THE FORUMS
Standard night out.
Hit on a hottie by the train station. Boyfriend. I keep talking anyway, she's a smart chick, interesting too so i can take her number.
I'm feeling good in the club; hit on anything hot as usual. Fuck me...nearly every chick here has a boyfriend.
I talk to another hottie, 6'2 in heels. Good look. She's gotta boyfriend too...durr.
It was a decent night, a tad too social - i wanna escalate hard on the hotties tonight. It's jubilee weekend, so London streets should be packed.
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2/6/12
Saturday night - me and Chris are kickin it tonight. I'm walking outta the station and see a tasty hottie all dressed in red = SEX. I recognise the face as that model chick who i've seen like 3 times, she quickly rushed off before i could talk to her. AGAIN - dunno if she knew it was me lol anyway, see an even taller, 6'2 hottie strutting along. Definite model, dudes are eyeballing, i approach. Boyfriend!! I take her number for social circle.
Head into the club, and we get crackin with a 1st set. I'm talking to a pretty blonde; it felt kinda awkward - didn't have a weird feeling in my stomach of anything, its just that she seemed distracted. I'm wondering what's best for me at the beginning of the night; some casual convo with hotties or laying it on them hard to feel awake early in the night? Probably the former. Chris seems on form while in the smoking area; he's shooting the shit with everyone, and has a Helen bonham carter lookalike on his jock. I take note of my inaction these days when winging - i chode around too much, "staying present" when i have to start taking initiative and opening more sets on my own accord.
Back inside the club.............i get molested by a chubby and her friend with strange contact lenses - like a true rape victim i just accept it, until she tries kissing my lips and i give her the cheek lulz
I hit on more chicas; the way i do it is - i grab their arm, automatically wiggle my finger at them to come over, if they comply then we shoot the shit for a while. I'm gonna start actively implenting the claw around the neck - i had a girl get torn away from me from two dude friends cause it didn't look ON. It didn't feel ON even. I like getting physical.
Chris goes off with a chick, i get bored of choding around. I see two hot eastern european chicks - muscle in and double claw. They're loving me. They start double teaming me, i alternate between the two. They've gotta no kissing policy - anytime i get close to the lips they look at one another and make sure it doesn't happen. They're dirty dancers too, and like grinding their asses in my dick. I see them later on and....should've went for the afterparty and pull. durr.
Get some more blowouts or whatever and the night comes to a close.
P.S - I think i gotta man up in sets, like stop getting validating when a super hottie speaks to me for a bit, but have my intent locked on for a possible pull or just remember to escalate.
P.P.S - There's an ASAP rocky after party on this tuesday at where my bro hosts, so i'm seeing if i can bring down some of the hotties w/boyfriends who i've bumped into the last week. Hot chicks usually have hot friends anyway.
Saturday night - me and Chris are kickin it tonight. I'm walking outta the station and see a tasty hottie all dressed in red = SEX. I recognise the face as that model chick who i've seen like 3 times, she quickly rushed off before i could talk to her. AGAIN - dunno if she knew it was me lol anyway, see an even taller, 6'2 hottie strutting along. Definite model, dudes are eyeballing, i approach. Boyfriend!! I take her number for social circle.
Head into the club, and we get crackin with a 1st set. I'm talking to a pretty blonde; it felt kinda awkward - didn't have a weird feeling in my stomach of anything, its just that she seemed distracted. I'm wondering what's best for me at the beginning of the night; some casual convo with hotties or laying it on them hard to feel awake early in the night? Probably the former. Chris seems on form while in the smoking area; he's shooting the shit with everyone, and has a Helen bonham carter lookalike on his jock. I take note of my inaction these days when winging - i chode around too much, "staying present" when i have to start taking initiative and opening more sets on my own accord.
Back inside the club.............i get molested by a chubby and her friend with strange contact lenses - like a true rape victim i just accept it, until she tries kissing my lips and i give her the cheek lulz
I hit on more chicas; the way i do it is - i grab their arm, automatically wiggle my finger at them to come over, if they comply then we shoot the shit for a while. I'm gonna start actively implenting the claw around the neck - i had a girl get torn away from me from two dude friends cause it didn't look ON. It didn't feel ON even. I like getting physical.
