THE FORUMS
April 19th
Free tour was good, Ozzie's talk taught me that i don't challenge myself enough and that i shouldn't think i'm above fear technology. Julien's advice on minimalising flaking was good and reinforced what i thought about 'number closing', i.e. ONLY do it if you can't pull that night. She has to know you've got her number for a meet up. Set that frame, no friend to friend bullshit like i feel i've done in the past so often. Watching pringles steal my hired gun later showed me how he sets the man to woman frame in a heartbeat; he was blatantly seeding the sex date for another time. I need to start doing that.
Tonight wasn't too good though, didn't really feel like i was using my initiative when approaching girls - i fell into spectator mode most of the night. Spoke to a cute looking spanish 2 set, they were friendly, but this after midnight and i felt gay for doing 'social momentum' type shit this late into the night. Her friend left to sit with the other spanish friends, and i got awkward with the italian chick left with me. She gave me the "i'm tired" thing chicks say when they genuinely want to continue the interaction but are waiting for you to lead...i bomb and start saying some dumb shit, when leading, isolating and executing like a man was all that was needed. She gave in to peer pressure eventually and sat with her friends.
The rest of the night was uneventful. I hit up one fuckable blonde with glitter round her eye (think Kesha but hot), she gives me the BF line and says she just got off the phone from him, don't remember much of what i said but i continue escalating, she grinds her ass into my nuts so i know she wants it. I must've got too excited, gripping onto her hand and everything, so i lose her.
Virtually no hotties in this club, and the rest of London is dead on a thursday.
Oh well, there are no good nights or bad nights, just reference experiences and making sure you're having a sick time out...gotta make my 6 month post come May, lets hope i do something crazy before then :P
Free tour was good, Ozzie's talk taught me that i don't challenge myself enough and that i shouldn't think i'm above fear technology. Julien's advice on minimalising flaking was good and reinforced what i thought about 'number closing', i.e. ONLY do it if you can't pull that night. She has to know you've got her number for a meet up. Set that frame, no friend to friend bullshit like i feel i've done in the past so often. Watching pringles steal my hired gun later showed me how he sets the man to woman frame in a heartbeat; he was blatantly seeding the sex date for another time. I need to start doing that.
Tonight wasn't too good though, didn't really feel like i was using my initiative when approaching girls - i fell into spectator mode most of the night. Spoke to a cute looking spanish 2 set, they were friendly, but this after midnight and i felt gay for doing 'social momentum' type shit this late into the night. Her friend left to sit with the other spanish friends, and i got awkward with the italian chick left with me. She gave me the "i'm tired" thing chicks say when they genuinely want to continue the interaction but are waiting for you to lead...i bomb and start saying some dumb shit, when leading, isolating and executing like a man was all that was needed. She gave in to peer pressure eventually and sat with her friends.
The rest of the night was uneventful. I hit up one fuckable blonde with glitter round her eye (think Kesha but hot), she gives me the BF line and says she just got off the phone from him, don't remember much of what i said but i continue escalating, she grinds her ass into my nuts so i know she wants it. I must've got too excited, gripping onto her hand and everything, so i lose her.
Virtually no hotties in this club, and the rest of London is dead on a thursday.
Oh well, there are no good nights or bad nights, just reference experiences and making sure you're having a sick time out...gotta make my 6 month post come May, lets hope i do something crazy before then :P
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April 20th
I put a lot of focus on obnoxious positivity before heading out tonight, by honing the mindset that 'everything i do is awesome', i.e. body language, my smile, how i talk, etc.
As soon as i leave the tube, i'm listening to my music and before i know it i stop a sexy punk rocker chick with pink hair and tats who seems to be in rush. This shit was literally all instinct, but she couldn't stop to talk.
So I felt great while waiting for the boys outside Macdonalds, head in for a piss, waiting for it to be unoccupied and a cute young chick with baseball cap walks in rapping with her friends. I just feel awesome right now, deep breathing, calm smile, and just hold eye contact - it's like she was hypnotized or something so i hug her, tease her for a bit, realise she's too young (14-15 looking), hop out of the toilet and some boy is telling me take her number. She's convinced i know her, i tell her that ain't true lol
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Inside the club i'm just doing what i usually do; being loud, dancing stupidly and just relaxing really. I made a lot of approaches, guess ill put up the insightful ones.
