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Yeah you're right bro. Im going tommorow again both daygame and nightgame.
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6 direct daygame approaches. All girls were very receptive and some literally laughing out loud :D. But then I was thinking by myself ok I have done 6 now, thats a cool number lets chill..
And then I didnt do anymore approaches. So yeah I should just push it next time. I should work on my day to day feeling good state. Cuz during daygame thats the state youre in.
And then I didnt do anymore approaches. So yeah I should just push it next time. I should work on my day to day feeling good state. Cuz during daygame thats the state youre in.
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Did 3 approaches today. Went pretty well, I notice that when I do more approaches the time between spotting a girl and approaching reduces significantly. Also the thoughts about ''shes not hot enough, she is to far away, to many people surround her'' are not there anymore. Tommorow Im going again and Im planning to hit up 20+ sets. :D
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Didnt make it fuck.. This goes way to slow..my willpower is sooo low, and at the same time Im beasting in the gym..I think it has to do something with the fact that I skip my study a lot.
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Hey Full_intent~, I allways do warm ups if I get the ''she is not hot enough'' or ''she is walking the wrong way'' excuses comming up in my mind. With me that mostly happens at the beginning of doing a few approaches during the day. I warm up by saying ''hey'' and then asking directions or something to hot or non hot girls, with the goal to make conversation for the sake of conversation. Then after a few of those im more comfortable doing a normal approach.
If the excuse of ''random people seeing you approach'' is stopping you, then maybe you could go to a nearby city where you know know one. you could like get an email of some chick in the train ride over there whom you will never see again, just try different things.
If the excuse of ''random people seeing you approach'' is stopping you, then maybe you could go to a nearby city where you know know one. you could like get an email of some chick in the train ride over there whom you will never see again, just try different things.
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Silky-'s Self-Development thread
Brad- Bootcamp Amsterdam 2009
Living in Holland? Pm me and lets do some winging!
Brad- Bootcamp Amsterdam 2009
Living in Holland? Pm me and lets do some winging!
Yeah I probably go to Amsterdam tommorow.
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Did a couple sets there, also did some more approaches in the following days.
I have started an holding eye contact challenge today for the coming 30 days. Objective hold eye contact with every person you see/meet. when you get them in sight even if its 500 meter or more away keep holding eyecontact.
Today 95% people I saw I held eye contact. Felt good.
I have started an holding eye contact challenge today for the coming 30 days. Objective hold eye contact with every person you see/meet. when you get them in sight even if its 500 meter or more away keep holding eyecontact.
Today 95% people I saw I held eye contact. Felt good.
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Had exams, and some drama last months. But... i did doing my sets almost everday. I really see progress, its going slow, but soon Im consistently fucking girls I meet in the train, and library :D. One reminder sex is just a result of a man and women spending time together. It will happen.
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Doing my approaches. Last weeks I had some days on which I totally owned, but today I went daygaming and I stalled in beginning, and then when I finally did 2 right after each other I thought damn this is sooooo easy.. and then I followed some chick and walked past her 2 times..I dont know why. And then I was like damn, and I lost momentum or smoehting cuz I approached the next girls a lot later.
Tonight Im going out again in AMSTERDAM and I will definatly pull some tourist chick.
Tonight Im going out again in AMSTERDAM and I will definatly pull some tourist chick.
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it just needs a bit more time when compared to a club environment. alot of the time daygame adds some social pressure because EVERYONE around you knows what
your doing, only way to get past that fear is to do it bro.
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