THE FORUMS
keeping track of my outings a lot lately so I can reflect and learn.
3 hours daygame today.
new way I'm doing things:
only go in when I get eye contact or girl high fives me to save energy...
Me: creepy sexual eye contact
girl: smiles..
me: hey, I just thought you were really sexy
girl: nevervous attracted lauhter, haha thats kind of awkward
me: ( trying to keep the tension) ya where are you from
girl; blah blah blah
talk a bit , reward her from some bs responses and say you're awesome high five pull her in hug her, ..
she has to go,, try to grab her hand and say lets go get coffee...
get number leave
usually some iteration of that..but I've been doing tap and spin a lot too where you grab them by the shoulder and spin them around from behind with the "you are sexy " line and keep the tension.
lessons learned today:
when i'm out focus less on technical things like how I'm approaching " ie tap and spin , handshake, etc" and more on the CORE principles like intent, woo, present , and dominance. Also the core essential out game things: BANTER, KINO, Vibe ( includes qualification).
Especially presence. I noticed I force shit less and the intent comes naturally when I'm present so will start meditating again and be able to pimp like tolle some day =) .
3 hours daygame today.
new way I'm doing things:
only go in when I get eye contact or girl high fives me to save energy...
Me: creepy sexual eye contact
girl: smiles..
me: hey, I just thought you were really sexy
girl: nevervous attracted lauhter, haha thats kind of awkward
me: ( trying to keep the tension) ya where are you from
girl; blah blah blah
talk a bit , reward her from some bs responses and say you're awesome high five pull her in hug her, ..
she has to go,, try to grab her hand and say lets go get coffee...
get number leave
usually some iteration of that..but I've been doing tap and spin a lot too where you grab them by the shoulder and spin them around from behind with the "you are sexy " line and keep the tension.
lessons learned today:
when i'm out focus less on technical things like how I'm approaching " ie tap and spin , handshake, etc" and more on the CORE principles like intent, woo, present , and dominance. Also the core essential out game things: BANTER, KINO, Vibe ( includes qualification).
Especially presence. I noticed I force shit less and the intent comes naturally when I'm present so will start meditating again and be able to pimp like tolle some day =) .
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Posting to keep myself accountable. Went out 2 nights, 3 days.
tonight, really fun time. Focusing on self discipline no alcohol. Begining of the night not too crazy warming up. start dancing. Find an asian girl whos really into me, grind on her, pull her away to the bar, push her against the wall, couldn't makeout with her, bounce around talk to more girls, pumping my state. Meet some more people and bounce to a new bar. I start yelling and getting hella loud. Blueprint stuff. really works. Go in loud as fuck with most girls going in with " oyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy" super loud, then calibrating with "hey whats up im bruce "..I go in super loud and dominant. I realized I wasnt loud enough in the past and I was lazy and wouldnt hold the friends attention long enough to pull the girls away. Tonight was way better being loud, dominant ( going in with double claws and shit) and owning everyone I was talking too, basically spin hugs, claws, picking them up , etc. I was hooking a lot but I realized I was go into entertainer mode trying to hold their attention. Lots of laughs and giggles but this was unacceptable I started to get more sexual towards the end of the night to screen harder. It went from oh my god this guy is funny to oh my god I'm going to get fucked and run away. I just genuinly enjoy talking to women so much sometimes im having too much fun to screen too hard right away. But I have to be more disciplined about it. End of night grabbing chicks , yelling, spin hugs. One girl slapped me in the face when I toled her I'm gonna fuck her by the dumpster, some were really shocked, some friends really shocked..fuck it end of night its go for broke. =) . Some great interactions and numbers nothing special tonight.
