THE FORUMS
January 27th
Sooooo...i fucking hate being 18, i got turned down by this super promising club me and Tin were looking to go to but it's 21+. In the queue this moderately attractive chick kept staring at me so i smiled back, got her and her 3 friends laughing by not really doing shit, just talking in monotone and being relaxed. I don't if they were a bit drunk, but yehh....i should've number closed her, but i didn't expect to get turfed out of the line because of my age. doh!
We went to another posh club; very small and cramped, decent music and a select few of hot chicks. I wasn't on an approach frenzy and only spoke to like one girl, a Frenchie; i couldn't hear most of this shit she was saying and i could tell i was in a 'social mood' more than PUA really. I think Goran and Matt may have pulled later, they seemed to be doing well with some girls at their table.
Me and Tin decide to bounce. We go to our usual spot in Kensington, however it's traditionally known for it's influx of OAP's. Lo and behold, here they are again. There's some hotties in sight so i get to work.
I get blown out by all of them; one spanish chick i got bored of real quick, i hate language barriers. I don't remember what happened with the other sets just general blowouts really.
There was one sexy blonde i approached, probably my most fun and dynamic set although it was too short. I grab her in, talk some shit, eventually she says she's got to go find her friends i now think of Julien and berate the shit out of her by flipping the script, "i hate you, i'm gonna kill you and your family" she's in shock asking "WHY?" and is hooked again. I tell her i love her now, maybe i killed the ball of energy/attraction we had by doing this, and should've went further, physically escalated more, i'm not sure...well, she left and gave me the BF card but was still clinging onto my hand.
My vocal projection is always weak, i can't figure out why. Maybe it's because when i'm one on one with a girl i don't like the idea of shouting into her face, it feels too abrasive and odd. Perhaps that's a sticking point i need to address, try everything once right?
I get cockblocked by some amogs in 2 sets. The first the girl was into me, although drunk, so was the amogs. I persisted a bit, but knew she wasn't really worth it. The other set i hi5 some girl, she gives me a crap one back, i make her do it again, some small dude tries pushing me away. I ignore, this other dude comes in and tries to push me away. I ignore again. The girl doesn't even realise this is happening and has her eyes on me the whole time. Eventually the dude pushes me away forcefully, i lose my grip of the girl and he pleads "Excuse me, would you leave my wife alone!" ok chode...
One chick calls me out on my foul language when i say she looks "fucking immaculate". Fuckin old bitches lol
Lessons
- Maybe Tyler's right, should i hit on uglies at the start of the night to build momentum and reach that indifference threshold? Sure, i can talk to them for a limited space of time, but....hit on them? that's totally alien to me right now. hmmm..
Sooooo...i fucking hate being 18, i got turned down by this super promising club me and Tin were looking to go to but it's 21+. In the queue this moderately attractive chick kept staring at me so i smiled back, got her and her 3 friends laughing by not really doing shit, just talking in monotone and being relaxed. I don't if they were a bit drunk, but yehh....i should've number closed her, but i didn't expect to get turfed out of the line because of my age. doh!
We went to another posh club; very small and cramped, decent music and a select few of hot chicks. I wasn't on an approach frenzy and only spoke to like one girl, a Frenchie; i couldn't hear most of this shit she was saying and i could tell i was in a 'social mood' more than PUA really. I think Goran and Matt may have pulled later, they seemed to be doing well with some girls at their table.
Me and Tin decide to bounce. We go to our usual spot in Kensington, however it's traditionally known for it's influx of OAP's. Lo and behold, here they are again. There's some hotties in sight so i get to work.
I get blown out by all of them; one spanish chick i got bored of real quick, i hate language barriers. I don't remember what happened with the other sets just general blowouts really.
There was one sexy blonde i approached, probably my most fun and dynamic set although it was too short. I grab her in, talk some shit, eventually she says she's got to go find her friends i now think of Julien and berate the shit out of her by flipping the script, "i hate you, i'm gonna kill you and your family" she's in shock asking "WHY?" and is hooked again. I tell her i love her now, maybe i killed the ball of energy/attraction we had by doing this, and should've went further, physically escalated more, i'm not sure...well, she left and gave me the BF card but was still clinging onto my hand.
