THE FORUMS
Did some beautiful daygame today. Goddamn it...is...beautiful
It's like being a naked dude in public when you hit on chick after chick in a shopping centre. I spoke to around 7 girls, had the ol' approach anxiety for 30 mins then pulled myself together.
One funny interaction was a hot asian i went up to while on the phone, and said "how i can improve my sexuality", she looked me up and down, took a good long look at the dick and i was like "ahhh, caught ya! you looked at my penis". We proceeded to talk about disney, pharmacy and other stuff; she called me out on talking to random girls in the shopping centre, telling me "isn't this the sort of behaviour meant for the clubs..." After a lot of persistence i couldn't get her digits so i settled for her facebook. Cool chick, don't think it's gonna go anywhere cause it bugged her i was a student.
lol saw a girl with massive tits, looking sexy, so i rolled up. I knew she was young but DAMN she was 15, turning 16 next month. I don't really give two shits, the girl was hot so i got her number.
Saw some chick with a juicy ass, approach her, she's on her work break, i get the number quick then go.
Another girl had a flawless dress sense so i hit her up, praised her attire, told her i wanted her down at the club tonight (jason derulo's gonna be there, and i'm hosting with my brother). She said she can't make it. I broke the interaction but saw her again, this time i gesture her to come to me. She does, we bond a lot and exchange numbers.
My sticking point has to be talking too much, i need to do more seductive listening and let invest into the conversation.
OKAY lets see what the night has instore for me.
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It's funny how things can change so quick. I mean you go around swaggering because you have a few numbers, but you're only a pimp when you have 5 or more girls REALLY wanted to suck your dick otherwise the castle is built on sand.
All the numbers from saturday daygame flaked. I think the conversations I had with these girls lacked focus, or intention. There wasn't a unique moment where two people KNOW they're gonna meet up, and KNOW you're connecting as a man to a woman. For example, one conversation I shared with a hottie seemed alright, but i floated way offshore into conversationland. I should've kept it simple, triggered my 'unique moment' by grabbing a good piece of information from her to put into my phone game later, but i dragged out the interaction for 10-15 mins with NO LEADING. I offered an insta-date, but i failed to just lead without asking permission (she was doing christmas shopping).
It's time i really start following my instincts, when an interaction is going well I just know it; there's a vibe where i just feel powerful, and it's on a continuum where I can either be the sexy pimp or the real creepy dude, faltering in between sucks because it shows i've got no intent in her eyes. She doesn't really know why she's talking to but will give a number just to shut him up and move on. i've got to chill out, SLOW DOWN the interaction and just lock into that sexy pimp mode. I've realised when i'm like that, idle chit chat goes deep...
Saturnight wasn't the best as well, there was no Derulo and the club sucked; hardly any hot chicks but i made the most out of it by owning the dancefloor.
Interestingly, i met the second cousin of kim kardashian, should have grabbed her details but i got the feeling her friend introduced me to her because she got uncomfortable around me. It's weird though, the friend was mesmerized by me intially with the whole "you look familar..." and "have i seen you on tv??" i was gonna do dirty dancing with her, but i'm starting to think leading with a 'prom dance' might be better or something, girls aren't always down to dirty dance or have you escalate on them quick.
I approached this girl from new york, she was cute, it's funny how 7/8's become the super hotties of the club once there's nothing else on display.
She was kinda feeling me at the beginning, i was just dancing with her group, and she came over to me telling me "it's my birthday tonight". i thought i heard "you're my boyfriend tonight", i was like "ohh you know what boyfriends and girlfriends do", and was grabbing her by the head for a makeout but she pulled away and told me what she said. From there on i was chasing. When i 'tried' to speak to her nothing was clicking, i'm realising that the more i try the more the interaction falls flat; and in interactions where i literally pimp-talk and turn on the million dollar mouthpiece i have the most fun, get her laughing, can easily escalate and talk shit at will. I have to be totally chill when doing so.
I did some of Distant Light's homo-erotic dancing, and yeah, bitches loved it. I literally OWNED the dancefloor, everyone wanted a piece of me. There were some 6's and 7's doing some damn right nasty shit with me; spanking, imitations of me eating pussy, sandwiching me, lifting/throwing/falling whatever. I made everyone go hype!
