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June 20th, 2013
An Amazing Motivational Story of How Not Jerking has Changed My Life With Women - A Masturbation/Sex Addicts Perspective
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#91
yorro

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Join Date: 06/23/2008 | Posts: 575

so what's the message here, no jerking off gets chicks attracted right off the bat or you mean no ejaculation in general. i'm asking cause i can't really imagine a chick getting attracted just because they somehow feel that the man doesn't beat off.

i can imagine however chick perking up in presence of man who hasn't ejaculated at all for a month.

so what's tha "reboot" thing is about. no beating off policy or no ejaculations in general for some period of time?
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#92
Purexed

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Join Date: 01/06/2011 | Posts: 79

yorro wrote:
so what's the message here, no jerking off gets chicks attracted right off the bat or you mean no ejaculation in general. i'm asking cause i can't really imagine a chick getting attracted just because they somehow feel that the man doesn't beat off.

i can imagine however chick perking up in presence of man who hasn't ejaculated at all for a month.

so what's tha "reboot" thing is about. no beating off policy or no ejaculations in general for some period of time?
basically, it's no jerking (or porn) for 90 days. you can read all about it on yourbrainonporn.com or reddit/r/nofap. I've read quite a few reports of people saying they swear that girls know if you've jerked or not, like they can feel it by your vibe, eye contact, or behavior or something. It's an interesting thought, I would give it a try though. I went 60 days myself and saw some nice changes, not drastic though, caved, and now starting again.
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#93
yorro

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well that's not bad idea. after all we're all here to learn how get girls or to boast how we do it. no jerking policy is nothing but a good motivator to get out there and make it happen the right way (through sex).

fuck it i'm doing it. i want to see where it will take me. it's official now. the new experiment. it has begun..
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#94
zippykremlin

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thats the same reason I did it. I said fuck it and just did it. Its only 90 days and it can't hurt.

It really only helped me so I feel I should recomend it. I didnt really even talk about it much either or make a big deal of it, I just did it and ended up getting great benifits.

Especially since cutting out porn Ive been rediculously productive. I feel like a completely different person.
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#95
zippykremlin

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Id have to say that I disagree that it is me just telling myself that not jerking is improving my game, but if so it still works.

But the results I got were dramatic. Things became noticably different and people behaved very noticibly different towards me in that short amount of time than ever before in my life and when I least expected it to.

But its what you do when these things happen that really counts! It felt like something that caused people to treat me diferently than before but if I lacked the ability to take advantage of it then its pointless. If I cant approach a girl who started dancing at me in the middle of the day then it doesnt matter.

Im just saying yes people will become different around you but you still have to know how to calibrate to it and take advantage of it which is what Im really trying to learn right now.
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#96
yorro

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btw one thing i don't understand. i want to feel the gist of it. what's the actual goal of no jerking off policy? is it to cum less? if so then there is no guarantee that i'm gonna cum less just because i don't jerk off at all (regular sex).

i'm gonna ejaculate a lot either way cause i have sex. so what's the real difference?? you know what i mean, like how it is.. that.. sex-ejaculations.. and no porn-ejaculations.. will get me some kind of benefits??

cumming is cumming IME ; ))

the most benefits i i read about it is typical stuff like more energy, higher performance in the gym, more horny etc. but that boost comes from no cumming. ok they don't jerk but they have no sex too? i don't get that part. what's the point of 'reboot' if i cum through sex regularly?
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zippykremlin wrote:
 I had to focus on only day game for a while and noticed lots of amazing things that never happened to me before.

Girls would start dancing as I walked by. I would be followed by girls in the street and Im happy I was able to do this.
It's cuz they scent the alpha horny noporn watching caveman inside
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Thou shall read The Tolle.
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'I'm willing to be happy doing anything, even if it sucks, as long as the overall picture is leading me towards an outcome I believe in.
But if it ain't getting me to where I want to go, I'm willing to do ANYTHING to extract myself from that situation.  If I have to bloody myself and risk KILLING myself I'll get out of that damned situation and into one that I like.'
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#98
zippykremlin

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yorro wrote:
btw one thing i don't understand. i want to feel the gist of it. what's the actual goal of no jerking off policy? is it to cum less? if so then there is no guarantee that i'm gonna cum less just because i don't jerk off at all (regular sex).

i'm gonna ejaculate a lot either way cause i have sex. so what's the real difference?? you know what i mean, like how it is.. that.. sex-ejaculations.. and no porn-ejaculations.. will get me some kind of benefits??

cumming is cumming IME ; ))

the most benefits i i read about it is typical stuff like more energy, higher performance in the gym, more horny etc. but that boost comes from no cumming. ok they don't jerk but they have no sex too? i don't get that part. what's the point of 'reboot' if i cum through sex regularly?

Thats a great question, and definitly something that was on my mind alot. You're right, its probably better not to have sex at all during the reboot but that wasnt really possible for me.

I think my brain gained alot of benifit from not having the constant stimulation from porn. Another thing is I actually ended up having less sex but when I did it was with girls I had awesome chemistry with and super awesome sex. I found myself thinking like you and trying to have as little sex as I could so I wouldnt ejaculate and ruin the reboot.

But what happened is girls became so attracted to me that they almost forced me to fuck them. I was really trying to have as little sex as possible during those 90 days but super hot girls wanted the dick and somehow convinced me to give it to them lol.

The last girl I was with begged me not to masturbate so I could continue to give her the extremely huge loads I was delivering. Explicit, but true...

So in conclusion having as little sex during those 90 days as possible is probably best but I still gained alot of results even while having sex at times just through no porn an trying not to have sex.
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#99
yorro

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ok i see. pure reboot aka no ejaculation policy is impossible for me. no fucking way. but i can definitely see the benefits of cutting off porn. that's my goal for these 3 months since porn to me is nothing more than just a lame tool to get off in case of emergency. so now it's sex only policy
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2inner

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I just installed k9 web software,this software could help you from your self to prevent watching porn.
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