# I'm in the smoking area watching pringles and Matt shooting the shit with 2 chicks, and eavesdrop on a guy and girl chatting. He awkwardly asks for her number, she rejects him "i gotta boyfriend...", he tries to make the situation less awkward by apologising for asking. Come on bro...? I butt in, tell him what i would have said in this situation, "fuck your boyfriend i'll kill him" and i proceed to go on a rant about how relationships are outdated and how girls want to fuck regardless. The dude is playing white knight here, funny thing is i think he was in his late thirties or something and he has this little black kid giving him life advice and shit. Haha the girl loves my confidence, a hot italian, tries to give me shit "why you interefering for?", i just ignore that shit and go in for a makeout. The dude gives me props and i bow out.
See her later with her 2 friends, she smiles and introduces me and repeats what i said to her friends. They crack up, and leave later assuming it's on between me and the italian. Shit...the girl's really cool, smart and laid back about shit. I generally don't like it when girls correct me on things or contradict me, don't know why but i've been trying to less this ego trip thing go lately so i just agree with her on shit. I don't lead enough, get a bit outcome dependent and go hit up some other chicks while she takes a smoke.
--- I tell several girls i'm going to molest them blah blah one girl really liked me initially, says "i know it sounds cliche but i've gotta boyfriend", i tell her we'll call him up now so you can dump him. She's got terrible overbite but nice boobz. I don't really care about this one.
I'm plowing mixed sets, reopening some girls, being physical and dragging them away and shit. This stuff causes no anxiety for me now, i love pushing boundaries and it feels like guys don't wanna mess with me cause i'm black or something ha
I'm taking rest, just sitting down, see a cute chick walk by, grab her in - she likes me, tells me to come VIP section and use this bottle buying chode for drinks. Cool. We head in with her friends, i get drunk and makeout with her and her average friend. We have fun and use aliases most of the night, my name is Josephine :) they get bored, i think the average chick wanted to screw me but i wasn't into it. They bounce (in hindsight i should've went in hard on the cutie and attempted another bathroom pull).
I enjoy my break from sobriety, and the night ends...
- I do have to work on my verbals a bit though, it's generally awesome when the girl's already opened up to me, but just to be more arousing i'll probably add some roleplaying, and mindfuck her with some curve ball questions. It really helps with the "i don't know what to say!!!" mindset.
- Fucking LEAD! Just do it, seriously...i'm not even going to say anything now, i'll just pull her along like a doggie.
I put a lot of focus on obnoxious positivity before heading out tonight, by honing the mindset that 'everything i do is awesome', i.e. body language, my smile, how i talk, etc.
As soon as i leave the tube, i'm listening to my music and before i know it i stop a sexy punk rocker chick with pink hair and tats who seems to be in rush. This shit was literally all instinct, but she couldn't stop to talk.
So I felt great while waiting for the boys outside Macdonalds, head in for a piss, waiting for it to be unoccupied and a cute young chick with baseball cap walks in rapping with her friends. I just feel awesome right now, deep breathing, calm smile, and just hold eye contact - it's like she was hypnotized or something so i hug her, tease her for a bit, realise she's too young (14-15 looking), hop out of the toilet and some boy is telling me take her number. She's convinced i know her, i tell her that ain't true lol
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Inside the club i'm just doing what i usually do; being loud, dancing stupidly and just relaxing really. I made a lot of approaches, guess ill put up the insightful ones.
# I'm in the smoking area watching pringles and Matt shooting the shit with 2 chicks, and eavesdrop on a guy and girl chatting. He awkwardly asks for her number, she rejects him "i gotta boyfriend...", he tries to make the situation less awkward by apologising for asking. Come on bro...? I butt in, tell him what i would have said in this situation, "fuck your boyfriend i'll kill him" and i proceed to go on a rant about how relationships are outdated and how girls want to fuck regardless. The dude is playing white knight here, funny thing is i think he was in his late thirties or something and he has this little black kid giving him life advice and shit. Haha the girl loves my confidence, a hot italian, tries to give me shit "why you interefering for?", i just ignore that shit and go in for a makeout. The dude gives me props and i bow out.
See her later with her 2 friends, she smiles and introduces me and repeats what i said to her friends. They crack up, and leave later assuming it's on between me and the italian. Shit...the girl's really cool, smart and laid back about shit. I generally don't like it when girls correct me on things or contradict me, don't know why but i've been trying to less this ego trip thing go lately so i just agree with her on shit. I don't lead enough, get a bit outcome dependent and go hit up some other chicks while she takes a smoke.
