THE FORUMS
Crazy solo sober night at my regular spot again!!
I start the night by getting on the tube, and seeing a sexy brazilian looking short haired blonde jolting ahead of me. I have to get the same carriage as her damn it. I instantly ask her if she's Brazilian - she's romanian, and i fluff about Transylvania and dracula lol get your waffle on! She half giggled, was still aloof, i help her out with directions to where she wants to go. Don't talk for 5 mins then suddenly i start chatting to her again. Deep EC - i resist the urge to stutter or break EC like i would a couple of months back. She is soooooooooo sexy guys - a straight stunner with blowjob lips and the whole works; she has these ripped up jeans on which i wouldn't have minded ripping up some more ;) I'm literally just waffling on about whatever she gives me - her name's Maria..OH MY MUM'S MIDDLE NAME IS MARIA. Did you know that it originates from the virgin mary? Blah blah blah, all that mattered was the subcommunications. Now...with a total stunner like this you don't ever want to compliment them on anything other than their personality and it has to have good reason. In fact, hardcore teasing works best on smokin hawt bitches like this. Like damn, she had caramel skin and looked like a Walking porno. Shit...i'm so proud of myself for plowing, reminding myself that i am enough and ignoring the fuck out of the passengers who were starting to get on the tube. I teased her about being a mobster, terrorist and all kinds of shit. My only problem was that we were two seats apart and i wasn't close to her - i had cracking up at some points and should've taken this opportunity to nestle myself next to her and get to real work - like whispering sexual shit into her ear and everything. Don't get me wrong, she was a shit test machine - she's the type who would give you that searching eye contact to see if there's a chink in your armour and would straight ignore irrelevant shit you say if it ain't coming from the right place but i saw attraction building. I pissed her off when i played tug of war with her tube map - she looked at me dead in the eye for 10 secs before saying she's putting her headphones back in. I shrugged and let her. Just before my stop i thought fuck it - sat next to her, ignored everyone watching me, told her what i thought about her but she says she's only here for the day and is leaving tomorrow - didn't give me a facebook either. I know she LOVED my ballsiness though - god she was an aesthetic beauty.
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Ok, the night begins and i'm swaggering around like a BAWSE - like making myself big by not in a contrived way, just an expression of my inner state. I see hotties upon hotties and just march thru to the bar and all eyes are on me for about 30 mins. I dunno why but i'm so fuckin chill and every girl is eyefucking me. I immediately get called over by some busty young lookin hottie, she thinks i know her friend - i don't. It was just a chode opener from her - i should've plowed but i focused on her chubby friend who was giving me more attention. She was cool, but errrm the hottie DUDE!
A chubby forces a makeout with me, i scrape her off. I dance with a 7 - very sexual shit going on here, she loves me. I chatise a sexy skinny brunette at the bar with some dude behind her getting her a drink. She wants me to move over and make space - i say no, she has to pay the makeout tax. She tells the guy and he's like "nice tactic" i ignore him and briefly makeout with the chick with my glass of water in tow. Tell her to ditch the chode and find me later. She laughs - this dude is like 6'3 by the way.
I meet Rocco - i like this guy, we shoot the shit and exchange thoughts on game and where we're at.
I nearly get in a fight over some hottie - the dude gets physical with me so i yell at him. Strong unflinching eye contact - the bouncer breaks it up, i tell him its cool and the guy was drunk.
I take some blowouts and then think fuck it, time to climb into the VIP section. I do so cause the bouncers are lazy here. Immediately talk to tasty looking blonde hottie on the couch. Her BF is with her - tall model looking guy. She kinda wants me though, her legs are playing with mine under the table. Ahem...secret society. She's attracted to me - and all i gave was chode small talk. 18 years old, cool.
I ditch her to go dance with some other broads. Meet some crazy ass white chick who danced really weird but interesting - i feel in love with her behaviour. Molest her on the couch at some point, everyone in the VIP is watching as usual. Casual shit - she has a BF i think. I take her number - dunno if anything is gonna come from this.
Dance with some other chicks, then get it on PROPER with a big chested petite eastern european girl. I think she's gotta G string on so i'm fingering her at times. Pre-cum! She's a dirty slut. Get her number before i leave but her hungarian number is fucked.
I stay until the bitter end as usual....leave at half 3 and go home. Good night.
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1) Wings and other PUAs tell me i've gotten more icy. This is evident - hotties at any degree do not faze me. I am enough
2) I'm way too tired to even think about pulling on these nights; so i have to focus on day2 game until i move to uni
3) I'm a sexual beast - solo times is easy, MAKE YOURSELF BIG AND TAKE UP SPACE
4) Open with more extreme things and learn to recover from it - jesus, julien spilt red bull over a girl on purpose and made her love him
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Monday 23rd July!!
When the nights go on and on, all you can do is follow them blindly and wait for them to lead you to the treasure. Trust in the process.
Extremely hot out - never thought i'd hear myself saying this as a Londoner. I'm waiting at the bus stop and i see a sexy petite chick trot by, she's checking the timetable. I start talking to her - she's a little bit uncomfortable at first but warms to me gradually. We get on the bus together, but i sense that she isn't hooked enough - she's occupying herself with the phone to avoid the tension i guess. I carry on chatting, and eventually go for the number. She's like "no, it's not alright". She was a HB9, and romanian like the one the other day. I was probably not challenging enough - i wasn't 'short-circuiting' her as Julien would put it. I was much better with the other romanian earlier in the week. I should've taken more pauses, and kept a poker face when she was chatting to me - that shit builds tension, i was too social but NOT sexual enough. When i went for the number i guess i could've preframed it with, "let's be friends in real life..."
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Get to the club, it's me and EJ from last Thursday. We're just chillin for two hours cause the club really picks up around 11ish, so i'm talking to the bartender. A real cool scouser chick - she makes me even more torn between choosing Liverpool or my London uni choice.
Go for a walk in piccadily to see what's up - Starchild texts me and says he's about, we meet him outside a club and the dude pulled the other day but is out again for some more. Dirty dog.
We head back to the club and now we're in business - the party's in full flow and the hotties are filling up the spot. There's usually 30+ chicks you would bang here, and most are above 8.
I start talking to a few girls, i show one a pic of my quwala on my phone. The chinese girl is into me, but she was generally horny the whole night.
Talk to some more girls, take pics then lounge about for a break. Starchild joins us! He sneaked in. We rip it on the dancefloor, good times! I briefly makeout with a tall blonde at the bar, i hand her a rose and say i love her. She doesn't stick around for long - BF apparently.
Several girls get dragged away from me by their friends when i'm dancing with them downstairs, i should've just isolated "let's go over there for 2 minutes then i'll take you back to your friends".
Some chode is talking to a blonde hottie, i lean in, whisper in her ear to stand up. She takes my hands, i pick her up and whisk her away. I tell her i rescued her. I should've unleashed a barrage of crazy verbals here but her BT dropped and she was like "thanks for that but i'm going back to my friends now".
I harass another girl who's getting free drinks by some dude - i say that i could never trust her blah blah she finds me funny but is going to the toilet. She's really hot. I should've asked her to talk for 1 min, number closed and spoken to her later.
