THE FORUMS
WHADDDUUUUUP?!!!!
I'M BACK BITCHEZZZZZZ! FINALLY got my insurance money. Paid off 2/3 of my debt and bought a HELLUVA SICK ASS RIDE!! I'm ridin in style now.
Now that I'm back on the road, I can finally continue my path. I will be the best me that I can. Tomorrow I have to run a shitload of errands and basically catch-up on bussiness, martial arts training, spiritual development, education, my friends and my love life. I was forced to put all theese things off for almost 5months straight. Damn, this has been one of the worst periods in my life.
It's time to rise from the gutter and become awesome again. Will post regularly from now on, and would appreciate any feedback greatly.
Thank you.
cheers
I'M BACK BITCHEZZZZZZ! FINALLY got my insurance money. Paid off 2/3 of my debt and bought a HELLUVA SICK ASS RIDE!! I'm ridin in style now.
Now that I'm back on the road, I can finally continue my path. I will be the best me that I can. Tomorrow I have to run a shitload of errands and basically catch-up on bussiness, martial arts training, spiritual development, education, my friends and my love life. I was forced to put all theese things off for almost 5months straight. Damn, this has been one of the worst periods in my life.
It's time to rise from the gutter and become awesome again. Will post regularly from now on, and would appreciate any feedback greatly.
Thank you.
cheers
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WHAT A WONDERFUL CELEBRATION OF LIFE these past few weeks have been.
I'm progressively focusing on important areas of life again. Working at ONLY ONE but ALLTOGETHER at a time =)
Areas I've already covered:
Health
- healthy eating
- regular sleeping schedule
- training Kung Fu as fuck and doing a lot of stretching exercises along with my daily sixpack routine
Love
- chatting wiw a nice, healthy, fit and sexy girl over the via sms; met her on a online dating site.. damn, they are getting more popular every day. And girls are on them for one reason only. To meet a cool healthy fit sexy guy. They know it, I know it, it's all good. No BS back and forht like on fb chat. I hate facebook. Such a waste of time. Not to mention all the pretentious people. SO.. if everything goes well, I am meeting her today for the first time. Can't wait.
Now on to:
Bussiness
- plan A: MLM bussiness; getting clients through street approach. Old school MLM, I know. But for now this is my only option. (Would strongly appreciate any advice on this topic)
- plan B: Internet Marketing (project on hold)
School
- (trying to) study every day; sincerelly I've had the most difficulties with this one
Love
- other than that, I'm putting my love life and all this learning to be abundantly successfull with women on hold. First I have to cover my school and bussiness areas. After that, love-area will be effortless. I'll have money to live the life I want and take women out on dates (because I'll have the money to do so) and live an awesome life filled with adventure.
Stay clear in your path and stay focused fellow Rsd guys, success will come to you.
That's it for now. Back to my awesome life.
cheers
I'm progressively focusing on important areas of life again. Working at ONLY ONE but ALLTOGETHER at a time =)
Areas I've already covered:
Health
- healthy eating
- regular sleeping schedule
- training Kung Fu as fuck and doing a lot of stretching exercises along with my daily sixpack routine
Love
- chatting wiw a nice, healthy, fit and sexy girl over the via sms; met her on a online dating site.. damn, they are getting more popular every day. And girls are on them for one reason only. To meet a cool healthy fit sexy guy. They know it, I know it, it's all good. No BS back and forht like on fb chat. I hate facebook. Such a waste of time. Not to mention all the pretentious people. SO.. if everything goes well, I am meeting her today for the first time. Can't wait.
Now on to:
Bussiness
- plan A: MLM bussiness; getting clients through street approach. Old school MLM, I know. But for now this is my only option. (Would strongly appreciate any advice on this topic)
- plan B: Internet Marketing (project on hold)
School
- (trying to) study every day; sincerelly I've had the most difficulties with this one
Love
- other than that, I'm putting my love life and all this learning to be abundantly successfull with women on hold. First I have to cover my school and bussiness areas. After that, love-area will be effortless. I'll have money to live the life I want and take women out on dates (because I'll have the money to do so) and live an awesome life filled with adventure.
