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#11
Distant Light

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In actuality the process of "others doing it" wasn't the problem, it was more of the mental block the belief created...

I never used to notice this but I'd have all these experiences and start making tons of assumptions which caused alot of dogma to be produced. I have a bisexual natural friend who is by far the best natural I've ever seen. (NOTE, I've never seen this guy fooling around with a dude at all) Chicks would randomly show him their tits, he randomly suck on chicks tits, he cold approaches on the street, 30secs of meeting a chick he has her missionary style lying on the chair (was a random lapdance) and right after making out with a chick while her legs is wrapped around his neck. The experiences I have are similar to this BUT more like a disturbing party maniac who just bounces around doing whatever the fuck. When I look back its always like "Wow, did that all really happen?"

By me assuming that the guy right next to me could do the exact samething lead me to start rambling/rationalizing/assuming lots of shit...

What the hell is the deciding factor of hooking up or fooling around with a woman?
As of right now there seems to be NOTHING other than the fun times to be had, that matters. Anything else, would be me falling in a belief-trap because I have no experience of anything else. It's purely comfortable fun sexual environment with the fun/good vibes propeling it wherever...

Chick who tried slipping me into her dorm knew ZERO about me, Danish Model chick who had a BF in copenhagen knew ZERO about me, the 3 random girls from last night probably didn't even know my name (1 of the 3 was interacting like she knew me though) and the time I almost had some sick 4-5some also had nothing to do with rapport/connection/attraction/etc that is constantly written "in theory" of how female psyche works. I kinda, just rationalized that the rapport/connection/attraction is all just built-in to all the fun experiences that are generated from the interaction. Which sounds good but again would just be another belief since I don't even know, how would I measure that anyway? Ha!

Can random guy A, B, C, & D all just walk into the party go to the same exact girl and just bang her?
How is it, I'll be with a group having a grand time and then women start hovering around. At which point, all a guy needs to do is just walk up and makeout...

I've seen friends, random bottle guys, and guys who did NOTHING ALL NIGHT simply move closer to the group to chat to one of the girls who were hovering and 10-15mins later making out n pull. Like I stated, one of my boys met a chick outside the club, hopped in limo with our group and then took a taxi going back towards the direction we came to go bang this chick. WHO, is married and only had sex with like 3 guys.

If this is true then it goes back to the question of "What the hell is the deciding factor?" I know its NOT looks because many women who didn't fool around with me thought I was a model. I know its NOT money because women buy me stuff.

Are women simply addicts to Amazing/Unique "Emotional States"?
This is the only thing that many of my experiences would sorta conclude...
-  Why is it that I catch these gorgeous model chicks at fortress-like tables gazing at ME?
-  Why is it that EVERYTIME I go to a venue that is flooded with hotties that it almost seems like I'm getting molested?
-  Why is it that both I and Bi-Natural end up doing some rather crazy shit without them having a clue as to any FACTS about my BIO?

Didn't mention this but my lesbian model friend and I almost madeout the last time we hung out. The girl from last night who I know, her and I NEVER interacted in such a flirtatious manner. These were the "moments" that made me start pondering the possibility that women in general are just ADDICTED to it. Kinda like old tyler stuff on "Buying Temperature" & "Chick Crack" only difference is that you are the CRACK/DRUG. It's reached a point where I now know if I was in a room with 3 girls after-party style, its HIGHLY PROBABLE that I'd be fooling with all 3 of them at the sametime.

So the deciding factor is "Who's the better drug"?
There is only TWO WAYS that I have personally pulled...
-  The normal party hard who is just having fun fun fun fun fun, FUCK
-  The aloof screener who slowly gets won over by her

It's just concidence that each "way of being" (aka what drives the experience) resulted in me fooling around with two of the HOTTEST women I EVER SEEN. I don't want to get all inner gameish, we got enough of that BUT the main consistency I've noticed is the total self control. The experience you create would be all scattered with high risk results if you don't trust in your ability to provide the experience that you provide.

Long story short, a gorgeous macedonian chick back in 2008 was IN LOVE, I never forgot this 2-3 week period because it was as if I had super powers. (I thought I didn't need to learn anything else that I arrived) I was "aloof screener" during that time, a week after macedonian I met a hot danish chick which almost identically went down in a similar fashion. Its too bad I was underage and fearful about getting caught. (When macedonian wanted me to bounce with her I didn't go, DUMB)

The "party hard whore" is me in all my glory, which is how I met this gorgeous danish chick (By far the hottest chick I ever banged, high fashion model-type body with a brazilian-like ass) and a matter of seconds we are all over each other. She has a BF, I tell her "I'm cocaine, women's recreational choice of drug" we continue making out as her friends left her. When I look at my other community friend "Summa", it makes sense as to why he has banged over 50 women during the daytime SAMEDAY. He loves providing the experience similar to the film "Before Sunrise".