Chris goes off with a chick, i get bored of choding around. I see two hot eastern european chicks - muscle in and double claw. They're loving me. They start double teaming me, i alternate between the two. They've gotta no kissing policy - anytime i get close to the lips they look at one another and make sure it doesn't happen. They're dirty dancers too, and like grinding their asses in my dick. I see them later on and....should've went for the afterparty and pull. durr.
Get some more blowouts or whatever and the night comes to a close.
P.S - I think i gotta man up in sets, like stop getting validating when a super hottie speaks to me for a bit, but have my intent locked on for a possible pull or just remember to escalate.
P.P.S - There's an ASAP rocky after party on this tuesday at where my bro hosts, so i'm seeing if i can bring down some of the hotties w/boyfriends who i've bumped into the last week. Hot chicks usually have hot friends anyway.
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A$AP ROCKY AFTER PARTY
My bro managed to get rapper, A$AP down to a club last night - major hip hop night, more black people than i've seen in a while but shit...it was incred.
I was partyin in the VIP half of the night, it was rammed. All of the groupies were throwin themselves at mr.music man and fawning for his attention. My girls flopped and couldn't come tonight, but probably on another night - just found out that the redhead is a stunning model and the other could probably pass for one anyway. Good for social circle grooming, and they're around my age.
My older sis and bro were here in the same venue so it felt weird doing any "hit hit hit" shit. That shit is kinda weird in general when i think about it - i think i'm learning that it's better to just go in, engage the whole group with something positive, then lock into your girl. Less likelihood of looking like a creeper and getting resistance from everyone.
I was just making funny situational comments to any chicks tryna get a pic of the star - i pretended i was part of his crew at one point, and harassed some sexy 6'1 chick. Her friend tried dragging her away, but i got her number on the down low. Bitch doesn't remember me now, but ill try salvage that over text.
Also.....fuck going in 'friendly' and dickless at the start or any period of the night. Just be a fuckin pimp and be a bit challenging for the girls you speak to. I was giving girls shit all night - good reactions just because i didn't give a fuck, and gave up on the idea of looking to get laid but preferred just buggin out and having fun while letting girls know i'm a boss. It's playground shit - tease tease tease, lay it over with some RSD fundamentals and you're good to go. Another thing is i felt a lot more authentic last night - my accent was more ghetto lol i was dropping more colloquialisms than usual, and it felt more natural - less tryhard or mature. More pimp. Like...how would A$AP approach a chick?? He would be real to the fuckin bone...harlem's where he's reppin after all ;)
My bro managed to get rapper, A$AP down to a club last night - major hip hop night, more black people than i've seen in a while but shit...it was incred.
I was partyin in the VIP half of the night, it was rammed. All of the groupies were throwin themselves at mr.music man and fawning for his attention. My girls flopped and couldn't come tonight, but probably on another night - just found out that the redhead is a stunning model and the other could probably pass for one anyway. Good for social circle grooming, and they're around my age.
My older sis and bro were here in the same venue so it felt weird doing any "hit hit hit" shit. That shit is kinda weird in general when i think about it - i think i'm learning that it's better to just go in, engage the whole group with something positive, then lock into your girl. Less likelihood of looking like a creeper and getting resistance from everyone.
I was just making funny situational comments to any chicks tryna get a pic of the star - i pretended i was part of his crew at one point, and harassed some sexy 6'1 chick. Her friend tried dragging her away, but i got her number on the down low. Bitch doesn't remember me now, but ill try salvage that over text.
Also.....fuck going in 'friendly' and dickless at the start or any period of the night. Just be a fuckin pimp and be a bit challenging for the girls you speak to. I was giving girls shit all night - good reactions just because i didn't give a fuck, and gave up on the idea of looking to get laid but preferred just buggin out and having fun while letting girls know i'm a boss. It's playground shit - tease tease tease, lay it over with some RSD fundamentals and you're good to go. Another thing is i felt a lot more authentic last night - my accent was more ghetto lol i was dropping more colloquialisms than usual, and it felt more natural - less tryhard or mature. More pimp. Like...how would A$AP approach a chick?? He would be real to the fuckin bone...harlem's where he's reppin after all ;)
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Friday
It was raining, so not many people turned up at the venue. Me and Chris made the best of it - he was laid back most of the night, not realy approaching but we all have those nights so meh..