My vocal projection is always weak, i can't figure out why. Maybe it's because when i'm one on one with a girl i don't like the idea of shouting into her face, it feels too abrasive and odd. Perhaps that's a sticking point i need to address, try everything once right?
I get cockblocked by some amogs in 2 sets. The first the girl was into me, although drunk, so was the amogs. I persisted a bit, but knew she wasn't really worth it. The other set i hi5 some girl, she gives me a crap one back, i make her do it again, some small dude tries pushing me away. I ignore, this other dude comes in and tries to push me away. I ignore again. The girl doesn't even realise this is happening and has her eyes on me the whole time. Eventually the dude pushes me away forcefully, i lose my grip of the girl and he pleads "Excuse me, would you leave my wife alone!" ok chode...
One chick calls me out on my foul language when i say she looks "fucking immaculate". Fuckin old bitches lol
Lessons
- Maybe Tyler's right, should i hit on uglies at the start of the night to build momentum and reach that indifference threshold? Sure, i can talk to them for a limited space of time, but....hit on them? that's totally alien to me right now. hmmm..
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January 27th
My vocal projection is always weak, i can't figure out why. Maybe it's because when i'm one on one with a girl i don't like the idea of shouting into her face, it feels too abrasive and odd. Perhaps that's a sticking point i need to address, try everything once right?
Man, just shout at them, do it cus its funny. My vocal projection is always weak, i can't figure out why. Maybe it's because when i'm one on one with a girl i don't like the idea of shouting into her face, it feels too abrasive and odd. Perhaps that's a sticking point i need to address, try everything once right?
Also, on top of Juliens style of i hate ima stab you, another thing i say is if a girl wont make out with me is, in a really sleezy voice, "hey girl, we'll never be as young as we are right now"
It doesn't always get the makeout but it does always make me laugh
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28th January
Went to that super loud, super competitive club that i liked and GODDAMN it was sooo sweet.
The number one rule is to build social momentum; i kid you not, Tyler was bang on the money by saying this is the most important thing that defines your night. I approached every single hottie, no excuses, but before this i was just vibing with average looking girls, taking photos and generally being a party animal while everyone else was still chode. In the first 30 mins i think i racked up about 5 approaches, and during the night i found my personality becoming less and less stifled; i could be super aggressive when i wanted and a carefree happy dude when it suited me.
Ok, memorable sets.....
Number closed 2 girls; one was easy, i just done a bit of leading, she was a cute 8+ indian chick around my age. The other required a bit of work. She's one of those table hoppers using chodes for their free drinks, charming her way into VIP and so on.
At first i tried talking to her, she looked at me and said
"I'm in VIP!" as if to say i'm not good enough
I get aggressive next time i see her, tug her in, and scream into her ear that she's evil. Now she's listening, i bet 100% of the dudes were kissing her ass this night. I don't. I push her against the podium, and demand her number. She's got shit eye contact, i tell this seems a bit precarious, just to let her know i mean business i tell her "girl, we dont do fake numbers out here!" She laughs and tells this to her friend. Immediately her friend gets her phone out and they type in the correct number. hmmmm result i guess.
I grind with a couple of girls and hook in some other 8's and like one or two 9's. I'm taking massive action tonight, i get blown out by a hottie because her BF is at the table directly behind us, her equally sexy (i tell her this) blond friend tells me this, and they apologise. Clearly i hooked attraction here, but shitttt....i hate BF's.
One girl i really wanted was this dead sexy 9. I gripped onto her, she seemed kind of out of it and aloof. I demand a name from her, she gives it but still is walking away, i'm yelling out her name in BR tonality and she's coming back with a hint of a smile. I should've mouthraped her at this point. This will be the new reflex action instead of greasing the wheels with more pointless verbals. But yeh, she leaves AGAIN.
I beast on more girls, my state has definitely HIT. Building social momentum is the key for this; just do it, you feel like God. Only a handful of chicks reacted badly when i approached them, more were into me but for whatever reason they failed to stick around.
Lessons
- Stick to building social momentum, it is KING
- Swell up my chest before speaking on a loud dancefloor. It's always good to be heard
- Try to isolate ASAP, then number close in settings like this
- Be less of a jerk early on in an interaction, just talk normally, lace it with some push/pull then go hardddd after physical game is established. I lost a hottie by telling her that her name reminded me of a stripper
Went to that super loud, super competitive club that i liked and GODDAMN it was sooo sweet.
