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Thanks mate, I appreciate it.



If this is your first question, I think you're missing the point. But sure, I'll get to that in a moment. The point is that when you feel this way, you're not results-obsessed or attached to any kind of material value, it's just a fun bonus that you enjoy as an extension of this FEELING. Of course, when you're not FEELING it, you're focussed on some outcome you logically THINK will make you FEEL better. Let this go.

And your reaction to this might be "fuck off hippy, that's a cop out."

But it's not. The truth is, if you don't put the feeling first, YOU WON'T EVEN REALLY ENJOY whatever abundance you manage to accumulate. You'll just be looking for the next thing instead of enjoying what you have now.

But to answer your question, the main thing is that it brought me from a place of emotional turbulence and instability to feeling really fucking good almost all of the time. It turned me into a person with only a few good friends who could barely count on me to a guy with tons of social abundance with tons of people who count on me now, blowing up my phone, wanting to go out every night of the week (guys AND girls) - and more importantly, really quality close friends that I love and trust and vice versa. It turned me from a guy who mostly pulled from social circle and online game to a guy who can get laid from a new girl off cold approach about once every other week (and when I was really applying the shit in this post to the fullest, I had runs where I fucked several girls off cold approach in a single weekend back to back). I got an awesome job where I get paid to do basically nothing and I'm surrounded by hot girls. And I'm ripped as fuck bitch. Anyway I'm done tooting my own horn. I also acquired this because I'm not a total pussy and I applied the principle in my post called DOING WHAT I FEAR. Letting go plus doing what you fear equals massive results.



Cheers for the compliment dude. Also I see what you mean about sex, I just wrote it in there as a bonus. Gym and clean eating is enough to get this buzz, but it's a nice motivation to get out there and pull to remember that regular sex will give you a nice chilled out feeling automatically. It's not a precondition but it sure fucking helps.

Yeah I felt the same way about EFT. Quite frankly anything not very practical these days makes me nauseous to look at because it feels like a waste of my time. I do EFT because it works. When I have a bad emotion because of something that happened in the past or something I'm anxious about in the future, I tap on it and it goes away and my vibe is clean again, and typically when I think about the thing that triggered it, the emotion doesn't come up again. The basic idea is that the areas you're tapping on are the energy centres for your emotion in your body, and by tapping on it (the phrases are secondary, it's just to link it mentally) you are literally physically flushing out the emotion. The proof is in the pudding, it works. But what most guys (including myself in the past) don't get is YOU HAVE TO BE FEELING THE EMOTION. You have to let it build up in your body and actually be feeling it before you tap on it, otherwise it's DOING NOTHING. If you feel it and tap on it, it eliminates it (sometimes you have to go through the tapping sequence a few times before it eliminates it entirely if the emotion is super strong). If you don't feel it, you might as well be tapping your dick.