THE FORUMS
Unfortunately no bitch sucked dick last weekend as far as I know.
What happened
Rolled up late to the club due to rail complications. Fuck the metro.
I walk into the club, see my boy Tin and acknowledge him. Scan the room, it's pretty dead tonight, gonna be a 'graveyard shift' (i.e. talking to any chicks left in the club, even if they're corpse-like drunk)
I greet the rest of the Crew, get a bottle for them at the table seeing as I'm promoting with my brother at this spot.
Okay, time to start approaching. Wait not yet, notice a cute blonde who happens to be a friend of both me and my bro, dance and make conversation with her for a little. Do the same with her goofy friend.
Time to approach, no more delays. I immediately grab some hottie who walks by, BIG no-no from her. Tin laughs, tells me it took him like an hour to do an approach.
Next....DANCE a whole lot, that's life the majority of my night. TALK to some people at the table, my bro included.
It's time to get a move on, I approach more wimminz with no real success haha
See this big chested cute looking blonde sitting down looking bored out of her skull. I offer my hand like a true gentleman, she gives me the "i gotta boyfriend", yet says it regrettably with a hint of a smile. I should have pushed harder, Neil (from copenhagen crew) tells me I should've too but I excuse myself like a true chode
See this FINE chick swaying to the music all on her lonesome, I grab. I say "don't..you..think...my..mohican...is awesome". She agrees, I cant tell she's a little drunk but that don't mean shit unless they're drunk beyond all recognition...
We kiss in the space of 30 seconds, she's blathering on qualifying herself to me "i met usain bolt", me "ahh DO YOU KNOW WHAT WE BOTH HAVE IN COMMON...we're fuckin jamaican", she smiles and is all like "soooo...i'm your type then", i'm like mehhh, "stop being drunk and then i'll consider it", give her the same question. She smiles, and says "you'll have to wine and dine me first", by this point my dick is rubbing up against her thigh so i curtly reply "durr, i'm wining on you right now...we'll dine at KFC", big laugh!
LEAD her to my bro, make an introduction. Molest her up against the wall, praying mantis claw and all that jazz. We sit, we bond, we trade numbers, and kiss a whole lot more. I lick her arm like a stupid alleycat as well. Then she starts freaking out about her friends, so I LEAD her back to where I found her. No luck, can't find her companions.
She's losing state, i'm getting bored, not really thinking about pulling tonight coz I like hanging with my bro at his pad (lame i know, don't worry this is just another sticking point i'll soon eradicate). WE FIND HER FRIEND, I say bow out and say my goodbyes.
The remainder of the night
More dancing, more singing, drinking and GAIETY!
I kinda hit on Neil's chick, then apologize after. Damn this accursed penis of mine :(
I jiggy with my girl-friends a whole lot more and the entourage. Give the blonde a saucy lap dance, she's quite nervous...usually girls are taken by this haha
Approach some more, and receive rejections I think. Girls flock to me when I dance, none were hot so I pass up on them.
Night comes to a close
Success
1 heavy makeout and number (she replied to my texts a few times then POOF she disappeared, weird...)
Improvement
- More randomness for openers, gotta love freestyling.
-Need to practice having a 'bass' tonality
-want to start actively using BR tone for a bit so I've got it internalised, I practice on my mum and it works!
oh, and I need to fuck chicks at college, they're so young, there's 4 i've got my eye on.
Love, Tezer
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Divine Providence
Don't know what just happened, hell, I do know, I started 'quaking' at the end of my meditation/releasing session and it was the most euphoric shit I've ever experienced (no pun intended coz shits can be rather euphoric alone haha). I just started thinking of the historical figures I've been studying recently, like Cromwell and General Franco, albeit unethical fellows, they were strongly driven by what they thought was God's judgment vested in them. This higher calling spurred them on. I found myself reaching for God, not in a pandering "save my soul" kind of fashion, but a "I know I've got strength, and responsibilities, and I know GOD is on my side so I'm gonna OWN IN LIFE". For the first time in my life I felt fervently religious and started 'quaking' in my chair in what they call religious ecstacy.