Key notes to remember:
working harder on myself = higher sense of entitlement, louder, cooler
screen harder instad of plowing
tonight, really fun time. Focusing on self discipline no alcohol. Begining of the night not too crazy warming up. start dancing. Find an asian girl whos really into me, grind on her, pull her away to the bar, push her against the wall, couldn't makeout with her, bounce around talk to more girls, pumping my state. Meet some more people and bounce to a new bar. I start yelling and getting hella loud. Blueprint stuff. really works. Go in loud as fuck with most girls going in with " oyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy" super loud, then calibrating with "hey whats up im bruce "..I go in super loud and dominant. I realized I wasnt loud enough in the past and I was lazy and wouldnt hold the friends attention long enough to pull the girls away. Tonight was way better being loud, dominant ( going in with double claws and shit) and owning everyone I was talking too, basically spin hugs, claws, picking them up , etc. I was hooking a lot but I realized I was go into entertainer mode trying to hold their attention. Lots of laughs and giggles but this was unacceptable I started to get more sexual towards the end of the night to screen harder. It went from oh my god this guy is funny to oh my god I'm going to get fucked and run away. I just genuinly enjoy talking to women so much sometimes im having too much fun to screen too hard right away. But I have to be more disciplined about it. End of night grabbing chicks , yelling, spin hugs. One girl slapped me in the face when I toled her I'm gonna fuck her by the dumpster, some were really shocked, some friends really shocked..fuck it end of night its go for broke. =) . Some great interactions and numbers nothing special tonight.
Key notes to remember:
working harder on myself = higher sense of entitlement, louder, cooler
screen harder instad of plowing
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been doing some daygame, went out the other night too. Fun times. I got bored of writing normal reports so I spiced it up with some metaphors. Enjoy =)
Hit up the usual spot, not as packed as usual since its a weekday. Roll in first hottie I see, stare down, " you are sooo...sexy." blushes, gives me some reistance, leaves eventually. Keep running around. Too much fun. Working all day so this is my reward. Venemous, I slither through the club, bitting every girl in sight ( not really but you know..) I strike I strike I strike again, grabbing, pulling rubbing, eating. I devour their resistance, " i have a boyfriend" is met with makeout attempts and hard wang times. Fatties are nothing more than a side dish =)
I see a bunch of chodes dancing in a semi circle with one girl in there so I roll up on that shit and spin her around. She can sense the merciless gleam in my eyes as I snatch her away to a dark corner.." my friends..I can't.." is met with " my dong, I can't it's too hard, it needs you," I put her hand on it..she pulls back laughing..I pin her to the walll and slither right up on her . She knows I'm gonna eat her, eat her into the night, venemous yet proud. haha. We vibe for a bit and I let her go back to her friends but keep an eye on her as I talk to other chicks. Roll up on some other groups, full rejected and back turned, some fatties keep cockblocking me and saying " sorry were lesbians, you need to go." I give them the venemousu stare down and then hiss and leave.haha. Hissssssss. I need more hearty meals anyway. I spot some cougars in a corner and ask them if they want to meet blue moon cock, my halloween nickname ages ago. They look confused but intrigued. I tell them its very blue due to lack of stimulation and they need to do a rain dance to make things more wet. They eat up the banter. I grab the numbers and leave. I see the girl in the semi circle again and go in and grab her. I pull her towards the door. She keeps resistign..we get closer to the entrance I pull back a bit and vibe it out. I find out she's not too far away so we go outside to talk for a bit longer. I grab her and pin her against the wall full makeout. She says we can't do this i"m like I know we can't..keep going anyway. Finally throw her into the taxi and we go to her place to see her cool " tv" , I'm like that sounds awesome you gotta show me we can watch twilight. We go inside and I tell her I'm going to turn her into a vampire and bite her. We bang, we bang into the night, so carelessly a twilight romance in the makings. I convert her into a vampire and hope I see a vampire baby emerge the next day..a vampire middleastern hairy baby with a turban and several gas stations.
i took this pic the next day but sadly no vampire baby =( . And I couldn't break her bed like edward I guess I wasn't strong enough.