The number one rule is to build social momentum; i kid you not, Tyler was bang on the money by saying this is the most important thing that defines your night. I approached every single hottie, no excuses, but before this i was just vibing with average looking girls, taking photos and generally being a party animal while everyone else was still chode. In the first 30 mins i think i racked up about 5 approaches, and during the night i found my personality becoming less and less stifled; i could be super aggressive when i wanted and a carefree happy dude when it suited me.
Ok, memorable sets.....
Number closed 2 girls; one was easy, i just done a bit of leading, she was a cute 8+ indian chick around my age. The other required a bit of work. She's one of those table hoppers using chodes for their free drinks, charming her way into VIP and so on.
At first i tried talking to her, she looked at me and said
"I'm in VIP!" as if to say i'm not good enough
I get aggressive next time i see her, tug her in, and scream into her ear that she's evil. Now she's listening, i bet 100% of the dudes were kissing her ass this night. I don't. I push her against the podium, and demand her number. She's got shit eye contact, i tell this seems a bit precarious, just to let her know i mean business i tell her "girl, we dont do fake numbers out here!" She laughs and tells this to her friend. Immediately her friend gets her phone out and they type in the correct number. hmmmm result i guess.
I grind with a couple of girls and hook in some other 8's and like one or two 9's. I'm taking massive action tonight, i get blown out by a hottie because her BF is at the table directly behind us, her equally sexy (i tell her this) blond friend tells me this, and they apologise. Clearly i hooked attraction here, but shitttt....i hate BF's.
One girl i really wanted was this dead sexy 9. I gripped onto her, she seemed kind of out of it and aloof. I demand a name from her, she gives it but still is walking away, i'm yelling out her name in BR tonality and she's coming back with a hint of a smile. I should've mouthraped her at this point. This will be the new reflex action instead of greasing the wheels with more pointless verbals. But yeh, she leaves AGAIN.
I beast on more girls, my state has definitely HIT. Building social momentum is the key for this; just do it, you feel like God. Only a handful of chicks reacted badly when i approached them, more were into me but for whatever reason they failed to stick around.
Lessons
- Stick to building social momentum, it is KING
- Swell up my chest before speaking on a loud dancefloor. It's always good to be heard
- Try to isolate ASAP, then number close in settings like this
- Be less of a jerk early on in an interaction, just talk normally, lace it with some push/pull then go hardddd after physical game is established. I lost a hottie by telling her that her name reminded me of a stripper
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I think it's a good idea for us guys to keep a 'cheat sheet' in note form on our smartphones or something. Whenever new thoughts regarding my game come to my mind i instantly put it in the cheat sheet. Sometimes i can't be fucked to scroll through all my sticking points in a former field report, and my cheat sheet enumerates ALL this basic shit i've got to work on...
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Anyway, trying to work on pulling together some day2's with all the girls i've assembled so far. I thought i completely blew it with this younger chick (17) cause she weren't replying for a bit, turns out she was busy. Point being: show persistence with texts/calls, but keep it light hearted and outcome independent, i texted her:
"i'm crying while eating pop noodles coz u won't talk to me. How lame..."
she texts back the next day
"omg sorry i've completely forgotten to reply. I've just been so busy x"
I knew she liked me from our phone convos, and i think her jan exams are over so it's time to push for the meetup. Maybe this sat...
The Oxford grad chick said she's down to meetup later this week, i'll holla at her to comfirm this shizzle. The chick i met from the club LOVES me on the phone, it's funny how i thought this one wouldn't be too solid but the indian chick ended up giving me a fake number lol the game's unpredictable. I'm trying to make something happen for Sunday with that chick, but she said "i'll talk to you later", trying to leave me on the edge.
Right now i just want to get out in the field and make more progress..damn i love this shit, but i need to start smashin chicks from school. There's about 3 i'd like to copulate with.
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Anyway, trying to work on pulling together some day2's with all the girls i've assembled so far. I thought i completely blew it with this younger chick (17) cause she weren't replying for a bit, turns out she was busy. Point being: show persistence with texts/calls, but keep it light hearted and outcome independent, i texted her:
"i'm crying while eating pop noodles coz u won't talk to me. How lame..."
she texts back the next day
"omg sorry i've completely forgotten to reply. I've just been so busy x"
I knew she liked me from our phone convos, and i think her jan exams are over so it's time to push for the meetup. Maybe this sat...