--- I tell several girls i'm going to molest them blah blah one girl really liked me initially, says "i know it sounds cliche but i've gotta boyfriend", i tell her we'll call him up now so you can dump him. She's got terrible overbite but nice boobz. I don't really care about this one.
I'm plowing mixed sets, reopening some girls, being physical and dragging them away and shit. This stuff causes no anxiety for me now, i love pushing boundaries and it feels like guys don't wanna mess with me cause i'm black or something ha
I'm taking rest, just sitting down, see a cute chick walk by, grab her in - she likes me, tells me to come VIP section and use this bottle buying chode for drinks. Cool. We head in with her friends, i get drunk and makeout with her and her average friend. We have fun and use aliases most of the night, my name is Josephine :) they get bored, i think the average chick wanted to screw me but i wasn't into it. They bounce (in hindsight i should've went in hard on the cutie and attempted another bathroom pull).
I enjoy my break from sobriety, and the night ends...
- I do have to work on my verbals a bit though, it's generally awesome when the girl's already opened up to me, but just to be more arousing i'll probably add some roleplaying, and mindfuck her with some curve ball questions. It really helps with the "i don't know what to say!!!" mindset.
- Fucking LEAD! Just do it, seriously...i'm not even going to say anything now, i'll just pull her along like a doggie.
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April 21
It was the Julien hotseat during the day, and i gotta say the RSD boys have really outdone themselves with an incredible and very cheap product. Taught me a lot. It mainly just gave me the confidence to know that i'm doing some of the right things, but not consistently enough...Once you watch Tyler's shit and Julien's you barely realise how hot the girls are because the stunners react exactly the same as the fatties, uglies, trolls etc...game is who are, not what you do. I took many notes during the Tyler and Julien hotseat, and anyone thinking of going to this event should do the same.
Hotseat Notes:
- My focus for the night is good emotions + feminine energy (any girl who wants to celebrate me is allowed to join my party)
- Clarity of thoughts, words, and actions (what is the design behind every interaction? I am just being social or do i want more. This gets me driven toward my goal for the night without red herrings)
- We watched 3 Tyler videos showing low intent, good intent, and full intent. It showed me the importance of the man to woman roles being established. She must know i am a sexual threat. Relaxing and basking in my awesomeness is vital. Focus on my centre of gravity and have the positive assumption it is ON at all times during the interaction (i.e. no leaning in, stand still and calmly)
- When dealing with 'haze' girls (ones which have been approached again, and again and again in their lifestyle) you have to step up immediately and cement yourself in her reality. Punch through the wall, tell her "you're an immature bitch with no social skills, no life, and no hope. Die", calibrate after. She'll be all ears.
Moving sets?
- Talk, talk, talk...be the street vendor trying to sell you shit and suck you into his reality. Use the 'machine gun mouth', this isn't a time to stand your ground expecting her to stop if she's in a hurry, and don't speak too slowly as well. Create a sense of urgency, and talk at my own pace until the 'machine gun mouth' clicks and what i say fits her blueprint, "wait wait, you're british...you're evil, don't be mean to me, i hate you, i like your shoes...we're talking, ONE SECOND!" Fuck your ego, say the most absurd shit to get her attention, "i'm imbred, i'm gay, i like dildoes at my ass, wanna see the videos?" deal with the consequences after...
- If she gives me no compliance, fuck her, i'm still the party, draw state from within and make the blowout funny "i won't give up hope!" let her experience me
- I'm only talking to her to pump my state. It's her choice whether she wants to share my awesomeness or not, i verbalise this "you can go if you want...i don't want to force you into anything...we'll hang out. Briefly"
Numbers?
- Most important thing you can do is establish the man to woman role. Make it crystal clear you are meeting up with her again - if you can't get her that night, THAT is the only reason you will take the number. Gauge her interest, "should i call you later tonight?" and give her something real to hang on assuming you're meeting up, "coffee tomorrow, i'm serious" you're not just the funny good emotion in the club. Be a real person. No pity numbers...don't leave after you number close
Daygame?
- The easiest shit ever...her RAS is on me, so i just work the same principles as always. Always draw state from within, nothing is difference except the sun is up.
Openers don't matter...be authentic and DON'T ACT DIFFERENTLY WITH ANY GIRL IN ANY SITUATION. Just because i may not be thinking of spitting game right now, it doesn't mean i should be complacent and drop all the principles because i'm in a different setting with a girl. Nothing changes, stick to the same damn principles.
Friends?