There was a chubby cute looking chick who wanted it, the toilet was clear of any attendants but for some reason i lacked the enthusiasm to do anything with her apart from dancing. I think i've got to get over this and start fucking 7's before i move up to 8's and beyond.
On the way the club i actually escorted this attractive chick there, took her number and called her the next day. That was kinda smooth; not much of a sexual vibe established though. At the end of the night i closed a model chick my brother was dropping off in his car, and we had a real sweet conversation; again, nothing sexual but that's probably because my brother and his employer was around.
All the numbers from saturday daygame flaked. I think the conversations I had with these girls lacked focus, or intention. There wasn't a unique moment where two people KNOW they're gonna meet up, and KNOW you're connecting as a man to a woman. For example, one conversation I shared with a hottie seemed alright, but i floated way offshore into conversationland. I should've kept it simple, triggered my 'unique moment' by grabbing a good piece of information from her to put into my phone game later, but i dragged out the interaction for 10-15 mins with NO LEADING. I offered an insta-date, but i failed to just lead without asking permission (she was doing christmas shopping).
It's time i really start following my instincts, when an interaction is going well I just know it; there's a vibe where i just feel powerful, and it's on a continuum where I can either be the sexy pimp or the real creepy dude, faltering in between sucks because it shows i've got no intent in her eyes. She doesn't really know why she's talking to but will give a number just to shut him up and move on. i've got to chill out, SLOW DOWN the interaction and just lock into that sexy pimp mode. I've realised when i'm like that, idle chit chat goes deep...
Saturnight wasn't the best as well, there was no Derulo and the club sucked; hardly any hot chicks but i made the most out of it by owning the dancefloor.
Interestingly, i met the second cousin of kim kardashian, should have grabbed her details but i got the feeling her friend introduced me to her because she got uncomfortable around me. It's weird though, the friend was mesmerized by me intially with the whole "you look familar..." and "have i seen you on tv??" i was gonna do dirty dancing with her, but i'm starting to think leading with a 'prom dance' might be better or something, girls aren't always down to dirty dance or have you escalate on them quick.
I approached this girl from new york, she was cute, it's funny how 7/8's become the super hotties of the club once there's nothing else on display.
She was kinda feeling me at the beginning, i was just dancing with her group, and she came over to me telling me "it's my birthday tonight". i thought i heard "you're my boyfriend tonight", i was like "ohh you know what boyfriends and girlfriends do", and was grabbing her by the head for a makeout but she pulled away and told me what she said. From there on i was chasing. When i 'tried' to speak to her nothing was clicking, i'm realising that the more i try the more the interaction falls flat; and in interactions where i literally pimp-talk and turn on the million dollar mouthpiece i have the most fun, get her laughing, can easily escalate and talk shit at will. I have to be totally chill when doing so.
I did some of Distant Light's homo-erotic dancing, and yeah, bitches loved it. I literally OWNED the dancefloor, everyone wanted a piece of me. There were some 6's and 7's doing some damn right nasty shit with me; spanking, imitations of me eating pussy, sandwiching me, lifting/throwing/falling whatever. I made everyone go hype!
There was a chubby cute looking chick who wanted it, the toilet was clear of any attendants but for some reason i lacked the enthusiasm to do anything with her apart from dancing. I think i've got to get over this and start fucking 7's before i move up to 8's and beyond.
On the way the club i actually escorted this attractive chick there, took her number and called her the next day. That was kinda smooth; not much of a sexual vibe established though. At the end of the night i closed a model chick my brother was dropping off in his car, and we had a real sweet conversation; again, nothing sexual but that's probably because my brother and his employer was around.
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One of my favourite posts by Distant Light:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/175103
Focusing on personal growth and a process oriented journey is more profitable than pondering over the future, being attached to an outcome and thinking what i can get out of this later.
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/175103
Focusing on personal growth and a process oriented journey is more profitable than pondering over the future, being attached to an outcome and thinking what i can get out of this later.
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Should've updated this dayyyys ago...
anyway, song of the day:
Thursday
Lost my jacket AGGHHHH!!
Well, rolled up to the club, danced crazy like a mofo with my wing and set the club on FIYAA with the few people around me. Everyone was spectating, random chodes were imitating my dance moves and crowding round me some. The chicas heard my warcries and all and were lookin, this continued for 15-20 mins. Then it was time to approach.