I went in on a couple of girls - one cutie with tight jeans and an apple bottom ass got clawed by me, picked her up and pressed her against the wall. She seemed pretty serious about her BF, so i let her go cause my persuasion skills couldn't break this one.
I'm approaching the uglies and mediocre chicas tonight cause there's nothing much to play around with - see a SMOKING hawt 5'11 model in heels. I grip her up and talk; she feels like heaven in my arms. Probably a 10 this one. I reopen her again after she goes to get her friend a drink or wateva, but she says some shit about not having a phone...yh right lol I send Chris in to wing the friend while i would steal my girl back from the promoter dude occupying her. But shit...its like i'm struck by thunder and can't approach her all of a sudden. I'm waiting for an IOI like a sally and don't do shit for 10 mins while Chris is talking to the grenade. I lose her...I think i could've done with polarising her A LOT more, like that love/hate drama Julien is big about - i was too weak and 'dancing monkey' talking to her.
Note to self: Remember Alex's words, "someone's got to do it", pickup is messy, and i'm the man prepared to do this messy job cause i love it.
Saturday
Long time no see - Tin is back in the mix from his vacation abroad.
Our usual spot is crammed tonight, unfortunately there's not many hotties, and the only real hotties are trapped in the VIP area by bottle hoarding chodes.
I do some approaches intermittenly - nothing is really clicking. I should've done social momentum, but everyone looks so bitchy tonight so i had that limiting belief to deal with.
Tin leaves early, toward the later hours of the night i restart approaching. Talk to a blonde hottie in the VIP area. We're holding hands for ages (gay lol) i want her number but she tells me about her kid and BF.
Immediately stop another blonde hottie walking by. Irish. 20 years old. We dance for a bit; i slowed this interaction down and wasn't as aggressive as i would usually be. The difference is pretty noticable - relaxed arousal and all that. Although i feel i start scrambling once i realise she's attracted; she's squeezing my hand and feeling more comfortable, and at this point i start losing her by not knowing what to do next. Leading would've been best...she goes back to her table, i follow her and get the number not knowing whether it is real or not while the douchebags at her table try to peel me away.
P.S - Taking pauses and being calm in set is vital. Everything i do should come from a chill bassline; it makes the girl much more relaxed.
"Hi i'm Andre" isn't such a bad opener, it saves me the hassle of thinking of something funny to say.
EDIT:
- Renew 'social momentum' i'm slacking from this, time to get excited about meeting people. Anybody. 30 second intervals until i'm in flow state. Just do it, seriously...
- Drama, drama drama; practice giving this fairytale romance Julien is banging on about. It sounds appealing, and we've all done it on some level, it's just except Julien has insane game and practice with it lol
- Dirty talk...I remember Brad saying that the quickest way to feel 'on' with a chick when sober is more 'sexy' verbals. I rarely do that, gotta implement this.
- Laser eye contact - i didn't notice until recently but my EC's getting weaker these days; the best way to know its strong is when you're doing the anime eyes just to give her the okay to do the same back to u
It was raining, so not many people turned up at the venue. Me and Chris made the best of it - he was laid back most of the night, not realy approaching but we all have those nights so meh..
I went in on a couple of girls - one cutie with tight jeans and an apple bottom ass got clawed by me, picked her up and pressed her against the wall. She seemed pretty serious about her BF, so i let her go cause my persuasion skills couldn't break this one.
I'm approaching the uglies and mediocre chicas tonight cause there's nothing much to play around with - see a SMOKING hawt 5'11 model in heels. I grip her up and talk; she feels like heaven in my arms. Probably a 10 this one. I reopen her again after she goes to get her friend a drink or wateva, but she says some shit about not having a phone...yh right lol I send Chris in to wing the friend while i would steal my girl back from the promoter dude occupying her. But shit...its like i'm struck by thunder and can't approach her all of a sudden. I'm waiting for an IOI like a sally and don't do shit for 10 mins while Chris is talking to the grenade. I lose her...I think i could've done with polarising her A LOT more, like that love/hate drama Julien is big about - i was too weak and 'dancing monkey' talking to her.