Now I've seen Tyler talk about God numerous times in his blog entries, I always kind of understood what he was saying, but not on a profound level until now. Once you believe a higher power is directing your life, you welcome failures and successes indifferently, knowing that God wants you to progress even harder, become even more centered in your being and focus on becoming even more 'present' to your being. Sounds like hokey pokey bullshit, doesn't it? I don't know, I would pitch myself as a positive existentialist but I think if you want to create a higher consciousness, we need to draw from a higher power, ultimately it must come from yourself but channeling through God does make it seem more....potent.
Thought of the day
Create your own Kingdom of Heaven, you have the keys, 'you are enough', this is your life, build an ecosystem that provides happiness in all areas of life.
Love, Tezer
Don't know what just happened, hell, I do know, I started 'quaking' at the end of my meditation/releasing session and it was the most euphoric shit I've ever experienced (no pun intended coz shits can be rather euphoric alone haha). I just started thinking of the historical figures I've been studying recently, like Cromwell and General Franco, albeit unethical fellows, they were strongly driven by what they thought was God's judgment vested in them. This higher calling spurred them on. I found myself reaching for God, not in a pandering "save my soul" kind of fashion, but a "I know I've got strength, and responsibilities, and I know GOD is on my side so I'm gonna OWN IN LIFE". For the first time in my life I felt fervently religious and started 'quaking' in my chair in what they call religious ecstacy.
Now I've seen Tyler talk about God numerous times in his blog entries, I always kind of understood what he was saying, but not on a profound level until now. Once you believe a higher power is directing your life, you welcome failures and successes indifferently, knowing that God wants you to progress even harder, become even more centered in your being and focus on becoming even more 'present' to your being. Sounds like hokey pokey bullshit, doesn't it? I don't know, I would pitch myself as a positive existentialist but I think if you want to create a higher consciousness, we need to draw from a higher power, ultimately it must come from yourself but channeling through God does make it seem more....potent.
Thought of the day
Create your own Kingdom of Heaven, you have the keys, 'you are enough', this is your life, build an ecosystem that provides happiness in all areas of life.
Love, Tezer
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Choding out tonight in favour of doing some work.
Gotta tear it up tomorrow, that's a promise to myself...
The whole 'divine providence' thing I had this morning wore off really fast, it feels gay now that I think of it, certainly wasn't at the time. I think I sabotaged a few 'missions' with chicks when I instantly texted my feelings "So happy to be alive right now. Remember to have a great day!" I just assume they'll be like "aawww nice to know his positive" and might text back something but maybe it's just plain weird. I didn't really give a fuck, but now it's at the point where I need to press the reset button and start from scratch. Well, I'm definitely thinking about getting HPRJ's 'Text Game' ebook, sounds cash from what I've heard and boy....i need the help haha
Some young chicks in class keep eyefucking me, not going anywhere near them though, they're too immature and not my type exactly. Let's see what I can do with other hunnies though...
Seeing as I watched half of BREAKING DAWN today (faggot alert, faggot alert) that's probably gonna be the basis of my conversation with wimminz tomorrow.
Stay tuned RSD!!
Gotta tear it up tomorrow, that's a promise to myself...
The whole 'divine providence' thing I had this morning wore off really fast, it feels gay now that I think of it, certainly wasn't at the time. I think I sabotaged a few 'missions' with chicks when I instantly texted my feelings "So happy to be alive right now. Remember to have a great day!" I just assume they'll be like "aawww nice to know his positive" and might text back something but maybe it's just plain weird. I didn't really give a fuck, but now it's at the point where I need to press the reset button and start from scratch. Well, I'm definitely thinking about getting HPRJ's 'Text Game' ebook, sounds cash from what I've heard and boy....i need the help haha
Some young chicks in class keep eyefucking me, not going anywhere near them though, they're too immature and not my type exactly. Let's see what I can do with other hunnies though...
Seeing as I watched half of BREAKING DAWN today (faggot alert, faggot alert) that's probably gonna be the basis of my conversation with wimminz tomorrow.
Stay tuned RSD!!
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Ouch, last night was tough
rolled up with the crew at 11ish, the club's void of hotties, just gotta load of cougars creepin...