Me and wing go to a 2 girls, my one has a hot bod with an okay face. She's foreign, french to be precise. I tell him about my family's predilection of choosing fancy french names for their children, mine happens to be Andre... ;)
We begin to do our special handshake, i repeatedly make sure she learns it properly. She does. Anyway, appears we have hooked but i go off to dance some more.
Me and wing bounce to another nearby club, i think i just get blowouts, act a fool and continue my dancing which doesn;t seem to be catching on so well here haha
Back to the first club, i find my girl, she does the handshake; i go in for some dirty dancing. ummm, nice body, big boner. I isolate to the bar, like a chode i don't go in for the makeout when it was fully justified. She loses state and returns to her friends. Later i see her again, she's REALLY happy to gimme her number, but i accidentally delete it before i save it :(
I must've got blown out by the rest of the girls I approached that night: my comfort zone is real chill, but i'm realising i need to approach every hot chick in sight. Make no excuses, and some times get physical like Tin and kidnap bitches from their circles. It's funny.
Friday
Sadly couldn;t get into the club we wanted. We go to a bar, choded around for a bit, then thought fuck it....
I approached an aussie at the bar, she;s cute, her friend just left her. We talk for a bit, she's really open to conversation. Her friend comes back, and i handle it like a pro considering their both older than me (i'm 18). Her friend asks where my friends are and why i'm not with them, i tell her i want to socialize and meet new people. She tells me i'm doing a good job of it. Nice.
They leave after a really fun, interesting conversation, i number close and this inspires me to approach more often in open, light-lit places.
We go to a scummy bar/club, Goran rightly so nicknames it as a 'toilet bowl'....God this place sucked.
I approach anyway, get blown to smithereens by some hottie who gives me the BF rejection. I persist ad nauseum, her friends are pushing me away, she's ducking and diving from my grasp and i laugh like a psychopath.
Approach some drunk chick. She's dumb, i'm unethusiastic and losing state so i'm not proactive enough. I tell another chick she's pretty; chode opener, i shouldve manhandled her in hindsight.
The night ends.
Nothing happens on saturday dissapointingly lol
The weather's shit but imma go out tonight anywayz
anyway, song of the day:
Thursday
Lost my jacket AGGHHHH!!
Well, rolled up to the club, danced crazy like a mofo with my wing and set the club on FIYAA with the few people around me. Everyone was spectating, random chodes were imitating my dance moves and crowding round me some. The chicas heard my warcries and all and were lookin, this continued for 15-20 mins. Then it was time to approach.
Me and wing go to a 2 girls, my one has a hot bod with an okay face. She's foreign, french to be precise. I tell him about my family's predilection of choosing fancy french names for their children, mine happens to be Andre... ;)
We begin to do our special handshake, i repeatedly make sure she learns it properly. She does. Anyway, appears we have hooked but i go off to dance some more.
Me and wing bounce to another nearby club, i think i just get blowouts, act a fool and continue my dancing which doesn;t seem to be catching on so well here haha
Back to the first club, i find my girl, she does the handshake; i go in for some dirty dancing. ummm, nice body, big boner. I isolate to the bar, like a chode i don't go in for the makeout when it was fully justified. She loses state and returns to her friends. Later i see her again, she's REALLY happy to gimme her number, but i accidentally delete it before i save it :(
I must've got blown out by the rest of the girls I approached that night: my comfort zone is real chill, but i'm realising i need to approach every hot chick in sight. Make no excuses, and some times get physical like Tin and kidnap bitches from their circles. It's funny.
Friday
Sadly couldn;t get into the club we wanted. We go to a bar, choded around for a bit, then thought fuck it....
I approached an aussie at the bar, she;s cute, her friend just left her. We talk for a bit, she's really open to conversation. Her friend comes back, and i handle it like a pro considering their both older than me (i'm 18). Her friend asks where my friends are and why i'm not with them, i tell her i want to socialize and meet new people. She tells me i'm doing a good job of it. Nice.
They leave after a really fun, interesting conversation, i number close and this inspires me to approach more often in open, light-lit places.
We go to a scummy bar/club, Goran rightly so nicknames it as a 'toilet bowl'....God this place sucked.
I approach anyway, get blown to smithereens by some hottie who gives me the BF rejection. I persist ad nauseum, her friends are pushing me away, she's ducking and diving from my grasp and i laugh like a psychopath.
Approach some drunk chick. She's dumb, i'm unethusiastic and losing state so i'm not proactive enough. I tell another chick she's pretty; chode opener, i shouldve manhandled her in hindsight.