If were the "drug", why are most men acting like the crackhead?

What even got me to start this thread was the feeling I became aware of...

That whole "Villian City" analogy is exactly how it felt, total confidence and 100% uncontrollable. The women I was interacting with didn't really have much input in how I choose to have fun, they either ran with it or didn't, which is there issue not mines. (Last night, I spilled my drink on a friend of a friend who wanted nothing to do with me, as a result she stood infront of me BORED as I had a blast with everyone else ha) Like the "rare drug" I was in demand and was being seeked out. Whereas, I watched this male model TRYING HARD to get with my lesbian model girlfriend. Every night I see guys trying very hard an from this "drug" perspective its like they're a street dealer trying to force drugs onto the women.

This whole potential possibility meant that my only problem was the fact that I tend to be "Closed Off" at times indulging in my own state of mind. In NORMAL TERMS, I just wasn't willing to interact with anyone and just wanted to enjoy ME for myself. This is why I love this concept because it has help me to focus outwardly. At times, I used to be on a sofa eyes closed just enjoying the moment hahaha, now I scan the room randomly selecting chicks to fuck around with for a few seconds before going to another chick.

More to come...
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#12
Distant Light

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ABCDEFG wrote:
Distant light:


Nice videos, was that Sasha Day game I saw at 2:37? I heard has has SICCCK game.

I almost met him last night, have you met him before? Or have you managed o capture any
"Manwhore" footage? I heard from his couch videos or something that he met you.........


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Never met sasha...Haven't hung out wtih manwhore, if we ever met I don't recall at all ha!

The video in this thread was like 4 days of footage but on my FB page going to make another video based on 1 month of going out. Cool chick taking me to a lingerie party and next saturday another one of those loft/warehouse party thingys. Started hating weekends, which is why I was figuring out where you was heading tonight.
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TheKing

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Distant Light wrote:

1-
I have a bisexual natural friend who is by far the best natural I've ever seen. (NOTE, I've never seen this guy fooling around with a dude at all) Chicks would randomly show him their tits, he randomly suck on chicks tits, he cold approaches on the street, 30secs of meeting a chick he has her missionary style lying on the chair (was a random lapdance) and right after making out with a chick while her legs is wrapped around his neck. The experiences I have are similar to this BUT more like a disturbing party maniac who just bounces around doing whatever the fuck. When I look back its always like "Wow, did that all really happen?"

Chick who tried slipping me into her dorm knew ZERO about me, Danish Model chick who had a BF in copenhagen knew ZERO about me, the 3 random girls from last night probably didn't even know my name (1 of the 3 was interacting like she knew me though) and the time I almost had some sick 4-5some also had nothing to do with rapport/connection/attraction/etc that is constantly written "in theory" of how female psyche works. I kinda, just rationalized that the rapport/connection/attraction is all just built-in to all the fun experiences that are generated from the interaction. Which sounds good but again would just be another belief since I don't even know, how would I measure that anyway? Ha!

I've seen friends, random bottle guys, and guys who did NOTHING ALL NIGHT simply move closer to the group to chat to one of the girls who were hovering and 10-15mins later making out n pull. Like I stated, one of my boys met a chick outside the club, hopped in limo with our group and then took a taxi going back towards the direction we came to go bang this chick. WHO, is married and only had sex with like 3 guys.

2-
Can random guy A, B, C, & D all just walk into the party go to the same exact girl and just bang her?
How is it, I'll be with a group having a grand time and then women start hovering around. At which point, all a guy needs to do is just walk up and makeout...

If this is true then it goes back to the question of "What the hell is the deciding factor?" I know its NOT looks because many women who didn't fool around with me thought I was a model. I know its NOT money because women buy me stuff.

Are women simply addicts to Amazing/Unique "Emotional States"?
This is the only thing that many of my experiences would sorta conclude..
-  Why is it that both I and Bi-Natural end up doing some rather crazy shit without them having a clue as to any FACTS about my BIO?

