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Windchill88's Journal: Somewhat of a rookie in Toronto (advice welcomed)
Every day shit, bus stops, during work, community centers/gyms etc., there's also a small shopping mall by my house that I usually go to for convenience
Favorite malls: Vaughan Mills, Scarborough Town Centre and Yorkdale
FR: Makeout with chick after 20 mins of meeting her at the mall (first time ever from a mall pick up, during the day)
I was just chillin at the mall yesterday, and just started talking to this girl,
we go outside to sit, turn the conversation into sex talk pretty quickly
tell her to come closer to me, because she sitting a bit far, she complies, blah blah
I say: "let's go, somewhere so we can be alone"..some jokes are had about why I want us to be alone
while we're walking, I grab and squeeze her ass pretty hard as a joke lol
this for some reason, got us even closer, so we end up sitting on some bench, get close, hold each other...I kiss her and we start making out for a while.
After this, she was clinging pretty hard when we walked back (holding on to me on some bf/gf shit). Got her number. She texted me later, saying we shouild hang out again. I'm gonna hit it this week, fa sho!
+ Went clubbing later last night, just to have some fun and dance with some bitches.
Anyway, I was a surprised at myself since I have never done this, so quickly.
What I learned:
-Conversation: ask her questions about herself, and then turn it into the sex talk as quickly as possible
-Get her to stay close to me
-Grab/squeeze ass (that shit was magic lol)
-Move to some place where you can be somewhat alone. And do what you gotta do.
Favorite malls: Vaughan Mills, Scarborough Town Centre and Yorkdale
FR: Makeout with chick after 20 mins of meeting her at the mall (first time ever from a mall pick up, during the day)
I was just chillin at the mall yesterday, and just started talking to this girl,
we go outside to sit, turn the conversation into sex talk pretty quickly
tell her to come closer to me, because she sitting a bit far, she complies, blah blah
I say: "let's go, somewhere so we can be alone"..some jokes are had about why I want us to be alone
while we're walking, I grab and squeeze her ass pretty hard as a joke lol
this for some reason, got us even closer, so we end up sitting on some bench, get close, hold each other...I kiss her and we start making out for a while.
After this, she was clinging pretty hard when we walked back (holding on to me on some bf/gf shit). Got her number. She texted me later, saying we shouild hang out again. I'm gonna hit it this week, fa sho!
+ Went clubbing later last night, just to have some fun and dance with some bitches.
Anyway, I was a surprised at myself since I have never done this, so quickly.
What I learned:
-Conversation: ask her questions about herself, and then turn it into the sex talk as quickly as possible
-Get her to stay close to me
-Grab/squeeze ass (that shit was magic lol)
-Move to some place where you can be somewhat alone. And do what you gotta do.
Shit didn't pan out with that girl from the last post,
annoyed me with texts (on some bf/gf shit) which I hardly responded
than, she just started playing these stupid games, talking about herself as not being a hoe
and I was like: "fuck this" and deleted her #
This week didn't go too well, I was really off, and just felt mad awkward
but today, I met this chick..and we pretty much hit it off instantly, instant-date
and just hung out for a while and got to know each other. Exchanged #s, talked a bit more and split.
Probably will invite her over, monday or tuesday since she lives close.
What I learned from this week:
-Girls who are naturally into you, will make it very easy for you during any interaction
-Only make out with a chick, when you're about to fuck that chick,
b/c making out and parting ways doesn't guarantee shit and could lead to things you don't want (like being in a relationship ugh!)
annoyed me with texts (on some bf/gf shit) which I hardly responded
than, she just started playing these stupid games, talking about herself as not being a hoe
and I was like: "fuck this" and deleted her #
This week didn't go too well, I was really off, and just felt mad awkward
but today, I met this chick..and we pretty much hit it off instantly, instant-date
and just hung out for a while and got to know each other. Exchanged #s, talked a bit more and split.
Probably will invite her over, monday or tuesday since she lives close.
What I learned from this week:
-Girls who are naturally into you, will make it very easy for you during any interaction
-Only make out with a chick, when you're about to fuck that chick,
b/c making out and parting ways doesn't guarantee shit and could lead to things you don't want (like being in a relationship ugh!)
Shoot it's been a while
Last friday and saturday were fun as hell
Quick Summary:
1. Just going up and wrapping my arms around multiple girls on the dancefloor and just grinding with them without saying a word;
2. Rejected once on friday but a lot on saturdays;
3. Ended up kissing this pretty girl I met in the smoking area
What I learned:
1. Dancefloor - NO TALKING, keep it strictly physical (Wrap arms or just go up and grind on her)
2. Smoking Area - Best and only place for talking in a club
3. Rejection gets so boring: only 3 types: 1. *Turns around looks at your face, walks away* 2. "I have a boyfriend." 3.Her ugly friend shoves you
Tip for ya'll rookies like me either:
1. Get drunk;
2. Take up smoking;
3. Smoke & get drunk;
Last friday and saturday were fun as hell
Quick Summary:
1. Just going up and wrapping my arms around multiple girls on the dancefloor and just grinding with them without saying a word;
2. Rejected once on friday but a lot on saturdays;
3. Ended up kissing this pretty girl I met in the smoking area
What I learned:
1. Dancefloor - NO TALKING, keep it strictly physical (Wrap arms or just go up and grind on her)
2. Smoking Area - Best and only place for talking in a club
3. Rejection gets so boring: only 3 types: 1. *Turns around looks at your face, walks away* 2. "I have a boyfriend." 3.Her ugly friend shoves you
Tip for ya'll rookies like me either:
1. Get drunk;
2. Take up smoking;
3. Smoke & get drunk;
WindChill88
Junior Member
Join Date: 05/03/2009 | Posts: 24
I'm 23 years old, from toronto, only pick up girls during the day.
Started back in July, as a pretty damn shy dude.
Approaching, having convos, getting numbers, and going out on dates haven't been issues with me, since .
Only getting laid is.
So help me out! lol
FR: I was at her house...how the hell did I not fuck her? (need advice)
I met this chick a few weeks ago; she's over ten years older than me.
On sunday, right after work, I texted her up, asking if her kids were home or not, so we can chill later that night.
She agrees.
We meet at the mall. Chill there for a bit, everything's going fine. Mall's about to close, so we get outta there.
I tell her I wanna drink the beer, I had just bought earlier, at her place. She's cool with it, we head over there.
She's cleaning up her place, while I watch some tv and drink (also grab my condom out of my coat). I help her out a little, I get a little touchy. She's teasing really and pushing me away. We start talking again joke around a bit, but she starts preaching and shit (she's a rookie bible thumper). I just didn't care and teased her a little about it.
Anyway, her kids are about to come home soon, so I give it my last shot, and start getting a bit more physical, but she starts laughing, pushes away a little, again and she says it ain't happening.
I'm kinda bummed out by that point, and decide to just forget it and decide to leave for the night.
What should have I done?
-Get hardcore physical as soon as we got in her house?
-Kept pushing it at the end?
-Or should have I just whipped out my cock, at the end to let her know what's up?