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Distant Light

Distant Light

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Join Date: 08/22/2006 | Posts: 2390

NOTE: This might not be for everyone, I just want others besides myself to experiment with this and see what's what. I have NO CLUE how this will turn out, which is why I'd love to see some feedback from a handful of people who experiment with this. I'm actually very curious how this would turn out specifically with guys who have "state" problems, low key/chill guys, and people who express themselves (differently from me)

BACKSTORY
Last night, was probably one of the biggest shifts ever in my life as I consciously decided to focus on expressing myself OUTWARDLY. What I experienced is indescribable all I know EVERYONE in the club had an amazing time. From the bus boy to the random gay guy. My sticking point (which I was completely unaware of) was the fact that I was so internally focused that instead of GIVING VALUE, I was INDULGING and as a result it would sometimes leak out where everyone was simply looking in. TONIGHT, when I purposely was speading the energy it was more like "Yo!!!! Look at all this!!! Wow, they feel it!!! O shit, they just did that!?!? Yes Yes Yes, you two makeout!!!!"

PLEASE GO EXPERIMENT (and report back)
I'm NOT going to give examples of what happened during this night because I don't want anyone to have any expectations, just go out a handful of times coming from this perspective and just report back what you experience...
-  Focus on indulging in creating as much fun as possible with complete disregard for the external environment
-  Focus exclusively on making sure people are having fun and that they're not caught up in their problems/issues in this moment (aka "Hype them up" aka "help them open up" aka "break them out their shell aka "
-  OPTIONAL, work the room by intermittently scanning/enjoying the room being aware of the overall vibe and interacting with someone (ANYONE) who isn't quite on the same frequency or someone who is already in that "fun" state of mind, which is usually because you interacted with them already and just coming back (2sec to 2min interactions)

IMPORTANT
DO NOT TRY to get women or "work it" with women and PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE forget about state. Just focus on having a blast and hyping people up. Nothing more and nothing less. Do not make your normal BS stop you from simply focusing on having a blast and hyping people up. Everyone in the world is too busy focused on "feeling good" that they simply are in a "fear and chase" game of TRYING to feel good.

"But Distant Light, How Do I Have Fun?"
This is abit of self-discovery but...
-  How do you enjoy being the most?
-  How do you like to express that you are "in love with living" and "having the time of your life"?

You have a general idea? NOW LET GO and fearlessly "OWN IT" for the sake of enjoying YOUR life. You want others to clearly see/feel/know that you are LIVING and by you making sure people have fun ALL YOUR ACTIONS will be coming from a place of "Yo!! Welcome!! Feel this shit!!! This is how I LIVE, this the frequency I'm on!!! You like that shit right!?!? Fuck yea!!!"

There is no WRONG ANSWER for this...

THEORY/MINDSET
PLEASE, gain actual first hand experience to backup these claims. Do not believe in them nor disbelieve any of this, just check your experiences and draw your own conclusions...
A  What you offer to your world (your presence) is FUCKING PRICELESS, your way of expressing "having a blast" and your way of making others "have fun" is 100% unique/personal.
B  YOU ARE A WALKING DRUG, people you are hyping up are basically being brought into the same state of mind (aka "state of fun") that you are in and so they will feel a certain way. (You'll, notice patterns overtime...NOTE, there will always be slight uncertainty) Essentially people are being drugged by your presence because your projecting OUTWARDLY.

NOTE: Due to people being different aka "express their way of having fun in different ways) there will be potential possibilities and realizations that may or may not lead to more unique knowledge/truths. (that may or may not be an exclusive truth/knowledge to that person and that person only)

P.S...Let the night tell the story, don't try to force it, BE and observe
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yorro

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aka BE THE PARTY



i've always known it's the key thing
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maximal

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This is so money...  I guess you could call it "value-giving" to the extreme.

Pour out the soul and receive glory in return, I suppose.  :)
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Distant Light

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yorro wrote:
aka BE THE PARTY



i've always known it's the key thing

Watched video, there is some truth in it...

What I experienced was beyond this, I already been "being the party" for years now which I agree is effective. HOWEVER, without mentioning my experiences (yet) I'd kind of agree with maximal in the sense that from the outside looking in, it looks like value giving to the extreme. This was a drastically different perspective and the experiences was like a SLAP IN THE FACE letting me know this was a totally different viewpoint.

It's one thing to intellectually know certain fragments of the truth and actually in the moment saying "WOW, I might've stumbled onto something very profitable" due to actually experiencing it. This is why I'm hoping a handful of people play with this for abit. I'm so hyped that I want to go out NOW during the day and just see what's what.
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yorro

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i like what you wrote here..

