THE FORUMS
24th February
It wasn't a terrifically eventful night but i enjoyed it. I kicked it with the Crew and socialised most of the night on account of it being Paully's b'day.
To start off the night me and tin are at some other club. I hit on the hired gun, get her name, fluff talk for a bit. Then hit on some korean girl who weren't that special. We ditch the club. No hotties in sight...
We head off to Kensington, there's old birds here as usual but i do my thing. Zero hesitation i approach this cute hong kong chick with a tight body. Bam bam bam. She loves me. Her friend drifts off into the shadows. We exchange numbers but i think we both filled out our numbers wrong, she missed one digit lol
In our b'day group, there's two hot blondes. One's married, with fake boobs, she's a cool chick though. The other is single and horny judging by her behaviour. She grabs onto my hand for dear life when i shake it. I didn't realise at the time that she wanted some black cock cause i'm not used to sexy chicks telegraphing subtle cues like this. Hmm success barrier?
I turn my back on her for a second recollecting my thoughts and talking to the guys. Some chode charms her with drinks and shit, he's doing pretty well the whole night, i think he fails to kiss her though. I storm in, take her by the hands. Blow her mind with absurd witticisms and kiss her. The guys are laughing apparently, cause the chode sees this with his drink in his hand, quickly gets out his mobile and plays with it as an attempt to not let himself get pissed. This is all just fun and games for me...
I'm dancing most of the night with the blondes, but i fail to close...i should've given the sexy blonde more shock and awe. I'm getting good at that. Might see them out next wednesday cause i invited them down to a club. We'll see.
P.S - The Oxford Grad chick texted me. I'll see if i can hit her up next week. Also, paully told me some kickass stories about Jeffy and Alexander cause he's mates with them. Can't believe Alex pulled 10 girls in 24 hours...! I'm starting to see what style of game works for me best. I'm a funny, high enegry absurd guy. That's what i do best most of the time, kinda like Alex, i know i can chill when necessary.
It wasn't a terrifically eventful night but i enjoyed it. I kicked it with the Crew and socialised most of the night on account of it being Paully's b'day.
To start off the night me and tin are at some other club. I hit on the hired gun, get her name, fluff talk for a bit. Then hit on some korean girl who weren't that special. We ditch the club. No hotties in sight...
We head off to Kensington, there's old birds here as usual but i do my thing. Zero hesitation i approach this cute hong kong chick with a tight body. Bam bam bam. She loves me. Her friend drifts off into the shadows. We exchange numbers but i think we both filled out our numbers wrong, she missed one digit lol
In our b'day group, there's two hot blondes. One's married, with fake boobs, she's a cool chick though. The other is single and horny judging by her behaviour. She grabs onto my hand for dear life when i shake it. I didn't realise at the time that she wanted some black cock cause i'm not used to sexy chicks telegraphing subtle cues like this. Hmm success barrier?
I turn my back on her for a second recollecting my thoughts and talking to the guys. Some chode charms her with drinks and shit, he's doing pretty well the whole night, i think he fails to kiss her though. I storm in, take her by the hands. Blow her mind with absurd witticisms and kiss her. The guys are laughing apparently, cause the chode sees this with his drink in his hand, quickly gets out his mobile and plays with it as an attempt to not let himself get pissed. This is all just fun and games for me...
I'm dancing most of the night with the blondes, but i fail to close...i should've given the sexy blonde more shock and awe. I'm getting good at that. Might see them out next wednesday cause i invited them down to a club. We'll see.
P.S - The Oxford Grad chick texted me. I'll see if i can hit her up next week. Also, paully told me some kickass stories about Jeffy and Alexander cause he's mates with them. Can't believe Alex pulled 10 girls in 24 hours...! I'm starting to see what style of game works for me best. I'm a funny, high enegry absurd guy. That's what i do best most of the time, kinda like Alex, i know i can chill when necessary.
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February 27th
Had a sucky night. Tin couldn't get into this club on account of being banned by the female bouncer. We hit some spots, all were practically empty. No hot chicks.
Went to some club in the end, did no approaches, nothing to approach.
There was this tanned swedish girl i really wanted to approach on the tube. But i wussed out. Gotta expand the comfort zone man...