Note to self: Remember Alex's words, "someone's got to do it", pickup is messy, and i'm the man prepared to do this messy job cause i love it.
Saturday
Long time no see - Tin is back in the mix from his vacation abroad.
Our usual spot is crammed tonight, unfortunately there's not many hotties, and the only real hotties are trapped in the VIP area by bottle hoarding chodes.
I do some approaches intermittenly - nothing is really clicking. I should've done social momentum, but everyone looks so bitchy tonight so i had that limiting belief to deal with.
Tin leaves early, toward the later hours of the night i restart approaching. Talk to a blonde hottie in the VIP area. We're holding hands for ages (gay lol) i want her number but she tells me about her kid and BF.
Immediately stop another blonde hottie walking by. Irish. 20 years old. We dance for a bit; i slowed this interaction down and wasn't as aggressive as i would usually be. The difference is pretty noticable - relaxed arousal and all that. Although i feel i start scrambling once i realise she's attracted; she's squeezing my hand and feeling more comfortable, and at this point i start losing her by not knowing what to do next. Leading would've been best...she goes back to her table, i follow her and get the number not knowing whether it is real or not while the douchebags at her table try to peel me away.
P.S - Taking pauses and being calm in set is vital. Everything i do should come from a chill bassline; it makes the girl much more relaxed.
"Hi i'm Andre" isn't such a bad opener, it saves me the hassle of thinking of something funny to say.
EDIT:
- Renew 'social momentum' i'm slacking from this, time to get excited about meeting people. Anybody. 30 second intervals until i'm in flow state. Just do it, seriously...
- Drama, drama drama; practice giving this fairytale romance Julien is banging on about. It sounds appealing, and we've all done it on some level, it's just except Julien has insane game and practice with it lol
- Dirty talk...I remember Brad saying that the quickest way to feel 'on' with a chick when sober is more 'sexy' verbals. I rarely do that, gotta implement this.
- Laser eye contact - i didn't notice until recently but my EC's getting weaker these days; the best way to know its strong is when you're doing the anime eyes just to give her the okay to do the same back to u
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Day 2 (?) with French Girl
After two weeks of playful texting i finally meet up with the french girl from daygame 2 weeks ago. She's with a friend, and from how i hear it she doesn't travel alone with guys in London without a friend. I'm here to change that.
I'm walking to the London eye pier to track 'em down - randomly see them on the staircase and drink up the image of my girl while hugging her - tits, ass, sexy face; the works. A solid 8.5 and a cute, quiet demeanour about her. Her friend is the type who talks a lot, knows what she wants and is bossy. She laughs when she hears i'm 18, cause they're both 22 but i hold my frame and don't become subdued or anything.
We're taking pics the whole time while walking the bridge - just letting them see my playful, fun side as much as possible. Although i didn't want to be that entertainer fag like i was with the chinese girl a few backs - she didn't turn me on in the slightest, and the feeling was mutual, i.e. law of state transferance muthafukka.
We go to the park - shoot the shit, more pics. Her friend loves black guys, and asks me if i have older friends i can introduce her to. I tell her maybe...my girl is quiet at this point; i've been doing some light touching during this time, nothing too overt but i'm giving her solid eye contact whenever i can. We get something from a cafe and chill - i have them in stitches once they tell me the story about some nigerian chode who's besotted by the french chick - total chode with zero game. I read out his texts aloud, full drama queen mode and have them eating out of my hand. Fun vibe established.
I wanted to take her home with me, but after hearing her and her friends repeatedly talk about dudes with agendas and all of that i thought she would be on her guard - i should've whispered it into her ear and established some sexuality between us. Bubble of love style. I tried seeding the 'scary movie' but i wasn't explicit enough. meh.
We get her train ticket, the friend leaves for a job interview. I'm walking with my girl - 15 mins on the clock to burn. Fuck, i should've done some Manwhore shit and turned up the physicality at this point; it would've given me a reason to at least go for the kiss. "heyy it just happened, right?" Instead i'm maintaining the EC, walk to the station, just talking. We hug and double kiss on the cheek. Urggh, i squeeze her hand before she leaves and comtemplate squeezing one out when i get home lol
Lessons - Be more sexually overt, "god, you look so sexy in my arms. I could just eat you"
- Seed going to my house early on, "if you want we went go mine - i've got a guitar so you can hear some of my hits"
She's leaving next month and coming back in July, so i need to lock her down for the cock pretty soon. I like this one though - a really friendly chick; that has its downsides as well, cause it's hard to find it in yourself to want to molest the friendlies, but "someone's got to do it, eh".