Stay clear in your path and stay focused fellow Rsd guys, success will come to you.
That's it for now. Back to my awesome life.
cheers
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Going out to grab few drinks with my homies tonight.. After that, we'll se how it goes and maybe drive into a bigger city.
Damn I'm feelin horny lately. It's the best state to approach girls. Horny as fuck. Will do my approaches tonight and go for the makeouts and digits since SNL aren't really my thing.
Report later.
Damn I'm feelin horny lately. It's the best state to approach girls. Horny as fuck. Will do my approaches tonight and go for the makeouts and digits since SNL aren't really my thing.
Report later.
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The Night of The Pull
My 2nd pull from a venue. And it all went down in 5-10min.
It was at the end of the night, somewhere arround 4am in the morning so it was already very late and the venue was slowly closing down, when I stormed in. Literally stormed in, saw two girls sitting by themselves, went up there strong. Was feeling very good within myself, solid vibe, strong frame. Chat them up a bit, make them laugh. Me standing up, they sitting down. I sat down, chat some more, said let's go out to smoke a cig, they said no I tried again: "Let's get some fresh air". They said ok. So I move them out. I didn't even wait for them.
Just turned arround and started walking out without even looking back. We chit chat outside, it was very windy, so I use that to move them to a more warmer place eg. my car. Again, didn't even waited for them, just turned arround and started walking towards my car. They just followed.
Drove them arround a bit, took the other friend home, she already knew what's up. Then took the other one, to a romantic spot with a view over the whole town. The stars were shinning, chill music was playing in the back and she got swept away by the moment. There was slight LMR, but I just blasted through, no problemo.
Kinda awesome. She could have been hotter though, but hey she had the biggest boobs I've ever touched. And I'm krazy for big boobs.
That was in my hometown. The other town I went to, I did quite a lot of approaches, can't remember when was the last time I did so many. Damn, the first one was the hardest and the worst of the entire night. But then I kinda got in state and just rode the awesome wawe. Got one diggit, send her a text few minutes later: guess who? :P She responded. I'm gonna take this one further, just to see where it goes.
It was awesome night overall, had a lot of fun with my buddies, danced my ass off, approached few girls, pulled. Oh yeah, and I was sober muthafuckaaaaaaa!!!
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- did everything I could to get myself in state, talked loudly, yelled, danced like crazy, approached, self-amuse, dick arround with my buddies
- when I dropped state and I did, I instantly tried to put myself back in when neccessary ( changin my phisiology, yelling, clapping hands, etc.)
- pulled =)
- said what was on my mind
- didn't relly on anyone except myself; took responsibility for myself and success I'm getting ( and it helped A LOT)
- "What do you got to loose?"-mindset
- went back for the diggits; I lost contact with a girl at one venue, went to another, then saw her much much later at the same venue when we were already leaving.
I came outside, turned arround furriously and went back in and down the stairs. She was dancing like crazy on the dancefloor. That didn't stop me for a sec. Went straight to her, grabbed her hand and started pulling her away from her friends.
She was all surprised, her friends were bombarding me with questions screaming: WHERE ARE YOU TAKING HER? I shoot back: WHY NOT?? Their faces went blank from surprise. I took her away by the hand away from her friends. Hand her my phone and said: "gimme your number". She was surprised that I acted so dominant, but she liked it and was happy on the inside. I could tell.
Even if this one doesn't go anywhere, I still get bonus points for having the balls to do that.
- was in a very good mood and super HIGH ENERGY ALL NIGHT
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- I didn't push myself as hard as I should. There were times when I was acting SUPER CHODE DELUXE
- got pulled over by cops and got a fine for driving in the wrong direction ( yeah, I get crazy sometimes)
- was having bad, self defeating thoughts
- didn't feel like I was enough (especially with higher caliber women)
That's it. Hope you got some value out of it.
Cheers
My 2nd pull from a venue. And it all went down in 5-10min.