Distant Light wrote:
You have to realize most people are doing the best they can "Just trying to feel good" while continuing to play jason bourne as they flee from their fears/ego. This is all straight from MBT in the battle of "Living on the edge vs Living in the center". One group is focused on what they can give while the other's are focused on what they can get. You're going out looking at all these people an tallking all this BS because your trying to get. If you went in solely to give an create a bomb ass time you wouldn't even be thinking about all this and would be looking from a whole different perspective...

Early in the night everyone is scared because in their mind the party hasn't started. You comforming with the rest of the center basically are sitting waiting for something to happen, instead of making something happen. Be a motherfucking explorer...You're asking questions that must be answered for yourself through experience.


and here..

Distant Light wrote:
People talk about not giving a fuck or being indifferent BUT this is handled if all your focused on is having fun. Every human being wants to have fun an many want to always be around fun and the most fun.

Just think of the dynamics of a nightclub, did people really go out to hang in a nice spot only to sit there and look at each other all night? They're just uptight about jumping into the depths of the unknown and would love to always have opportunities to be social and friendly.
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Distant Light

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Post poned my posting in general but had to jot this down before I forget...

Played with this stuff agian and all I can say is WOW, the place that I'm coming from feels so powerful. Almost every chick I interacted with I started kissing and one in particular I started sucking on her tits. Once again, women opening me lots. (grabbing my hair seems to be their opener) Another moment which coulda possibly lead to a 3some is this chick introducing her friend mentioning they come as a pair. The perspective I was coming from allowed me to flat out say "So your saying you want to have a 3some?" she actually was pondering with MAYBE. I simply stated, its good of her since I don't have 1 on 1 sex anymore.

What sorta ALMOST fucked me up is that I started to think all women would just hookup with any guy INSTANTLY because in general most women are willing to do whatever. Last night, I must've made out with atleast 8 different women. I'd litterally STOP, walk to next girl and fool with her.

Gonna keep an eye on this thread for abit because its a rather drastic shift...
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Distant Light

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Now that I'm actually home and able to type...

NOTE: This is still very low-level since its only recent that I've been actively aware and focusing on this viewpoint. I've only been out a few times as of late BUT everytime has been similar results.

One of the biggest things I'm noticing is that I was battling with ALMOST falling in a belief trap due to all my experiences in the past few times out. I keep looking at women and thinking "Yo, women are very easy". It's like all this stuff would happen to ME and then I'd think the other man next to me could do the same exact thing which in actuality is FALSE since he is not in the same headspace. However, I still kept noticing myself thinking "Why!?!? How is it these women are just READY from the start?"
-  Chick rolls up to me saying I'm a shaman and I kiss her (as a way of saying "thanks")
-  Chicks keep GRABBING MY HAIR and feeling me up (it almost got to the point where it was getting annoying)
-  Chick showing me naked pics on her phone
-  Cupping women breasts are becoming a norm

Personally, this whole vibe is like...

"A villian roaming around a city just projecting different special powers to the world which is causing reactions"

This was VERY APPARENT in the model venue where all these hotties aren't used to a guy being so proactive...
-  Here is where a chick I spotted, pull her in, she's biting me and I'm kissing her neck while grabbing her hair. Start lifting her up and just making out with her. EXACTLY before that, I was having a chick put my faceback name in her phone. (Who I also kissed too)
-  My phone is off so I told this chick she'd have to figure something out to reach me. (she insisted that I take he name and number haha) The whole time it was like she was the main superhero/villian and while fighting her ever so often I'd fight her henchmen. In NORMAL form, while interacting with her very non-chalantly I was bringing in and interacting with about 5-6 different women. It almost looked like I had ADD and from her perspective at any moment I could be wisked away.

The reason I used "villian destroying city" analogy is because there is a sort of uncontrolability factor and when interacting with women there is a sense of "She has ZERO control and its obvious" beacuse I'd be walking around, fuck with a chick for like 5secs and walk off. So imagine it's like "BAM" gone, most guys wanna WORK IT but instead due to me just continuing to "destroy the city" it creates this sort of vacuum in her of...