The night ends.
Nothing happens on saturday dissapointingly lol
The weather's shit but imma go out tonight anywayz
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Last night
It was a student night. The club was really cliquey, so practically everyone knew each other, me and Tin had been here before but tonight we felt like wandering nomads just straight creepin' on girls. This was cold approach 101 lol.
The girls here were kinda skinny, not the best, but I said to tin, fuck it this is all in the name of science: the club was a labatory, we were the mad horny scientists and any chick was about to be my test subject!
I'm a bit laid back at the beginning, do my ritual dancing to start off the night, but i'm realising i need to cut back on this and throw myself into some hard approaches to make myself COMPLETELY NUMB to rejection. Before this i had got blownout by some girls when pregaming, kinda funny, but i felt stifled talking to them. Gotta focus on talking LOUD, SLOW and with conviction. Anyway, back to the club.....i watch tin make big improvements to his game, he no longer waits around for me to say 30 sec game but actively approaches now. Like a real beast. He claws girls happily and lifts them up like he's badddd santa; seeing as all these chicks are young they don't know whether to be incredibly turned on or fucking frightened shitless. The friends grab them away....but tin pursues.
I stand there like...ummm, i thought i was the residential beast :( and say to tin "dude, you're making me feel impotent standing next to you"
aite, i think i roll up on a couple of hotties; grabbing, throwing them around etc..this is all pretty mandatory now but i realise it's time to preserve this for times when needed. I mean, once you're fearless of doing physical game you should know how to strategize and use it when necessary. Now i want physical rapport, like alex has stated.
Another thing i've realised is sometimes with the younger girls it can overwhelm them, they usually want a guy in their social circle and have been raised to be weary of strangers. Better to ease yourself into these interactions, show some empathy and take a step back after 'beastmode'. I wanted to work more on building a connection with these girls, and solidify some TRUST and COMFORT. I come across a bit too crazy right now, on other occasions it can work but not consistently.
I think i kissed 2 girls tonight, one was a mouthrape after i did the Tyler "You!" opener, i found it funny she said so too, then i leapt on her. The other was a dancefloor makeout, kinda brief, she was eyefucking me the whole while and ditched her chode for me. Whenever you're on the dancefloor the number one thing you should focus on is fun fun fun, any sign of neediness will repel pussy..
Tin gets down after a hard rejection and kinda loses motivation for the rest of the night. I carry on beasting. He points out a chick, i approach, she initially tries telling me she is looking for her friends, i decide to lead..."lets look for them...what do they look like", i found it she does languages, takes spanish like me, and i tell her we need to go there, sip some margaritas and do bullfighting (didn't say the last part, i wish i did now) she laughs. But...wants her friends, i try to number close, it was gonna happen until i got a bit too needy and she makes like a tree and leaves.
In short
- approached 10 or more girls
- 2 makeouts
- scale down the physical shit
- carry on using BR tone, it's fun
- Work on calibration and comfort stuff
It was a student night. The club was really cliquey, so practically everyone knew each other, me and Tin had been here before but tonight we felt like wandering nomads just straight creepin' on girls. This was cold approach 101 lol.
The girls here were kinda skinny, not the best, but I said to tin, fuck it this is all in the name of science: the club was a labatory, we were the mad horny scientists and any chick was about to be my test subject!
I'm a bit laid back at the beginning, do my ritual dancing to start off the night, but i'm realising i need to cut back on this and throw myself into some hard approaches to make myself COMPLETELY NUMB to rejection. Before this i had got blownout by some girls when pregaming, kinda funny, but i felt stifled talking to them. Gotta focus on talking LOUD, SLOW and with conviction. Anyway, back to the club.....i watch tin make big improvements to his game, he no longer waits around for me to say 30 sec game but actively approaches now. Like a real beast. He claws girls happily and lifts them up like he's badddd santa; seeing as all these chicks are young they don't know whether to be incredibly turned on or fucking frightened shitless. The friends grab them away....but tin pursues.
I stand there like...ummm, i thought i was the residential beast :( and say to tin "dude, you're making me feel impotent standing next to you"
aite, i think i roll up on a couple of hotties; grabbing, throwing them around etc..this is all pretty mandatory now but i realise it's time to preserve this for times when needed. I mean, once you're fearless of doing physical game you should know how to strategize and use it when necessary. Now i want physical rapport, like alex has stated.