It was at the end of the night, somewhere arround 4am in the morning so it was already very late and the venue was slowly closing down, when I stormed in. Literally stormed in, saw two girls sitting by themselves, went up there strong. Was feeling very good within myself, solid vibe, strong frame. Chat them up a bit, make them laugh. Me standing up, they sitting down. I sat down, chat some more, said let's go out to smoke a cig, they said no I tried again: "Let's get some fresh air". They said ok. So I move them out. I didn't even wait for them.
Just turned arround and started walking out without even looking back. We chit chat outside, it was very windy, so I use that to move them to a more warmer place eg. my car. Again, didn't even waited for them, just turned arround and started walking towards my car. They just followed.
Drove them arround a bit, took the other friend home, she already knew what's up. Then took the other one, to a romantic spot with a view over the whole town. The stars were shinning, chill music was playing in the back and she got swept away by the moment. There was slight LMR, but I just blasted through, no problemo.
Kinda awesome. She could have been hotter though, but hey she had the biggest boobs I've ever touched. And I'm krazy for big boobs.
That was in my hometown. The other town I went to, I did quite a lot of approaches, can't remember when was the last time I did so many. Damn, the first one was the hardest and the worst of the entire night. But then I kinda got in state and just rode the awesome wawe. Got one diggit, send her a text few minutes later: guess who? :P She responded. I'm gonna take this one further, just to see where it goes.
It was awesome night overall, had a lot of fun with my buddies, danced my ass off, approached few girls, pulled. Oh yeah, and I was sober muthafuckaaaaaaa!!!
+
- did everything I could to get myself in state, talked loudly, yelled, danced like crazy, approached, self-amuse, dick arround with my buddies
- when I dropped state and I did, I instantly tried to put myself back in when neccessary ( changin my phisiology, yelling, clapping hands, etc.)
- pulled =)
- said what was on my mind
- didn't relly on anyone except myself; took responsibility for myself and success I'm getting ( and it helped A LOT)
- "What do you got to loose?"-mindset
- went back for the diggits; I lost contact with a girl at one venue, went to another, then saw her much much later at the same venue when we were already leaving.
I came outside, turned arround furriously and went back in and down the stairs. She was dancing like crazy on the dancefloor. That didn't stop me for a sec. Went straight to her, grabbed her hand and started pulling her away from her friends.
She was all surprised, her friends were bombarding me with questions screaming: WHERE ARE YOU TAKING HER? I shoot back: WHY NOT?? Their faces went blank from surprise. I took her away by the hand away from her friends. Hand her my phone and said: "gimme your number". She was surprised that I acted so dominant, but she liked it and was happy on the inside. I could tell.
Even if this one doesn't go anywhere, I still get bonus points for having the balls to do that.
- was in a very good mood and super HIGH ENERGY ALL NIGHT
-
- I didn't push myself as hard as I should. There were times when I was acting SUPER CHODE DELUXE
- got pulled over by cops and got a fine for driving in the wrong direction ( yeah, I get crazy sometimes)
- was having bad, self defeating thoughts
- didn't feel like I was enough (especially with higher caliber women)
That's it. Hope you got some value out of it.
Cheers
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Ola,
time for me to finally break through my comfort zone and go out on the street searching for potential clients for my bussiness, old school street-mall way. It's gonna be tough. But I'm gonna do it.
Six hours of nonstop approach.
Report later.
time for me to finally break through my comfort zone and go out on the street searching for potential clients for my bussiness, old school street-mall way. It's gonna be tough. But I'm gonna do it.
Six hours of nonstop approach.
Report later.
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Approaching random strangers on the street and trying to persuade them to join your bussiness is hard. You mostly get blown off politely or not so politely. I'm bringing value, because the product I'm selling IS THE SHIT and I'm genuinely trying to help people.
I don't know if it's the approach or something else that I'm fucking up.
I actually made 1 client today. But that's it.
Gona try again tomorrow.
Later.
I don't know if it's the approach or something else that I'm fucking up.
I actually made 1 client today. But that's it.
Gona try again tomorrow.
Later.
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Sup.