Had a sucky night. Tin couldn't get into this club on account of being banned by the female bouncer. We hit some spots, all were practically empty. No hot chicks.
Went to some club in the end, did no approaches, nothing to approach.
There was this tanned swedish girl i really wanted to approach on the tube. But i wussed out. Gotta expand the comfort zone man...
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At the end of the night i see this hot hot blonde with hot pants. She looks so yummy. I tell her she's amazing once she's drifted from her friends a little. She's from sheffield and has a sweet accent. I charm her for a bit, she likes me. We cross the road, i spin her around and we kiss. I take her number, but it might be useless cause she leaves tomorrow at 5pm to go back to Uni.
Lessons
- Should've went for the pull with the sexy blonde. We could've gone to get something to eat and worked out logistics from there...
I remeber back in septemeber me and my mate where walking around shorditch at 2am he approached some blonde chic,
Mate: excuse me, where is brick lane
Her: Why do you wanna go brick lane, its boring down there, why dont you come home with me
These approaches are golden and you have to go for them hard, full on intent, a pull is just imminent. Dude if you got the kiss and number you should've taken her to a dark alley and gone for goal. Pick her up fireman style and runaway with her behind a building, open sexual intercourse on every street corner!
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February 29th
Celebrated my bro's 30th tonight.
Went to a lounge club, it was a wednesday, so there was like 20-30 people. No game tonight, just kicked it with my bro and a few of his friends.
Most interesting thing that happened was my interaction with his sexy model friend who likes a bit like megan fox but is 6ft2 in heels. She's a wild child lol.
I saw her coming into the club while i was about to leave, she was hitting me asking me why i'm going; i decided to flirt a little bit and hit her back. We did this back n fourth for a bit, she's like "dont hit a lady" in front of my bro's friend. My bro's friend was invisible at this point because of my RAS, and i just ignored this lame shit test. I escort her into the club cause she's actually a fun girl and is fucking hottt.
Some chode bouncer tries flirting with her, wants to search her bag. She says she has a prick in it, he says he has a prick for her. Lame....is this supposed to be the competition?
While talking to her she's actually playfully shit testing me but it feels so easy to endure
Her: "you're innocent.....i don't want your young eyes to see this blah blah" i never fall into some hot bitch's frame, as a rule. A year ago i would've been locked up inside my head thinking about what to say.
We get on the dancefloor, she's wild n dancin like she's fuckin as the rapper Juicy J would like to say. All up on my dick for a bit but my bro comes and so does this black model friend who's tight with the megan fox lookalike. We're gripping on each other's hands for a bit, but i gotta fly cause i'm waiting for a taxi and it's just arrived. Interesting observation though; gotta see if i'm this icey with a cold approach. The megan fox lookablike does have a BF, i've seen him on her FB but ah well..
Celebrated my bro's 30th tonight.
Went to a lounge club, it was a wednesday, so there was like 20-30 people. No game tonight, just kicked it with my bro and a few of his friends.
Most interesting thing that happened was my interaction with his sexy model friend who likes a bit like megan fox but is 6ft2 in heels. She's a wild child lol.
I saw her coming into the club while i was about to leave, she was hitting me asking me why i'm going; i decided to flirt a little bit and hit her back. We did this back n fourth for a bit, she's like "dont hit a lady" in front of my bro's friend. My bro's friend was invisible at this point because of my RAS, and i just ignored this lame shit test. I escort her into the club cause she's actually a fun girl and is fucking hottt.
Some chode bouncer tries flirting with her, wants to search her bag. She says she has a prick in it, he says he has a prick for her. Lame....is this supposed to be the competition?
While talking to her she's actually playfully shit testing me but it feels so easy to endure
Her: "you're innocent.....i don't want your young eyes to see this blah blah" i never fall into some hot bitch's frame, as a rule. A year ago i would've been locked up inside my head thinking about what to say.
We get on the dancefloor, she's wild n dancin like she's fuckin as the rapper Juicy J would like to say. All up on my dick for a bit but my bro comes and so does this black model friend who's tight with the megan fox lookalike. We're gripping on each other's hands for a bit, but i gotta fly cause i'm waiting for a taxi and it's just arrived. Interesting observation though; gotta see if i'm this icey with a cold approach. The megan fox lookablike does have a BF, i've seen him on her FB but ah well..