After two weeks of playful texting i finally meet up with the french girl from daygame 2 weeks ago. She's with a friend, and from how i hear it she doesn't travel alone with guys in London without a friend. I'm here to change that.
I'm walking to the London eye pier to track 'em down - randomly see them on the staircase and drink up the image of my girl while hugging her - tits, ass, sexy face; the works. A solid 8.5 and a cute, quiet demeanour about her. Her friend is the type who talks a lot, knows what she wants and is bossy. She laughs when she hears i'm 18, cause they're both 22 but i hold my frame and don't become subdued or anything.
We're taking pics the whole time while walking the bridge - just letting them see my playful, fun side as much as possible. Although i didn't want to be that entertainer fag like i was with the chinese girl a few backs - she didn't turn me on in the slightest, and the feeling was mutual, i.e. law of state transferance muthafukka.
We go to the park - shoot the shit, more pics. Her friend loves black guys, and asks me if i have older friends i can introduce her to. I tell her maybe...my girl is quiet at this point; i've been doing some light touching during this time, nothing too overt but i'm giving her solid eye contact whenever i can. We get something from a cafe and chill - i have them in stitches once they tell me the story about some nigerian chode who's besotted by the french chick - total chode with zero game. I read out his texts aloud, full drama queen mode and have them eating out of my hand. Fun vibe established.
I wanted to take her home with me, but after hearing her and her friends repeatedly talk about dudes with agendas and all of that i thought she would be on her guard - i should've whispered it into her ear and established some sexuality between us. Bubble of love style. I tried seeding the 'scary movie' but i wasn't explicit enough. meh.
We get her train ticket, the friend leaves for a job interview. I'm walking with my girl - 15 mins on the clock to burn. Fuck, i should've done some Manwhore shit and turned up the physicality at this point; it would've given me a reason to at least go for the kiss. "heyy it just happened, right?" Instead i'm maintaining the EC, walk to the station, just talking. We hug and double kiss on the cheek. Urggh, i squeeze her hand before she leaves and comtemplate squeezing one out when i get home lol
Lessons - Be more sexually overt, "god, you look so sexy in my arms. I could just eat you"
- Seed going to my house early on, "if you want we went go mine - i've got a guitar so you can hear some of my hits"
She's leaving next month and coming back in July, so i need to lock her down for the cock pretty soon. I like this one though - a really friendly chick; that has its downsides as well, cause it's hard to find it in yourself to want to molest the friendlies, but "someone's got to do it, eh".
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Thursday
Not the best of nights; went to a new venue, it's a bit on the small side, had a decent amount of hotties. I started the night dancing like a mad man, and got a bit too carried away with it for most of the night; chicks don't take you seriously enough when you're the dancing monkey, although it is super fun for a while.
I did some approaches here and there - could've approached harder initially with some girls, like Jeffy says you gotta punch thru the wall and let her experience you from the start. With the few sexy girls i did speak to i didn't achieve the man to woman frame or any of the goals posted in the above post.
Friday
Big turn around from the night before; this a great venue, except it's always outweighed by old people to hotties, yet there's always about 10-15 hotties you can mack on anyway if you look hard enough.
I'm having longer sets tonight, gunning after the sexy chicks in the venue. Calmer and stronger eye contact. At one point i'm all over a hottie, she's a flirt and is rubbing up her ass against my dick so i practice going more raw with my dirty talk, "are you loud in bed? Will you wake up the neighbours and get me evicted from my house?" Then i start spanking her ass. Should've reopened her later, dragged her for a wallslam makeout or something, she wasn't havin it earlier when i tried kissing her.
I briefly makeout with a cute chubby chick tonight - i like her size, it really turns me on tonight, but then again most of the chicks did anyway. She tells me she exclusively gets hit on by black guys. I should've forced the toilet pull at some stage.