Didn't mention this but my lesbian model friend and I almost madeout the last time we hung out. The girl from last night who I know, her and I NEVER interacted in such a flirtatious manner. These were the "moments" that made me start pondering the possibility that women in general are just ADDICTED to it. Kinda like old tyler stuff on "Buying Temperature" & "Chick Crack" only difference is that you are the CRACK/DRUG. It's reached a point where I now know if I was in a room with 3 girls after-party style, its HIGHLY PROBABLE that I'd be fooling with all 3 of them at the sametime.

3-
If were the "drug", why are most men acting like the crackhead?
What even got me to start this thread was the feeling I became aware of...

That whole "Villian City" analogy is exactly how it felt, total confidence and 100% uncontrollable. The women I was interacting with didn't really have much input in how I choose to have fun, they either ran with it or didn't, which is there issue not mines. (Last night, I spilled my drink on a friend of a friend who wanted nothing to do with me, as a result she stood infront of me BORED as I had a blast with everyone else ha) Like the "rare drug" I was in demand and was being seeked out. Whereas, I watched this male model TRYING HARD to get with my lesbian model girlfriend. Every night I see guys trying very hard an from this "drug" perspective its like they're a street dealer trying to force drugs onto the women.

This whole potential possibility meant that my only problem was the fact that I tend to be "Closed Off" at times indulging in my own state of mind. In NORMAL TERMS, I just wasn't willing to interact with anyone and just wanted to enjoy ME for myself. This is why I love this concept because it has help me to focus outwardly. At times, I used to be on a sofa eyes closed just enjoying the moment hahaha, now I scan the room randomly selecting chicks to fuck around with for a few seconds before going to another chick.
1- Yep, girls are like this. They do that crazy shit like "fast makeout", "fast suck my titis", they are "fast grinding on you", "fast lays" and shit. But this depend on the girl (assuming here that you have "good game" aka being normal, aka having fun doing what you want aka vibing) if she have or not some hang ups, or if she's buzzed and shit like that. So she will open to you some windows of opportunities that you made her open with your "game" like "ooh look my tities!" or way less obvious than that, and then you capitalize on it. If she is not giving a "window o oppotunity" than you create the opportunity by taking some action like leding and comanding aka "escalating" (you don't wait to "escalate" you do from the start and creates physical rapport as Alex say). And yeah some of them cheat on their boyfriend (every body does giving the right circumstancies, no big deal) she's not just attracted to him as I'm not just attracted to her. The "rapport" thing that you have said, to me is spot on, the rapport/connection is a by product of you guys vibing and shit, and that grow while vibing, and in my opinion you have how to "measure" that cuz your referential experiences and my too are pointing to this fact, and even if is just a belief but is one by first handed experience like the one you have if you put your hand on the fire will burn.

2- Can random guy A, B, C, & D all just walk into the party go to the same exact girl and just bang her? Yep, I think so (if he is not mega fat or ultra skinny, nothing agaisnt that, or this is just some limiting belief that I have). So if this is true then it goes back to the question of "What the hell is the deciding factor?" Well in my experience is all about Self Trust aka being you (not the chode you that shit is not you) aka being/acting normal with no hang ups. So by you being you without any attachments/hang ups creeping in your mind you naturally exudes that fun/cool/giving value vibe and from there is just having fun doing what you want what includes approach girls, escalate/lead her, do crazy shit, dance like a retard, grow a ridiculous bear and rub on their faces, or just go interview mode, whatever that fuck you want to do. So why the girls do that type of shit (in 1- part)? Cuz they are in a party, so they get there all enthusiastic, some continue and some go boring mode for some reason, so you are there having your fun some hottie comes your way so you go in "hard" (as Brad say) doing and talking about what you want, leading and shit, she trows congruence test you don't even cara about that shit, you decide when you "escalate" or not, you're not hurry time is your ally, bla bla bla, you are having your own fun you suck her in your movie, you are putting her in a good emotional state (even if she's already in one) by being you (cuz you are "game" aka the drug) ( so you influenced her as Alex say) where make easy for her to go dirty with you (also she could have already decided before going to the party that tonigth she's gonna get laid what makes things even more easy). So the thing with your lesbian friend, you are a man she's a woman, so even if she is lesbian she have a primal reaction to you, she's a woman her mind can't change her femeale brain into a male one, so as cheesy as it sounds in the heat of the moment that you guys where vibing/having fun problaby touching eachother. she wasn't logically thinking and then you guys almost madeout, that's my guess.