The Oxford grad chick said she's down to meetup later this week, i'll holla at her to comfirm this shizzle. The chick i met from the club LOVES me on the phone, it's funny how i thought this one wouldn't be too solid but the indian chick ended up giving me a fake number lol the game's unpredictable. I'm trying to make something happen for Sunday with that chick, but she said "i'll talk to you later", trying to leave me on the edge.
Right now i just want to get out in the field and make more progress..damn i love this shit, but i need to start smashin chicks from school. There's about 3 i'd like to copulate with.
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Almost tantric
Had a day2 with the Oxford grad chick last night. It went really fuckin good.
I've either got this zen calm about me because of consistent meditation over the last few months or it's from going out so much. I can't even comprehend anxiety these days, when i was making out with this cutie in the bar i just kept saying to her "andre, get nervous, you've got this hot girl all over you, get nervous" lol. Truth is, when you're in that state of 'it's all good' then you can get away with saying anything to a chick.
She was very interesting, older than me but this didn't seem to matter at all. We talked about family, literature and shared crazy stories. HER stories were pretty hilarious, she could've sold a story for £100,000 to a Sun journalist concerning a sex scandal. She had pictures of this pervy well known MP which she took in his house; full on S&M shit.
I was comfortable enough to finger her in the bar we was at, it all felt so natural.
I couldn't have sex with her that night because she was on her period, and pulling her to my house would've been a hassle that night. lol it was funny when i was making out with her, our bodies were pressed up against each other's, i could feel her heartbeat vibrating against mine, i said to her "this is great. It's almost tantric" she gave me a wicked smile and i continued fingerbangin her. A real cool chick, i want to meet MUCH more hunnies though.
A funny thing happened, i had chicks staring at me the whole time because i just radiated true 'abundance' with this girl. It's like you don't have that sexual predator vibe about you where you're the hunter. I walked into a different bar with her to go to the toilet and this chick stopped dead in her tracks and looked at me longingly as if i was a celeb, and said "you're.....!" without finishing her sentence. I gave her a weird look and laughed to myself.
Anyway, let the game be beautiful...it's looking precarious with the other girls i'm workin on right now, but the weekend is here, let's see what i can cook up in the meantime.
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3rd February
meh, had a shitty night. I assume it's because i wasn't building macro-momentum the whole week, and by friday i was feeling rusty and hesistant approaching chicks. I did it anyway though.
Ok, like most of our weekend nights me and Tin trekked all around central london for 45 mins trying to find a club we'd like to go to. No more of this shit...i get cold and inside my head.
We go to the usual, i chode around for 5 mins then decide to hit the dancefloor.
Immediately some drunk chick falls into me, i laugh with her friend then i realise the drunk chick is hot and horny. I dance with her for a bit then we frequently makeout. I should've tried to number close or isolate. wtf?
I dance with a few more average looking girls, there's not as much hotties in here as i'm used to. Then BAM BAM BAM i'm hitting up a couple of sets, what's bad is that i'm not really having fun, i'm being lazy and walking away from a couple of the girls, and my major problem was building solid momentum tonight.
I claw in a tall blonde chick, she wanted to go for a fag. I get her talking for a bit, it's going okay....then i bail on her once she doesn't give the digits. Man was i outcome dependent... *facepalm*
Another blonde, she's foreign. We dance for a while, i fight off her girl friend to keep her with me. Tell the bitch to go away and she does for a bit (credit: Tyler) but ultimately lose the blonde cause of poor physical escalation (maybe i should follow the physical escalation stack like body rocking..) crap vocal projection and all that. I see her later, she's happy to see me. I pick her up and she's spinning in the air for a few seconds then i put her down. I think her friend had a word and dragged her off at this point. I should've just pressed her up against a wall and went for the makeout. DURRR
I take some harsh blowouts and girls give me the evils...
So it was a poor night, but yeah, at least i know where i went wrong.
