Date: 03/21/2011 | Posts: 441

So now how can I fuck 10 girls in 2 months?
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Being aware of a girl's emotional state is something I had to work on, because I'm not reactive at all. Too many times I get into the trap of being a clown and just "plowing" and she leaves or runs. This 5 to 7 hour thing probably works for most guys too, but every girl I've been with, I've pushed hard for sex since the moment I met them so I can't vouch for it. Every guy has his own game I guess.
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high_maintenance

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Join Date: 11/07/2010 | Posts: 541

 When you say 'first date' are you talking internet dating? Or a day 2?
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Cam

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Join Date: 06/11/2011 | Posts: 327

Fucking 10 girls in 2 months aint really that impressive to me,  i was close to this number recently and i only go out on weekends cos of focusing on my career and shit.
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#9

TwoTyme

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Join Date: 01/08/2009 | Posts: 540

Solid post. Agree with pringles also, same effect can be achieved in the club. Also I dislike how guys on here have a thing for time limits, just be with her and let time work as your friend in the background, I spend as much time as I feel I want to spend, which is usually a few hours (depending on girl). I don't like to rush my way through life, I like to savor moments.
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champ

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Join Date: 06/19/2011 | Posts: 891

So now you want to go back to "4 to 7 hour solid game"?????? LOL tounge All good I guess. Good luck evryone.
Madison* wrote:
 So ya, 10 girls in less than 2 months 8 new girls, 2 old ones. And I almost never go out. Just putting a few numbers in there so people know that what im typing was tested......


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