3- So If we are the "drug", why are most men acting like the crackhead? Because they are not in the same head space as us.
"That whole "Villian City" analogy is exactly how it felt, total confidence and 100% uncontrollable. The women I was interacting with didn't really have much input in how I choose to have fun, they either ran with it or didn't, which is there issue not mines. (Last night, I spilled my drink on a friend of a friend who wanted nothing to do with me, as a result she stood infront of me BORED as I had a blast with everyone else ha) Like the "rare drug" I was in demand and was being seeked out. Whereas, I watched this male model TRYING HARD to get with my lesbian model girlfriend. Every night I see guys trying very hard an from this "drug" perspective its like they're a street dealer trying to force drugs onto the women.
This whole potential possibility meant that my only problem was the fact that I tend to be "Closed Off" at times indulging in my own state of mind. In NORMAL TERMS, I just wasn't willing to interact with anyone and just wanted to enjoy ME for myself. This is why I love this concept because it has help me to focus outwardly. At times, I used to be on a sofa eyes closed just enjoying the moment hahaha, now I scan the room randomly selecting chicks to fuck around with for a few seconds before going to another chick."
Completely agree, I think the same way here.

Feel free to disagree (;
obs: I wrote this on my experience, and if I disrespected you by the way that I wrote, my bad, I say that cuz is my first "long post" and my writing skills are shit, peace o/
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Distant Light

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^^^

1 - Yep I agree, I think its all just probabilities based on many variables when it comes to the whole "deciding factor" because while majority of women love how I am, there is a specific situation which almost ALWAYS goes poorly...

ALMOST everytime I catch a supermodel type walking through a club to go to the owners table they almost always try to block me out. The ones who I forcefully pull into me are attentive for about 5secs and then move on never to be seen again. Many people would think "Yo, you should figure out how to work that" but in my mind she's already screened herself out. Just because she is hot doesn't mean she gets any special treatment, she still has to make to cut or risk getting weeded out. This never bothered me as I interpret a girl and I not meshing well together as "Her issue, not mines" because I know how I enjoy being and I'm consistent to that so for the most part if I was clearly expressing who I was with no hangups and she disliked it for whatever reason it isn't my problem.

The irony is that these are the same women who are sitting and gazing at me in a "Fuck, I want that guy". I remember recently hottie walking by, I roll up hard and she like tries moving out the way, I'm stumbling cause I got bumped and had to hold onto her in order to not fall which resulted in her trying to push me off of her while I'm stumbling. My female friend was right behind me, I looked at her dying of laughter. About 15mins later a chick is sitting infront of me who I eventually start flirting with (she was gazing the whole time and waiting) only to realize it was that SAME GIRL. It's almost as if she reassessed her choices after noticing she made a bad call.  As I type this, I also remember a chick on the street who blew me out, so bad that my female friend blurted out "OMG, what a bitch!" Not even 3 days later I notice her in a club BORED, gazing like all those other chicks. I doubt she remembered that night, I knew it was her because she had a very distinct style.

2 - This is a big possibility now that I think about it because while me and my 2 boys are totally different characters, there was this one girl who liked ALL THREE OF US. I remember she was PULLING ME, I seen her makeout with my boy and based of pictures I know she likes my other boy. An as I type this, I remember a girl wanting us to have our own 1 on 1 after after party BUT 1mins beforehand she was licking my boy ear. That same night another good friend was with 2 girls we were fooling around with the night before. I stopped with my girl, he later tells me he had a 3some with his girl and my girl.

If this was all true then for the most part the MAIN PROBLEM is men getting in their own way. All the guy's I'm using as examples have a HUGE self-trust in how they are. They don't second guess how they express themselves and its to the point where we all joke on each other for different mannerisms and ways of expressions.

Like a dumbass, I feel asleep last night so will play around more tonight...
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ABCDEFG wrote:

That was just wrong
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Manwhore

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There is a bizarre story attached to that.  We will have to schedule a time to go over it lol
ABCDEFG wrote:
I was joking! smile  smile We had a new spot last night, good selection. Manwhore pulled from the street apprently. I met a new little chick my favorite.
Distant Light wrote:

ABCDEFG wrote:
Distant light:


Nice videos, was that Sasha Day game I saw at 2:37? I heard has has SICCCK game.

I almost met him last night, have you met him before? Or have you managed o capture any
"Manwhore" footage? I heard from his couch videos or something that he met you.........


heart

Never met sasha...Haven't hung out wtih manwhore, if we ever met I don't recall at all ha!