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i like the way you write bruce. i imagined a king cobra up in that mother f er. i loled at this part " her away to a dark corner.." my friends..I can't.." is met with " my
dong, I can't it's too hard, it needs you,"
dong, I can't it's too hard, it needs you,"
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Thanks colt. I am a cobra. =)
went out to holy cow tonight. Fucking scallywags galore. Million chodes ,, lots fatties, and lots of fucking sexy as sluts everywhere. I roll up on the first hotties i see and glare into their eyes with a gleam of utter sexuality. They melt , the melt like icecream as I desire to lick them dry, lick them all over like a fucking dog. We banter for a bit and I leave. I dance around with some more scallywags but the fat friends arent having it. I go outside and see a hott cute asian girl.
me: ( too sleepy to filter my bulshit) do you like obama??
girl: whatt??? no
me: what do you think of his current fiscal campaign and national projection earnigngs ( some bs like that)
girl: get to the point jeezz/??
me: K ill be honest I just wanna bang your brains out all night
girl: please my boyfriend just fucked me for an hour earlier
I keep plowing. she goes inside and I chase her down..she leaves,
get her again she asks for my number
me: 123456 ( credit julien lol)
her: thats not your number!!
I lose her again
I roll up on more scallys. Some fat scally grabs me and grinds me in front of a crowd. The crowd cheers. I leave and molest her skinny hotter black sister. I go for the makeout, the asian chick returns vying for my attention. I grab her to the dance floor..she keeps leaving to flirt with other guys and coming back to me. I finally pick her up and start walking to the door..she freaks out I put her down..we go near the bathroom door...I grab her head and makeout..start to fingerblast her but she stops me but still isnt leaving..trying ot find cousin or some shit. ..she keeps leaving and flirting with other dudes I keep getting her back dragging her away..iI pick her up again and start walk ing to door she wants me to put her down..rinse repat pick her up again later, no go..rinse repeat =) . I am like a fucking caveman grabbing my dead hunted prey carrying it home. ..eventually club closing down..we go to the coat rack so she can grab her purse..we go outside and I keep trying ot drag her to my friend dustins car to fuck her but she has to get her credit card from inside..her cousin comes and helps her and I can't pull her away. I roll up on a mixed group of scallys and one dude and open with some rebeccah black:
its friday friday get down on friday, fun fun. Instantly all the scallys want me ,.
dude: were all cousins bro.
full ignore I isolate my girl and keep talking ot her...try to makeout cant in front of friends..eventually her brother drives by and takes her home .
I text my numbers, one reply but she said she couldn't after party tonight.
also I saw 6 people fighting like fucking spartans tonight in the club..its the same place i got punched in teh eye a month ago. Fucking getto as fuck .
Now I'm stuck in a hotel lobby till 5 am writing this waiting for my bus cuz im a game addict tweaked out on energy drinks and couldnt' resist going out tonight.lol =)
went out to holy cow tonight. Fucking scallywags galore. Million chodes ,, lots fatties, and lots of fucking sexy as sluts everywhere. I roll up on the first hotties i see and glare into their eyes with a gleam of utter sexuality. They melt , the melt like icecream as I desire to lick them dry, lick them all over like a fucking dog. We banter for a bit and I leave. I dance around with some more scallywags but the fat friends arent having it. I go outside and see a hott cute asian girl.
me: ( too sleepy to filter my bulshit) do you like obama??
girl: whatt??? no
me: what do you think of his current fiscal campaign and national projection earnigngs ( some bs like that)
girl: get to the point jeezz/??
me: K ill be honest I just wanna bang your brains out all night
girl: please my boyfriend just fucked me for an hour earlier
I keep plowing. she goes inside and I chase her down..she leaves,
get her again she asks for my number
me: 123456 ( credit julien lol)
her: thats not your number!!
I lose her again
I roll up on more scallys. Some fat scally grabs me and grinds me in front of a crowd. The crowd cheers. I leave and molest her skinny hotter black sister. I go for the makeout, the asian chick returns vying for my attention. I grab her to the dance floor..she keeps leaving to flirt with other guys and coming back to me. I finally pick her up and start walking to the door..she freaks out I put her down..we go near the bathroom door...I grab her head and makeout..start to fingerblast her but she stops me but still isnt leaving..trying ot find cousin or some shit. ..she keeps leaving and flirting with other dudes I keep getting her back dragging her away..iI pick her up again and start walk ing to door she wants me to put her down..rinse repat pick her up again later, no go..rinse repeat =) . I am like a fucking caveman grabbing my dead hunted prey carrying it home. ..eventually club closing down..we go to the coat rack so she can grab her purse..we go outside and I keep trying ot drag her to my friend dustins car to fuck her but she has to get her credit card from inside..her cousin comes and helps her and I can't pull her away. I roll up on a mixed group of scallys and one dude and open with some rebeccah black:
its friday friday get down on friday, fun fun. Instantly all the scallys want me ,.
dude: were all cousins bro.
full ignore I isolate my girl and keep talking ot her...try to makeout cant in front of friends..eventually her brother drives by and takes her home .