Tease some hotties in the smoking area. It's unreal how hot these girls are but i'm feeling so comfortable with it these days.
Starchild is speaking to a hot b'day girl, she wants me as soon as we're introduced and is rubbing her face against mine when talking. I didn't know whether to execute or not cause she was initially with Star so the tension kinda fizzles out. She badly wanted to get fucked.
I arm wrestle a tanned stunner sitting down - i tell her she's owes me a phone and necklace for cheating and using two hands. I should've spat more game at her, like asked her chode questions, mixed in some drama and shit but once the fun dies down she's off to see her friends but i take her number and get a kiss.
Quickly before we leave we go downstairs to the dancefloor i mack on a hottie in a red dress, no bra and rose stuck down her clevege. Motorboat. And that's that.
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1) I have to learn to escalate verbally or physically when a girl clearly wants it, "you don't even know what i want to do to you", that's when it's time to put sex on the table
2) Had some good interactions - no real blowouts tonight
3) Could've done with being more expressive (fun facial expressions kinda like Will Smith in Fresh Prince of Bel Air it's hilarious)
4) Didn't hold enough sexual tension with the romanian stunner on the bus but i still approached!
5) I was smiling a lot more at girls, and they were interested. I don't do this enough ha
When the nights go on and on, all you can do is follow them blindly and wait for them to lead you to the treasure. Trust in the process.
Extremely hot out - never thought i'd hear myself saying this as a Londoner. I'm waiting at the bus stop and i see a sexy petite chick trot by, she's checking the timetable. I start talking to her - she's a little bit uncomfortable at first but warms to me gradually. We get on the bus together, but i sense that she isn't hooked enough - she's occupying herself with the phone to avoid the tension i guess. I carry on chatting, and eventually go for the number. She's like "no, it's not alright". She was a HB9, and romanian like the one the other day. I was probably not challenging enough - i wasn't 'short-circuiting' her as Julien would put it. I was much better with the other romanian earlier in the week. I should've taken more pauses, and kept a poker face when she was chatting to me - that shit builds tension, i was too social but NOT sexual enough. When i went for the number i guess i could've preframed it with, "let's be friends in real life..."
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Get to the club, it's me and EJ from last Thursday. We're just chillin for two hours cause the club really picks up around 11ish, so i'm talking to the bartender. A real cool scouser chick - she makes me even more torn between choosing Liverpool or my London uni choice.
Go for a walk in piccadily to see what's up - Starchild texts me and says he's about, we meet him outside a club and the dude pulled the other day but is out again for some more. Dirty dog.
We head back to the club and now we're in business - the party's in full flow and the hotties are filling up the spot. There's usually 30+ chicks you would bang here, and most are above 8.
I start talking to a few girls, i show one a pic of my quwala on my phone. The chinese girl is into me, but she was generally horny the whole night.
Talk to some more girls, take pics then lounge about for a break. Starchild joins us! He sneaked in. We rip it on the dancefloor, good times! I briefly makeout with a tall blonde at the bar, i hand her a rose and say i love her. She doesn't stick around for long - BF apparently.
Several girls get dragged away from me by their friends when i'm dancing with them downstairs, i should've just isolated "let's go over there for 2 minutes then i'll take you back to your friends".
Some chode is talking to a blonde hottie, i lean in, whisper in her ear to stand up. She takes my hands, i pick her up and whisk her away. I tell her i rescued her. I should've unleashed a barrage of crazy verbals here but her BT dropped and she was like "thanks for that but i'm going back to my friends now".
I harass another girl who's getting free drinks by some dude - i say that i could never trust her blah blah she finds me funny but is going to the toilet. She's really hot. I should've asked her to talk for 1 min, number closed and spoken to her later.
Tease some hotties in the smoking area. It's unreal how hot these girls are but i'm feeling so comfortable with it these days.
Starchild is speaking to a hot b'day girl, she wants me as soon as we're introduced and is rubbing her face against mine when talking. I didn't know whether to execute or not cause she was initially with Star so the tension kinda fizzles out. She badly wanted to get fucked.
I arm wrestle a tanned stunner sitting down - i tell her she's owes me a phone and necklace for cheating and using two hands. I should've spat more game at her, like asked her chode questions, mixed in some drama and shit but once the fun dies down she's off to see her friends but i take her number and get a kiss.
Quickly before we leave we go downstairs to the dancefloor i mack on a hottie in a red dress, no bra and rose stuck down her clevege. Motorboat. And that's that.
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1) I have to learn to escalate verbally or physically when a girl clearly wants it, "you don't even know what i want to do to you", that's when it's time to put sex on the table
2) Had some good interactions - no real blowouts tonight
3) Could've done with being more expressive (fun facial expressions kinda like Will Smith in Fresh Prince of Bel Air it's hilarious)
4) Didn't hold enough sexual tension with the romanian stunner on the bus but i still approached!
5) I was smiling a lot more at girls, and they were interested. I don't do this enough ha
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Yesterday i was pretty active.
It was hot as fuck so i went out with Starchild to do some some sweet daygame - hit up a whole load of girls, and recorded the Olympic torch being carried through London by some...nobody lol
What i learned from my daygame sesh was that I WAS NOT THE STAR IN MY OWN MOVIE - i rolled in and was too permission boy with nearly all of my sets. I could've done with preframing a lot of the interactions i had, like disarming them "it's okay, i'm not crazy or ghetto!" just so they could chill out more. I got a facebook from a blonde HB9 who looked stupendous in her summer dress. Bonerific. She told me she's seeing someone so that's why she made me settle for the FB. I'll see what i can do here.
I bumped in Chris who is officially back from his stay in Italy and is ready to pimp it up again - along with Jamie (IAmAce) who is an absolute legend and the fast learner i've seen thus far in the game. He approaches anything he wants, and goes HAM. His candidness is something i can learn from.
I go home, relax and reflect then realize that i need to tweak my game a lot more. I like the challenging and qualification style of gaming that Distant Light bangs on about - sprinkle in some playful misterpretations and it's so fun to do.
I head out for tonight - meeting up with Tom, who hasn't winged me in ages, Jamie and Starchild. All solid guys. I'm passing thru the train station, see a hottie and think fuck it...take action. I asked if she's egyptian - she's says No, Why? I say she looks like cleopatra. I start drilling her with questions, "You're columbian? Teach me spanish. You're my new tutor. If you're shit then don't bother, i don't want Dora the Explorer level spanish" she's opening up at this point. So i am cause i'm having fun - that faucet for charisma naturally opens up when i tease girls mercilessly like this. However, she facebooks me for whatever gay reason and later it's hard to find out who she is on FB cause there's so many people with her name.
Touch down in piccadily circus - i see a MADDD latina hottie, no bra, big booty and looks like E's chick from Entourage. I roll up, "Are you spanish?" I let her and her friend know i'm not a promoter. They really want some weed. My girl is a dirty slut, i can tell - she's the type who will give you that "fuck me hard" EC but will wait for you to escalate. Starchild and Jamie see me, blast into my set. I'm cool about it, still teasing my girl and shit. I try to go deep with her, "what's your story glenda?" she's here until Monday then she's back in LA. Promoters and black guys are hitting them up while we're talking to them. They ain't got shit going on. I take her digits, she's keen about the weed but i wanted to make her keen about the cock so i'm like "yeah we're getting married, we're gonna have moroccan hash in our wedding cake".