Lessons
- Booming Vocal Projection (speak on the exhale, if you're barking in her face like a dog just do it for a while until you isolate and her attention is pinned on you)
- Persistence 4x rule
- Build social momentum (enjoy everyone, start the 'celebration of me')
- Million dollar mouthpiece (divorce the emotion from the content. Make my verbals loose)
- LOWER MY STANDARDS (go after women who gimme approach invitations i.e. dance near me, shoot me seductive looks and girls who are non-intimidating also)
meh, had a shitty night. I assume it's because i wasn't building macro-momentum the whole week, and by friday i was feeling rusty and hesistant approaching chicks. I did it anyway though.
Ok, like most of our weekend nights me and Tin trekked all around central london for 45 mins trying to find a club we'd like to go to. No more of this shit...i get cold and inside my head.
We go to the usual, i chode around for 5 mins then decide to hit the dancefloor.
Immediately some drunk chick falls into me, i laugh with her friend then i realise the drunk chick is hot and horny. I dance with her for a bit then we frequently makeout. I should've tried to number close or isolate. wtf?
I dance with a few more average looking girls, there's not as much hotties in here as i'm used to. Then BAM BAM BAM i'm hitting up a couple of sets, what's bad is that i'm not really having fun, i'm being lazy and walking away from a couple of the girls, and my major problem was building solid momentum tonight.
I claw in a tall blonde chick, she wanted to go for a fag. I get her talking for a bit, it's going okay....then i bail on her once she doesn't give the digits. Man was i outcome dependent... *facepalm*
Another blonde, she's foreign. We dance for a while, i fight off her girl friend to keep her with me. Tell the bitch to go away and she does for a bit (credit: Tyler) but ultimately lose the blonde cause of poor physical escalation (maybe i should follow the physical escalation stack like body rocking..) crap vocal projection and all that. I see her later, she's happy to see me. I pick her up and she's spinning in the air for a few seconds then i put her down. I think her friend had a word and dragged her off at this point. I should've just pressed her up against a wall and went for the makeout. DURRR
I take some harsh blowouts and girls give me the evils...
So it was a poor night, but yeah, at least i know where i went wrong.
Lessons
- Booming Vocal Projection (speak on the exhale, if you're barking in her face like a dog just do it for a while until you isolate and her attention is pinned on you)
- Persistence 4x rule
- Build social momentum (enjoy everyone, start the 'celebration of me')
- Million dollar mouthpiece (divorce the emotion from the content. Make my verbals loose)
- LOWER MY STANDARDS (go after women who gimme approach invitations i.e. dance near me, shoot me seductive looks and girls who are non-intimidating also)
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So i may have lined up another day2 for next thursday after some solid FB/text/phone game with this HB 8. She's gonna give me tons of shit tests when she realises i'm coming at her with my dick and ain't looking for a chode friendship lol
The HB oxford grad chick has been strangely silent with her texts. They've been few and far between; can't say her tone has changed much but perhaps she's had a lot of work to do during the weekend or maybe she's having buyer's remorse...meh, i wasn't needy in the slightest around her, no point starting to get needy now. On to the next one...
Couldn't go out Saturday :( we was snowed under. It feels like a gay excuse now that i think about it, but i'm gonna try get out 4x this week and make up for my ineptitude last week.
The HB oxford grad chick has been strangely silent with her texts. They've been few and far between; can't say her tone has changed much but perhaps she's had a lot of work to do during the weekend or maybe she's having buyer's remorse...meh, i wasn't needy in the slightest around her, no point starting to get needy now. On to the next one...
Couldn't go out Saturday :( we was snowed under. It feels like a gay excuse now that i think about it, but i'm gonna try get out 4x this week and make up for my ineptitude last week.
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Liverpool
Missed two days off to check out Liverpool's Uni. and yesssss this is the place i want to study, work (part time) and P.I.M.P!
Before i met up with my dad (who ive just realised is a horny fuck like me) i saw this cute little Italian chick opposite me on the metro. We held eye contact then started cracking up. I made sure to keep an eye on her once we got off at the same station; tapped her the shoulder and she was walking faster than Sonic. I felt a little bit nervous, but was being natural with my verbals. I wanted her number before she met up with her cousin and she was like "ahhh my boyfriend wouldn't like that" while smiling, so i just wished her the best and was on my way.