As I was returning home frrom work, a random thought pops into my mind and I call a girl I hadn't been in contact with for over 5months. Call her. Told her, get ready, I'm coming to pick U up and take U out for drink. At first she was reluctant, but a bit later, she was really happy that I called and was down for drink.
So, had a date tonight. Didn't go for the pull. Didn't wanna force it on 1st date. I've been out of the game for some time and am just getting back "the feel" for it. Makeout on first date is very fine. For now.
It was interesting though. I remembered that scene from Hitch, where he said to the fat guy: If she's fumbling with keys, she wants to be kissed. (!) It was exactly like that. After I took her out to drink and drove her back to her house, we were chatting outside. Just regular back- forth convo, when I get that gut feel, oooh, it's time to kiss. But I was hesitating. Dunno why. She was talking, I went silent, when she then took her keys out of her purse and started fumbling with them. The scene from Hitch popped into my head and I was like: "OMG! So Hitch was onto something!!" Then I just grabbed her behind the neck and pull her in. KISSSSSSSS.
I break the kiss first. Slap her on the ass as she was turning arround: "Later, babe." and go.
Potential fuck buddy vibe. I'll just play it cool and see where it goes.
That's all for now.
Later
As I was returning home frrom work, a random thought pops into my mind and I call a girl I hadn't been in contact with for over 5months. Call her. Told her, get ready, I'm coming to pick U up and take U out for drink. At first she was reluctant, but a bit later, she was really happy that I called and was down for drink.
So, had a date tonight. Didn't go for the pull. Didn't wanna force it on 1st date. I've been out of the game for some time and am just getting back "the feel" for it. Makeout on first date is very fine. For now.
It was interesting though. I remembered that scene from Hitch, where he said to the fat guy: If she's fumbling with keys, she wants to be kissed. (!) It was exactly like that. After I took her out to drink and drove her back to her house, we were chatting outside. Just regular back- forth convo, when I get that gut feel, oooh, it's time to kiss. But I was hesitating. Dunno why. She was talking, I went silent, when she then took her keys out of her purse and started fumbling with them. The scene from Hitch popped into my head and I was like: "OMG! So Hitch was onto something!!" Then I just grabbed her behind the neck and pull her in. KISSSSSSSS.
I break the kiss first. Slap her on the ass as she was turning arround: "Later, babe." and go.
Potential fuck buddy vibe. I'll just play it cool and see where it goes.
That's all for now.
Later
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This saturday I had The worst night out in a long time. Really bad. Super CHODE MODE, all the time in my head, too chilled, too relaxed arround women, not being physical enough, pulling them in, clawing them. Approaches were few and too chilled. Need to show more energy and intent next time.
Reading Tony Robbins Guint Steps and Robert Kiyosakis Rich Dad, Poor Dad. Amazing authors, amazing books.
Am going on the street again today. Will try to approach as many strangers as possible and persuade them for bussiness.
It's all about decisions. Even when you don't approach and pussy out, you make a decision inside not to approach. It may be unconscious decision, but still it's a decision. That way you program yourself badly for next time. Then all this not taking action pussy mentality permiates your mind and body and changes you. FOR THE WORST. I've personally experinced this phenomena in last two weeks.
I took action yea, but not nearly as much as I should. Maybe 15-20 % of what I should do, I did. And later told myslef:" Ooooh, it's fine. It's an achievemnt that you at least did that. Now don't continue." or "That's enough for today" or "You didn't expose yourself too much and show yourself in such way that would make other people think badly of you. You did good??!!", when in reality I always knew deep down that I am capable of SO MUCH MORE. But somehow I didn't do it. Dunno why. I just didn't. Now, when I thought this through, I came to the conclusion that I was gaining negative momentum, which resulted in a super bad night out. I wasn't giving all I've got and pushing myself harder and harder everytime. I always pussied out or did it in a half-assed way. Manwhore had a great post on this:
In the way you do anything.. you do everything (Manwhore): http://www.rsdnation.com/node/83961
As Anthony Robbins says: your decisions shape your life, no matter what circumstances are you in, it's the decisions that you take, that play the key role in your life. From decisions come consequences, good or bad. As consequences of your decisions you become rich or poor. Successfull or dissapointed. Happy and fullfilled or unsatissfied and regretfull. (paraphrased)
It's a game. It's all a beautifull game of marketing and sales. And you need to look at it that way. It's just a game. - R.Kiyosaki
Report later how it went.