Another thing i've realised is sometimes with the younger girls it can overwhelm them, they usually want a guy in their social circle and have been raised to be weary of strangers. Better to ease yourself into these interactions, show some empathy and take a step back after 'beastmode'. I wanted to work more on building a connection with these girls, and solidify some TRUST and COMFORT. I come across a bit too crazy right now, on other occasions it can work but not consistently.
I think i kissed 2 girls tonight, one was a mouthrape after i did the Tyler "You!" opener, i found it funny she said so too, then i leapt on her. The other was a dancefloor makeout, kinda brief, she was eyefucking me the whole while and ditched her chode for me. Whenever you're on the dancefloor the number one thing you should focus on is fun fun fun, any sign of neediness will repel pussy..
Tin gets down after a hard rejection and kinda loses motivation for the rest of the night. I carry on beasting. He points out a chick, i approach, she initially tries telling me she is looking for her friends, i decide to lead..."lets look for them...what do they look like", i found it she does languages, takes spanish like me, and i tell her we need to go there, sip some margaritas and do bullfighting (didn't say the last part, i wish i did now) she laughs. But...wants her friends, i try to number close, it was gonna happen until i got a bit too needy and she makes like a tree and leaves.
In short
- approached 10 or more girls
- 2 makeouts
- scale down the physical shit
- carry on using BR tone, it's fun
- Work on calibration and comfort stuff
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I remember getting rejected coz of my height, the chick wasn't hot, i was fucking about, but height has been playing on mind for a while coz most of the males in my family are taller than me and i get real stupid and compare myself to other black guys who are tall. I'm 5'9-10
Anyway, awesome Tyler post regarding limiting beliefs:
Yeah I'd say the social conditioning Asian / Indian parents often give their children is absolutely brutal.
There's many forms of bullshit social conditioning. The bad conditioning I had was being beaten and verbaly abused by my parents, while listening to them do the same to eachother, so becoming shy and low self esteem. All of this shit sucks and I think it's bullshit that innocent kids have to grow up like this.
WHATEVER. We're all adults now. I'm not saying a little kid whose parents fucked them up needs to step up. But we're not kids.
As far as girls not being into Asians and Indians, I have no sympathy. I'm a GINGER.
Take the last girl I closed. We're in a dark club, making out, I'm trying to finger her but she's pushing my hand away but about to let me do it.
Then she looks at me more closely...
"OMG are you a GINGER? Sorry I don't do ginger..."
She's dead serious. The set is DONE. I respond with...
"Some guys are tall, dark, and handsome. Some guys are short....funny....and horny......I.......am tall......dark......and handsome."
She breaks out laughing, I slam the make-out again, she reciprocates for a second but pulls back.
"No ginger. Hahaha I'm sorry I don't do ginger. You gotta go. Seriously you're funny but this isn't happening."
I start laughing my ass off.
"Hahahaah yeah so many girls don't want to fuck me at first because I'm so funny looking. Then they look in my eyes. The eyes of a real man. You've probably never even looked in the eyes of a real man. What a privilege for you. Stop. Stop and look in the eyes of a real man."
She looks deep into my eyes and starts laughing to break the tension. She wants to make a joke out of it, but I'm not going to let her.
"NO BITCH YOU'RE GONNA LOOK IN THE EYES OF A REAL FUCKING MAN!!"
She finally stops and looks in my eyes, as I'm in a meditative state and looking directly into her pupils, completely relaxed but yet horny as fuck.
Then we're making out again, she's forgotten about it. I drag her back to her table with her friends and sister and go on and on about how she's a big slut. They all start laughing as she blushes. They try to "take her back" from me.
NO SHE'S MINE NOW SHE'S A SLUT GET THE FUCK OUT OF HERE YOU'RE ALL DONE IN THIS TOWN!!"
They laugh more at this because it's funny but simultaneously back off because they can see their sister is with a cool guy, so leave me with her.
She's now hooked and qualifies herself to me again and again. We makeout and I finger her on the couch for a few minutes. Finaly I ditch her to go back to my students who are impressed. I don't ask for her number because this happens to me all the time and I'm busy. She chases me down and asks for my number. I give it to her. She texts me non stop the rest of the night until I come over after the program is done.