"Wait, Wait, Wait...I'm not done yet!!! Wait, who are you? I want to observe more!!!!!"
I literally entered the venue an simply went up to these 2 model chicks and started lifting them up then continued walking into the venue. To others, that shit looked mysthical because it came out of nowhere in their minds BUT I know I'm just creating chaos hyping people up. Immediately, I have my hands in the air and start jumping with these 3 random girls for like 10secs and then continue walking. Then some random girl, start kissing her and just saying "be right back, gotta find my wife". (unrelated to this night, the other night I was out one of my gals approached this hottie who then bounced with us. I gestured my arm for her to grab while not realizing I was saying some about "a wife". One of the funniest shits was seeing her about to grab an then subtly STOP in a "o shit, he's married!" I called her out laughing at her, acknowledging that I seen it) I'm not exactly sure how I met the chick who's tits I was sucking on, all I know as of light I caress women's breast and slap alot of chicks asses always making them feel as if they got a bubble butt. This girl, I just told her to take my female friend number and to come out sunday since I'll be with her. (Past few days, I've had maybe 5-6 girls take my female friend number)

Open-Ended & Free-Flowing Outer Game?
I've become abit extreme in the sense that the range of emotions I evoke is impressive/shocking since its no longer about that in my mind. All that matters is that I'm creating chaos hyping people up...

Realized, I was telling a chick "Fuck you!!! I hate you!!!" and then later on laughing at her since I'm realizing how much I love flirting with her. If I'm making noise and the girl starts, I start telling her how she is making too much noise and that she doesn't pay rent here, the basement lady is going to come up and fuck her up. Also been catching myself doing something that from 3rd person would sound like a "DHV Story" but instead its just a totally outlandish fake story about some random shit. For instance, I told a chick how I'm allergic to french fries and rambled into a story about how it all began only to laugh at the stupidity of it all. Sounds like, I'm bi-polar, but its all rather fluid and the fact that it comes from NOTHING or branched off of something which makes for some endless possibilities. Heck, I even switch up what I heard and misinterpret it all.

An this is all based off very few concepts...
In my phone, I've had to make a whole new notes that right now only has TWO concepts which has been the cause of all these crazy experiences...

The only problem I've run into so far is the internal belief-trap of me assuming "Women are easy, it takes nothing to mess with them" is valid for ALL MEN. That shit is wrong, it's just valid for me given the headspace I was coming from which is why I was experiencing what I was experiencing. However, the main reason I fell into this was because I notice times when I'm buggin out there would be these women hovering the group hoping for ANY guy to just meet her and potentially escalate. An I don't mean that has happened 1-2 times, I can count atleast 20-30 times that I've actively seen/observed it. However, I learnt that when they observe me and the group they automatically assume the guys who associate with me must all be similar to me or else they wouldn't even be around me.

Add to the fact that I personally was experiencing lots of things that made me assume "if its like this for me then its like that for the man next to me too" which is another WRONG/BAD ASSUMPTION causing the belief to seem even more real. Like, the night I was actively aware was when I rolled right into a club slammed my hand above the woman's head as I pressed up on her, spoke in russian, started kissing her neck and walked off.

More to come...

P.S...I was suppose to stop posting for abit BUT this concept was too big for me to just let slide.
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Distant Light

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Hahaha, I'm loving this shit, I think everyday is going to be like this for now on...

99% of my night is spent laughing because it essentially comes down to "what do you want to do?" I madeout with 4 different girls like a random maniac hahaha. The fucked up part is that one of the chicks that I madeout with did it while the guy she was with was talking to my boy. So imagine your speaking to my friend and chick your with is making out with me passionately. The 1st girl almost caused me to never make it to the next venue because she was straight up molesting me, I kinda moved her to the back area so we can get naughty and she was just tonguing me down.

3rd girl was actually shocked that I was making out with her since she actually knows me and I usually never do that to her BUT today I was all about having a blast so I was lifting her up, holding her tight body and we just sorta kissed. Last girl, was PULLABLE as she tried to get me to come eat with her BUT I honeslty couldn't deal with going in the place to eat food, so I bailed. Apparently she knew me which is how we ended up making out in the first place, she too was with 2 guys.

Remember when I stated in other post that I had fell in a belief trap thinking women would do all this with other random guys. Well, that's long gone as I only view women doing all this to me and me only. This 6'2 chick came up to me who I thought was a victoria secret chick who is the gf of a guy I know, turned out it wasn't even her hahahaha. Apparently this chick just loved what I was about so took it upon her self to come meet me.

This shit is getting crazy!!!!!! I'm loving it, more to come within the next week...ha!
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Be.Cool

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dude your killin shit haha. this puts even instructors in perspective. just pure expression of fun.

awesome. never stop posting!

the only reason I can believe what you are writing here is because I had a few nights that have been only slightly similar.
thats when having fun became more important than gettin the spedific girl, just purely creating chaos! fuck yeah haha!
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TheKing

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 what's the problem in "every guy can do this mindset?" I didn't get your interpretation, to me is fine if every guy is winning I don't give a fuck he is getting his results I'm getting my everybody wins.
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TheKing

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 By the way I liked your post that's my type of shit (;
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