The video in this thread was like 4 days of footage but on my FB page going to make another video based on 1 month of going out. Cool chick taking me to a lingerie party and next saturday another one of those loft/warehouse party thingys. Started hating weekends, which is why I was figuring out where you was heading tonight.

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Manwhore

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Holyfuckingsauce.
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Distant Light

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ABCDEFG: That music video just messed up my interpretation of the song (lez model bday, had the wolf mask along with hair/beard was cool) since I used to yell it out alot when bouncing around. (Next video for my fb might put parts of it in) As for another little chick, you need to bring back out the one who wanted to borrow your car. I know this little chick who is maybe 80-90 pounds I always manhandle her hahahaha (which I always think of you, "the switch" and travolta)

I also just realized, it would've been impossible for me to meet manwhore in past 2 weeks anyway cause phone is off haha.

Thatfaggytime: Although your name, join date, and post count is suspect...Yes, thats me... (Always abit skeptical about posting myself since I don't want to ever get approached about community shit, I've already learned that 3 guys that I know actually know about the community thankfully we NEVER talk about it nor do they know I post alot)

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This "experience" was more social circle than anything else as I showed up to this club purposely to hangout with this mixed group of about 8 girls 4 guys. I knew everyone besides this ONE girl who had abit of a bitchy look. (which I love) As of late, I'm always greeting people in a "Are you ready for adventures?" manner. 5mins in I'm having a blast (normal shit) and then I just introduce myself which the floodgates opened...
-  I introduced myself and gave her a kiss on the cheek (I always introduce myself in such manner) BUT she asked my name again and then did abit over the top kiss which made me know she wants the dick
-  I'm usually bouncing around from multiple women, with a group I usually just give attention sparingly as if I'm playing a drum set. Whenever, I was not focusing on her she was moving SEDUCTIVELY...Before I arrived she was sitting bored...
-  Qualifying herself hardcore, were about 10mins in now (2-3mins of actual interaction) and I ask her where she is from. BRONX, which shocked me since she looked too euro bitchy to be a spanish chick from the bronx. I mentioned how I thought she was russian because she has that ice queen bitchy look that I love. SHE LOVED THAT, so much that she wanted me to repeat it which I just broke down the elegance of "ice queen" demeanor in women.

An like that, the dude in the group (who if I'm not mistaken is 1 of the 3 guys I found out knows about community) starts signaling not to go for her. If he didn't ask me to not go for her then this would've been in the bag. However, I chilled back right after and he moved his people within the group to another table. This wasn't the best part though...

30mins pass by an I'm having a blast which spanish chick shows up near me. To put things in perspective, at that moment I was flirting with my lesbian friend ex-gf who's a legit model. This chick wants my number & FB, I told her my phone doesn't work so to meet me at a specific club on a specific day. I put my name and let it be. When leaving the club, I see her outside so I say bye and she surprisingly states club name, address and day she needs to show up.

If it wasn't for the guy, I woulda just madeout with her and proceed from there. Thing is this has become a game for me due to the massive self-control I've gained in terms of knowing that these women apparently love the experience I provide. Also the fact that I don't have to "work it" and can do whatever I want in the moment. (Majority of my time was spent playing with some light saber type thing acting like I'm a conductor of an ochestra)

P.S...Its ironic that I mentioned that guy because now that I think about it, the 2nd night I was aware of this "concept" the girl he was with was just gazing and full of smiles. He clearly was trying to "work it" with her as I too have been in that boring "I'm just baby sitting" way of being.
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Checking out MBT as well, am aroung page 600 right now, amazing shit.
As to this thread, you suggest experiencing with your mindset(creating chaos, just having extreme fun, no problems/seriuosness); don´t you think it is more about the way of being to get the effect/succes your experiencing, since you seem to have an extremly small ego and I think it takes time to achieve that(such a small ego; such  a way of being.?! So that "normal" people with a rather large ego could get this kind of results immiadiately until they have evolved enough spiritually? Or are just trying to find out about this in this thread?
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#20
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Distant light this is insightful and I can feel how you feel off this text ;) god like yeh?

Are you scared you'll lose momentum? I felt how you did, then had a PU break and it has become hard to jump back in again

How many nights do you go out?

Your approach is delivering energy and value and this is fine for a club, how is your day game looking?

Do you have a logical job or no job

Interested in your answers, theyll mean a lot, many thanks man
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