This girl does not like gingers. MOST girls do not like gingers. Most girls have also not met a man who ONE HUNDRED PERCENT BELIEVES THAT LOOKS DO NOT MATTER and will not buy into their stupid bullshit that it has any factor whatsoever, so plows over their frame.
If you're an Asian or Indian and you have the slightest inferiority about it, you will not get laid. AND IT WILL BECOME A SELF FULFILLING PROPHECY. This shit must be cut out of your head viciously like a fucking cancer.
I get mocked about my appearance all the time -- the paleness, the baldness, the high voice, etc. I don't give a fuck. Irrelevant, all these people can suck my dick I AM THE MAN. I will fuck your girls, I will do better in business, I will travel more, learn more, have cooler friends and have more fun. I love life and care about the world. Nothing will hold me back. No excuses no nothing. You have never, ever seen me on an internet forum, even in my darkest days, trying to convince others to help me rationalize my limiting beliefs.
If you have an impediment, shut the fuck up and outwork the competition. End of story. No excuses, go suck a dick with your excuses. Produce results of shut the fuck up. This has always been my attitude. Anything other than this is utter garbage.
:)
Tyler
Anyway, awesome Tyler post regarding limiting beliefs:
Yeah I'd say the social conditioning Asian / Indian parents often give their children is absolutely brutal.
There's many forms of bullshit social conditioning. The bad conditioning I had was being beaten and verbaly abused by my parents, while listening to them do the same to eachother, so becoming shy and low self esteem. All of this shit sucks and I think it's bullshit that innocent kids have to grow up like this.
WHATEVER. We're all adults now. I'm not saying a little kid whose parents fucked them up needs to step up. But we're not kids.
As far as girls not being into Asians and Indians, I have no sympathy. I'm a GINGER.
Take the last girl I closed. We're in a dark club, making out, I'm trying to finger her but she's pushing my hand away but about to let me do it.
Then she looks at me more closely...
"OMG are you a GINGER? Sorry I don't do ginger..."
She's dead serious. The set is DONE. I respond with...
"Some guys are tall, dark, and handsome. Some guys are short....funny....and horny......I.......am tall......dark......and handsome."
She breaks out laughing, I slam the make-out again, she reciprocates for a second but pulls back.
"No ginger. Hahaha I'm sorry I don't do ginger. You gotta go. Seriously you're funny but this isn't happening."
I start laughing my ass off.
"Hahahaah yeah so many girls don't want to fuck me at first because I'm so funny looking. Then they look in my eyes. The eyes of a real man. You've probably never even looked in the eyes of a real man. What a privilege for you. Stop. Stop and look in the eyes of a real man."
She looks deep into my eyes and starts laughing to break the tension. She wants to make a joke out of it, but I'm not going to let her.
"NO BITCH YOU'RE GONNA LOOK IN THE EYES OF A REAL FUCKING MAN!!"
She finally stops and looks in my eyes, as I'm in a meditative state and looking directly into her pupils, completely relaxed but yet horny as fuck.
Then we're making out again, she's forgotten about it. I drag her back to her table with her friends and sister and go on and on about how she's a big slut. They all start laughing as she blushes. They try to "take her back" from me.
NO SHE'S MINE NOW SHE'S A SLUT GET THE FUCK OUT OF HERE YOU'RE ALL DONE IN THIS TOWN!!"
They laugh more at this because it's funny but simultaneously back off because they can see their sister is with a cool guy, so leave me with her.
She's now hooked and qualifies herself to me again and again. We makeout and I finger her on the couch for a few minutes. Finaly I ditch her to go back to my students who are impressed. I don't ask for her number because this happens to me all the time and I'm busy. She chases me down and asks for my number. I give it to her. She texts me non stop the rest of the night until I come over after the program is done.
This girl does not like gingers. MOST girls do not like gingers. Most girls have also not met a man who ONE HUNDRED PERCENT BELIEVES THAT LOOKS DO NOT MATTER and will not buy into their stupid bullshit that it has any factor whatsoever, so plows over their frame.
If you're an Asian or Indian and you have the slightest inferiority about it, you will not get laid. AND IT WILL BECOME A SELF FULFILLING PROPHECY. This shit must be cut out of your head viciously like a fucking cancer.