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March 1st
Kid Cudi's so badass ;)
Ok, hit Camden again tonight. While on the bus to my station i see a hottie, head straight in and get talking, telling her she's the cutest girl i've seen on the bus today. It felt a little weird at times being ballsy enough to chat her just like that, but eventually she felt comfortable when her laughter turned from 'fake' "omgggg a stranger's talking to me" to a 'genuine' "hey, this is one cool ass nigga". She's from Mexico, around my age i think. I number close her before we part ways, she's giving me the 'ol NICE TO MEET YOU before this cause she's has a BF. I had to think on my feet and say "well yah, i do a bit of club hosting, i want you out with me", couldn't think of anything else really...
Alright, we go Camden (me and tin as usual). Hit the smoking section, take some fast and furious blowouts. Tin's is middling about whether to approach some cutie cornered by a dude and her friend. I tell him to go, i'm like his cheerleader screaming "TIN, TIN, HE'S OUR MAN, IF HE CANT DO IT NOONE CAN!" Luckily the girl don't hear this, but she does when the set goes down the shitter and the dude starts trying to make out with Tin. I love GAY-MOGS. Some Pua dudes hear the word 'blowout' and we start conversing. Cool dudes, they've followed my journal before and gimme props. Rsd is pretty popular these days...
It was strange tonight, i had some sets which started awesome at the beginning but hit rock bottom the more i talked. Lesson: brevity is levity, i need to stick to the rule 90/10 - 50/50 rule and STFU so i let the girl game me. Fingerman is just like this; i should learn to be cheap with my words but strong with my intent.
I chat to a sexy HB8 with a banging body and gym shorts. She's into me at first but later remarks "this is getting weird" once my physical escalation bombs and my mouthpiece starts drying up. I should've made out with her from the word go, but took my time. I should've been a bit more calmer too, questions framed in BR tonality and just laid back. She goes, and later snogs some guy.
Another french hottie; nice face, flat body really likes me. I scare her away later, dunno how, but she's more resistant now. I should've manhandled her and went in for the kiss or been more chill.
Then there's a mixed race chick i stop with a thick body and is hot. She REALLY wants to fuck me but has a BF, and is telling me all this shit about being committed blah blah her two guy friends are either holding onto her or watching over. I'm just saying sweet nothings into her ear, she's squeezing my hand, giving me the eyes telling me "you're lovely". i grab her up against the wall, should've burned this set to the ground with a forced makeout...she gets taken away by her male friend.
Had a funny interaction with this girl who was originally Tin's. He's beating round the bush a little, but i record this, they catch me, i tell her it's a documentary i'm going to show my dad. I tell her to smile, she does, we makeout. Fun times. Hot aussie chick. I fuck up by screening for logistics too earlier "where you staying", when vibing could've suficed. Game felt a bit too forced tonight.
Kid Cudi's so badass ;)
Ok, hit Camden again tonight. While on the bus to my station i see a hottie, head straight in and get talking, telling her she's the cutest girl i've seen on the bus today. It felt a little weird at times being ballsy enough to chat her just like that, but eventually she felt comfortable when her laughter turned from 'fake' "omgggg a stranger's talking to me" to a 'genuine' "hey, this is one cool ass nigga". She's from Mexico, around my age i think. I number close her before we part ways, she's giving me the 'ol NICE TO MEET YOU before this cause she's has a BF. I had to think on my feet and say "well yah, i do a bit of club hosting, i want you out with me", couldn't think of anything else really...
Alright, we go Camden (me and tin as usual). Hit the smoking section, take some fast and furious blowouts. Tin's is middling about whether to approach some cutie cornered by a dude and her friend. I tell him to go, i'm like his cheerleader screaming "TIN, TIN, HE'S OUR MAN, IF HE CANT DO IT NOONE CAN!" Luckily the girl don't hear this, but she does when the set goes down the shitter and the dude starts trying to make out with Tin. I love GAY-MOGS. Some Pua dudes hear the word 'blowout' and we start conversing. Cool dudes, they've followed my journal before and gimme props. Rsd is pretty popular these days...