LOL i'm hitting on one girl with sexy leather pants, and i think she farts like a skunk while i'm talking to her. I diss her then back off from dat.
Lessons??
- I could probably do with throwing in more curve ball questions, fucking with chicks more emotionally and always remember to get them reacting.
- Julien's 'fantasy' roleplay works well kinda mid set, like after a few minutes of sexual tension, it's not too good right off the bat.
- I HAVE TO LEAD MORE (build up a 'yes' ladder and all that)
- Screening for logistics (from one set to the other, just calculate who's the best to try and pull)
Not the best of nights; went to a new venue, it's a bit on the small side, had a decent amount of hotties. I started the night dancing like a mad man, and got a bit too carried away with it for most of the night; chicks don't take you seriously enough when you're the dancing monkey, although it is super fun for a while.
I did some approaches here and there - could've approached harder initially with some girls, like Jeffy says you gotta punch thru the wall and let her experience you from the start. With the few sexy girls i did speak to i didn't achieve the man to woman frame or any of the goals posted in the above post.
Friday
Big turn around from the night before; this a great venue, except it's always outweighed by old people to hotties, yet there's always about 10-15 hotties you can mack on anyway if you look hard enough.
I'm having longer sets tonight, gunning after the sexy chicks in the venue. Calmer and stronger eye contact. At one point i'm all over a hottie, she's a flirt and is rubbing up her ass against my dick so i practice going more raw with my dirty talk, "are you loud in bed? Will you wake up the neighbours and get me evicted from my house?" Then i start spanking her ass. Should've reopened her later, dragged her for a wallslam makeout or something, she wasn't havin it earlier when i tried kissing her.
I briefly makeout with a cute chubby chick tonight - i like her size, it really turns me on tonight, but then again most of the chicks did anyway. She tells me she exclusively gets hit on by black guys. I should've forced the toilet pull at some stage.
LOL i'm hitting on one girl with sexy leather pants, and i think she farts like a skunk while i'm talking to her. I diss her then back off from dat.
Lessons??
- I could probably do with throwing in more curve ball questions, fucking with chicks more emotionally and always remember to get them reacting.
- Julien's 'fantasy' roleplay works well kinda mid set, like after a few minutes of sexual tension, it's not too good right off the bat.
- I HAVE TO LEAD MORE (build up a 'yes' ladder and all that)
- Screening for logistics (from one set to the other, just calculate who's the best to try and pull)
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June 16th
Damn. This was a long night to recall; it was me, chris, tin and a new wing. New guy is cool and experienced, gets involved with any girls immediately and is a Julien alumni.
I'm floundering a bit at the beginning of the night; approaching girls here and there, a call out a hottie on having the same name as my mum, "shit, this conversation just got freaky, i can't talk to you now" (i should've said, "i can't imagine screaming your name out while having sex...creepy" just so i could've been even more authentic, polarizing and aligned with my intent). She's a flirt, probably has a weird rule about not doing anything with a guy tonight; i feel her up a couple times then find other chicks.
Hit hit hit - i'm learning more about chris' style of game which is looking more and more appealing to me; he isn't dancing up and down like a dancing monkey trying to win over the chick with a false smile on his face and shit. He's centered, calm, seductive and physical when he needs to be. Nothing flash, just emanating "you are enough" with some of the girls he's making out with tonight. This realization sinks in later on in the night for me when i stop being so gimmicky in set, but slow my words down, focus on my breathing, holding fierce EC with supreme hotties, and have this low octave tonality which always works well for seduction. Like, i always see the law of state transference in work when my voice goes super deep and seductive.
I see some hot black chicks ascending the staircase, one of them naturally comes to me, says she needs a hug. We makeout. She says her girlfriend is behind her. I apologize, and tell her to come join me. Then makeout with the both of them. We're up in the smoking area, i decide i don't want to pull and wanna beast some more. Good, bad? Probably the latter, i'm in homeostasis with the notion of pulling at the moment. Gotta force the mindset.
Another sexy chick is posted up on the couch on the dancefloor, i relax and talk to her. Cool chick - boyfriend, i take her info for networking purposes.
