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December 10th, 2016
Serious question: openers in daygame
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dave7

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 I do daygame all the time so I don't need some amateur bullshit about this. I do night game a lot too. I've noticed in NG that I don't really need openers. But in daygame it seems like I do need openers like "do you know where to get good coffee?" or whatever. So is it me and my social conditioning that I think that I need openers in daygame, or does real social dynamics dictate that day-time openers are a natural necessity? No pun intended. Or maybe to not have openers in daygame I should rely less on word openers and more on nonverbal subcommunication, so like I would just make eye contact with a cute girl and get some tension going and then go say what's up. And I'm not confusing myself on this, these dynamics are really simple for me. 
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dave7

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furyx

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dave7 wrote:
 I do daygame all the time so I don't need some amateur bullshit about this. I do night game a lot too. I've noticed in NG that I don't really need openers. But in daygame it seems like I do need openers like "do you know where to get good coffee?" or whatever. So is it me and my social conditioning that I think that I need openers in daygame, or does real social dynamics dictate that day-time openers are a natural necessity? No pun intended. Or maybe to not have openers in daygame I should rely less on word openers and more on nonverbal subcommunication, so like I would just make eye contact with a cute girl and get some tension going and then go say what's up. And I'm not confusing myself on this, these dynamics are really simple for me. 
No need for openers man. Day game is just natural and no need with "fancy openers". I suggest you watch this video and implement what he covers. It will help you out a lot.
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Yes and no.

If I'm relaxed, in that social mood, I just approach and know that what ever will come out of my mouth is gold.

But, if I just got done doing Quantatative Finance, haven't talked to anyone all day, or **OH SHIT! There's a SUPER cutie crossing the street and I need to talk to her NOW or else I'll never see her again!** I'll go to one of my tried and true day game openers. Nothing fancy here, its just something I know is good that'll get my foot in the door.

Here are some right now...
"Hey, were you inside that bomb ass building over there?" **Points to any building**
"STOP STOP STOP. Youre really cute and I had to come flirt with you. In fact, your so cute I had to run all the way from over there" [works best when I DO run up to them. lol]
"WOW WOW WOW, girls like you can't walk down the street without holding a hot guy's hand..."

Get it? Its DUMB, makes you stand out, stops her, and gets your foot in the door.

The problem isn't opening, its where you lead her from there. lol. that's where the game is played at.

Said lines may or may not work for you because you may or may not be like me (a skumbag).
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OMAR

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THose are the best lines i hard since jeffys ur done in this town, pack u bags and go
SirKonstantine wrote:
Yes and no.

If I'm relaxed, in that social mood, I just approach and know that what ever will come out of my mouth is gold.

But, if I just got done doing Quantatative Finance, haven't talked to anyone all day, or **OH SHIT! There's a SUPER cutie crossing the street and I need to talk to her NOW or else I'll never see her again!** I'll go to one of my tried and true day game openers. Nothing fancy here, its just something I know is good that'll get my foot in the door.

Here are some right now...
"Hey, were you inside that bomb ass building over there?" **Points to any building**
"STOP STOP STOP. Youre really cute and I had to come flirt with you. In fact, your so cute I had to run all the way from over there" [works best when I DO run up to them. lol]
"WOW WOW WOW, girls like you can't walk down the street without holding a hot guy's hand..."

Get it? Its DUMB, makes you stand out, stops her, and gets your foot in the door.

The problem isn't opening, its where you lead her from there. lol. that's where the game is played at.

Said lines may or may not work for you because you may or may not be like me (a skumbag).
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new one .. stole from Jeffy's hotseat but it is back in fashion now.

"Hey I want to take you to watch new Twilight movie with me."
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dave7

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This is something that I can't quite get my head around yet
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OMAR

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 no ones gonna beleive ur bullshit. POSt up real convesations adn interactions that we can pick apart otheriwse ur talkin out of ur ass..  It enver matters what u really say. day or night. I dont get how u dont understand constatine psot.. he comes at the girl with pure fun nonsesne and that is what will always open unless iur miscalibnrated or the girl is brain dead...

ITs the way u go about opening the vibe ur feeling in ur body and how chilled u are at that moment... and how much u dont give a fuck an d just tryna have a bit of fun.. NO one watns a guy who takes pickup this seriously to appraoch them. Ther is no correct degree or angle to appraoch. An u will learn th moest wat works for u by doing it and getting better. 

I just make sure i went over sand said something and tried to plow thats what u shud be worreid about not the opener.. Have u tried oipening with hey uuuu wats ur name my name is bla bla i mean is it really that hard for u??
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dave7

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 jesus man chill out. I'm not some newbie who's never done day game. I've done a bunch of day game, basically every day. I'm just tryin out a new approach to this, because I've noticed that I always have stock openers like "hey do you know where some good coffee is" or "do you know where a good bar is". I tried not doing openers today at day game and it was really weird, girls were just like why are you talking to me. I could have easily done an opener like "hey where is a good spot to buy xyz". But I was just trying out the no opener approach.

This isn't bullshit wtf? I'm being honest about how I feel about this, honesty yo! Thanks for posting some good vibes on here you're really helpful. 
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OMAR

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 im not here for good vibes and neither shud u LOOOL. were her to get laid adn to learn how to do it LOl.  u shud post up ur interactions to get specific feedback. But ur shit sounds wack. U say u u felt wier dnot ahving any openers..SOOOOO wat did u do isntead?? liike wtf do u expect... u got amazing answers by some guys here adn ur still clueless.. the fact that ur even thinkin of it liike day game wat type of opernsers shud i use tells me how nerd like u are approaching this thing. try to actually understand what we saying. LIKE seriously wtf is a no opener approach. And r u raelly interested in wat cooffe is good?? do u want to come across as a man or as a pua robot... dont take shit eprsonally or get upset if im getting harsh with u but for real dude its hilraious.. Im gonna b in dc this weekend and next weekend btw and wud love to show u how its done.
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dave7

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 OK man let's meet up. 
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