It was strange tonight, i had some sets which started awesome at the beginning but hit rock bottom the more i talked. Lesson: brevity is levity, i need to stick to the rule 90/10 - 50/50 rule and STFU so i let the girl game me. Fingerman is just like this; i should learn to be cheap with my words but strong with my intent.
I chat to a sexy HB8 with a banging body and gym shorts. She's into me at first but later remarks "this is getting weird" once my physical escalation bombs and my mouthpiece starts drying up. I should've made out with her from the word go, but took my time. I should've been a bit more calmer too, questions framed in BR tonality and just laid back. She goes, and later snogs some guy.
Another french hottie; nice face, flat body really likes me. I scare her away later, dunno how, but she's more resistant now. I should've manhandled her and went in for the kiss or been more chill.
Then there's a mixed race chick i stop with a thick body and is hot. She REALLY wants to fuck me but has a BF, and is telling me all this shit about being committed blah blah her two guy friends are either holding onto her or watching over. I'm just saying sweet nothings into her ear, she's squeezing my hand, giving me the eyes telling me "you're lovely". i grab her up against the wall, should've burned this set to the ground with a forced makeout...she gets taken away by her male friend.
Had a funny interaction with this girl who was originally Tin's. He's beating round the bush a little, but i record this, they catch me, i tell her it's a documentary i'm going to show my dad. I tell her to smile, she does, we makeout. Fun times. Hot aussie chick. I fuck up by screening for logistics too earlier "where you staying", when vibing could've suficed. Game felt a bit too forced tonight.
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Got some ideas for how i should sauce up my interactions: more roleplays, "we're BF and GF now after 1 minute, i've got a confession, i cheated on you blah blah", it's fun and creates that bubble of love she won't experience with some chode in the club.
More playful misinterpretations; i done this at school today, turning nearly everything sexual with some virgin turkish girl until we both started heavily flirting on the bus. But...this is one i often forget to do in cold approach.
Eye contact; there's a difference between focused/laser eye contact and unfocused/polite eye contact. I done the former today with that chick from school and it makes shit feel so much more personal, like you're penetrating them with your unwavering gaze. When i get one on one with a girl i'll focus on this more; it saves me the hassle of saying stupid shit which could turn her off like last night.
I get lazy with the whole physical escalation stack; i didn't claw in girls, smell them, bite their necks/ears, lick them, grab hair, rub my knee on their pussy, etc...big errors on my behalf. I went with awkward kino, like hand holding and a bit of pushing. Lame...i'm better than that; i didn't get a boner last night, so that shows how much the night bombed.
More playful misinterpretations; i done this at school today, turning nearly everything sexual with some virgin turkish girl until we both started heavily flirting on the bus. But...this is one i often forget to do in cold approach.
Eye contact; there's a difference between focused/laser eye contact and unfocused/polite eye contact. I done the former today with that chick from school and it makes shit feel so much more personal, like you're penetrating them with your unwavering gaze. When i get one on one with a girl i'll focus on this more; it saves me the hassle of saying stupid shit which could turn her off like last night.
I get lazy with the whole physical escalation stack; i didn't claw in girls, smell them, bite their necks/ears, lick them, grab hair, rub my knee on their pussy, etc...big errors on my behalf. I went with awkward kino, like hand holding and a bit of pushing. Lame...i'm better than that; i didn't get a boner last night, so that shows how much the night bombed.
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Got some ideas for how i should sauce up my interactions: more roleplays, "we're BF and GF now after 1 minute, i've got a confession, i cheated on you blah blah", it's fun and creates that bubble of love she won't experience with some chode in the club.
I do this alot. Works most of the time if it's a hook. __________________
we move to the seating area and I see Babes is already there with the girl he soon takes home
March 2nd
Ok, really messed up last night. Tin goes to some other club, i tell myself i'll still do alright solo.
The whole night goes by, i'm too scared to approach and just dance dance dance. A few girls interact with me, one is hot enough but even then i don't do shit but dance with her for a bit and then she gets bored.