I get mocked about my appearance all the time -- the paleness, the baldness, the high voice, etc. I don't give a fuck. Irrelevant, all these people can suck my dick I AM THE MAN. I will fuck your girls, I will do better in business, I will travel more, learn more, have cooler friends and have more fun. I love life and care about the world. Nothing will hold me back. No excuses no nothing. You have never, ever seen me on an internet forum, even in my darkest days, trying to convince others to help me rationalize my limiting beliefs.
If you have an impediment, shut the fuck up and outwork the competition. End of story. No excuses, go suck a dick with your excuses. Produce results of shut the fuck up. This has always been my attitude. Anything other than this is utter garbage.
:)
Tyler
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Okay, my memory's a bit hazy but from what i recall Thursday wasn't the greatest night.
It started good, i saw a cute blonde with funkadelic heels, told her i thought it was rad and walked her and her friend to the club. All the while cracking jokes, and holding some sexy eye contact. But i guess it was what Jeffy said about the 1/3 who can be too nice and you need to screen them to see if they have a BF. I ask for her digits, and funnily enough she does have a BF. See her later and settle for FB but i can't see that happening, she'll probably feel unfaithful or whatever...
Had some realizations about how BOMB breaking rapport tone can be, but goddamn it's gotta be consistent otherwise it'll feel like too much of a technique from the girl's perspective.
Friday
Awesome night....the london crew is just TOO STRONG ;)
Beasted hard all night till my balls went numb. Watching the guys go on an approach frenzy inspired me to take massive action, i feel like this was a glimpse of what consistent good 'state' would be like.
I must've got a couple of makeouts, danced with a dozen broads and sneaked my way into a private party thanks to some asian club promoter!
It was pure self-amusement that night, and i'm realising the more i feel like i'm on E the crazier the night turns out to be. I take more risks and learn more, but coz i'm clear headed i will always be conscious over my failures and achievements. That's why i love being broke somtimes, it's an excuse NOT to get drunk coz you can't afford it.
However, i do feel like i need to clarify my 'intent' in long conversations with girls before we both lose state and forget why i'm talking to her. If she's hot enough to open then she's hot enough to close; that's gotta be drilled into my head. I either have to makeout, number close or pull. If none of which happens, at least i frickin pushed it to the limit.
Another thing i love is 'swaying rapist eye contact'. Shamelessly check a chick out to the point it looks creepy, then go in! Quite a lot of girls actually dig this shit, coz it's no bullshitting and you'll find yourself adjusting to a more "suck my dick girrlll" frame instead of "please pour some approval into my cup" state of mind.
I need to approach relentlessly though, i didn't go up to this tall fine chick with a juicy ass in leggins and heaven have mercy on me would i want to bone her right now....
It's good to see my wing Tin is getting better, he still has a few 'state' issues he needs to control, but he creeps on chicks independently with no need for a 30 sec game anymore.
I've also noticed that i tend to do a lot better when i throw myself in a positive mood rather a try-hard, im-so-cool-like-james-bond vibe. That sucks, i like to be wacky and dynamic in my convos like i was with this hot chinese girl last night. The problem is i'm not closing at a high-point in the interaction when i know i've got em hooked. Leave it to drift in the sea and it's over. Well, until you hit her up again letter feeling like a rockstar ;)
Cheerio RSD!
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Saturday
Had a big state crash. Didn't really feel happy because i went to a club which i didn't want to go to, but it was the cheaper option compared to the £20 entry fee at the other one.
Me and my wing are both tired. I've gamed every night since Thursday, and had 4 hours sleep but realise that's no excuse not to get shit done.
Regardless, i approach like 8-10 chicks this night. All blowouts.
I did find it amusing watching pringles and Tyler's ex assistant in action. The former is just like a ray of sunshine in a girl's eyes, he's got persistent and technique with this shit. The latter is a well oiled machine; approaches a shit ton, and looks like he's on uppers...
I realised after the night was done that i wasn't congruent enough with my emotions and how i felt. I should've made low key approaches and stoked the fire from there; charisma comes after congruence.
Had a big state crash. Didn't really feel happy because i went to a club which i didn't want to go to, but it was the cheaper option compared to the £20 entry fee at the other one.
Me and my wing are both tired. I've gamed every night since Thursday, and had 4 hours sleep but realise that's no excuse not to get shit done.
Regardless, i approach like 8-10 chicks this night. All blowouts.
