THE FORUMS
18th May
Tonight our favourite venue is packed to the brim - a lot of students have started to finish their exams, so there was tons of people around Central.
Early on I catch up with Chris and hit on girls walking by - nothing much comes of it. Later Tin arrives and we head off to the usual; Kourtney Kardashian's BF is supposed to be here, hence the large queue. We skip it, contrary of my beloved door lady.
We get in, first set is a bit shaky with some nervous 18 year olds; I think i've got to work on being dynamic from the start, i'm not too consistent with giving girls the full range of emotions n all that.
Fly through some sets - i'm dancing and feeling good; Tin's taking a lot of initiative tonight cause of his Tolle blitzkrieg - i'm slightly subdued and follow him into sets to wing.
One girl thinks i'm in control of who comes into the VIP - i play it out, and tell her she has to kiss me. She does, and i laugh in her face. She's touchy feely, but is kinda average so i move on.
I've noticed that girls are really compliant when i initially open them nowadays; before when i came across less self assusered the mega hotties would just dismiss me - i.e. i grab a 6'4 model chick really aggressively, she leans over to hear what i'm saying and suddenly leaves. Comes back later, i stare her down and she gropes me trying to regain my attention.
That Kardashian bitch boy arrives in the VIP - everyones crammed trying to take pictures and savour the moment, and this drags on for 45 mins so you can barely access the corridor. I just take the piss out of him with any passerbys. My shoulder is wet, and some cutie's above me on the couch, i yell at her and tell her not too get so excited because of this twat (wet vag lol)
I grope some hot american chick, an 8 i would say - she disses the club relentlessly comparing it to the US. We makeout, i can't be bothered to try close this one tonight so i take her number after talking for about 15 mins.
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One thing i've realised is that i'm not as sexual or full on with the physical stuff as i used to be a few months back - i'm gonna execute the escalation stack more regularly from now on, and continue trying to be more dynamic in my interactions. I feel very relaxed in the club these days, just gotta push harder.
I'm wondering if i've got a blocker in my mind when it comes down to SNL pulls cause i live 1 hour and a half away - would have to get the night bus and walk it to mine where my mum lives with me. I've probably answered my own question there.
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19th May
Headed out to Kensington with Tin, and met up with the boys. It was a good turn out - just not the quality of girls i like; a lot were older and uglier than i would've wanted them to be.
I restarted my meditation sessions, and did this before going out - it's like you only feel the real effects of it once deep in set. I open some blondies, "Blond squad! Wassup" they all love me and we start vibing, like Alex says the hottest girl presents herself to you. This was the case; the blonde nearest to me was giving me sexy eye contact. Some chode friend of theirs tries making wise cracks, calling me Kanye west cause Gold digger is playing - i tell him that my bro looks like Kanye, and he should take a look around the club for him. The chode tells my girl not to fall for me cause i ain't really Kanye. lol then remarks on the water i'm drinking, i just say "yeah, diet man, new resolution. Perfection" tools are so easy to see through.
My girls want me to go dance with them, i decline and go off back to the boys. Hit on any hotties that pass by, and i realise that you don't need to be so aggressive in a club like this compared to our favourite spot which requires more intense game cause you're barely audible most of the time.
I walk to the other side of the bar, a brunette hottie tries to squeeze past me. I lock in on her. Claw. Sweet talk. She's gotta BF, i say the usual shit and start kissing her face and neck, going for the lips but she says i'm lovely but she's loyal. Re-open her again later, she finds me hard to resist but leaves. I see her again before closing time, and makeout with her. The next step is actually fucking these chicks in the club while their BFs are around.
I'm hitting on mediocre girls now, and decide to bounce around 2.30
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Good thing is i acted on what i told myself to do in the last post: get physical fast again. Claw is your best friend. I define my nights by how much fun i give myself, and ask myself the question "Andre, did you walk away with that warm fuzzy feeling in your chest cause you said and did what you wanted to?" or if i've had a boner that night. If i don't meet those standards then i know i could've done better.