Hope is not dead though, we get into our power circle, start shooting the bull and dancing a little. I can tell that I still feel a bit stifled in the crew, cause i'm going through the phases of getting to know everyone really. Anyway, I get sick of being dormant for too long, Tin's already made like a bullet to some older gal with a sweet figure and he seems to hit it off well. I'm like "fukkkk this, where da bad bitches at..." and march into the middle of these group of girls dancing then proceed to do my gay stripper dance. Applause ensues. It got a bit stale when I didn't take the hint to jiggy with one of the chicks, so I slip off elsewhere into the dancefloor.
Alright, feeling good now, got my water and faggotass dance moves down, time to get shit cooking!
...Nothing happens for like 30 mins except MORE GAY DANCING, this time I get mocked and impersonated. Nice to know my dance is catching on haha
pringles and Goran~ started pulling chicks into them like DURR "oi! you there miss..." goes fairly well, but the chicas bugger off after a while. One was just stinking hot. I approach her later with a flat rejection, no eye contact, I just waist-grab her and POOF she's off like race horse. I do this later 3-4 times, ends it predictable failure.
Tin can see I ain't approaching jackshit for a while so it's Intervention Time. Enter the 30 seconds game...
Okay, see a hot older looking girl in white leave her group for a second. I claw her in, demand to know who she is, and tell her I want to play the drumset with her right next to us and re-enact Guitar Hero with her. She merrily laughs but says she needs to go toilet. I lead her for like 15 seconds near to the bar area, here I start to lose faith in conversation and try to make her stay for long enough so i can kiss her. She pulls back, no bueno, and disappears into the oblivion of the night.
Cool, next up I do a range of approaches that don't go to well but hey...I get a really nice massage toward the end of the night from some hot russian, we share a few laughs, I go for the number but she can't give it out and hands me a card instead. Ughh.
I make one last final approach before the nights comes to a close, and it's a Norwegian chick with a big chest. Conversation is meh, I feel like I'm putting on a bit of a front and not being chill enough, she still laughs but I assume it's in a way "he's acting kinda weird but cute" way. Give her my number, I expect no results from this and it's time to get my coat and get the F outta here.
Lessons
-Lock my personality in for the first crucial 20 mins. This means BE CHILL and APPROACH. Preferably go for the hardest set, open with no tricks or gimmicks and do this until I am comfortable.
-more illogical statements in a conversation to avoid the dreaded "nice meeting you" at the end
-consistently approach, don't get into the habit of waiting for this '30 seconds' game to push me into doing it. That's faggotry in motion.
-challenge myself and build up momentum. Time to stop looking at what others are doing and SET THE STANDARD for awesomeness. Even if it hurts.
Let's see what unfolds tonight
rolled up with the crew at 11ish, the club's void of hotties, just gotta load of cougars creepin...
Hope is not dead though, we get into our power circle, start shooting the bull and dancing a little. I can tell that I still feel a bit stifled in the crew, cause i'm going through the phases of getting to know everyone really. Anyway, I get sick of being dormant for too long, Tin's already made like a bullet to some older gal with a sweet figure and he seems to hit it off well. I'm like "fukkkk this, where da bad bitches at..." and march into the middle of these group of girls dancing then proceed to do my gay stripper dance. Applause ensues. It got a bit stale when I didn't take the hint to jiggy with one of the chicks, so I slip off elsewhere into the dancefloor.
Alright, feeling good now, got my water and faggotass dance moves down, time to get shit cooking!
...Nothing happens for like 30 mins except MORE GAY DANCING, this time I get mocked and impersonated. Nice to know my dance is catching on haha
pringles and Goran~ started pulling chicks into them like DURR "oi! you there miss..." goes fairly well, but the chicas bugger off after a while. One was just stinking hot. I approach her later with a flat rejection, no eye contact, I just waist-grab her and POOF she's off like race horse. I do this later 3-4 times, ends it predictable failure.
Tin can see I ain't approaching jackshit for a while so it's Intervention Time. Enter the 30 seconds game...
