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All Roads Lead to London (Disturbin')
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Andre~ wrote:
March 7th



This song should really be reserved for awesome nights but im sticking it here anyway!

We check out this new place in Kensington; a posh small club, Prince Harry's been here, and what do you know..some of the made in chelsea peeps arrive later. Ain't got much game tho, who cares.

We're chilling for a solid hour, just chatting, there's nothing really going on. Two hot chicks and a 'ironing board' (chick with a inhumanely flat body) on our right are dancing while we're on the lush sofas; one the girl's resembles Adrianna from 90210 (yh, flame me, i watch dat shit!), her friend in the glittery red shirt has sass and dances real sexy too.

I'm dancing pretty crazy once they put some good songs on; like 30 mins of swinging my junk around. Girls enjoying my company, nothing really crackin off, then i start approaching once i see my wings makin moves. (lazy lazy...i know)

I distract 'ironing board' while Tin chats up 'glittery' girl, and she is really fond of me. Remarks on my geek chic cause of the hipster glasses (although they're prescribed). I ain't interested in her, carry on dancing. She talks to me again later, i ask her hot 'glittery' friend whether i should let ironing board try on my glasses. Glittery iranian girl says, yh whatever. I say ironing board is stealing my swag. Hot replies that i've got no swag. SHIT-TEST. I call her a brat, she laughs and runs away.

Ironing board seems to want to makeout with me later. Wateva. I go in, expecting it to happen. Rejection...wow

Talk to 'glittery' iranian who's sitting down and is a bit tired. She gives me shit, tells me i can't dance and is a bit aggressive but not in a serious bitchy way. I laugh it off, but offend her later on when i say she was showing off. I think my delivery was off or something. I take hold of the Adrianna lookalike, she wants to dance. We have a sexy dance; knee grinding against that pussy, she's got a warm luscious body f'sho. She keeps doing 'the dive', like leaning in for a kiss and pulling back while i body rock. I love the body rock now; it's repetitive and feels like a ferris wheel, but creates some bubble of love shit. I go in for the kiss. No go.

Alright, time to burn this place to the ground. Bam bam, get blown out by every hot girl, some interactions last a bit longer than the others, nothing feels right so far so us guys bounce to another spot. It's dead there, we go somewhere else. It's shit here as well; a student bar that makes me feel sick to my stomach. I go through the process anyway.

See the hot mixed race girl from Camden who has a body i'd die for...talk to her a bit, she's intelligent, receptive but more sober and gives me this "i love my bf" BS which is annoying. Maybe i should've been more polarising...

Get blown out by more girls either due to miscalibration (i.e shit tonality, low energy like zero gestures or smiling and no million dollar mouthpiece).

Like 6 makeout rejections...
Right going to givve you some advice here.....the thing is you have read all of the theory it is in your head bubbling around somewhere....i'm sure you are able to spew a lot of interesting shit about the game out (try some now before you read on).
You've seen it work before, you've seen me do it to some extent even though i've been shit the last times ive been out with you.
Now just remove self doubt, accept you know / can do everything you need to do and stop reading into girls reactions so much anymore.....a couple of things you should bare in mind while out pimping.

You are probably not fully indifferent while you approach.....you want to cross the indifference threshold for your night as quickly as possible. This should be the basis for your nights at the level you are at.
That means hitting the club and expressing your personality as far out as possible....  i.e shouting, dancing well, dancing like a retard, apporaching girls, approaching guys and constantly moving (Quickest way is to go into the hardest set and stick into it until the situation is pushed as far as possible)

While doing this you want to have the mindset that everything you say and do is fucking awesome....everything even the dumb dumb dumb shit....i've got this shit down now to the point where i will say chode things and it makes me laugh because of how awesome iam i can make something so shit sound amazing....the girls eat it up and shit test so obviously i answer their shit tests with more of the same and the cycle continues.

But yh basically what happens is that you become socially indifferent and only ping of yourself and if you have the mental will power to put the awesome vibe behind everything you say it will be hard for girls to not fucking love your shit.

/Next Longer term growth
Once you get the stuff above down (and while you are getting it down) keep loooking for the parts of you personality that are validation seeking and crush that shit...what will end up happening is as you talk to girls, your indifference will create a vaccum that will cause her to do things to gain your validation... because you have removed all the validation seeking tendancies in you personality and communicate with that awesome vibe, the girl will be fucking sucked in like you have never seen before. Throw in a bit of push pull for your amusment which you will do naturally due to your indifference to the interactions you have and the girls will stick to you and open up more sexually. From there start consciously becoming more of a leader until its ingrained in you...lead/ boss girls around and you will start pulling like a mad man.

Of course the basic outer things are still damn important: strong eye contact, good tonality, centered bodylanguage, being the party, leading , physicality etc.
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Andre~ wrote:

I have a strange assumption that i might be going solo tonight due to all the drama on Tin's fieldie, 
Haha, yh it was pretty wierd, but haters are part of the process
You're just jealous you ain't got one...yet :P

Was it just me or was the club not as loud as it used to be, and the girls were friendlier than usual?

I think it might be phycological cus we get free entry and queue jump.

I remember about two moths ago we lined up in the queue, and I kept saying, "ah man, lines long man, lets go somewhere else.. if the line doesn't move in 5mins lets go somewhere else."
I was saying that cus the club still kinda intimidated me.

And now the club feels as comfortable as my bedroom. I gues your "RAS" switches from looking at the negatives (loud music) to the positives (nice atmosphere, friendly girls, queue jump)
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