We're opening shit loads of sets, just going hard. Get inside, tons of americans in the building tonight. I get a bit drunk, it's even more fun. Not much tangible happened per se - there was mostly 5-7's here, with the occasional 8. Sometimes my chicks get dragged away cause Starchild's being a bit too polarizing haha
I have a 3 way makeout with these cute americans before they jet off. They're here for two days apparently, Jamie takes one of their details.
I have an interesting thing going on with the hottest girl in the venue. Massive ass in tight blue yoga pants - white tank top, and dark curly hair. She reminds me of the Greek chick last week who's now on holiday for a while. I'm just doing the standard shit - she seems horny, but flightly and moving from guy to guy getting free drinks. She can't hustle a drink out of me, i just make fun of the situation. She likes me, but i could've pushed harder with more intent, i.e. "you don't even wanna know what i want to do to you". I get her facebook, apparently she's here for two weeks. Before i leave i see her talking with two taller dudes, i roll up, lift her up and talk the shit for a bit, say that i'll get in contact. Some guy pulls her away but not before she gives me a sexy smile. Dunno if anything will happen here - it looks like she's 18 on her FB profile but i can't add her for whatever reason.
It was a long night - some fatty wants my number, i take hers but don't plan on calling of course. Night over.
It was hot as fuck so i went out with Starchild to do some some sweet daygame - hit up a whole load of girls, and recorded the Olympic torch being carried through London by some...nobody lol
What i learned from my daygame sesh was that I WAS NOT THE STAR IN MY OWN MOVIE - i rolled in and was too permission boy with nearly all of my sets. I could've done with preframing a lot of the interactions i had, like disarming them "it's okay, i'm not crazy or ghetto!" just so they could chill out more. I got a facebook from a blonde HB9 who looked stupendous in her summer dress. Bonerific. She told me she's seeing someone so that's why she made me settle for the FB. I'll see what i can do here.
I bumped in Chris who is officially back from his stay in Italy and is ready to pimp it up again - along with Jamie (IAmAce) who is an absolute legend and the fast learner i've seen thus far in the game. He approaches anything he wants, and goes HAM. His candidness is something i can learn from.
I go home, relax and reflect then realize that i need to tweak my game a lot more. I like the challenging and qualification style of gaming that Distant Light bangs on about - sprinkle in some playful misterpretations and it's so fun to do.
I head out for tonight - meeting up with Tom, who hasn't winged me in ages, Jamie and Starchild. All solid guys. I'm passing thru the train station, see a hottie and think fuck it...take action. I asked if she's egyptian - she's says No, Why? I say she looks like cleopatra. I start drilling her with questions, "You're columbian? Teach me spanish. You're my new tutor. If you're shit then don't bother, i don't want Dora the Explorer level spanish" she's opening up at this point. So i am cause i'm having fun - that faucet for charisma naturally opens up when i tease girls mercilessly like this. However, she facebooks me for whatever gay reason and later it's hard to find out who she is on FB cause there's so many people with her name.
Touch down in piccadily circus - i see a MADDD latina hottie, no bra, big booty and looks like E's chick from Entourage. I roll up, "Are you spanish?" I let her and her friend know i'm not a promoter. They really want some weed. My girl is a dirty slut, i can tell - she's the type who will give you that "fuck me hard" EC but will wait for you to escalate. Starchild and Jamie see me, blast into my set. I'm cool about it, still teasing my girl and shit. I try to go deep with her, "what's your story glenda?" she's here until Monday then she's back in LA. Promoters and black guys are hitting them up while we're talking to them. They ain't got shit going on. I take her digits, she's keen about the weed but i wanted to make her keen about the cock so i'm like "yeah we're getting married, we're gonna have moroccan hash in our wedding cake".
We're opening shit loads of sets, just going hard. Get inside, tons of americans in the building tonight. I get a bit drunk, it's even more fun. Not much tangible happened per se - there was mostly 5-7's here, with the occasional 8. Sometimes my chicks get dragged away cause Starchild's being a bit too polarizing haha
I have a 3 way makeout with these cute americans before they jet off. They're here for two days apparently, Jamie takes one of their details.
I have an interesting thing going on with the hottest girl in the venue. Massive ass in tight blue yoga pants - white tank top, and dark curly hair. She reminds me of the Greek chick last week who's now on holiday for a while. I'm just doing the standard shit - she seems horny, but flightly and moving from guy to guy getting free drinks. She can't hustle a drink out of me, i just make fun of the situation. She likes me, but i could've pushed harder with more intent, i.e. "you don't even wanna know what i want to do to you". I get her facebook, apparently she's here for two weeks. Before i leave i see her talking with two taller dudes, i roll up, lift her up and talk the shit for a bit, say that i'll get in contact. Some guy pulls her away but not before she gives me a sexy smile. Dunno if anything will happen here - it looks like she's 18 on her FB profile but i can't add her for whatever reason.
It was a long night - some fatty wants my number, i take hers but don't plan on calling of course. Night over.
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Saturday 28th July
At the moment i'm waiting for that hawt greek chick to come from holiday so i can hit her up; the blonde stunner the other day needs some serious text game for me close...the other blonde from last week seems flakey whenever i gun for the meetup. And the super hot spanish chick from Thursday is proving really hard to meet up with over the last two days - i'm just going to send her a blunt text, "Invite me over to your hotel. I'm bringing weed, you buy alcohol". There's some others who have fell into the cracks but it's an uphill struggle learning how to get these girls on the day2 to bang them - it's all good though, i love the process and the process loves me.
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Helped out at Starchild's bar and was knackered..then went to a mate's to smoke up and was groggy after. I roll up to the club at half 12 and Starchild is with me along with an ex student of his. Starchild says he's in heaven given all the hotties tonight - i'm a little picky cause of the usual upper crust quality you see here EVERY week, but i drop that ego crap like a bag of dogshit and get to work.
I'm much more expressive with my facial expressions like i wanted to work on before. Check. I'm having a cutie in stitches while i'm dancing with her - just being funny and shit.
I pick up a smokin gal with great tits, "can you hug me", and refuse to put her down until she makes out with me. It was funny, she managed to wriggle out and didn't kiss me in the end.
I'm approaching most girls with the standard, "who are you/what's up, my name is Andre" so i'm not too creative tonight but that doesn't matter.
I grab a petite hot blonde walking pass - her friend tries to tug her away. Nope, ain't letting that happen. I talk some shit then kiss her, she likes it, we makeout. I give her my number, she sends a message but i don't think it goes through. Ah well.
I sneak into the VIP - make a weak approach on one of the hottest girls here. Her ass is ambrosia. There's a few hotties i should've spoken to but i'm a little bit pussy at this stage.
Go to the bar, stop a hot brunette - body looks nice and bangable. She's already into me. I know it, so i just makeout in the middle of the conversation. We're kissing for like 5 mins cause i wanted to. She's staying for 3 days, i tell her we're hanging out. She wants to. I text her later, "get home safe" but nothing back from her, i'll ring her up later.