Reading Tony Robbins Guint Steps and Robert Kiyosakis Rich Dad, Poor Dad. Amazing authors, amazing books.
Am going on the street again today. Will try to approach as many strangers as possible and persuade them for bussiness.
It's all about decisions. Even when you don't approach and pussy out, you make a decision inside not to approach. It may be unconscious decision, but still it's a decision. That way you program yourself badly for next time. Then all this not taking action pussy mentality permiates your mind and body and changes you. FOR THE WORST. I've personally experinced this phenomena in last two weeks.
I took action yea, but not nearly as much as I should. Maybe 15-20 % of what I should do, I did. And later told myslef:" Ooooh, it's fine. It's an achievemnt that you at least did that. Now don't continue." or "That's enough for today" or "You didn't expose yourself too much and show yourself in such way that would make other people think badly of you. You did good??!!", when in reality I always knew deep down that I am capable of SO MUCH MORE. But somehow I didn't do it. Dunno why. I just didn't. Now, when I thought this through, I came to the conclusion that I was gaining negative momentum, which resulted in a super bad night out. I wasn't giving all I've got and pushing myself harder and harder everytime. I always pussied out or did it in a half-assed way. Manwhore had a great post on this:
In the way you do anything.. you do everything (Manwhore): http://www.rsdnation.com/node/83961
As Anthony Robbins says: your decisions shape your life, no matter what circumstances are you in, it's the decisions that you take, that play the key role in your life. From decisions come consequences, good or bad. As consequences of your decisions you become rich or poor. Successfull or dissapointed. Happy and fullfilled or unsatissfied and regretfull. (paraphrased)
It's a game. It's all a beautifull game of marketing and sales. And you need to look at it that way. It's just a game. - R.Kiyosaki
Report later how it went.
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Shit. Fuck. Today's approaches were just that. I look good, smell good, have awesome hair. But my vocal tonality and vocal projection are shitty. I'm not cutting through their bullshit. Need to work on that more. I've searched for an absolutely awsome program for developing your voice. Here it is: www.amazon.com/Roger-Loves-Vocal-Power-Conviction/dp/1596590114. I'm ordering this ASAP. Besides that, I FEEL there is something inside of me actually PULLING ME BACK. I think it's the useless beliefs and retarded social cond. I somehow need to get rid of that.
I watched a Jim Rohn video today, and something he said, resonated deeply inside: "Work on yourself harder, than you work on your job." and "If you want to attract success, you need to become an attractive person."
Words of wisdom. Keys to success. Wish only I could somehow pull my shit together and do all the hard work on myself I keep postponing and sidetracking and avoiding. I can't live like this no more. My hard drive has a special folder, that is filled with self help programs. I've started with a lot of them, but never finished with any of them. If I would, I wouldn't be having this negative beliefs pulling me back and wouldn't be stuck here.
Got a job interview tomorrow. Wish me luck. Actually, one doesn't need luck, if he has skills. So wish me success.
After the interview, I'll do more approaches.
Later.
I watched a Jim Rohn video today, and something he said, resonated deeply inside: "Work on yourself harder, than you work on your job." and "If you want to attract success, you need to become an attractive person."
Words of wisdom. Keys to success. Wish only I could somehow pull my shit together and do all the hard work on myself I keep postponing and sidetracking and avoiding. I can't live like this no more. My hard drive has a special folder, that is filled with self help programs. I've started with a lot of them, but never finished with any of them. If I would, I wouldn't be having this negative beliefs pulling me back and wouldn't be stuck here.
Got a job interview tomorrow. Wish me luck. Actually, one doesn't need luck, if he has skills. So wish me success.
After the interview, I'll do more approaches.
Later.
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Primus
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Join Date: 07/28/2010 | Posts: 101
Ok, no more complaining.
Will be in touch again, when shit gets better.
cheers