A sexy 8.5/9 in a yellow dress in the VIP. We're staring each other down for like ten minutes, mirroring each others' dance moves next to the VIP area. Eventually i write "i want you" on my iphone notepad, show it to her, she laughs at my ingenuity. I take her number.
A girl from like a month ago, this stunning 17 yr old iranian chick is here again. I fucked up over text, grab her while she's by herself and apologise for being weird lol she's kissing me all over, i want her lips but she says she's gotta go the toilet. Should've pulled her in once her saw again before she got into the VIP.
Me and Chris walk these two chicks from the smoking area to their bus stop, contemplating a pull then realise how stupid it would be cause we don't have our jackets! My one says she gets told she looks like shakira when she has her curled. A hot portuguese chick, a let her go.
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All in all, it was one of my better nights in a quite a while. It's taught me to be less high energy, and let the law of state transference take over while i'm in set.
Damn. This was a long night to recall; it was me, chris, tin and a new wing. New guy is cool and experienced, gets involved with any girls immediately and is a Julien alumni.
I'm floundering a bit at the beginning of the night; approaching girls here and there, a call out a hottie on having the same name as my mum, "shit, this conversation just got freaky, i can't talk to you now" (i should've said, "i can't imagine screaming your name out while having sex...creepy" just so i could've been even more authentic, polarizing and aligned with my intent). She's a flirt, probably has a weird rule about not doing anything with a guy tonight; i feel her up a couple times then find other chicks.
Hit hit hit - i'm learning more about chris' style of game which is looking more and more appealing to me; he isn't dancing up and down like a dancing monkey trying to win over the chick with a false smile on his face and shit. He's centered, calm, seductive and physical when he needs to be. Nothing flash, just emanating "you are enough" with some of the girls he's making out with tonight. This realization sinks in later on in the night for me when i stop being so gimmicky in set, but slow my words down, focus on my breathing, holding fierce EC with supreme hotties, and have this low octave tonality which always works well for seduction. Like, i always see the law of state transference in work when my voice goes super deep and seductive.
I see some hot black chicks ascending the staircase, one of them naturally comes to me, says she needs a hug. We makeout. She says her girlfriend is behind her. I apologize, and tell her to come join me. Then makeout with the both of them. We're up in the smoking area, i decide i don't want to pull and wanna beast some more. Good, bad? Probably the latter, i'm in homeostasis with the notion of pulling at the moment. Gotta force the mindset.
Another sexy chick is posted up on the couch on the dancefloor, i relax and talk to her. Cool chick - boyfriend, i take her info for networking purposes.
A sexy 8.5/9 in a yellow dress in the VIP. We're staring each other down for like ten minutes, mirroring each others' dance moves next to the VIP area. Eventually i write "i want you" on my iphone notepad, show it to her, she laughs at my ingenuity. I take her number.
A girl from like a month ago, this stunning 17 yr old iranian chick is here again. I fucked up over text, grab her while she's by herself and apologise for being weird lol she's kissing me all over, i want her lips but she says she's gotta go the toilet. Should've pulled her in once her saw again before she got into the VIP.
Me and Chris walk these two chicks from the smoking area to their bus stop, contemplating a pull then realise how stupid it would be cause we don't have our jackets! My one says she gets told she looks like shakira when she has her curled. A hot portuguese chick, a let her go.
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All in all, it was one of my better nights in a quite a while. It's taught me to be less high energy, and let the law of state transference take over while i'm in set.
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Monday
A rough monday night. Started off pretty well, just me and Chris and his mate. We got here early so we could get free entry. It was cool we just cracked jokes.
Some girls come later, sit at a table near us. Me and the guys are talkin about an anti-masturbation pact, like for 4-5 months. We ask the girls what the punishment should be for breaking it - they say a piercing everytime we choke the chicken. Agreed...(but for how long will we last?) one of them is pretty hot actually, a blackanese medic student. They've been pre-drinking, they're all over me and chris 20 mins later. My one wants cock, sits next to me and is all about me. I should've excused the both of us for some one on one time...but wasted time and let her go to the toilet. I must take action at times like this; when a chick gives you half an inch, ESCALATE like a muthafucka.
Build up some solid momentum in the first half of the night, then our energy is spent later on kinda. A lot of hotties, i take some blowouts, grind with some hotties but i'm not 'on'.