Headed out to Kensington with Tin, and met up with the boys. It was a good turn out - just not the quality of girls i like; a lot were older and uglier than i would've wanted them to be.
I restarted my meditation sessions, and did this before going out - it's like you only feel the real effects of it once deep in set. I open some blondies, "Blond squad! Wassup" they all love me and we start vibing, like Alex says the hottest girl presents herself to you. This was the case; the blonde nearest to me was giving me sexy eye contact. Some chode friend of theirs tries making wise cracks, calling me Kanye west cause Gold digger is playing - i tell him that my bro looks like Kanye, and he should take a look around the club for him. The chode tells my girl not to fall for me cause i ain't really Kanye. lol then remarks on the water i'm drinking, i just say "yeah, diet man, new resolution. Perfection" tools are so easy to see through.
My girls want me to go dance with them, i decline and go off back to the boys. Hit on any hotties that pass by, and i realise that you don't need to be so aggressive in a club like this compared to our favourite spot which requires more intense game cause you're barely audible most of the time.
I walk to the other side of the bar, a brunette hottie tries to squeeze past me. I lock in on her. Claw. Sweet talk. She's gotta BF, i say the usual shit and start kissing her face and neck, going for the lips but she says i'm lovely but she's loyal. Re-open her again later, she finds me hard to resist but leaves. I see her again before closing time, and makeout with her. The next step is actually fucking these chicks in the club while their BFs are around.
I'm hitting on mediocre girls now, and decide to bounce around 2.30
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Good thing is i acted on what i told myself to do in the last post: get physical fast again. Claw is your best friend. I define my nights by how much fun i give myself, and ask myself the question "Andre, did you walk away with that warm fuzzy feeling in your chest cause you said and did what you wanted to?" or if i've had a boner that night. If i don't meet those standards then i know i could've done better.
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Tuesday Daygame
Ughh, the sun finally came out so i decided to hit central and check out the hotties. It way wayyy too hot, so i was shleping around most of the time.
Hit on hottie after hottie but the streets were packed unlike last time, and the girls were all in a mad rush or just not feelin it.
My tonality wasn't as good as the day before, and i just assumed everything would run just like how it did last thursday but boy was i in for a surprise!
At least i enjoyed seeing and briefly chatting to some of the super hotties today - ran into my mate and a few other randoms who i know, seems like everyone was thinking the same thing when they saw the sun out today.
P.S - setup a date with a cute chinese girl from day game last week, its on for this thursday, was hoping on bagging some new girls today but that backfired lol
Edit: Further points.....
- Got to stand my ground in a busy street, don't follow them, command their attention
- Maybe show more empathy, "i know you're nervous right now, but don't be, i'm as chill as bob marley"
- Be relaxed...calm breathing...assume it's on, meditate while in set
Ughh, the sun finally came out so i decided to hit central and check out the hotties. It way wayyy too hot, so i was shleping around most of the time.
Hit on hottie after hottie but the streets were packed unlike last time, and the girls were all in a mad rush or just not feelin it.
My tonality wasn't as good as the day before, and i just assumed everything would run just like how it did last thursday but boy was i in for a surprise!
At least i enjoyed seeing and briefly chatting to some of the super hotties today - ran into my mate and a few other randoms who i know, seems like everyone was thinking the same thing when they saw the sun out today.
P.S - setup a date with a cute chinese girl from day game last week, its on for this thursday, was hoping on bagging some new girls today but that backfired lol
Edit: Further points.....
- Got to stand my ground in a busy street, don't follow them, command their attention
- Maybe show more empathy, "i know you're nervous right now, but don't be, i'm as chill as bob marley"
- Be relaxed...calm breathing...assume it's on, meditate while in set
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I love your posts bro. I been out last few nights. Drop me a text if you are about in central tonight?
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One reason so few of us achieve what we truly want is that we never direct our focus; we never concentrate our power. Most people dabble their way through life, never deciding to master anything in partic
ular. Anthony Robbins
Most women are already there. You might think they're batty, emotional, ditzy. You're not supposed to worry about that. Why are you looking to her for emotional stability? That comes from you.