Okay, see a hot older looking girl in white leave her group for a second. I claw her in, demand to know who she is, and tell her I want to play the drumset with her right next to us and re-enact Guitar Hero with her. She merrily laughs but says she needs to go toilet. I lead her for like 15 seconds near to the bar area, here I start to lose faith in conversation and try to make her stay for long enough so i can kiss her. She pulls back, no bueno, and disappears into the oblivion of the night.
Cool, next up I do a range of approaches that don't go to well but hey...I get a really nice massage toward the end of the night from some hot russian, we share a few laughs, I go for the number but she can't give it out and hands me a card instead. Ughh.
I make one last final approach before the nights comes to a close, and it's a Norwegian chick with a big chest. Conversation is meh, I feel like I'm putting on a bit of a front and not being chill enough, she still laughs but I assume it's in a way "he's acting kinda weird but cute" way. Give her my number, I expect no results from this and it's time to get my coat and get the F outta here.
Lessons
-Lock my personality in for the first crucial 20 mins. This means BE CHILL and APPROACH. Preferably go for the hardest set, open with no tricks or gimmicks and do this until I am comfortable.
-more illogical statements in a conversation to avoid the dreaded "nice meeting you" at the end
-consistently approach, don't get into the habit of waiting for this '30 seconds' game to push me into doing it. That's faggotry in motion.
-challenge myself and build up momentum. Time to stop looking at what others are doing and SET THE STANDARD for awesomeness. Even if it hurts.
Let's see what unfolds tonight
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Thread of the Century:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/156529/forum
I've always been a fucked up guy, but this thread opened my eyes to how far this shit goes. Before whenever I did this, I never calibrated and awkwardness ensued whilst I was an unreactive asshole. People hated me and thought I was creepy.
Now...I'll verbalise what they're thinking, quickly switch from negative/positive emotions with chicks and have fun doing it. This has always been my favourite style of self-amusement, talking about my dick makes talking about other things...easier <<< i'm stealing this quote from myself :D
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/156529/forum
I've always been a fucked up guy, but this thread opened my eyes to how far this shit goes. Before whenever I did this, I never calibrated and awkwardness ensued whilst I was an unreactive asshole. People hated me and thought I was creepy.
Now...I'll verbalise what they're thinking, quickly switch from negative/positive emotions with chicks and have fun doing it. This has always been my favourite style of self-amusement, talking about my dick makes talking about other things...easier <<< i'm stealing this quote from myself :D
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I know what you mean about 30 sec game,
Sometimes there just aren't any hotties and you'd rather just chill.
Here some stuff i read on the website:
Here are four of the golden rules of Natural Game.
1. Learn to Love Rejection
2. Approach With Bracing Honesty
3. Show Romantic Intent
4. Assert Your Ideal Reality
You can't really do 2-4 with the 30sec game
You're beyond approach anxiety, you need to clearly write down your goals and the actions that need to be done to complete your goals, then systematically do the actions every weekend.
Sometimes there just aren't any hotties and you'd rather just chill.
Here some stuff i read on the website:
Here are four of the golden rules of Natural Game.
1. Learn to Love Rejection
2. Approach With Bracing Honesty
3. Show Romantic Intent
4. Assert Your Ideal Reality
You can't really do 2-4 with the 30sec game
You're beyond approach anxiety, you need to clearly write down your goals and the actions that need to be done to complete your goals, then systematically do the actions every weekend.
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I just read the thread you reccomended..who the fuck is derek!
Nvr mind figured it out, some instructor who super forward, i thought it was the black guy in the video for a while
Nvr mind figured it out, some instructor who super forward, i thought it was the black guy in the video for a while
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Couldn't agree more with the last part, that's definitely been my achilles heel for a while; not structuring what I gotta do next and STICKING TO IT.
30 sec game should only be done in times of absolute stagnation IMO, it rushes you into things a bit too much.
30 sec game should only be done in times of absolute stagnation IMO, it rushes you into things a bit too much.
I know what you mean about 30 sec game,
Sometimes there just aren't any hotties and you'd rather just chill.
Here some stuff i read on the website:
Here are four of the golden rules of Natural Game.
1. Learn to Love Rejection
2. Approach With Bracing Honesty
3. Show Romantic Intent
4. Assert Your Ideal Reality
You can't really do 2-4 with the 30sec game
You're beyond approach anxiety, you need to clearly write down your goals and the actions that need to be done to complete your goals, then systematically do the actions every weekend.