The smoking area is a really legit place to speak to chicks actually, a lot more of the 'real world' there to communicate with them.
SO, LESSONS....
- Be more self amusing when opening. Don't see every set as a mission, when you notice that you've lost the euphoria for going out it just means you need to switch styles for a while and pump your state with something new like Tyler say's in his latest paridgm video. Instead of trying to look cool or too alpha, ill experiment with dumb stuff like "peekaboo" as an opener, or writing romantic shit on my iphone notes.
- More chill, operate slower; i'm still lovin Chris' calm demeanour in set. Apparently Tyler says that what you admire is what you should learn to emulate in game.
- I'm not going hard enough; i must challenge myself more. Like tricky sets, mixed sets. Those are the type where social awareness is needed more, like when Julien pulled that shit off in the hotseat he would immediately calibrate, "sorry i'm such an asshole", then still dictate his reality on her
A rough monday night. Started off pretty well, just me and Chris and his mate. We got here early so we could get free entry. It was cool we just cracked jokes.
Some girls come later, sit at a table near us. Me and the guys are talkin about an anti-masturbation pact, like for 4-5 months. We ask the girls what the punishment should be for breaking it - they say a piercing everytime we choke the chicken. Agreed...(but for how long will we last?) one of them is pretty hot actually, a blackanese medic student. They've been pre-drinking, they're all over me and chris 20 mins later. My one wants cock, sits next to me and is all about me. I should've excused the both of us for some one on one time...but wasted time and let her go to the toilet. I must take action at times like this; when a chick gives you half an inch, ESCALATE like a muthafucka.
Build up some solid momentum in the first half of the night, then our energy is spent later on kinda. A lot of hotties, i take some blowouts, grind with some hotties but i'm not 'on'.
The smoking area is a really legit place to speak to chicks actually, a lot more of the 'real world' there to communicate with them.
SO, LESSONS....
- Be more self amusing when opening. Don't see every set as a mission, when you notice that you've lost the euphoria for going out it just means you need to switch styles for a while and pump your state with something new like Tyler say's in his latest paridgm video. Instead of trying to look cool or too alpha, ill experiment with dumb stuff like "peekaboo" as an opener, or writing romantic shit on my iphone notes.
- More chill, operate slower; i'm still lovin Chris' calm demeanour in set. Apparently Tyler says that what you admire is what you should learn to emulate in game.
- I'm not going hard enough; i must challenge myself more. Like tricky sets, mixed sets. Those are the type where social awareness is needed more, like when Julien pulled that shit off in the hotseat he would immediately calibrate, "sorry i'm such an asshole", then still dictate his reality on her
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Did one daygame approach straight after i was done at the barber's - saw her walking past in a tracksuit lookin fine as hell and tanned. Instinctively i speak to this hottie, she's off to her friend's then to a spa. My numero uno mistake has to be following these girls when talking to them, i'm gonna stay centered and stand my ground when talking to them. I've gotta turn the random shit i say into something funny as well lol, i just abruptly said "i just came out of the barber's..." she was like "oh yeahhh" then i said, "and i noticed you"
shouldn't just been like "i just came out of the barber's...i'm lookin fine as a muthafukka" - that's kinda what the extreme self love brad always talks about. I wasn't nervous doing this approach, it felt perfectly natural even when i startled her, i just think staying grounded and striking some serious eye contact with her would've helped. She told me she had a BF when i wanted to take her number, perhaps it was bullshit perhaps it wasn't, but there's still areas i need to improve on regarding daygizzle.
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rej156
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Join Date: 03/14/2012 | Posts: 64
Haha props
Prom night tonight, might have to phone you after later if you're about. It's raining today + honestly most of our house parties suck so would rather go clubbing tbh
Plus I wanna meet more UCL chicks. ;)
Let's see if I can get in underage again with my passport, hell they'll let me off with a suit on.
Btw, setting the sexual frame is just pure self amusement + isolating
I say be more physical + lower proximity, lift hugs are awwsum
P.S. - Teach the frenchie English fml
How'd you change a user handle?
And I gotta try the Asian Mike 2 second thing from Tyler's latest video; GOLD