- False time constaint, downplay the threat of yourself, to avoid their bad influence on the girl after you leave just shoot some small talk
It's better to ask for forgiveness NOT permission. I have to be dictating the rhythm from the get go. Plow plow plow if necessary, don't wait for answers or answer questions if i don't feel like it. I will sculp the vibe to my liking.
- Be aware of social tension or awkwardness, i.e. Julien steals a girl from a group of friends, "i'm such an asshole. Sorry, you must wanna throw a drink on me right now", verbalise what is going...otherwise you're showing her a Japanese movie without subtitles
- Emotions over logic...Always. Fuck the temptation to go logical, keep that to a minimum. Fun is what matters.
- Persist for logistics. Find a solution. Be relentless, my reality is stronger. Try make it work somehow, anyhow. Lie lie lie, and beat her excuses. It's always good to overhype the venue change or "After party!"
It's all good writing this, but the infield footage, live commentary and step by step instruction is what counts
It was the Julien hotseat during the day, and i gotta say the RSD boys have really outdone themselves with an incredible and very cheap product. Taught me a lot. It mainly just gave me the confidence to know that i'm doing some of the right things, but not consistently enough...Once you watch Tyler's shit and Julien's you barely realise how hot the girls are because the stunners react exactly the same as the fatties, uglies, trolls etc...game is who are, not what you do. I took many notes during the Tyler and Julien hotseat, and anyone thinking of going to this event should do the same.
Hotseat Notes:
- My focus for the night is good emotions + feminine energy (any girl who wants to celebrate me is allowed to join my party)
- Clarity of thoughts, words, and actions (what is the design behind every interaction? I am just being social or do i want more. This gets me driven toward my goal for the night without red herrings)
- We watched 3 Tyler videos showing low intent, good intent, and full intent. It showed me the importance of the man to woman roles being established. She must know i am a sexual threat. Relaxing and basking in my awesomeness is vital. Focus on my centre of gravity and have the positive assumption it is ON at all times during the interaction (i.e. no leaning in, stand still and calmly)
- When dealing with 'haze' girls (ones which have been approached again, and again and again in their lifestyle) you have to step up immediately and cement yourself in her reality. Punch through the wall, tell her "you're an immature bitch with no social skills, no life, and no hope. Die", calibrate after. She'll be all ears.
Moving sets?
- Talk, talk, talk...be the street vendor trying to sell you shit and suck you into his reality. Use the 'machine gun mouth', this isn't a time to stand your ground expecting her to stop if she's in a hurry, and don't speak too slowly as well. Create a sense of urgency, and talk at my own pace until the 'machine gun mouth' clicks and what i say fits her blueprint, "wait wait, you're british...you're evil, don't be mean to me, i hate you, i like your shoes...we're talking, ONE SECOND!" Fuck your ego, say the most absurd shit to get her attention, "i'm imbred, i'm gay, i like dildoes at my ass, wanna see the videos?" deal with the consequences after...
- If she gives me no compliance, fuck her, i'm still the party, draw state from within and make the blowout funny "i won't give up hope!" let her experience me
- I'm only talking to her to pump my state. It's her choice whether she wants to share my awesomeness or not, i verbalise this "you can go if you want...i don't want to force you into anything...we'll hang out. Briefly"
Numbers?
- Most important thing you can do is establish the man to woman role. Make it crystal clear you are meeting up with her again - if you can't get her that night, THAT is the only reason you will take the number. Gauge her interest, "should i call you later tonight?" and give her something real to hang on assuming you're meeting up, "coffee tomorrow, i'm serious" you're not just the funny good emotion in the club. Be a real person. No pity numbers...don't leave after you number close
Daygame?
- The easiest shit ever...her RAS is on me, so i just work the same principles as always. Always draw state from within, nothing is difference except the sun is up.
Openers don't matter...be authentic and DON'T ACT DIFFERENTLY WITH ANY GIRL IN ANY SITUATION. Just because i may not be thinking of spitting game right now, it doesn't mean i should be complacent and drop all the principles because i'm in a different setting with a girl. Nothing changes, stick to the same damn principles.
Friends?
- False time constaint, downplay the threat of yourself, to avoid their bad influence on the girl after you leave just shoot some small talk
It's better to ask for forgiveness NOT permission. I have to be dictating the rhythm from the get go. Plow plow plow if necessary, don't wait for answers or answer questions if i don't feel like it. I will sculp the vibe to my liking.