Tin comes late in the night, tells me how he's done and i realise how much i've pissed the night away. I do my first approach; no sexual vibe to it, just "i like your curly hair", my verbals are fucked, i'm not being arousing enough. We decide to call it a night, i do some more approaches which are shit. Then one goes surprisingly well.
It was a hot blonde who just walked out of the VIP section, i tell her we're gonna run away together. She says "ok" smiling, and squeezing my hand. I get too excited, not expecting this reaction, she's on her way to the girl's toilet holding my hand and walking toward her friend. I freak out taking a step into the toilet, not knowing what the fuck to do. There was no attendant, but i wasn't sure whether i'd want to risk it by dragging her into a cubicle and getting it on from there. I was certain i'd get kicked out of the club.
See her again later, she realises i'm a chode at this point lol i call her name, she bolts back to the VIP with her friend. Eurghhh you can't be half a pimp; lead lead lead, maybe i should've went for the extract right then or fucked her in the cubicle despite all the social pressure...
Anyway, i've got to vow to myself to never have a night like that again. I gotta focus on social momentum too and STOP relying on my wings for support.
Ok, really messed up last night. Tin goes to some other club, i tell myself i'll still do alright solo.
The whole night goes by, i'm too scared to approach and just dance dance dance. A few girls interact with me, one is hot enough but even then i don't do shit but dance with her for a bit and then she gets bored.
Tin comes late in the night, tells me how he's done and i realise how much i've pissed the night away. I do my first approach; no sexual vibe to it, just "i like your curly hair", my verbals are fucked, i'm not being arousing enough. We decide to call it a night, i do some more approaches which are shit. Then one goes surprisingly well.
It was a hot blonde who just walked out of the VIP section, i tell her we're gonna run away together. She says "ok" smiling, and squeezing my hand. I get too excited, not expecting this reaction, she's on her way to the girl's toilet holding my hand and walking toward her friend. I freak out taking a step into the toilet, not knowing what the fuck to do. There was no attendant, but i wasn't sure whether i'd want to risk it by dragging her into a cubicle and getting it on from there. I was certain i'd get kicked out of the club.
See her again later, she realises i'm a chode at this point lol i call her name, she bolts back to the VIP with her friend. Eurghhh you can't be half a pimp; lead lead lead, maybe i should've went for the extract right then or fucked her in the cubicle despite all the social pressure...
Anyway, i've got to vow to myself to never have a night like that again. I gotta focus on social momentum too and STOP relying on my wings for support.
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March 3rd
Had a fucking awesome night, it topped the one before, had wings this round though, Starchild and his mate. It had most of the fun factor i was missing last night and i smiled a lot more which actually makes a difference in your night.
Done tons of approaches tonight, what really worked was using Tin's idea of putting your hand on the girl's shoulder. I thought they would split the minute i'd do that, but they actually stay planted to the ground as if you're the authority in their life.
It was interesting seeing Starchild in form tonight; he just capped off a 10 night romp, his shirt stank like shit and he was wearing worn out trainers. He stilled pimped it up with a tall Latvian hottie at the end of the night, she said that he was her soulmate!! Proof = Be in her presence most of the night, have patience and become the anchor in her life for that night.
I was really social tonight; my verbals weren't hysterically funny like on certain nights, but i was going into big groups not really giving a fuck. Some hot bitch got me a bit drunk on the Belvedere she forced down my throat, i berated with her a bit but forget to close...
I madeout with a HB8 with a bowler hat, had a sexy little dance with her too. She was torn between me and her BF, we talked later and she couldn't go through with it with me, she loved my black ass though.
I gripped onto another girl's hand again, pretended to let her lead while she said she was going, i end up leading into the corridor. Shit...i kill the sexual vibe we had, her friend is looking at me like WTF? You could have closed dude....i should've picked her up and went beast, drilled her with consecutive SOI's and took it off from there.
Manwhore gave some solid advice on a 'bathroom pull' which i should've done the night before. Just to be totally congruent, freakishly calm and beast on her as if no-one's around. Take her to the cubicle and do what you have to do...silently. If i'm disturbed just act as if THEY'RE a hindrance, "Hey, ill just be 5 minutes".
Had a fucking awesome night, it topped the one before, had wings this round though, Starchild and his mate. It had most of the fun factor i was missing last night and i smiled a lot more which actually makes a difference in your night.