Do some dancing monkey shit and kiss a girl with a chunky ass.
Some two guys are blatantly checking out this HOT brunette - i stop her as soon as she walks by me. Tap shoulder, finger wiggle, claw. "Who are you" i'm just full on staring at her lips and she's all about it. She's romanian haha i think i have to check this place out. I tell her i'm taking her out next week, she's down. i take her number, and she tells me to text her. I do later, but she doesn't reply either.
I didn't make the 'good' sets as solid as can be - i just did basic attraction shit, no 'moment of realness' kinda stuff. I guess i thought i was above that or got lazy.
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1) Take pauses. Enjoy the girl in front of you, and let her quake under the sexual tension and my calmness
2) Cocky grin - i did this so well when just staring at the hot romanian's lips. She got super attracted - i spat the whole "ill marry you" thing as well but it was more subcommunications that were tight.
3) Actively assuming the meetup. If it ain't happening tonight, i'm seeding it for some other night. This is becoming more assertive.
4) This club is becoming so easy, it literally feels like home. I got the VIP, the free entry, the queue skip and the balls to walk up to any chick i want in this place. I love it - but i need core confidence over situtional.
5) I HAVE TO START GOING FOR THE SNL. I'm wayyy too lazy with this, but i'm never going to learn if i don't push for it.
At the moment i'm waiting for that hawt greek chick to come from holiday so i can hit her up; the blonde stunner the other day needs some serious text game for me close...the other blonde from last week seems flakey whenever i gun for the meetup. And the super hot spanish chick from Thursday is proving really hard to meet up with over the last two days - i'm just going to send her a blunt text, "Invite me over to your hotel. I'm bringing weed, you buy alcohol". There's some others who have fell into the cracks but it's an uphill struggle learning how to get these girls on the day2 to bang them - it's all good though, i love the process and the process loves me.
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Helped out at Starchild's bar and was knackered..then went to a mate's to smoke up and was groggy after. I roll up to the club at half 12 and Starchild is with me along with an ex student of his. Starchild says he's in heaven given all the hotties tonight - i'm a little picky cause of the usual upper crust quality you see here EVERY week, but i drop that ego crap like a bag of dogshit and get to work.
I'm much more expressive with my facial expressions like i wanted to work on before. Check. I'm having a cutie in stitches while i'm dancing with her - just being funny and shit.
I pick up a smokin gal with great tits, "can you hug me", and refuse to put her down until she makes out with me. It was funny, she managed to wriggle out and didn't kiss me in the end.
I'm approaching most girls with the standard, "who are you/what's up, my name is Andre" so i'm not too creative tonight but that doesn't matter.
I grab a petite hot blonde walking pass - her friend tries to tug her away. Nope, ain't letting that happen. I talk some shit then kiss her, she likes it, we makeout. I give her my number, she sends a message but i don't think it goes through. Ah well.
I sneak into the VIP - make a weak approach on one of the hottest girls here. Her ass is ambrosia. There's a few hotties i should've spoken to but i'm a little bit pussy at this stage.
Go to the bar, stop a hot brunette - body looks nice and bangable. She's already into me. I know it, so i just makeout in the middle of the conversation. We're kissing for like 5 mins cause i wanted to. She's staying for 3 days, i tell her we're hanging out. She wants to. I text her later, "get home safe" but nothing back from her, i'll ring her up later.
Do some dancing monkey shit and kiss a girl with a chunky ass.
Some two guys are blatantly checking out this HOT brunette - i stop her as soon as she walks by me. Tap shoulder, finger wiggle, claw. "Who are you" i'm just full on staring at her lips and she's all about it. She's romanian haha i think i have to check this place out. I tell her i'm taking her out next week, she's down. i take her number, and she tells me to text her. I do later, but she doesn't reply either.
I didn't make the 'good' sets as solid as can be - i just did basic attraction shit, no 'moment of realness' kinda stuff. I guess i thought i was above that or got lazy.
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1) Take pauses. Enjoy the girl in front of you, and let her quake under the sexual tension and my calmness
2) Cocky grin - i did this so well when just staring at the hot romanian's lips. She got super attracted - i spat the whole "ill marry you" thing as well but it was more subcommunications that were tight.
3) Actively assuming the meetup. If it ain't happening tonight, i'm seeding it for some other night. This is becoming more assertive.
4) This club is becoming so easy, it literally feels like home. I got the VIP, the free entry, the queue skip and the balls to walk up to any chick i want in this place. I love it - but i need core confidence over situtional.
5) I HAVE TO START GOING FOR THE SNL. I'm wayyy too lazy with this, but i'm never going to learn if i don't push for it.
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Sunday 29th July
The super hot american/chile played me again! Fucking flakers...i head to piccadily at 9 pm to meet her and her friend cause they're catching a meal and they wanted me to say hi. I come down knowing there's a high chance she'll flake as always. She does. So i ring up Jamie and decide to game it up on a sunday night - something i've never done before.
A slovakian girl, with a dreamy face and skinny body asks me to help these tourists with directions to a sushi bar. I tell them to go ask the stewards and carry on talking with the slovakian and her guy friend. He warms up to me - i'm doing anything special with this girl, just being a bit chodey actually. I know i'm leaving this girl without going for the number - i do, but she gives me her facebook instead. I should've persisted for the number.
Finally Jamie shows up, it's nearing 10. We go the bar and we're both stagnating for a while - i'm tired and surprised i'm even out tonight, Jamie's in a funk but snaps out of it later on. We hit up some spanish chicks - i'm not too hot with my one cause i ain't feeling her but Jamie's one goes good and he # closes.
I took a couple more blowouts, the bar closes at 1 am so we all have to head outside. During the night me and Jamie were waiting for different groups of chicks to come - they're all flopping.
We hit up girls like crazy outside - even some indian dude who's making out with his GF, she's hot so we hit her up. And she's horny but we couldn't really execute here.
Some bangladeshi dude who was speaking to me earlier is with a tall hot italian girl, he asks me if he thinks he has a chance with her. I say maybe, then roll up to her and take her number. I should've kissed her just to bury the guy's confidence.
The weirdest interaction was the last 2 set of the night walking by maccy d's. Jamie hits them up, i follow up and it turns out these 17/18 year olds are trippin on LSD. We talk to them for like an hour just milling about piccadily. By the end of it i'm kind've attracted to the hot one who's a hollister girl but i rationalized there's no point taking the number cause she wouldn't remember me. Always Be Closing...i slip, and Jamie takes her # instead. Even when she seems to be getting progressively horny throughout the interaction. I think we could've pushed harder with taking them back to Jamie's but my intent was NOT clear at all. I just didn't know what i wanted, even the girls were like "seriously what do you want, what are you doing" not in a bitchy way, but everything was just not clear that night.
The super hot american/chile played me again! Fucking flakers...i head to piccadily at 9 pm to meet her and her friend cause they're catching a meal and they wanted me to say hi. I come down knowing there's a high chance she'll flake as always. She does. So i ring up Jamie and decide to game it up on a sunday night - something i've never done before.
