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dave7

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Join Date: 09/27/2010 | Posts: 1909

Yeah dude it always comes down to the reasons for going out. And the reason is usually something like "to get hot girls". So if you want the "hot girls" then I think the answer is easy on whether to "go out every day". 
UtopiaFive wrote:
Friday:


Feeling pretty uncertain if I should pick back up on this "go out every day" thing.  Not if I should...but if I actually want to...
comes back to these questions like
(i) Owen: Why are you actually going so far into this game stuff?
(ii) Julien: Do you know why you're there talking to dat der girl?
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ScooWoop

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Join Date: 01/21/2012 | Posts: 193

You should do the extreme opposite ...

Go on a female fast ...

Put other areas of your life as priority ...

Im not saying dont fuck bitches...

But dont go out of your way...

Plans change...

I know you wanted to do 365...

But shit life is short...

Ride the rollercoaster...

Im not sure if you making it out to be more like work now...

So just drop it all...

Relax...

Amp other areas of your live...

Bask in your awesomeness...

Kinda like a spiritual cleansing...

Then step back in rejuvinated and revitalized...

A beast with clear intention...
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Colt

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SpikeSpiegel wrote:
Ugh yeah I approached some eastern european girls at union square today, and found myself trying to get into "her movie," and filtering this stuff I wanna say because "day game is different dur." Shit like talking about their country in which I have no genuine interest because I hate european shit in general and find it tacky. Also lining up things in my head to say in order to evoke a positive response like "say something in french" and she's like "durpurdar francais hurmarhur" and going "yeah that sounds soooo coool." Fuck me. I'd rather blow out the set saying shit I want to instead of get a bunch of giggles and a "nice to meet you."



yes this was my lesson from this weekend.
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Colt

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(i) Owen: Why are you actually going so far into this game stuff?

wonduring what was the reason/context he asked this. ....e.g. what is he getting at
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UtopiaFive

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shaved my head and talked to some azns last night
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Paris Boum Boum

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The "I don't know why I am doing happens to me a lot when I go out 7x a week too. 

Here are a few pointers that helped me:

-Go to completely different venues with hotter or different girls.

-Genuinely have fun besides picking up chicks. 

-Make a clear assessment of my results, and see if they are in alignment with my end goals. If not, figure out a detailed plan of how to achieve those goals, and apply it. 
Example: I want to bang 9s and 10s, but the last girl I fucked was an 8 or a 7. Then my new plans should say: approach more / only 9s-10s, push for the sale every time. Now I have to find new venues, and I have to practice a tiny set of actions again and again until it's implemented (in that case: escalate hard on the hotties, go for the pull even when you don't feel it. 
It makes your next night get more meaning. You actually know what you are doing. 

-Get BAD experiences, and use them as leverage
When they happen, experience the pain much longer that you would normally do, and link that pain to you being a pussy. The more painful, the more it will drive you. 
View them as the natural consequence of you not manning up 110%. 
Example: I think I am this big pimp, I am with 5 girls in a van, we're heading to the most exclusive venue in the country, they love me, and it's in the bag with an arousing Scandinavian girl. 5h later I am alone, I got tooled by guys who stole my girl, I was lied to, despised, emotionally hurt and I feel betrayed. I forced myself to stay there when my girl started to make out with the other guy in front of me, because this is what will happen everytime I pussy out.

-Acknowledge the goals you achieved and set new goals. 

I don't know if this is relevant because I didn't read all your reports yet, but I hope it can help.


UtopiaFive wrote:

Julien had asked me "Do you know why you're talking to so and so girl?"  Think I now realize...I don't actually know why I'm doing most of the shit I'm doing.  

In all honesty, the girls I banged in Miami...I didn't even really feel like banging em.  The Sunday I just banged the chick again so I could sleep in her bed all day and get a ride to the airport.  Sounds shitty as fuck, but true.  

Don't know why I went to this dinner shit with work people.  I know I didn't even want to, but I did for some reason.  I don't know why I banged this chick last night even.  I guess I didn't "mind" it but I didn't really want to either.  

Honestly lately everyone who gets in touch with me lately I feel like they're "bothering" me.  No idea why.  

And yeah, even when I was driving home, I did see some hot chick on the street, and after my "I dunno why I'm doing all this shit" thoughts, I thought "Yeah, wanna hit that shit..."  And after this meditation this evening, I turned on some porn and again thought about the girl in the video "Yup, wanna hit that too."  

But its weird, I'm now saying to myself "Yeah I just talk myself into their vaginas" and ask if I really like girls or just like that "getting laid makes me cool."  

Partially I think I'm just seeing on a pretty deep level (like not just in "the game" but in "my life") the "sticking point" from Miami BC: "You aren't 100% drawing state from within," or its more than even just "state" but more like "proactive" on an emotional level.  Like I know a lot of the time I can "go out" and then I'm like "hurr durr whatever the fuck" and then I "notice" that other people are "having a good time" and then as a result I realize "Yup, I mean I'm not going to pull a hot girl whose having fun when I'm just derp, time to make myself have fun!" --> AKA I typically don't even experience emotions for myself.  I'm obviously exaggerating in some sense but the fact that I know this is "generally true" is still notable.  

Feeling pretty uncertain if I should pick back up on this "go out every day" thing.  Not if I should...but if I actually want to...
comes back to these questions like
(i) Owen: Why are you actually going so far into this game stuff?
(ii) Julien: Do you know why you're there talking to dat der girl?



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Paris Boum Boum

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scottsdale wrote:



UtopiaFive wrote:

. my own note: saying 'ill wait for more state/momentum for later' rarely seems to be relevant, as i never see the hotter girl again later.  aka DO IT NOW. 
I agree.

Waiting for the right time or state = outcome dependence = she's so special, you're not enough as you are.
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UtopiaFive

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Probably why you're going to keep doing the same exact thing every single time you go out for the next 2 years.  

Not a "dick" comment, just "how it is" -- AKA you're not willing to "think for yourself" as much as you ought to be yet.  
Bruce wrote:
Your overanalysis in the field reporst gives me a headache though, but if it helps you great. 
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UtopiaFive

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Didn't go out Monday night.  Been feeling a huge need to refresh on sleep and "rethink shit".  
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roadrally

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Join Date: 10/12/2009 | Posts: 1916

What!!?!? What happened to 365 days of game?
Failcity brooo
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