Done tons of approaches tonight, what really worked was using Tin's idea of putting your hand on the girl's shoulder. I thought they would split the minute i'd do that, but they actually stay planted to the ground as if you're the authority in their life.
It was interesting seeing Starchild in form tonight; he just capped off a 10 night romp, his shirt stank like shit and he was wearing worn out trainers. He stilled pimped it up with a tall Latvian hottie at the end of the night, she said that he was her soulmate!! Proof = Be in her presence most of the night, have patience and become the anchor in her life for that night.
I was really social tonight; my verbals weren't hysterically funny like on certain nights, but i was going into big groups not really giving a fuck. Some hot bitch got me a bit drunk on the Belvedere she forced down my throat, i berated with her a bit but forget to close...
I madeout with a HB8 with a bowler hat, had a sexy little dance with her too. She was torn between me and her BF, we talked later and she couldn't go through with it with me, she loved my black ass though.
I gripped onto another girl's hand again, pretended to let her lead while she said she was going, i end up leading into the corridor. Shit...i kill the sexual vibe we had, her friend is looking at me like WTF? You could have closed dude....i should've picked her up and went beast, drilled her with consecutive SOI's and took it off from there.
Manwhore gave some solid advice on a 'bathroom pull' which i should've done the night before. Just to be totally congruent, freakishly calm and beast on her as if no-one's around. Take her to the cubicle and do what you have to do...silently. If i'm disturbed just act as if THEY'RE a hindrance, "Hey, ill just be 5 minutes".
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Andre~
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Join Date: 01/14/2011 | Posts: 880
All in all a good night out. Hit Camden, went to a bar first and had what should be my worst blowout so far in my PUA career. Was talking to some hot foreign redhead, she was a bit cold and i wasn't social enough. Her friend comes over "THISSSS IS MY GIRLFRIEND". I persist and stay, leaning inwards to kiss her friend as a joke. She slaps me like two or three times. I stand there unreactive; she's going for more but some friend breaks it up saying "ahh they're just bitches man". Feels like i've really graduated now....
We go to the club, i do a few approaches in the quieter hallway area. Pull in one girl with an american flag painted on her face. She has a tight body, apparently has freckles and is mixed race. I tease her, kiss her and take her number. She goes to the toilet.
Do some more approaches; i'm not aggressive enough tonight - like i'm afraid to sound like a dick with BR tonality or physically pickup girls when necessary.
We go to the smoking section; Tin chats to some Italian chicks. I step in "why you hitting on my BF for??" Chicks seem a bit confused. Language barrier. I chat to the friend, bring her into the light and she's got a better face than i realised; a tight body as well. This is a longass set, we strike a lot of commonalities and i accuse her of being in the mafia, asking whether her and her friend are going to set me up. I flirt a little by prodding my knee into her pussy when trying to push her down the mini steps outside the bar area. She's getting horny telling me "you're being too friendly" and giggling. I'm doing a bit of kino with her and getting a hard on, and soon as this happens it's like she knows and wriggles free a little. I get her number (don't know how solid those digits look), Her friend wants to go to the bathroom after 30 mins of chatting. I move on.
Take some more blowouts. Go to the dancefloor; there's a group of hot chicks dancing with each other. I'm in the group now. Some small guy comes along and OWNS it haha they're all taking pictures with him. I grind with one of the girlies and get a nice boner, but my verbals aren't too good at the moment and i'm not going hard enough with the one i want in the group. This is my sticking point, i'm afraid to get blown out of a set that seems okay with me. Next time i'll be like "you're hot, lets dance." If she refuses, just move on. Simple. I went for this less awkward approach which was MORE awkward.
At the end of the night i see this hot hot blonde with hot pants. She looks so yummy. I tell her she's amazing once she's drifted from her friends a little. She's from sheffield and has a sweet accent. I charm her for a bit, she likes me. We cross the road, i spin her around and we kiss. I take her number, but it might be useless cause she leaves tomorrow at 5pm to go back to Uni.
Lessons
- Should've went for the pull with the sexy blonde. We could've gone to get something to eat and worked out logistics from there...