I text my numbers, one reply but she said she couldn't after party tonight.
also I saw 6 people fighting like fucking spartans tonight in the club..its the same place i got punched in teh eye a month ago. Fucking getto as fuck .
Now I'm stuck in a hotel lobby till 5 am writing this waiting for my bus cuz im a game addict tweaked out on energy drinks and couldnt' resist going out tonight.lol =)
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Yo since I'm "too busy" to go out lately, I'm wantin to know about your repeat business w girls you're pullin. Are you converting these girls to steady customers or are you sellin em a vacuum cleaner on their doorstop never to be heard of again?
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converting some of them to steady "customers" maybe a couple usually.dont have time for too many as I go out too much and have other stuff to do. If you ignore them a lot of them wont flake though because they know you have a lot of options and don't give a fuck about them. This week it's been more with "them" actually I haven't gone out as much. This weekened should be good though. Ya Sf has a lot of ugly chicks too maybe I'd pull more if I settled for uglier chicks but its hard to get a hard on from fatties.
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Hi Bruce,
I thoroughly enjoyed your field reports.
I'm noticing a pattern that you and other successful PUA's seem to share in common. Please tell me if this is a good summary of a typical night:
Go to the club
Hit set 1, 2, 3, 4, etc...keep hitting set after set after set
Later in the night, go back to one or more of the previous sets
Makeout, fingerbang, drag to the door.
Pull home / hotel / car, etc...
Did I miss anything?
The reason I'm asking is because I have a tendancy to stick with one set for too long. If the set fizzles out, I typically don't re-open.
In contrast it seems the pro's like yourself don't spend much time with any given set and keep going back several times, even if initially its not going anywhere.
Another question - how do you leave off with the girl as you jump from set to set? Do you say "catch you later", say you're going to find your friends, or something else?
Thanks!
I thoroughly enjoyed your field reports.
I'm noticing a pattern that you and other successful PUA's seem to share in common. Please tell me if this is a good summary of a typical night:
Go to the club
Hit set 1, 2, 3, 4, etc...keep hitting set after set after set
Later in the night, go back to one or more of the previous sets
Makeout, fingerbang, drag to the door.
Pull home / hotel / car, etc...
Did I miss anything?
The reason I'm asking is because I have a tendancy to stick with one set for too long. If the set fizzles out, I typically don't re-open.
In contrast it seems the pro's like yourself don't spend much time with any given set and keep going back several times, even if initially its not going anywhere.
Another question - how do you leave off with the girl as you jump from set to set? Do you say "catch you later", say you're going to find your friends, or something else?
Thanks!