I did find it amusing watching pringles and Tyler's ex assistant in action. The former is just like a ray of sunshine in a girl's eyes, he's got persistent and technique with this shit. The latter is a well oiled machine; approaches a shit ton, and looks like he's on uppers...
I realised after the night was done that i wasn't congruent enough with my emotions and how i felt. I should've made low key approaches and stoked the fire from there; charisma comes after congruence.
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Today
Daygame.
I love this shit. After feeling like shit on Saturday i give it a bang today with Delasoul and this other dude.
We push each other hard. Girls were reacting well, i approached literally anything that gave me a hard-on.
Got some BF rejections, some were in a rush for work, and one chick i approached with a "who are you" responded "i'm a model", i was like "what's your name, model.." she walks off with her friend and shouts back "i'm not telling youuuu!" cute.
I got this girl's BBM who delasoul pointed out to me, she wasn't the best probably a 7 but i liked her legs and her appreciation for Nirvana tees. I asked her whether she thought Kurt Cobain killed himself or was it Courtney love....dun dun dun!
We went outside the musuem, had some food, it was getting late and we walked around for a bit. I saw a hot blonde with her friend, and was like "coool, last approach of the day" and run up to her.
She starts smiling, her friend too. She's got a sexy french accent, and looks hella hot in jeans. I take her number.
All in all, a decent day at the office: i feel no approach anxiety on the street when doing this shit, on the tube it's a different story; i got so turned on by this girl standing right next to me and i didn't do shit....*facepalm*
The only advice i would give is to be louder, and NOT approach with my hands in my pockets.
Daygame.
I love this shit. After feeling like shit on Saturday i give it a bang today with Delasoul and this other dude.
We push each other hard. Girls were reacting well, i approached literally anything that gave me a hard-on.
Got some BF rejections, some were in a rush for work, and one chick i approached with a "who are you" responded "i'm a model", i was like "what's your name, model.." she walks off with her friend and shouts back "i'm not telling youuuu!" cute.
I got this girl's BBM who delasoul pointed out to me, she wasn't the best probably a 7 but i liked her legs and her appreciation for Nirvana tees. I asked her whether she thought Kurt Cobain killed himself or was it Courtney love....dun dun dun!
We went outside the musuem, had some food, it was getting late and we walked around for a bit. I saw a hot blonde with her friend, and was like "coool, last approach of the day" and run up to her.
She starts smiling, her friend too. She's got a sexy french accent, and looks hella hot in jeans. I take her number.
All in all, a decent day at the office: i feel no approach anxiety on the street when doing this shit, on the tube it's a different story; i got so turned on by this girl standing right next to me and i didn't do shit....*facepalm*
The only advice i would give is to be louder, and NOT approach with my hands in my pockets.
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Andre~
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Join Date: 01/14/2011 | Posts: 850
Very informative video. Definitely made me realise where I go wrong sometimes with my interactions at the club. I get overconfident and overescalate trying to be the macho caveman. It's too much too soon with non-DTF chicks.
An example would be this girl i rolled up on, we danced, then I immediately give her a spin-hug which catches her by surprise. She smiles but backs off at the same time, I keep muttering sweet nothings into her ear, she says i'm lovely, but still peels back cause i didn't have enough self-trust to build slow and steady physical rapport. Done a similar thing with another chick, overescalating to dirty dancing when it wasn't suffice.
Anyway, at college today I felt like a pimp. Real cool and casual, chicks were mesmerized by the eye contact I was holding, my voice was slow and deep too. Gotta give credit to Neil, hanging with him taught me a few new things about constant chillness and unreactivity in an interaction. There's no need to be jumpy and overtly animated, just relax, the 'law of state transference'...charisma follows naturally from being so calm.
At the end of the day I just went gorilla on a few chicks; manhandled this girl and dragged her outta the building while she screamed "noooooo don't!" to her friends who were in spectator mode. I should've kissed once outside, dunno why i didn't but i will next time.
Was planning on bringing another chick home today after some heavy eye contact, fun physical rapport and dirty chit-chat. But no pressure really, college game is just practice for me and a way to build social momentum for the big nights out. It's funny always being told that i'm different to other black guys, i mean, it's uncommon where i am from for a black dude to have real intellectual pursuits and NOT BE A NERD. I try to make my personality flexible, before I was a judgmental douche who thought 'chavs' or anyone not like me was below me, but I've gained an appreaciation for their characteristics thanks to RSD i guess.
Love, Tezer