I was a horny devil the whole time during this visit. I was with my dad all of the time and didn't do any street approaches, making excuses like "well, ill hardly see them again plus im busy and MY DAD'S HERE".
I spoke to this girl in the musuem who had a big ass, tits, the works....but it was more like a pleasant conversation, the type that would spice up her day but not make her want sex on the spot lol
Okay, we head out to the bar (my dad as wingman), he buys me a couple drinks but i'm nowhere near drunk. Some slag tries kissing me while i'm chillin at the bar, i entertain her but don't kiss back. Her breathe stinks and she looks like shit. She's checking me out the whole night trying to win back my attention.
There's some small fillopino cuties getting wasted at a table. One keeps on looking at me according to my dad, but i got AA and don't do shit. However, this bar is virtually empty and i feel like i'm the star attraction being the coolest mofo there. So it's not long before some decent looking indian chicks and their white friend start mirin me, and grind with me for a little while. I'm not too interested but i decide to push it a little with this white chick. She's got a crap face, but a fuckable body. She wants me but this will take work.
I go do some karaoke (1st song was RHCP: Can't Stop) i was amazing...will post this video soon ;)
The bitches were cheering for me.
An hour or two rolls by. Some chodes have been nursing their beers mustering up the courage to talk to this dark haired hottie with a thick body and her friend. They don't do shit. I swagger over holding my glass of water. Do the Hand of God, and begin to dance with this hottie. She's drunk, but when she was sober i noticed her checking me out anyway. We makeout for a while. Her phone's dead so i store my number in her friend's phone, and have her friend's number. But i dunno if ill be seeing this girl ever again. She claims she's a model, but meh, there will be others.
Overall during my stay there was around 60+ chicks i would have liked to fuck. I can't wait to go Uni here in September (disturbin' Liverpool....ohhh yerr giggity)
Missed two days off to check out Liverpool's Uni. and yesssss this is the place i want to study, work (part time) and P.I.M.P!
Before i met up with my dad (who ive just realised is a horny fuck like me) i saw this cute little Italian chick opposite me on the metro. We held eye contact then started cracking up. I made sure to keep an eye on her once we got off at the same station; tapped her the shoulder and she was walking faster than Sonic. I felt a little bit nervous, but was being natural with my verbals. I wanted her number before she met up with her cousin and she was like "ahhh my boyfriend wouldn't like that" while smiling, so i just wished her the best and was on my way.
I was a horny devil the whole time during this visit. I was with my dad all of the time and didn't do any street approaches, making excuses like "well, ill hardly see them again plus im busy and MY DAD'S HERE".
I spoke to this girl in the musuem who had a big ass, tits, the works....but it was more like a pleasant conversation, the type that would spice up her day but not make her want sex on the spot lol
Okay, we head out to the bar (my dad as wingman), he buys me a couple drinks but i'm nowhere near drunk. Some slag tries kissing me while i'm chillin at the bar, i entertain her but don't kiss back. Her breathe stinks and she looks like shit. She's checking me out the whole night trying to win back my attention.
There's some small fillopino cuties getting wasted at a table. One keeps on looking at me according to my dad, but i got AA and don't do shit. However, this bar is virtually empty and i feel like i'm the star attraction being the coolest mofo there. So it's not long before some decent looking indian chicks and their white friend start mirin me, and grind with me for a little while. I'm not too interested but i decide to push it a little with this white chick. She's got a crap face, but a fuckable body. She wants me but this will take work.
I go do some karaoke (1st song was RHCP: Can't Stop) i was amazing...will post this video soon ;)
The bitches were cheering for me.
An hour or two rolls by. Some chodes have been nursing their beers mustering up the courage to talk to this dark haired hottie with a thick body and her friend. They don't do shit. I swagger over holding my glass of water. Do the Hand of God, and begin to dance with this hottie. She's drunk, but when she was sober i noticed her checking me out anyway. We makeout for a while. Her phone's dead so i store my number in her friend's phone, and have her friend's number. But i dunno if ill be seeing this girl ever again. She claims she's a model, but meh, there will be others.
Overall during my stay there was around 60+ chicks i would have liked to fuck. I can't wait to go Uni here in September (disturbin' Liverpool....ohhh yerr giggity)
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Liverpool
Before i met up with my dad (who ive just realised is a horny fuck like me)
Okay, we head out to the bar (my dad as wingman)
Before i met up with my dad (who ive just realised is a horny fuck like me)
Okay, we head out to the bar (my dad as wingman)
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"As our awesomeness grows, I find it difficult to acknowledge things that arent awesome"
Matt.