been doing some daygame, went out the other night too. Fun times. I got bored of writing normal reports so I spiced it up with some metaphors. Enjoy =)
Hit up the usual spot, not as packed as usual since its a weekday. Roll in first hottie I see, stare down, " you are sooo...sexy." blushes, gives me some reistance, leaves eventually. Keep running around. Too much fun. Working all day so this is my reward. Venemous, I slither through the club, bitting every girl in sight ( not really but you know..) I strike I strike I strike again, grabbing, pulling rubbing, eating. I devour their resistance, " i have a boyfriend" is met with makeout attempts and hard wang times. Fatties are nothing more than a side dish =)
I see a bunch of chodes dancing in a semi circle with one girl in there so I roll up on that shit and spin her around. She can sense the merciless gleam in my eyes as I snatch her away to a dark corner.." my friends..I can't.." is met with " my dong, I can't it's too hard, it needs you," I put her hand on it..she pulls back laughing..I pin her to the walll and slither right up on her . She knows I'm gonna eat her, eat her into the night, venemous yet proud. haha. We vibe for a bit and I let her go back to her friends but keep an eye on her as I talk to other chicks. Roll up on some other groups, full rejected and back turned, some fatties keep cockblocking me and saying " sorry were lesbians, you need to go." I give them the venemousu stare down and then hiss and leave.haha. Hissssssss. I need more hearty meals anyway. I spot some cougars in a corner and ask them if they want to meet blue moon cock, my halloween nickname ages ago. They look confused but intrigued. I tell them its very blue due to lack of stimulation and they need to do a rain dance to make things more wet. They eat up the banter. I grab the numbers and leave. I see the girl in the semi circle again and go in and grab her. I pull her towards the door. She keeps resistign..we get closer to the entrance I pull back a bit and vibe it out. I find out she's not too far away so we go outside to talk for a bit longer. I grab her and pin her against the wall full makeout. She says we can't do this i"m like I know we can't..keep going anyway. Finally throw her into the taxi and we go to her place to see her cool " tv" , I'm like that sounds awesome you gotta show me we can watch twilight. We go inside and I tell her I'm going to turn her into a vampire and bite her. We bang, we bang into the night, so carelessly a twilight romance in the makings. I convert her into a vampire and hope I see a vampire baby emerge the next day..a vampire middleastern hairy baby with a turban and several gas stations.
i took this pic the next day but sadly no vampire baby =( . And I couldn't break her bed like edward I guess I wasn't strong enough.
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Join Date: 03/02/2011 | Posts: 196
Friday did 3 hrs daygame then hit up polk with an old wing visiting the city. Had like 7 people there i knew so hella distracted from my shit. Also pushing the guy i'm helping to get better, but it's cool, started to approach doingn my usual shit. Don't remember anything actually it was a while ago. Had this one girl I was dancing and moving around with for like 40 minutes though..fully self amusing and shit , fuckign around with her, kept telling her I'm gonna fuck her later and even used the line" i'm gonna cut you up fuck you in a alley and burn your body in the woods later..." she was eating it up...shes like " you crack me up, your fucking killing me, " i'm like "not till later" ..dont remember should have posted on friday..eventually wing got so fucked up and sick had to drive him home hella early so left.
saturday
hit up marina solo. Everyone flaked haha. Probably better being solo. Had a vneck on that is literally down to my belly button. I had 50 people that night comment on it " nice shirt where i get one" " oh my god you have more cleavage than me, etc,.. .wanted to experiment with doing less today and not trying too hard. Super overworked so tired but still out and mainly just opening iwth
who are you, come here, pulling them in ...
girls: smiling or running away...
trying to dance but marina chicks seem tougher
I go in to one cougar...she keeps saying dance with her friend instead ..keep plowing, pulling them in and shit get hella resistance, fuck it leave find a big group of chicks, find a super slutty one and shes all over me and I keep trying to drag her to the door but she wont leave, grab some numbers leave, go outside and run around do some shit keep my momentum.
Some girl opened me with
"hey I like your necklace,"
I make good eye contact put my arm around her waist and start doing my thing, not talking much just more subcomunication..she kind of leaves to her guy friend saying its my boyfriend...i dont plow at all..
go outside see a cute asian go in hard apocolypse before she leaves, friend pulls her away,...
pickup some cougar and put her on my shoulder and start walking away she yells for help to her friend while laughing I put her down friend pulls her away...
get a text from the girl from last night but she flaked..
nothing really happened I was hella tired and left...
I'm having a hard time trying to stop myself from going crazy and overgaming and wasting time and energy and balancing it with shutting up more, not forcing things, and not plowing.
I think the key is to plow when the girl seems really into you untill they really want you to fuck off and then don't plow when they are super uninterested. Shit it feels like I"m learning game from scratch sober but Its better this way. Discipline and self control will get me further.
while i'm glad I went out I was kind of half assing it being tired and wasn't determined to fuck really..it comes down to how bad do I want it and how much "momentum and relentless partydong" I'm willing to bring on any given night. durrrrrrr.
here's a video of me warming up during the day for nightgame