- Be aware of social tension or awkwardness, i.e. Julien steals a girl from a group of friends, "i'm such an asshole. Sorry, you must wanna throw a drink on me right now", verbalise what is going...otherwise you're showing her a Japanese movie without subtitles
- Emotions over logic...Always. Fuck the temptation to go logical, keep that to a minimum. Fun is what matters.
- Persist for logistics. Find a solution. Be relentless, my reality is stronger. Try make it work somehow, anyhow. Lie lie lie, and beat her excuses. It's always good to overhype the venue change or "After party!"
It's all good writing this, but the infield footage, live commentary and step by step instruction is what counts
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April 21 nightout
I had information overload after the hotseat but was pumped at the same time. We head out with a fully strapped team: London crew, Julien, his assitants and students. Shit got crazy real fast, we was approaching chicks left right and centre. At one point i think three of us saw a sexy chick, and our arms all wrapped around her at once. Pretty hilarious.
I don't remember much interactions except the first one. I asked a girl why the hell she is wearing glasses, she's posing as me and looks like my twin! Her and her friend crack up. Her friend is hotter so i move on to her. She loves me, finds me funny and thinks i'm too handsome for her. She's a bit old, maybe early thirties but has a pretty Kazahstani face. She wants to walk, is basically gaming me, so i lead her around. Makeout. This happens on and off during the night, i just drag her away from chodes and even the RSD dudes when needed lol get her number, couldn't really happen tonight cause she's leaving the next day but i realised i should've persisted...if only i had the julien hotseat in my head that day.
I hit up chicks during the night just self amusing, it's actually an older crowd tonight without much hotties but i remember that it's all about feminine energy and building macro momentum anywayyy..
Interestingly, during the hotseat i pop out to use the gents. See the hot hotel worker, and just hit on her by instinct. She's into me, 'anime eyes' and all that shit Julien banged on about. Doesn't know her phone number but she gives me her email and facebook. A hot latvian indeed.
Mainly what i got from this hotseat was to be FEARLESS. Self trust is all you need. And say anything, i mean no fucking filter whatsoever. Pump your state on your accord, you're having the interaction to express yourself. During this journey you hammer down the principles and then your personality and style is funneled through the fundamentals. Julien and Tyler gave me the keys to the city that i knew i always had, but it's time to execute...
P.S - I've always rationalised that my logistics are fucked, Julien's was terrible in Switzerland and he still made it happen, so it's time to remove that blocker from my mind and just do it. No wonder why my results are lacking in terms of pulling haha
I had information overload after the hotseat but was pumped at the same time. We head out with a fully strapped team: London crew, Julien, his assitants and students. Shit got crazy real fast, we was approaching chicks left right and centre. At one point i think three of us saw a sexy chick, and our arms all wrapped around her at once. Pretty hilarious.
I don't remember much interactions except the first one. I asked a girl why the hell she is wearing glasses, she's posing as me and looks like my twin! Her and her friend crack up. Her friend is hotter so i move on to her. She loves me, finds me funny and thinks i'm too handsome for her. She's a bit old, maybe early thirties but has a pretty Kazahstani face. She wants to walk, is basically gaming me, so i lead her around. Makeout. This happens on and off during the night, i just drag her away from chodes and even the RSD dudes when needed lol get her number, couldn't really happen tonight cause she's leaving the next day but i realised i should've persisted...if only i had the julien hotseat in my head that day.
I hit up chicks during the night just self amusing, it's actually an older crowd tonight without much hotties but i remember that it's all about feminine energy and building macro momentum anywayyy..
Interestingly, during the hotseat i pop out to use the gents. See the hot hotel worker, and just hit on her by instinct. She's into me, 'anime eyes' and all that shit Julien banged on about. Doesn't know her phone number but she gives me her email and facebook. A hot latvian indeed.
Mainly what i got from this hotseat was to be FEARLESS. Self trust is all you need. And say anything, i mean no fucking filter whatsoever. Pump your state on your accord, you're having the interaction to express yourself. During this journey you hammer down the principles and then your personality and style is funneled through the fundamentals. Julien and Tyler gave me the keys to the city that i knew i always had, but it's time to execute...
P.S - I've always rationalised that my logistics are fucked, Julien's was terrible in Switzerland and he still made it happen, so it's time to remove that blocker from my mind and just do it. No wonder why my results are lacking in terms of pulling haha
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Glad I read your post, you hit up on some notes i didn't register on,
Also, logistics, "after party" take her to mcdonalds toilet, its always open, write down all the venues we go to and where you can pull to now, that way when we go out you wont have any doubts, so Mcdonalds toilet, a particular alley way, think about the garden on saturdays venue.
