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Weight Issues. ADVICE please!
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#11
maximal

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UtopiaFive wrote:
BAN THIS DUDE HES NOT RLY INTO PICKUP AND WASTES FORUM SPACE

look at forum created topics:
Type Post Created On
Forum topic Weight Issues. ADVICE please! Tue, 11/29/2011 - 03:40
Forum topic GF put on some weight.... Sun, 11/27/2011 - 02:46
Forum topic AM I INSECURE ? Fri, 11/25/2011 - 03:26
Forum topic GF "tired" of sex?? Thu, 03/03/2011 - 10:43
Forum topic GF Obsessed with sex Mon, 12/06/2010 - 09:52
Forum topic Sex in a relationship Tue, 10/26/2010 - 11:31
Forum topic SOCIAL CIRCLE QUESTIONS ! Tue, 08/03/2010 - 16:19
Forum topic ANY GOOD NLP MATERIAL FOR PERSUASION/INFLUENCING PEOPLE? Wed, 07/14/2010 - 17:37
Forum topic SOCIAL CIRCLE FUCKUP. HELP PLEASE!



MAIN FORUM:
Post Topics related to attraction, dating, meeting women, sex, and social dynamics.

It sounds like he's just looking for advice that falls within the guidelines of the forum.
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#12

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Join Date: 01/22/2011 | Posts: 95

UtopiaFive wrote:
BAN THIS DUDE HES NOT RLY INTO PICKUP AND WASTES FORUM SPACE

look at forum created topics:
Type Post Created On
Forum topic Weight Issues. ADVICE please! Tue, 11/29/2011 - 03:40
Forum topic GF put on some weight.... Sun, 11/27/2011 - 02:46
Forum topic AM I INSECURE ? Fri, 11/25/2011 - 03:26
Forum topic GF "tired" of sex?? Thu, 03/03/2011 - 10:43
Forum topic GF Obsessed with sex Mon, 12/06/2010 - 09:52
Forum topic Sex in a relationship Tue, 10/26/2010 - 11:31
Forum topic SOCIAL CIRCLE QUESTIONS ! Tue, 08/03/2010 - 16:19
Forum topic ANY GOOD NLP MATERIAL FOR PERSUASION/INFLUENCING PEOPLE? Wed, 07/14/2010 - 17:37
Forum topic SOCIAL CIRCLE FUCKUP. HELP PLEASE!


Really? He's made 9 threads in a year and a half. I don't think he's wasting forum space. Pickup nerds are weird confused
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#13
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Sergio. wrote:
Ciao guys,
There is an issue that has been bothering me lately.

From Februrary to June me and my gf were living at the student campus (we're both students) together. The only problem with that was that we were constantly eating shit food (McDonalds, loads of pasta and rice, sushi etc etc) cause the kitchen sucked and the fridge was terribly small so you couldn't even store decent food it you happened to make it. From September we are now living in a flat and we try to eat super healthy, which we are managing alright.

Now I really did not pay attention to her putting on weight as a result of the food. Thing is, I STARTED being concious of it when one day in June she told me "fuck babe I put some weight. almost none of my jeans fit me anymore". From top to hips I could not see any difference, while from the butt and until a little bit above the knees she definitely has got a lot more than she used to.

Thing is, I figure that she IS concious of it cause from time to time she is showing me photos of her around 1 year ago with stuff like "fuuuuck I was so skinny back then :(" (she was, to be honest). I addressed this issue during the summer saying that from September we are gonna eat healthy, go to the gym and etc. She did not rant like I think she is too fat and whatever, instead she was cool with it, but said that it is going to be super hard cause of uni schedule and etc.
I have to admit, I did not commit to the gym cause stuff is really all over the place and sometimes I come back from uni at 1 PM sometime at 7 PM and I sometimes have a shitload to do.
She did not commit to it either and I am aware that I may be the cause, because I could hit the gym to work on a lot myself "I'm working my ass of to get thin for you while you don't do anything." I can accept that to an extent...

She loves me a lot and would probably go for losing weight if I framed this in the right way. She probably is apathetic about it at the moment cause I never really addressed the issue clearly and she figures that I am at least OK with it. While I am marginally OK, I would prefer her to lose weight of course!! I reckon that being too direct would only make shit worse and she would be compelled to NOT do this at all cause of the negative emotions tied to that.

So how can I get her to be so concious of it that she takes shit seriously, but not in a negative way?

Thanks in advance! Ciao!



Quick fix way to loosing fat fast, cut out all carbs for 1-2 months ull drop that fat no time, you must eat meat, fat, and veggies in the meanwhile tho, try keep callories round 200-300 under normal for women.

If you skip breakfast and have h filling lunch and dinner, again avoiding carbs it might help loose some more...
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#14

Sergio.

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Vastan, max - thanks for your support guys. It's nice to see that some people around here don't buy into the "im too cool to ask lame questions cuz im ENOUGH"

Utopia - In my opinion it's not cool to extrapolate based on past comments

Goran - thanks for your input,. I'll try and make use of it if (when) the need arises, cause as guys previously said there are some things I cannot control and shouldn't push the envelope when it's not the case.

Again, thanks for all the help guys. I guess that pretty much there isn't any other approach to this issue apart from what you've recommended. However, if anyone else sees this from a different aspect, I am open to take that into account.

Ciao!
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#15
UtopiaFive

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Hi,

I am fat.  I have poor diet and don't exercise.  Additionally, my girlfriend is also fat.  She also eats a poor diet and doesn't exercise.  She is too tired and fat to have the energy to have the sex with me.  

Do you have any advice?  

Thanks yous
--Sergio (teh fat retarded fagot)

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From everyone on rSDN:
- eat good food
- exercise

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Hi guys,
thank you for your advises.  

so i need to exercise and eat goods foods?  tenk yous.  does anybody else have a good advises so maybe i can avoid exercising and eating teh good food?

Because i am a fat and a alzy and cannot do these things, maybe i will eat a whole wheat muffin and ceresls to be healthy

--Sergio (still fat and retarded with the fat girlfriend, i have been fat and disgusting for at least a year now, have been thinking of doing something about it for a while now...if you have any advise besides maybe exercise and nutrition, please let me know!)
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I take my words back. You are cool and hilarious!
Oh an kudos for taking the time to reply to a lame post that you think is lame. Pardon, you're cooler than cool.
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#17
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First I was like wtf dude hes allowed to post that thread but Utopias 2nd post killed it and if hes speaking teh truth then hes so right man looks like you are looking every excuse to be lazy and dont do shit
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