Sometimes there just aren't any hotties and you'd rather just chill.
Here some stuff i read on the website:
Here are four of the golden rules of Natural Game.
1. Learn to Love Rejection
2. Approach With Bracing Honesty
3. Show Romantic Intent
4. Assert Your Ideal Reality
You can't really do 2-4 with the 30sec game
You're beyond approach anxiety, you need to clearly write down your goals and the actions that need to be done to complete your goals, then systematically do the actions every weekend.
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Okay, it seems like i'm experiencing a 'boom and bust' effect judging from my last couple nights out. It was great last week, big pimpin' and all that but this week has struck me more as a rigorous learning curve.
Last night was blow-out galore but quite educational watchin the crew in action. All of them are more experienced than me in this shit, i didn't take the passive approach and analyse, but I kept in mind what things they were doing that I still need to internalise. With pringles for instance, self-amusement is a BIG DEAL, the dude absolutely loves that shit and cracks me up while he's at it. It's really not hard to achieve, you just gotta be locked into that mood which I wasn't. Goran OTHO oozes chillness which girls get sucked into. Neil last night was just some minimalist hypnotic druid kinda guy, hardly chatting to birds but he'd pull 'em with his hypnotic trance shit. Very amusing to see all this.
Alright, didn't totally carry out Derrick's S&E game last night like I promised myself. Done it once on certified hottie, it worked pretty well, hooked her for a bit when I said "who the fuck are you, come talk to me, i'm a disgusting human being" haha but then again that's kinda incongruent now that I think of it. Her eyes lit up for a while, tried pulling her in but it was a no-go.
I'm realising bold actions is what sets you apart from the rest in this game, so I CUT IN to a group flocked with hotties, go for a blonde who seems receptive when I tell her she's sexy as fuck. We grind, then she drops the boyfriend card, I reply, "oh, that's not a problem". She seems like she wants dick bad, but still gives me shit cause of the BF, I try go illogical and talk about her hair. In retrospect, maybe I should've went even more crazier while being illogical, that would have really mindfucked her. Anyway, i've noticed once a chick loses state and her friends know this they make a beeline for her.
I see this hottie again on the dancefloor, a lot of hungry chodes are orbiting but don't do shit. I casually stare her down, stay in her proximity so she's bound to re-open me. Of course she does this, and for no apparent reason other than wanting my cock tells me again "I told you, i've gotta boyfriend", i'm like "cool, i don't care" and begin dancing with her again. Although I should've just went caveman on her, a makeout was fully justified at this point. I remember last time when I gotta BF rejection, chick was saying "my BF is famous blah blah...." I respond with "but my black cock is famous" INSTA-MAKEOUT.
Neil sees all this, tells me to go get her and makeout. I make chode excuses and don't do shit. Facepalm...
Get a barrage of blowouts...it's odd, cause no matter how loud i try to be in the club, bitches ALWAYS SAY "whatttt?"
It was strange last night cause initially sets would open well, but they'd lose interest quickly once I started chattering away. I'd find myself saying chode shit like "darling who are you" for some inexplicable reason...ah well, all this shit has gotta be exorcised. But i'm still confused by what jeffy says about 'the words you use don't matter, it's the energy behind them'. Also, bar game is sooooo damn easy, only drunks act crazy in the bar, chicks get mesmerized by someone who's dynamic and downright OWNING shit there. Saw pringles hit up a 2 chicks and they fell in love with him. I spoke to some hot greek thang in a green dress and she was very receptive. I might look into bar game more in the future methinks...
The remainder of the night wasn't too good, i had to force makeouts, they didn't come naturally. Got the cheek from a few girls, others ran back to their friends. I think I need to escalate slower now, some girls were up for some fun and would dance seductively with me but i'd just push it a little too far. hmmmm.