Saturday was so much fun.
Also, logistics, "after party" take her to mcdonalds toilet, its always open, write down all the venues we go to and where you can pull to now, that way when we go out you wont have any doubts, so Mcdonalds toilet, a particular alley way, think about the garden on saturdays venue.
Saturday was so much fun.
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Justin Bieber has really upped his game...fucking luv that kid
On a sidenote, after watching Tyler's new video i decided to text a few old numbers. Oxford grad chick replied to a "Fuck you" text immediately after a month of radio silence. Spoke to her on the phone for 10 minutes just to remind her how awesome i am - she's a bit busy flat shopping so no meet up as of right now. Gonna focus on text vibing her for a bit instead of gunning for the meetup every five seconds...
The hot latvian hotel worker at the hotseat is even sexier than i thought - got her on facebook now, sent her message with my number in it. Told her to text me if she wants coffee with a jaimaican. Might've been a bit too forward there, it's a big step on her behalf if she follows up on what i said..let's just wait and see.
God, this hotseat came at the right time...i can't stress enough how it highlights every sticking point i have, ill have to reference to Julien's tips anytime another problem slams me in the face. Adhering to the fundamentals is all that's needed. Ha at school i've just been polarizing chicks, saying whatever is on my mind and finally incorporating some blase sex talk. I've done this on and off in the past, but now i know how to fucking calibrate this bitch. There's only one girl who i'd really say i'd bang at the school tbh...let's see how that plays out, she was reacting to me more than ever before after the hotseat.
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Internet's been down for a few days, so i couldn't update my journal. Ah well, back to the hustle.
Thursday
Can't really remember much from this night to be honest - there was hardly any hot girls there but i remember a promoter chick flirting with me during the night. I got tired of her fake bullshit and moved on eventually. Saw a hottie with huge boobs, gave her a balloon and said she's special and i've been waiting to give it to her my whole life (laugh, laugh, laugh), her guy friend talks to me and i ain't feeling social enough to want to talk to him or the other friend. At this point i should've isolated with a false time constraint or some shit cause the hottie was kinda aroused by me.
This was mainly a social momentum night, it's really blurry for some reason.
Friday
good shit...me and Tin are back at the usual spot, chicks are hot and i'm hittin some up.
It goes well with this hot greek chick, she's really talkative - don't think i show much intent, her phone got stolen so i take the facebook.
I see a tall blonde hottie, claw her in, she's into me. We have a sexy dance, makeout, her friend comes by and i don't know why i don't re-engage but i just let her go off and she's shacked up with some new guy. I'm such a dumbass sometimes ha
Dance with a few more chicks, this night is kinda blurry to me but i think i kiss another chick that night. Before this i done some pre-gaming on the street, hit up two models "you two are tall, i'm adopting you both", immediately this gay male model friend comes. One of the girl's seems awkward so i switch to the other with bambi eyes. I tell her, her eyes are a weapon of mass destruction and that she must use them to get anything she wants out of her dad. She facebook quotes this. Try to get the number before her and her friends leave to Maddox (top floor ONLY has models...) but she's resistant and gay male model is dragging her away cause they gotta go.
April 28th
Wore a pimpin' fedora hat and i think i've developed a crutch for it. I got so much deference from people it was unbelievable. I realise why peacocking was such a favourite for pua's lol
Chicks were very receptive tonight - had some quick makeouts, opened sets wide open with a few hotties. Most of the time cuties were opening me cause of the hat and my hipster glasses. Some sexy ass indian chick in the VIP section is dancing on the couch shoving her vag in my face and shit, i do some amazing dance moves, everyone in my radius finds it cool. Get her number, she says "come back later" and kisses me. Later on i get too outcome dependent with her and fuck up, i forgot to draw state from within and be playful around her. I was a bit of dancing monkey around other chicks who loved me. Got soo many BF rejections it was unreal, one girl told me "if i didn't have a BF i would soooo be there".
I still have to continue pushing my comfort zone - i find myself analsying a situation a bit too much before i go in, this usually occurs with good sets i've already made my mark on cause i want to preserve the 'cool guy' image and not burn the set to the ground. I basically did this with the indian chick but i was kinda chode.
The julien hotseat really gave me a clear roadmap on what to do and NOT to do. At the end of the night i was able to see how 'acting through my own intentions' was not always being executed tonight. Tin pulled for the first time in cold approach! I felt a bit tinkled at first, but then realised you want to be surrounded by pimps in order to skyrocket at this shit.