She is supposed to be able to play in your pla
yground. In the social context of you. Manwhore
I'm simply an unqualified social scientist using my own ego as a guinea pig for the value of others
One reason so few of us achieve what we truly want is that we never direct our focus; we never concentrate our power. Most people dabble their way through life, never deciding to master anything in partic
ular. Anthony Robbins
Most women are already there. You might think they're batty, emotional, ditzy. You're not supposed to worry about that. Why are you looking to her for emotional stability? That comes from you.
She is supposed to be able to play in your pla
yground. In the social context of you. Manwhore
I'm simply an unqualified social scientist using my own ego as a guinea pig for the value of others
@Starchild - thanks bro, i'm down to party anytime!
Good video on freedom from outcome.
It makes me question my thought process in many of my sets. Am i trying to be careful and calibrate to her by not saying what i truly want to say? Am i trying to gain her approval for my actions with what i'm saying? Or am i always at the cause of the effect dictating the rhythm, and just doing what i want to do?
I've always loved trollin people since i was addicted to weird internet forums in my early teens, especially girls cause they're so reactive, i.e. saying crazy stuff in a blase way, just out of nowhere. This is nothing new, but it's something i forget a lot when going out probably cause some part of me doesn't want the girl to leave. That's what pringles meant ages ago when he said i must eliminate all forms of neediness. I just gotta give less a fuck.
Good video on freedom from outcome.
It makes me question my thought process in many of my sets. Am i trying to be careful and calibrate to her by not saying what i truly want to say? Am i trying to gain her approval for my actions with what i'm saying? Or am i always at the cause of the effect dictating the rhythm, and just doing what i want to do?
I've always loved trollin people since i was addicted to weird internet forums in my early teens, especially girls cause they're so reactive, i.e. saying crazy stuff in a blase way, just out of nowhere. This is nothing new, but it's something i forget a lot when going out probably cause some part of me doesn't want the girl to leave. That's what pringles meant ages ago when he said i must eliminate all forms of neediness. I just gotta give less a fuck.
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Had the Day 2 last night with the 22 year old chinese girl
She wasn't 'shy' but she seemed kinda sexually inexperienced. Like i didn't get that "fuck me now" vibe from her, but it wasn't because she was closed off or anything.
As usual i ran the show - talked shit non stop, and had myself in hysterics. I'm the funniest person ever with a chick if they just open up to me, regardless, like in Brad's latest vlog it's about not giving a fuck about whether they open up, be the music and plow anyway.
Logistics weren't good, i didn't feel too hot for her either - she's cute and definitely doable, but i caught myself looking at other girls and wanting to go after them instead. In the future i refuse to give up 'game' nights if fucking a chick doesn't feel somewhat certain.
If i do see her again it's gonna be someone near mine.
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another thing i got from the advice pringles gave Tin in his FR is to blindly stick to the principles in any situation with any girl you want. Push boundaries. I'm gonna do this in my next daygame sesh.
She wasn't 'shy' but she seemed kinda sexually inexperienced. Like i didn't get that "fuck me now" vibe from her, but it wasn't because she was closed off or anything.
As usual i ran the show - talked shit non stop, and had myself in hysterics. I'm the funniest person ever with a chick if they just open up to me, regardless, like in Brad's latest vlog it's about not giving a fuck about whether they open up, be the music and plow anyway.
Logistics weren't good, i didn't feel too hot for her either - she's cute and definitely doable, but i caught myself looking at other girls and wanting to go after them instead. In the future i refuse to give up 'game' nights if fucking a chick doesn't feel somewhat certain.
If i do see her again it's gonna be someone near mine.
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another thing i got from the advice pringles gave Tin in his FR is to blindly stick to the principles in any situation with any girl you want. Push boundaries. I'm gonna do this in my next daygame sesh.
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Decent London weather finally!