Again, interesting night here's the things I need to focus on:
- Practice more Derrick S&E, i like masterning new techniques :)
- Subtle escalation, slow and stready wins the race
- Approach/socialise from the very beginning, it builds up social momentum and stops me from being a dancing monkey for the whole night
Last night was blow-out galore but quite educational watchin the crew in action. All of them are more experienced than me in this shit, i didn't take the passive approach and analyse, but I kept in mind what things they were doing that I still need to internalise. With pringles for instance, self-amusement is a BIG DEAL, the dude absolutely loves that shit and cracks me up while he's at it. It's really not hard to achieve, you just gotta be locked into that mood which I wasn't. Goran OTHO oozes chillness which girls get sucked into. Neil last night was just some minimalist hypnotic druid kinda guy, hardly chatting to birds but he'd pull 'em with his hypnotic trance shit. Very amusing to see all this.
Alright, didn't totally carry out Derrick's S&E game last night like I promised myself. Done it once on certified hottie, it worked pretty well, hooked her for a bit when I said "who the fuck are you, come talk to me, i'm a disgusting human being" haha but then again that's kinda incongruent now that I think of it. Her eyes lit up for a while, tried pulling her in but it was a no-go.
I'm realising bold actions is what sets you apart from the rest in this game, so I CUT IN to a group flocked with hotties, go for a blonde who seems receptive when I tell her she's sexy as fuck. We grind, then she drops the boyfriend card, I reply, "oh, that's not a problem". She seems like she wants dick bad, but still gives me shit cause of the BF, I try go illogical and talk about her hair. In retrospect, maybe I should've went even more crazier while being illogical, that would have really mindfucked her. Anyway, i've noticed once a chick loses state and her friends know this they make a beeline for her.
I see this hottie again on the dancefloor, a lot of hungry chodes are orbiting but don't do shit. I casually stare her down, stay in her proximity so she's bound to re-open me. Of course she does this, and for no apparent reason other than wanting my cock tells me again "I told you, i've gotta boyfriend", i'm like "cool, i don't care" and begin dancing with her again. Although I should've just went caveman on her, a makeout was fully justified at this point. I remember last time when I gotta BF rejection, chick was saying "my BF is famous blah blah...." I respond with "but my black cock is famous" INSTA-MAKEOUT.
Neil sees all this, tells me to go get her and makeout. I make chode excuses and don't do shit. Facepalm...
Get a barrage of blowouts...it's odd, cause no matter how loud i try to be in the club, bitches ALWAYS SAY "whatttt?"
It was strange last night cause initially sets would open well, but they'd lose interest quickly once I started chattering away. I'd find myself saying chode shit like "darling who are you" for some inexplicable reason...ah well, all this shit has gotta be exorcised. But i'm still confused by what jeffy says about 'the words you use don't matter, it's the energy behind them'. Also, bar game is sooooo damn easy, only drunks act crazy in the bar, chicks get mesmerized by someone who's dynamic and downright OWNING shit there. Saw pringles hit up a 2 chicks and they fell in love with him. I spoke to some hot greek thang in a green dress and she was very receptive. I might look into bar game more in the future methinks...
The remainder of the night wasn't too good, i had to force makeouts, they didn't come naturally. Got the cheek from a few girls, others ran back to their friends. I think I need to escalate slower now, some girls were up for some fun and would dance seductively with me but i'd just push it a little too far. hmmmm.
Again, interesting night here's the things I need to focus on:
- Practice more Derrick S&E, i like masterning new techniques :)
- Subtle escalation, slow and stready wins the race
- Approach/socialise from the very beginning, it builds up social momentum and stops me from being a dancing monkey for the whole night
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- Practice more Derrick S&E, i like masterning new techniques :)
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Andre~
Respected Member
Join Date: 01/14/2011 | Posts: 849
-18 year old student
-desiring fun and a plethora of carnal adventures
(that just sounded like a craiglist ad...)
Where I'm at
Not much lays under my belt, can't say i'm terribly worried over it, i've been WAY too fussy in the past.
-just started going hard a month ago, and i'm planning to measure my progress by next July 1st (my b'day) to see how far i've come
-Had a dozen makeouts and numbers so far, tons of flakes, and a motherlode of refreshing BLOW OUTS
What to expect?
-Humour at my expense, jealously, pity, resentment, horniness and maybe some interesting epiphanies :) :)