P.S - Useful notes from Julien's latest article:
Start viewing the bigger picture of the interaction.
Whenever you're interacting with women start asking yourself “In the long run of the interaction, does this affect the end result? Yes or no?”
Heighten your sense of awareness.
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My energy levels
Another night out; there seems to be a change in my energy levels these days - as soon as i enter the club i'm immediately hyped up, energy pumped through the roof. It oscillates from this type of high energy to relaxed arousal during the night.
The whole "keep at it, and your best night will become your most average night in 3-6 months" is starting to make sense. Approaching a lot of hotties in the intimidating venue we go to; barging through sets with 4 guys surrounding a hottie and introducing yourself, then persisting once a guy is trying make you leave, and doing doing my ritual pre-club openers are becoming the norm now.
Started the night by getting a persian hottie's number, she was smoking outside - didn't wanna kiss cause she didn't want her lipstick getting smudged. I saw her later in a different venue, i should've executed by didn't...probably cause i didn't wanna fuck up like last week with the indian by doing some chode shit. Not the right mentality, i know...
Just did the same old thing really: picking girls up, running away with them and that sorta shit. My verbals could've been tighter 'spose.
Madeout with a older chinese chick who was really into me. Her friend politely dragged her away while i was number closing, hoping to meet up later that night - didn't get the number in the end, i should've went back in but i rationalised that she wasn't worth it.
Don't know how solid it's looking with the persian, i think i got her number on another occasion before, she looked familiar and had the name of another chick i hit on months ago. She even mentioned that my name seemed familiar to her too. It's proving hard to get anywhere with the hotel hottie on facebook - had a nice little message exchange and then i think i fluffed it up a bit by overdoing it, i.e. told her i was going to handcuff her to the safe at the hotel she works at when we rob it lol
Another night out; there seems to be a change in my energy levels these days - as soon as i enter the club i'm immediately hyped up, energy pumped through the roof. It oscillates from this type of high energy to relaxed arousal during the night.
The whole "keep at it, and your best night will become your most average night in 3-6 months" is starting to make sense. Approaching a lot of hotties in the intimidating venue we go to; barging through sets with 4 guys surrounding a hottie and introducing yourself, then persisting once a guy is trying make you leave, and doing doing my ritual pre-club openers are becoming the norm now.
Started the night by getting a persian hottie's number, she was smoking outside - didn't wanna kiss cause she didn't want her lipstick getting smudged. I saw her later in a different venue, i should've executed by didn't...probably cause i didn't wanna fuck up like last week with the indian by doing some chode shit. Not the right mentality, i know...
Just did the same old thing really: picking girls up, running away with them and that sorta shit. My verbals could've been tighter 'spose.
Madeout with a older chinese chick who was really into me. Her friend politely dragged her away while i was number closing, hoping to meet up later that night - didn't get the number in the end, i should've went back in but i rationalised that she wasn't worth it.
Don't know how solid it's looking with the persian, i think i got her number on another occasion before, she looked familiar and had the name of another chick i hit on months ago. She even mentioned that my name seemed familiar to her too. It's proving hard to get anywhere with the hotel hottie on facebook - had a nice little message exchange and then i think i fluffed it up a bit by overdoing it, i.e. told her i was going to handcuff her to the safe at the hotel she works at when we rob it lol
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I'm really starting to dig hitting on chicks early on in the night - you never know who's gonna be receptive, it's easy to think a girl will be a bitch if she's a stunner but it's never that black and white.
On friday i'm waiting outside the station, see two amazing girls brush by, i'm on the phone but know i've got to approach them immediately. I do it, set blows wide open after i go direct. Speak to the one i like, let them talk to my friend on the phone, i lie and say he's 13 and innocent so i don't wanna hear any dirty talk. They're going to some other club, i number close the one i want but i really gotta sharpen my intent...should've asked the girl, "should i call you later" and seeded a possible pull. She hasn't responded to my past two texts, so i don't know how that's looking (maybe even a fake number cause i haven't called it yet).
I hit up a zillion other girls on the way to the club, like a kid in a candy store. I've got to avoid 'standing my ground' and expecting them to come to me - just follow, spit game and reassure her that you're not a creeper really, i tell them i'm harmless lulz
We go to the kensington club, rinse and repeat because i'm hitting up sets again and again. A tall hottie gives me resistance, she doesn't wanna makeout cause of her LTR boyfriend
Me: "put your feelings aside. do it."