Man you need to reply to texts even though mine are quite long I admit
There are like almost two billion Chinese people soo replace if so; keep the mentality that you've got things to do
A girl with low self esteem (N)
Its relieving when you get a girl to open up, it's like her bitch shield becomes yours for commanding haha
Get back to me when you're doing daygame or night game, always about
Man you need to reply to texts even though mine are quite long I admit
There are like almost two billion Chinese people soo replace if so; keep the mentality that you've got things to do
A girl with low self esteem (N)
Its relieving when you get a girl to open up, it's like her bitch shield becomes yours for commanding haha
Get back to me when you're doing daygame or night game, always about
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Ok, went out saturday and ran the same drill as always. I was in a happy mood after watching American Pie Reunion - the funniest opening 2 minutes i've ever seen in a film. period.
I hit up all da hotties, not as many girls as i would've liked but meh...Tin was tired and left early.
I had two somewhat memorable sets with different equally sexy brunette HB9's...
One of which went to get a drink. durr, i should've went with her, the approach was going well - all i was thinking that night was Tim's words "how can i make this fun for myself", so i started thinking of weird curve ball questions to ask girls. I asked this hottie "I thought you were foreign...because of your earrings" she cracks up.
The next one was attracted to me, but thought i was too forward. Should've calibrated.
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Done some daygame this sunday - it was fiery hot outside, a lot of wimminz out and about.
Went out with rej156. Got to know each other. Cool cat. We hit on girls relentlessly. Always the hottest, they could be models or wateva i don't care. I feel no approach anxiety now, i don't care how bad i look after i get blown out.
I approach a black girl toward the end, I DO THIS VERY RARELY! and damn she had some sexy energy about her. Wanted to fuck, i could tell. We held that magnetic eye contact, her figure was scrumptuous. She said she had a BF, i tell her to take care. She gives me a slow stroke on the arm as she leaves.
rej hits up a 3set. He talks to a very cute french gal. I join in after, say some shit then realise it's time to take this hottie's number and close up shop. She's going someplace, and i can't stick around. I tentatively arrange a meetup. I walk away proud of rej for stepping up more and more during this day.
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After watching and reading Alex's new blog entry i realise the next step for me is asserting influence on the girls i talk to. Time to arouse them more by just chilling out and letting them soak in my presence. I am enough. I am. Thinking of what to say is not a problem. Knowing what to do isn't either. It's time to fully accept this and just do it. Fuck inconsistency; lets break through walls ;)
I hit up all da hotties, not as many girls as i would've liked but meh...Tin was tired and left early.
I had two somewhat memorable sets with different equally sexy brunette HB9's...
One of which went to get a drink. durr, i should've went with her, the approach was going well - all i was thinking that night was Tim's words "how can i make this fun for myself", so i started thinking of weird curve ball questions to ask girls. I asked this hottie "I thought you were foreign...because of your earrings" she cracks up.
The next one was attracted to me, but thought i was too forward. Should've calibrated.
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Done some daygame this sunday - it was fiery hot outside, a lot of wimminz out and about.
Went out with rej156. Got to know each other. Cool cat. We hit on girls relentlessly. Always the hottest, they could be models or wateva i don't care. I feel no approach anxiety now, i don't care how bad i look after i get blown out.
I approach a black girl toward the end, I DO THIS VERY RARELY! and damn she had some sexy energy about her. Wanted to fuck, i could tell. We held that magnetic eye contact, her figure was scrumptuous. She said she had a BF, i tell her to take care. She gives me a slow stroke on the arm as she leaves.
rej hits up a 3set. He talks to a very cute french gal. I join in after, say some shit then realise it's time to take this hottie's number and close up shop. She's going someplace, and i can't stick around. I tentatively arrange a meetup. I walk away proud of rej for stepping up more and more during this day.
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After watching and reading Alex's new blog entry i realise the next step for me is asserting influence on the girls i talk to. Time to arouse them more by just chilling out and letting them soak in my presence. I am enough. I am. Thinking of what to say is not a problem. Knowing what to do isn't either. It's time to fully accept this and just do it. Fuck inconsistency; lets break through walls ;)
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31/05
Decent night out with Chris. Started the night just vibing and talking to whoever - some small cute chick is asking for a lighter or whatever, i makeout with her. Most of the girls in the smoking area see this, which is confirmed later when i beast on them.