"Im so hot"
Goran~
"Oh my god, you look like something out of a magazine"
Moderately attractive chick stroking my ego.
"As our awesomeness grows, I find it difficult to acknowledge things that arent awesome"
Matt.
"Im so hot"
Goran~
"Oh my god, you look like something out of a magazine"
Moderately attractive chick stroking my ego.
Andre~
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Join Date: 01/14/2011 | Posts: 842
January 26th
Off to the races again....
Heading toward the club with Tin and another wing who was away for a bit over xmas.
I see a cutie with a sexy ass in tight jeans. I force myself to approach knowing full well that i'm a bit stifled. She takes out her headphones but is sooo awkward, i persist but eventually she diverts eye contact and walks it away. ah well, a nice warm up.
I go to the club, talk with my wings for 10-15 mins then decide to take action. There's a sophisticated looking hottie sitting by herself at a table. I roll up, introduce myself, and we walk for around 20 mins. She's persian, 29 years old and calls me out on my age telling me she's at the age where she's looking for a relationship blah blah we're joking around and everything, it's super easy talking to this girl and you notice that older girls have so much more experience with men that they can hold a conversation better than the young ADHD chicks. I go for the number, she puts up resistance, so i settle with the FB.
I approach some more and my sticking point has to be my verbals tonight. It's not loose enough.
I talk to a cute Russian chick, she's a shit-test machine. I tapped her on her shoulder, introduced myself and she's like "...so?" with a weird look on her face. I stay cool, keep razor sharp eye contact and she's freaked out by how intense it is. I like this kind of girls, once you endure their tests they'll love you forever. I was a bit shocked by how testy she was, and lost my nerve a little so her friend eventually interjected. The russian girl was giving me those big deer-in-the-headlights eyes, and smiling oddly so i know she was attracted, i just didn't execute cleanly enough. Next time that happens i'll go super cool, abuse her a little like Julian would and seem even less reactive to this kind of attitude.
I'm mad at myself for not approaching enough, there were 2 decent chicks dancing alone, and they probably would've been responsive to me but i didn't do shit. Weird. I was scared of rejection lol
this fugly chick works up the courage to tell me i'm hot and everything, i look her up and down to see if she's got any redeeming qualities. She doesn't so i palm her off.
I leave the club, to go to another one. See a petite hottie waiting outside the station. I talk to her, she's a bit startled but we have an amazing conversation about Richard dawkins, literature and all that jazz. She's an Oxford graduate doing a phD in Fishleadership (lulz for originality). Her friend comes back from the toilet, they both love me, asking me if i want to come with them to some bar. I say no, i want to beast the whole night. In hindsight this may have been a bad decision, i could've built up more familiarity with her this way. We exchange numbers and i text her later. Goddamn i love greek chicks, they all look so alike though.
I get blown out some more in the next club, actually to tell the truth they weren't even 'blowouts', i just didn't own it like a full on dictator tyrant gangster like Tyler always says to be. I had a American 3set, i persisted when talking to one of them who tried ignoring me. We talked, then at the first sign of awkwardness i hugged them and bolted lol saw them later and we all danced but i felt like it was friend to friend, not how it should be.
I spoke to a tall sexy ass looking model chick, she was a bit of a shit-test machine too. Dutch. I didn't perservere much and she went back to her friends. At the end of the night i made sure to give her a tight squeeze and lift her up, she was in shock. Fuck a "nice to meet you...", leave with a bang. I leave this tourist trap club and head on home.
Lessons
- Practice fucking around with my verbals, more self amusement and IRREVERANCE (i love this shit) so i suck her into my 'movie'
- Limit the interview chode questions, and start talking about myself
- Know when to isolate a girl from a hooked set. The american girls may have let me speak to her friend after the 5-10 min chat we had, but i didn't persist logistics. Durrrrr
- Consistency: Tin pointed out that one night i can be the man of the moment, throwing around chicks and making out with them shamelessly, the next night i can lose this edge to my game. I've got to work on this by consistently building momentum and throwing myself into sets