A slovakian girl, with a dreamy face and skinny body asks me to help these tourists with directions to a sushi bar. I tell them to go ask the stewards and carry on talking with the slovakian and her guy friend. He warms up to me - i'm doing anything special with this girl, just being a bit chodey actually. I know i'm leaving this girl without going for the number - i do, but she gives me her facebook instead. I should've persisted for the number.
Finally Jamie shows up, it's nearing 10. We go the bar and we're both stagnating for a while - i'm tired and surprised i'm even out tonight, Jamie's in a funk but snaps out of it later on. We hit up some spanish chicks - i'm not too hot with my one cause i ain't feeling her but Jamie's one goes good and he # closes.
I took a couple more blowouts, the bar closes at 1 am so we all have to head outside. During the night me and Jamie were waiting for different groups of chicks to come - they're all flopping.
We hit up girls like crazy outside - even some indian dude who's making out with his GF, she's hot so we hit her up. And she's horny but we couldn't really execute here.
Some bangladeshi dude who was speaking to me earlier is with a tall hot italian girl, he asks me if he thinks he has a chance with her. I say maybe, then roll up to her and take her number. I should've kissed her just to bury the guy's confidence.
The weirdest interaction was the last 2 set of the night walking by maccy d's. Jamie hits them up, i follow up and it turns out these 17/18 year olds are trippin on LSD. We talk to them for like an hour just milling about piccadily. By the end of it i'm kind've attracted to the hot one who's a hollister girl but i rationalized there's no point taking the number cause she wouldn't remember me. Always Be Closing...i slip, and Jamie takes her # instead. Even when she seems to be getting progressively horny throughout the interaction. I think we could've pushed harder with taking them back to Jamie's but my intent was NOT clear at all. I just didn't know what i wanted, even the girls were like "seriously what do you want, what are you doing" not in a bitchy way, but everything was just not clear that night.
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i noticed the other night you are starting to fucking kill it. you are opening smoother than ever and im learning a lit. I think the "not clear" is because your brain is adjusting to a new realtity. A level of what it finds acceptable. The fact you are ven questioning rolling on some girl with a guy as well to most normal guys is pretty insane. its good to have these knda of nights. I am on a bit of a dry patch at the moment but i know the goal rush is coming, it always comes in waves like this.
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Maybe we mentally and emotionally associate the process of taking “massive action” with being a naïve and confused youngster, and it brings back all of those uncertain and confused feelings that we thought we’d long outgrown. Tyler
One reason so few of us achieve what we truly want is that we never direct our focus; we never concentrate our power. Most people dabble their way through life, never deciding to master anything in partic
ular. Anthony Robbins
Most women are already there. You might think they're batty, emotional, ditzy. You're not supposed to worry about that. Why are you looking to her for emotional stability? That comes from you.
She is supposed to be able to play in your pla
yground. In the social context of you. Manwhore
I'm simply an unqualified social scientist using my own ego as a guinea pig for the value of others
One reason so few of us achieve what we truly want is that we never direct our focus; we never concentrate our power. Most people dabble their way through life, never deciding to master anything in partic
ular. Anthony Robbins
Most women are already there. You might think they're batty, emotional, ditzy. You're not supposed to worry about that. Why are you looking to her for emotional stability? That comes from you.
She is supposed to be able to play in your pla
yground. In the social context of you. Manwhore
I'm simply an unqualified social scientist using my own ego as a guinea pig for the value of others
Wednesday 1st August
Had a Day 2 today and noticed a fuckload of sticking points. As i'm typing i'm in a foul mood right now - i've got piles (blood coming out of my ass) and have been friend zoned yet again partially because of my age i bet. The girl was 25, i'm 19, i decided to be honest. It's fucking hard to reframe this shit in a good light when the girl's foreign (this was the one from Sunday night who gave me her FB) and doesn't completely understand everything you're saying. But that's just another excuse for me being chode.
Met up late with her in stratford - like 7.30, she was a little bit pissed, the only thing about this 'day2' and the last couple of meetups i've sporadically been having is that they seem very 'friend to friend' and it's usually me following their agenda. Like i hit this girl up on FB with some line, and then she suddenly writes back "yeah i'm interviewing this kenyan olympic athlete today, wanna come join us?" i was all for it, because you gotta meet up with your girls but it still didn't feel right. It was me calling the shots, or dictating the rhythm as Tyler would call it. I was on HER time, not mine. That's why it's good to preframe things quickly, i.e. "let's go catch a movie at mine after this is done" or do any little thing that helps you lead.
Anyway, met up with them both (the athlete's name is Benso Gich and he's a boxer), we went to a Kenyan olympic village thing, i ate some food while the girl was talking to a few africans who could arrange a volunteering trip for her or something.
She's a touchy feely girl, and was like this with both me and the dude. I think she's into black guys as well - she's so fascinated by Africa and even has an adopted Kenyan brother lol i should've teased, said she's gonna be the next madonna adopting african babies as if they're dolls. That brings to mind something else...i'm a total pussy on these day 2's. I don't do any of the usual shit i do in cold approach - i'm wayyy too invested and care wayyy too much about the interaction so you'll never see that full range of emotions. I couldn't even express my desires to want to fuck this girl. Like...what the fuck was i here for - to be her friend or lover? Is she a mind reader? No...so how is she supposed know what i want if i don't make it clear?
Once we left the Kenyan dude to go back into the main olympic athletes housing area (with usain bolt and shit) i felt a good vibe between me and her. She honestly seemed disappointed when i told her i was 19, but was like "that's a nice age". I tried seeding the movie idea at my place but she had stuff on - i was even nervous about bringing that up out of fear of rejection. Jeezus, these day 2's highlight a lot of my weaknesses.
Before leaving her to go on my train, i go in to give her three kisses. One on each cheek, then i try go for the lips and durrr she pulls back. It wasn't really that awkward, i blow a kiss and go off.
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In short, i'm disappointed with myself. I'm a shameless horny fuck in cold approach, but a chodey eunuch come day 2's - i'm not even getting dates with girls who ARE attracted to me, the last few have been girls who are on their agenda and want me to join as a friend.
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- Focus on emotions! Change her emotional bassline - at one point i told her i did volunteering, she was like "really? so you're like me!", i just grinned like a chode and said "yeah!" wtf? This is why outer game matters so much and there's more to this shit than just showing up and expecting the girl to suck your cawk. I could've fucked with her and said "naw, i hate little kids, i'm nothing like you. In fact, if we got into a relationship we wouldn't last long - plates would be flying everywhere and we'd be having kinky make up sex all the time - that's a curse and a blessing..." jeezus, that really would've been more saucy for the interaction.
- I should've venue changed...A LOT - once we bounced from the athlete my first thought should've been to take her to a coffee place or bar, or visit the shops...anything! Instead i let her lead ME to the station like a little pup
- I wasn't even that loud. Usually when i'm loud i'm shameless and feel like i've got more range in the way i can communicate to the girl - it's like i'm blaring out my personality thru a megaphone. I wanted to 'fit in' NOT stand out.
- What 'game' did i actually put to use here? Like, i became this chill guy who didn't dominate shit. I don't mean to say i should've been a obnoxious jerk or something that i'm not, but i didn't allow myself to feel that 'state' which i love - the crazy kind've influence you get over people when you're just effortlessly being yourself.