We have a near-pull which fucks up at the end cause we lost chris' girl. Although i don't think it was ON with my chick cause i didn't do enough man to woman ish, and was kinda pussy trying to figure out when to pull the trigger.
Just re-reading some of Chrysoberyls FR is reminding that getting sexual and talking sexual is fun. Gets you more blowouts, but i get that enough already. Last time i just talked shit to a couple of girls - i said some chode shit which really bores me, then with others i upped the ante and held a sexual vibe which i enjoyed. Point being...do what you enjoy and turn it into something that yields results.
P.S - been texting the french girl from daygame last week, got her to send a picture and damn she's sexy as fuck, big ol titties. She lives outside london so its tricky to arrange a meetup, but i wanna bone this one hard.
Decent night out with Chris. Started the night just vibing and talking to whoever - some small cute chick is asking for a lighter or whatever, i makeout with her. Most of the girls in the smoking area see this, which is confirmed later when i beast on them.
We have a near-pull which fucks up at the end cause we lost chris' girl. Although i don't think it was ON with my chick cause i didn't do enough man to woman ish, and was kinda pussy trying to figure out when to pull the trigger.
Just re-reading some of Chrysoberyls FR is reminding that getting sexual and talking sexual is fun. Gets you more blowouts, but i get that enough already. Last time i just talked shit to a couple of girls - i said some chode shit which really bores me, then with others i upped the ante and held a sexual vibe which i enjoyed. Point being...do what you enjoy and turn it into something that yields results.
P.S - been texting the french girl from daygame last week, got her to send a picture and damn she's sexy as fuck, big ol titties. She lives outside london so its tricky to arrange a meetup, but i wanna bone this one hard.
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May 17th Daygame
Went out solo midday to hand out some CVs to see if i could land a summer job, and decided to pick up some hotties in the meantime :)
Today i had some of the longest interactions i've had since getting into this shit - i noticed that i feel zero anxiety approaching TOTAL hotties, and getting numbers is not as thrilling as it used to be when i fist started going out. I hit on around 8-10 chicks today, feels good mang
After an intial harsh blowout i saw an even sexier chick - bootiful ass!! In tight purple jeans and high heels, moroccan, very friendly and hawt. She was off for a job interview, i was just bustin jokes the whole time while we walked - she was cool and smart. Just as we reached the shop she's ready to give me a nice to meet you, i say "wait, number!" and she says she can't - i knew she didn't have a BF so she might be fuckin another guy or...i dunno. This got me a bit more pissed than usual cause i actually invested a lot of time in her.
Saw an Estonian in a shop with a friend - one of the hottest girls i've ever approached, she had sexy colourful floral leggings on, and was a beauty. She told me it was her last day here and that she's got a BF, i hi5 her and bounce.
Approach a cute brunette Swede - her friend comes later, the Swede tells me she has a BF before i can get the number, i switch to her friend and she says she's married. I say "that's crazy" and leave lol
I talk to a few more gals - a cutie called Maria with glasses. I say "you're..my...twin!" she gives me deep eye contact, keeps looking at my lips so i know she's horny; i can tell she's analytical and has a no bullshit vibe about her so i tell her this, turns out she's a lawyer in training or something. She's gotta fiance - i tell her to dump him, she laughs and then leaves a few minutes after, i try to claw her back but no luck.
After another blowout some security dude outside a shop gives me props on the hottie i was talking to, i walk away and in 5 seconds see another hottie. Approach! I tell her she's gorgeous. We walk and talk to the shop she's workin at, she's a bubbly girl who likes to talk - i take her number and say that we should be friends in real life.
Approach a tall model chick in high heels. Blowout after i talk shit for a couple of minutes. See a small hot chinese chick with a cool fashion sense. BAM! I'm in, talk talk talk, take the number - a funny thing that happened was that she had her iphone out - i say she's probably listening to Kanye West. She is. Niggas in paris ;)