THE FORUMS

3 Focuses:

Be Fun --> not relying on anyone else to feel good, to feel good emotions, to be happy --> completely self-amused

Uninhibited Sexuality --> you do not apologize for your sexual desire (like chodes), rather you wear it on your sleeve as a masculine badge of honor --> every girl you talk to, straight or not, knows that you are a sexual guy who would fuck them if you wanted to.

Completely in your own world --> having your own values that you compare your actions to, having a belief system of values for how others should act, having the whole frame of everything be yours, your own movie (all of this is completely intuitive and unconscious and is a bi-product of a life built from "right actions" and thoughtful reflection) --> unreactiveness not as a "techinque" but as a "value filter" --> e.g. instead of "showing active disintrest" as a PUA-move (cringe) when shes being testy, you actually just blow her off for being a testy chick, because that's fucking stupid --> she will mold herself to your values or be gone --> she is reacting / submitting and being psychologically dominated = hot as fuck for her, trust me

Fun = HIGH SOCIAL VALUE
Fuck = MAN
My World = WHO MOLDS THE WORLD TO HIS LIKING

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I think there are "internal" and "expressing" sides to each of these 3 things, so there are 6 ways to attack and improve:

1) Internal Fun
2) Expressing Fun

3) Internal Sexuality
4) Expressing Sexuality

5) Internal Worldview
6) Expressing Worldview

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Examples:

1) Internally saying "Everything that happens in my life is funny and good and I'm learning from it".
2) Yelling WOOOOOO and clapping your hands and dancing like a fool and smiling a shit load.

3) Internally saying "I want to fuck you hard".
4) The claw, kissing her quickly, pushing your thumbs into the front of her hip bones (love this so much), whispering nonsense into her ear, taking your dick out.

5) Internally saying "I approach the first hottie I see everyday because I want to meet new amazing girls"
6) She's telling you that being an atheist makes you evil and you truly think she sucks because she is ignorant so you screen her the fuck out, next her.

============ Me, personally..

Right now I have been working on unihibited sexuality from an inner game perspective and outer game. I've been thinking about sex and what sex is and what sex means and I've really changed my mind and my value judgements about sex. Outer game shit is like literally balancing my diet to promote testosterone production, taking ZMA and supplements to get more horny, and then when I'm making out with a girl I hold her body much closer to mine on the first kiss and rub it up on her first thing. These are my new sexual outergame moves, heh, getting stuff going on faster, testing sexual assumptions etc.

My biggest weakness is the strength of my inner world. It's funny to think about, but I was actually wondering what do I say to some hottie at the bar blah blhablh in my head about shit. This is funny because it's completely bullshit. I dont worry about what I say to girls I dont give a fuck about, e.g. some random ugly who I'm just meeting. Why should I give a fuck about "how good" my speech is with ANY NEW GIRL? I shouldn't.

It's kinda a mindfuck to accept that the reason I want something "good to say" is that I'm giving these girls power over my self-esteem, and if I didn't give them power over my self-esteem, anything I say is good by virtue of it deriving its value from ME ALONE and zero from her.

Where are you on these 6 aspects?

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For most guys who don't approach, I think that "inner fun" and "outer fun" are the two best places to start, so focus on being & doing fun. This is what I prescribe a lot of people who ask me for help. Have fun, truly, and approach with something fun to say.

I think that the sexuality thing is a step but it's not very much of a process. I think that you can really learn both to accept your sexual nature completely AND learn the logistics and calibration of a good sexual experience, and have that learning be "finite" so to speak. For the most part this is a "one off".

The hardest part of the journey, the part that takes real time, is living your own life.

But that's without a doubt the most important part in becoming a true man.  It's what makes you "awe-some" e.g. awe inspiring.

Cheers
-Cat