I wanted to deconstruct a lot of this interaction just to underline the key things i need to improve on in future day 2's or interactions with girls, but at the end of the day i've come a long way and won't take anything away from myself, it's just that i know i can do better. I felt like a kung fu student who knows all the right moves but somehow...doesn't want to execute them in the bout. So...he gets his ass kicked.
Had a Day 2 today and noticed a fuckload of sticking points. As i'm typing i'm in a foul mood right now - i've got piles (blood coming out of my ass) and have been friend zoned yet again partially because of my age i bet. The girl was 25, i'm 19, i decided to be honest. It's fucking hard to reframe this shit in a good light when the girl's foreign (this was the one from Sunday night who gave me her FB) and doesn't completely understand everything you're saying. But that's just another excuse for me being chode.
Met up late with her in stratford - like 7.30, she was a little bit pissed, the only thing about this 'day2' and the last couple of meetups i've sporadically been having is that they seem very 'friend to friend' and it's usually me following their agenda. Like i hit this girl up on FB with some line, and then she suddenly writes back "yeah i'm interviewing this kenyan olympic athlete today, wanna come join us?" i was all for it, because you gotta meet up with your girls but it still didn't feel right. It was me calling the shots, or dictating the rhythm as Tyler would call it. I was on HER time, not mine. That's why it's good to preframe things quickly, i.e. "let's go catch a movie at mine after this is done" or do any little thing that helps you lead.
Anyway, met up with them both (the athlete's name is Benso Gich and he's a boxer), we went to a Kenyan olympic village thing, i ate some food while the girl was talking to a few africans who could arrange a volunteering trip for her or something.
She's a touchy feely girl, and was like this with both me and the dude. I think she's into black guys as well - she's so fascinated by Africa and even has an adopted Kenyan brother lol i should've teased, said she's gonna be the next madonna adopting african babies as if they're dolls. That brings to mind something else...i'm a total pussy on these day 2's. I don't do any of the usual shit i do in cold approach - i'm wayyy too invested and care wayyy too much about the interaction so you'll never see that full range of emotions. I couldn't even express my desires to want to fuck this girl. Like...what the fuck was i here for - to be her friend or lover? Is she a mind reader? No...so how is she supposed know what i want if i don't make it clear?
Once we left the Kenyan dude to go back into the main olympic athletes housing area (with usain bolt and shit) i felt a good vibe between me and her. She honestly seemed disappointed when i told her i was 19, but was like "that's a nice age". I tried seeding the movie idea at my place but she had stuff on - i was even nervous about bringing that up out of fear of rejection. Jeezus, these day 2's highlight a lot of my weaknesses.
Before leaving her to go on my train, i go in to give her three kisses. One on each cheek, then i try go for the lips and durrr she pulls back. It wasn't really that awkward, i blow a kiss and go off.
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In short, i'm disappointed with myself. I'm a shameless horny fuck in cold approach, but a chodey eunuch come day 2's - i'm not even getting dates with girls who ARE attracted to me, the last few have been girls who are on their agenda and want me to join as a friend.
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- Focus on emotions! Change her emotional bassline - at one point i told her i did volunteering, she was like "really? so you're like me!", i just grinned like a chode and said "yeah!" wtf? This is why outer game matters so much and there's more to this shit than just showing up and expecting the girl to suck your cawk. I could've fucked with her and said "naw, i hate little kids, i'm nothing like you. In fact, if we got into a relationship we wouldn't last long - plates would be flying everywhere and we'd be having kinky make up sex all the time - that's a curse and a blessing..." jeezus, that really would've been more saucy for the interaction.
- I should've venue changed...A LOT - once we bounced from the athlete my first thought should've been to take her to a coffee place or bar, or visit the shops...anything! Instead i let her lead ME to the station like a little pup
- I wasn't even that loud. Usually when i'm loud i'm shameless and feel like i've got more range in the way i can communicate to the girl - it's like i'm blaring out my personality thru a megaphone. I wanted to 'fit in' NOT stand out.
- What 'game' did i actually put to use here? Like, i became this chill guy who didn't dominate shit. I don't mean to say i should've been a obnoxious jerk or something that i'm not, but i didn't allow myself to feel that 'state' which i love - the crazy kind've influence you get over people when you're just effortlessly being yourself.
I wanted to deconstruct a lot of this interaction just to underline the key things i need to improve on in future day 2's or interactions with girls, but at the end of the day i've come a long way and won't take anything away from myself, it's just that i know i can do better. I felt like a kung fu student who knows all the right moves but somehow...doesn't want to execute them in the bout. So...he gets his ass kicked.
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Thursday 2nd August!!!
It was Joe's b'day today - so i head on over at a bar in Fulham to celebrate it with him and his many mates. There's a few hotties in our group - one is completely besotted with this totally unassuming and normal looking south african natural dude (funny enuff Tyler was just talking about these south africans with maddd game lol). I was dancing with her at one point, and the south african dude just breezed on in, grabbed her arm and was off to the smoking area. Game recognise game. Joe tells me he's just well into his own reality - teases this girl mercilessly, doesn't answer her questions and he has very slow, sexual building type of escalation. It's gay cause he's probably gonna read this...
Since we're here early we're just chillin shooting the shit - Jamie's in attendance tonight with an 18 year old mate of his who actually has a lot of potential. These two guys go hard AF on girls - not like creepy beastmode but they're just really competent and ballsy. They're getting quicker results than me when i first started out - they're definitely a good crowd to be with as i grow in this area of my life.
I meet some more of Joe's mates - it's weird cause he's told them all about game so they've seen a bit of my journal and kind've know what i'm about...only one friend of mine knows what RSD is and why i do it.
I must've opened about 10-15 girls in this venue tonight, i got drunk...not super drunk, cause i can't afford to. With one girl in Joe's group i should've transitioned from dancing to 'moment of realness' cause she was into me. I just didn't act quickly enough to scale it down...i come back to see half an hour later and she's gone.
Get a # from a cute dark haired girl with braces sitting on a couch - i just said A LOT of shit.
A hot short haired blondie from miami boyfriended me after a good interaction - she was nervous at first, cause me and Jamie's mate approached her at the same time. I just chilled back and uhh waited for him to blow himself out lol
Made out with some short cutie - but i didn't put any work into it. She just grabbed me.
Had a long interaction with a cute brunette - just started singing "Call me maybe" to her and her friend with Jamie. Good timez. She rejects me later when she's with some guy though - i don't think me and Jamie should've hit them up, the guys weren't really getting anywhere until we made ourselves look bad by failing to muscle in.
We got the bus into piccadily - hit up some more girls. Jamie and his mate are hi-fiving chicks, every girl does it back. Interesting. Jamie does it to a HOT blonde - i talk to her when she seems to be pacing away from him. I keep real - grounded, calm and no signs of being a drunk moron. She thinks i do this all the time i tell her i'm a shy man, and that i only hi-fived her to fit in. She says she's gotta BF, fuccck.