Her: "i've got a boyfriend"
Me: "this is a dream. a mirage, just do it"
She gives me a kiss on the cheek, i see her later when her friend is dragging her out of the club and we makeout.
Saturday
Same shit as before, early street game without much success but it keeps you busy while you're in the rain.
Go to a new club, nice place, could do with a bigger dance floor and less tables. Girls are dancing on every podium they can get their hands on, bottle buying chodes everywhere. Oh the joy!
Get started with a russian cutie who's 6,3 in heels. She doesn't wanna makeout and assumes i'm kidding.
Hit on more girls, one is a total blowout and another goes really well. Tin's with the friend, i'm with the other, i open like a gay guy "omg i love what you did with your hair". We talk forever (i did 20% talking actually), she's a really conscious chick, 28 years old and is into spirituality and shit. I like - take this hottie's number, and tentatively arrange a coffee date.
Most of the night is blowouts, not really harsh ones. There's one smoking hot latvian who i just wanted to molest - she's playing around with me a bit, pointing at me while dancing, stroking me now and again. Like a true chode i ask for the number at the end of the night instead of doing some proper leading. Gonna have to forget about asking for numbers for about 2 weeks and just go primal SNL with this shit.
Night comes to a close.
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Had an awesome night, really funny. Didn't start off too good, me and Tin are at a new club; it's small, with a few quality chicks but it's more of a warm up venue early on in the night so i don't plan on sticking around. I don't do anything up in the bar area, felt like a bit pussy for not taking action but this gets made up for later on in the night ;)
Downstairs on the dancefloor i get a makeout rejection from a blonde who's dancing with me and playing hard to get. Dance for a while, being ultra loud drawing the attention of everyone. Fun fun fun. We leave to go to our usual spot.
HELL YEAH! It's full of hotties tonight, it's pretty hit 'n miss here but tonight we're blessed. Started off slow at first but then got the ball rolling after a few blowouts.
I'm eyeballing a dark haired hottie in a red dress, looks like she's in her late twenties. Stand near her and her friend just meditating, taking deep breathes. They ask me to take a picture, i tell them to yell they love black cock before i snap it. They do it. I take a picture with the hottie, pick her up wedding style - she's feels so sexy in my arms, smooth skin. I tell her to kiss me. She does. Put her down, dance a little, i run out of shit to say and eject....see her again later with some chodes who buy her a drink - pull her in, she kisses me again. Again, i eject.
Hit up more girls, shit is fucking flow like niagra falls now. Momentum i'm guessing. Getting a lot of BF rejections - genuine ones, but my openers are killing it cause i'm moving away from the cliche "YOU!" openers to just freestyling.
1) girl texting her BF - I walk up, "079...oh shit, i forgot the rest of my number"
2) hot fillapino with big ass earrings, "You! You've got big earrings"
3) A hottie with curly black hair and emerald green eyes is waiting by coat check with her friends, i clutch her arm while walking pass, "come with me". She resists. I go back to her, chill out, spit some game and she loves my dominance. I love her eyes so i tell her. Genuine compliments are the shit. She has a BF, i ask her if he satisfies her in the bedroom - she says he's very gd
Me: "fuck him, you need a badass nigga" - she cracks up. Her friends try to pull her away, she's ignoring them, i keep yelling NO at the ugly ass friend. Pull her back in, she kisses me. Keeps on saying she can't do anything with me cause of BF. durrrrrr
Funniest thing that happened near the end was when i saw the red dress hottie from earlier. I could tell she wanted dick tonight (scanning the room, dressed all slutty). I take her away from a new chode.
Me: "I want to fuck you right now"
Her: "Now?" (smiling)
I pick her up, start marching to the gents, bulldozing chodes out the way - nod at one dude as i walk in. She freaks at this point and bolts like a racehorse. hahaha, i ask pringles about this later and he says it's best to just give her some comfort with pimp talk and BAM you're in the cubicle before she knows it. I should've gave her a wallslam makeout as well, guess i was just too driven for the pull.
I see Tin in set, i come over and talk to the moderately cute friend. She's laughing at all my cheesy jokes. I try to pull cause they live 15 mins away, but it doesn't work out.
Overall it was a solid night - i saw growth in me. I approached more than a dozen sets, and just do this shit on autopilot now. Good stuff. Can't wait until the free tour/hot seat next week to learn how to deal with more sticking points.