Jamie's mate hi-fives another blonde hottie. I chase her down - tap on the shoulder, one step back. Compliment. I'm in. I just gaze into her eyes - they're sexy light blue...omg really awesome eyes. I get a boner staring at them. I say i'm serious about her, we're going out next week and take her number. She's lithuanian and is a barmaid. But here's the big question...why didn't i try pull her? My wings aren't here to get me laid - i get myself laid...which i'm not doing.
Me and Jamie see two other girls just leaving a club who look hot. We roll up - the blonde is nice. Not what i usually hit up but after some talking i take her number.
Jamie's mate actually pulls this hot hawaiian girl from the club lol lucky bastard. I had a gut feeling that she was willing to gangbanged by all of us - she wasn't drunk or overtly slutty but she had that "fuck me hard" eye contact, relentless anime eyes. And she lives with 6 guys...
That's that, and i go home.
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1) Hitting the bars the last few weeks has been a good idea. I've learned how to play around with a long interaction better
2) I still struggle with leading, i'll rewatch this part in Foundations or look up more articles
3) Clarity of intent - get laid or go for the number and try do it later. I have to be more decisive
4) I'm feeling more and more like I am Enough. I mean it when i say that no girl feels out of my league anymore - i feel like i can roll up and just let my freak flag fly
EDIT - I've got to start proof reading my posts before submitting them...i make serious typos which must confuse a fuck ton of people lol
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Friday 3rd August
Originally planned to meet up with the day2 from wednesday for her slovakian olympic violin contest, i went to the station and waited for five minutes. Decided to hit up a south african cutie outside the nearby pub - i was ON. Just teasing her about their weird accent and everything - she eventually tells me she's gotta unofficial BF. Her two guy friends come over - i introduce myself, it's always funny to see the girl suddenly go awkward at times like this, they expect you to turn into pumpking pussy as soon as there's a bit of pressure on you. Naw, not me girl. I just chat to them as normal, go in for the number but then she rebuffs me with the BF thing. One of the guy's is trying to convince her to give it to me cause he thinks i'm cool. She's too nervous. She ain't ready yet.
I go inside the pub, see a nerdy looking hottie with a nice ass bounce to the toilets. I tell myself to approach her later. Get some water, she comes back in 5 minutes - tap her shoulder and tell her i like her glasses. She's american and REALLY open, funny and loud - i tell her she's getting me inside my head lol she's from Philly so we sing the fresh prince of bel air song. Awesome. We're talking for ages - her sis eventually comes over, and i'm literally in love with this chick. Like...she's in her own reality 110% and is funny as hell. Girlfriend material f'sho. I'm so pissed cause her phone doesn't work here in the UK, she doesn't have facebook and uses instagram. She's here until Wednesday - i should've just taken down what her hotel was and arranged to go there to see her. Dayum - this was a prime example of 'the interaction is the reward itself'. Lol the bar man kicks me out for only drinking tap water...my day2 from this week hasn't texted or called, it's half an hour later than planned, so i ring up some wings and bounce to Mayfair.
Me and Chris are reunited, he looks dapper. Immediately recognise a mixed race HB9 who i've seen out a few times, me and Pringles had briefly spoken to her and her sis like a month back. I call out her name, and shoot the shit with her and her hot friend. They look like hollister models - all of these chicks model, jeez. Anyway, i take both of their FB's. Sean, who met up with us months back is out tonight as well, we head into the club.
Instantly feeling the vibe - i love this shit. I'm loud and dancing. Stop a super hottie who's texting - i'm just like "waddup dawg!" she opens well. Takes me to meet her friends, i should've # closed but i rationalized i'd see her later. ALWAYS CLOSE BECAUSE YOU NEVER SEE THEM AGAIN
Makeout with a tall blonde, open her with "fuck you, what's yo name", she tells me about her BF and slinks off. I'm doing a few approaches here and there - mainly just social conversation. Go to the smoking area, Chris is talking to two hotties. I come in later, 10 mins in i'm left with the hotties on my own. Should've # closed but again i rationalized i'd see them later.
Sneak into VIP again, Chris has got to leave early. I party it up - there's one stunner i got my eye on, grab her in "who are you", she's like "nobody", i say "wrong answer..." She laughs, asks me who i am, i reply "nobody.." her even hotter friend drags her in to dance. I dance with some other chicks, come back to this group and take my girl to grind her. Ain't happening. 20 mins later she goes off by herself to the toilet - i quickly chase her down, grab her in, "no more bullshit, be real with me. What's yo name", we talk for 2 minutes, she squeezes my hand hard like a girl does when she wants yo dick. I take her number, she says "i'll be back", while 3 dudes double take her at the same damn time.
I decide to bounce cause i'm getting a bit tired - call Jamie up, apparently he's gotta big set of girls he thinks he can pull. I head to piccadily, get speaking with this spanish beauty. She's here for 2 weeks, has a BF. But we have a great conversation - i like this girl, take her FB.
I go see Jamie, open some sets. Makeout with this drunk mixed race girl with pretty green eyes. She's a terrible kisser. Jamie's lost the big set from earlier so we continue to hit it up.
I call it a night, wait at the bus stop, ask this spanish HB9 if my bus has came yet. Her english ain't so good. I just transition into normal conversation - my bus comes, i quickly take her FB cause she doesn't know her UK number. Look her up later - she's done modelling...don't know if that was definitely her or not but the face looked familiar enough.
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1) The girls i'm closing and significantly getting hotter. I just need to push things further with them
2) I'm so comfortable in set now it's funny
3) # close, but the number is the last resort if you can't pull them that night. Play to win NOT to lose - i need to push until the bitter end
4) The girl i met at the pub was my perfect 10; not looks wise, although she was hot, the quality of her personality was just in alignment with my own personality. I could just tell. If i communicated my feelings better to her about how she was making me feel, the standards she was meeting of mine, and making it clear to her what my intent was, i.e. "i approached you initially because i was thought you was hot, now i know you're fucking amazing inside and out. No bullshit" then there's no doubt we would've found a way of getting in connection somehow
EDIT - The more i go out, the more i notice subtle fuck ups i make. For instance, i saw the stunner who i # closed outside when i was leaving, she was with her friends - my immediate instinct was to go over and talk to her, then i reconsidered, procrastinated for a few minutes and then called Jamie up to see what he was up to instead. In short: i was a pussy. I've dealt with enough social pressure to grab the girl and say goodbye, or even whisper into her ear "i wanna take you home with me. Adventure..." Like seriously, i chose to be Mr Chode over Mr Champ in that split second. This game is all about split seconds...my guess is that she saw me come out of the club, gave me a few seconds to reopen and i blatantly pussied out. There's narrow chances with girls like this if you don't seize the day and take right action. Very narrow. It explains why she hasn't picked up my calls today, ill text her in a few days with something simple but what i said above just reinforces my belief of going with your gut instinct and making the moves at whatever the cost. This game HAS to become an adventure for yourself, you need to sell yourself the adventure, buy into it and live it out.
Originally planned to meet up with the day2 from wednesday for her slovakian olympic violin contest, i went to the station and waited for five minutes. Decided to hit up a south african cutie outside the nearby pub - i was ON. Just teasing her about their weird accent and everything - she eventually tells me she's gotta unofficial BF. Her two guy friends come over - i introduce myself, it's always funny to see the girl suddenly go awkward at times like this, they expect you to turn into pumpking pussy as soon as there's a bit of pressure on you. Naw, not me girl. I just chat to them as normal, go in for the number but then she rebuffs me with the BF thing. One of the guy's is trying to convince her to give it to me cause he thinks i'm cool. She's too nervous. She ain't ready yet.
I go inside the pub, see a nerdy looking hottie with a nice ass bounce to the toilets. I tell myself to approach her later. Get some water, she comes back in 5 minutes - tap her shoulder and tell her i like her glasses. She's american and REALLY open, funny and loud - i tell her she's getting me inside my head lol she's from Philly so we sing the fresh prince of bel air song. Awesome. We're talking for ages - her sis eventually comes over, and i'm literally in love with this chick. Like...she's in her own reality 110% and is funny as hell. Girlfriend material f'sho. I'm so pissed cause her phone doesn't work here in the UK, she doesn't have facebook and uses instagram. She's here until Wednesday - i should've just taken down what her hotel was and arranged to go there to see her. Dayum - this was a prime example of 'the interaction is the reward itself'. Lol the bar man kicks me out for only drinking tap water...my day2 from this week hasn't texted or called, it's half an hour later than planned, so i ring up some wings and bounce to Mayfair.
Me and Chris are reunited, he looks dapper. Immediately recognise a mixed race HB9 who i've seen out a few times, me and Pringles had briefly spoken to her and her sis like a month back. I call out her name, and shoot the shit with her and her hot friend. They look like hollister models - all of these chicks model, jeez. Anyway, i take both of their FB's. Sean, who met up with us months back is out tonight as well, we head into the club.
Instantly feeling the vibe - i love this shit. I'm loud and dancing. Stop a super hottie who's texting - i'm just like "waddup dawg!" she opens well. Takes me to meet her friends, i should've # closed but i rationalized i'd see her later. ALWAYS CLOSE BECAUSE YOU NEVER SEE THEM AGAIN
Makeout with a tall blonde, open her with "fuck you, what's yo name", she tells me about her BF and slinks off. I'm doing a few approaches here and there - mainly just social conversation. Go to the smoking area, Chris is talking to two hotties. I come in later, 10 mins in i'm left with the hotties on my own. Should've # closed but again i rationalized i'd see them later.
Sneak into VIP again, Chris has got to leave early. I party it up - there's one stunner i got my eye on, grab her in "who are you", she's like "nobody", i say "wrong answer..." She laughs, asks me who i am, i reply "nobody.." her even hotter friend drags her in to dance. I dance with some other chicks, come back to this group and take my girl to grind her. Ain't happening. 20 mins later she goes off by herself to the toilet - i quickly chase her down, grab her in, "no more bullshit, be real with me. What's yo name", we talk for 2 minutes, she squeezes my hand hard like a girl does when she wants yo dick. I take her number, she says "i'll be back", while 3 dudes double take her at the same damn time.
I decide to bounce cause i'm getting a bit tired - call Jamie up, apparently he's gotta big set of girls he thinks he can pull. I head to piccadily, get speaking with this spanish beauty. She's here for 2 weeks, has a BF. But we have a great conversation - i like this girl, take her FB.
I go see Jamie, open some sets. Makeout with this drunk mixed race girl with pretty green eyes. She's a terrible kisser. Jamie's lost the big set from earlier so we continue to hit it up.
I call it a night, wait at the bus stop, ask this spanish HB9 if my bus has came yet. Her english ain't so good. I just transition into normal conversation - my bus comes, i quickly take her FB cause she doesn't know her UK number. Look her up later - she's done modelling...don't know if that was definitely her or not but the face looked familiar enough.
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1) The girls i'm closing and significantly getting hotter. I just need to push things further with them
2) I'm so comfortable in set now it's funny
3) # close, but the number is the last resort if you can't pull them that night. Play to win NOT to lose - i need to push until the bitter end
4) The girl i met at the pub was my perfect 10; not looks wise, although she was hot, the quality of her personality was just in alignment with my own personality. I could just tell. If i communicated my feelings better to her about how she was making me feel, the standards she was meeting of mine, and making it clear to her what my intent was, i.e. "i approached you initially because i was thought you was hot, now i know you're fucking amazing inside and out. No bullshit" then there's no doubt we would've found a way of getting in connection somehow
EDIT - The more i go out, the more i notice subtle fuck ups i make. For instance, i saw the stunner who i # closed outside when i was leaving, she was with her friends - my immediate instinct was to go over and talk to her, then i reconsidered, procrastinated for a few minutes and then called Jamie up to see what he was up to instead. In short: i was a pussy. I've dealt with enough social pressure to grab the girl and say goodbye, or even whisper into her ear "i wanna take you home with me. Adventure..." Like seriously, i chose to be Mr Chode over Mr Champ in that split second. This game is all about split seconds...my guess is that she saw me come out of the club, gave me a few seconds to reopen and i blatantly pussied out. There's narrow chances with girls like this if you don't seize the day and take right action. Very narrow. It explains why she hasn't picked up my calls today, ill text her in a few days with something simple but what i said above just reinforces my belief of going with your gut instinct and making the moves at whatever the cost. This game HAS to become an adventure for yourself, you need to sell yourself the adventure, buy into it and live it out.
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Join Date: 01/14/2011 | Posts: 851
Nearly at the end of Jeffy's Nine Ball. What.A.Phenomenal. Book. He's put his soul into what he wrote - i have to thank legends like Jeff and the other RSD guys for what they've done for me and others. It's like being handed a new lease on life after days, weeks, months and years of frustration. The inner game journey he recounts is profound - not to mention Jeffy is one hilarious fucker who's also given me shit loads of new 80's power ballads to listen to.
One quote that really hit me was this: 'There is no reason for the interaction but the interaction itself. The interaction IS the reward'
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I decided to get out of the house, take a break from Nine Ball and go for a nature walk. I wanted quality with nature and my surroundings. Just to breathe and soak it all in. It was theraputic - i felt my thoughts loosen up, i was taking note of every thing going on - just...relaxed.
I went to the park, called an old friend up, then listened to some music and basked in the glory of the sun. Beautiful.
I saw a mixed race girl walked in the distance, caught up with her - i was gonna pussy out then reconsided. Yelled at her, she turned round and was stunned, "Me?!" I smile, nod and walk up. She's a 22 year old single mum; nice tits, motherly tits. She's going off to see her man. I can tell she's into me, not overtly but i just enjoy the conversation for what it's worth. She had a conscious demeanour about her, like early parenthood has made her a lot more in tuned with the world. It was just an observation, but i remember Tolle saying that drastic changes in peoples' life often bring about a paradigm shift in their consciousness. We part ways, and hug.
I walk past a car, look inside cause i see a feminine silhouette and gesture to her to wind down the window. A hottie with shades on. I tell i saw her in the car and thought she was adorable - ask what her name is, she tells me. I reach in to give her a handshake and...she WINDS THE WINDOW UP hahaha i tell her she's gonna cut my arm off. She stops, smiles and is like "i can't shake your hand, it's inappropriate cause this is my fiance's car." I laugh, excuse myself and tell her to have a good day. Funny story.