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May 29th, 2017
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Full_intent~

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Join Date: 03/28/2009 | Posts: 1263

 Went out solo yesterday, it was awesome I was social to everyone and I forgot how fun going out actually really is. You just have to put energy out to get more energy in. Its something I have noticed over time is that the more energy you put into something, the more energy you get back.
Anyways no pulls, but i have definatly improved even though I did only daygame for the last half year. At the end of the night I met an rsd guy who was really chill. We did one set together, didnt go for make out, cuz I ate chinese and I smelled horribly to garlic. Although no girl said anything about it xD.
I think I can learn from this guy in terms of doing streetgaming, and pulling.
Gonna do daygame today and mb going out tonight again
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Wooooooow..Im at a point where Im actually stagnating/decreasing in skill. Got some ok interactions, but mostly during daygame it was like. Open, talk, girl says she has bf or says she isnt interested, and walks off. I used to call them out, for being unmannered/not social. But I stopped doing that cuz it felt like I was reacting to much. Anyway glad I did a lot of sets today, but I dont feel that doing those sets did improve me because there were soooooo short.

Got fuckbuddys, going to the gym, working on my study not to much drama going on so Im feeling good in my ''nice little comfy COMFORT ZONE''.
Brad's articles came at the right moment, cuz he talks about this and the way he got over it, was burning sets to the ground, opening with lame storys, etc. And focussing on having fun, while being not caring about the outcome (reaction). Well if you are looking logically at this, then its kinda depressing to volunteerly put yourself into situations where you will get humiliated, being made fun off etc. But if you look at it with trolling glasses its pretty cool. So thats what im gonna do. 
I wanted  to do it today actually with a wing, but he's not ready for it.  Also I got the feeling that all girls are looking at me. SEriously sometimes im like wtf man, why all these girls looking at me. I sometimes even think they laugh at me, or saying thats that guy who hangs around stations picking up women.. Seriously I need to break this cycle of thoughts, and burn that ego to the ground. And yeah I might be creepy, or weird of whatever but I got to get this over with! Afterall, who gives a fuck what other people are thinking.. like thats really lame, and gay. Like if you are afraid of other peoples reactions you are just a fucking sad loser.
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 Beastin stations hahah. Still get lot of blowouts but its all about expressing yourself, and not holding back. Blowouts.. who gives a shit, the only thing that counts is that I did hard sets, and fucking ofcourse. I dont care about girls laughing, or getting ''attracted'' the only thing that counts is fucking.
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 Back on fire, Last week I went almost everyday to the station to daygame, and it paid off especiially today. Even though I still get blowouts, sets take longer, and I also stopped giving a fuck. 
The tools I use are: 
Open the first girl I see when I arrive at the station
-go into set right after the last set has ended
-If I for some reason chicken out, go up and ask a random question to that hard set like where is this and this. (I see this as having your spotter help you a bit during your last set in weighttraining)
-Important stop going for the number, Im here already talking to the girl so why need the number..try to close first)

Got instadates, one almost pull where I went to the girls room for some coffee and chit chat :D. But couldnt close the deal. Started to get addicted to dgaming again.
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Im starting a 30 day daygame challenge. I notice that I did well when I had some momentum going on. Right now I daygame some days, and lose that good feeling/momentum. Im not that good, that i can just force myself to approach agian. Yes i do some approaches, but not like set after set. 
So My goal with this challenge is pull a girl home to her or my house and fuck her. I will start very slow, and gradually build up the difficulity of the goals per day.
For tommorow (day 1). Approach first girl i see and go direct. Literally! Just run if she walks ahead. 
day2. same goal as day 1 and approach a dual set. Open direct and keep talking afterwards. 

Its hard to see where Im standing right now. So i just keep it at this. Looks very easy but Ive enough days to amp up the difficulity. I just want to make sure i get goal 1 down, cuz its so important to start with approaching right when you arrive.

I had a 30 minute set on saturday and i noticed that that really improved my game. So mb i put some goals in here to practice long sets.
Having fun, and feeling good about taking action, and not feeling good about reactions is something I want to solidify during this challenge.
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30 day challenge didnt work cuz on training days I found it hard to combine, study, training and pickup in one day. I just dont have the time right now, only possible with a strict time schedule. Which Im probably gonna make in the near future.

Went daygaming today with a rsd wing and it was fuckin awesome! We did 30+ sets, didnt really count. Cant remember all sets, but here are some funny ones. I opened a very tall girl sitting on a bike with ''Hey can you bring me home ( in br tonality) '' She was totally in it, so funny, I also threated with ''im just gonna jump on your bike anyway''. Another one me asking for a random girl to marry me. aNOTHER ONE , stopping a girl and asking her if she wanted to live with me in the building that was on the opposite side. Like it was totally nonsense but sooo funny. I really felt good after those approaches, and I think thats almost 90% of pickup, just trollin girls and having fun. One major flaw however was that I didnt got any number today. Very odd, but I guess it happens now and then. Should just keep pushing my comfort zone. 
Lateron on the central station I saw a girl sitting on a bench and I went over to her, and sat right next to her, then I told her she was cute and asked her if she wanted to get a coffee with me. She was flattered and found me very brave =.= but she had a bf so no go. Anyway I got lots of girls saying they had bfs, also a lot of ''nice blowouts'' the girls are very nice, but not interested. I think I need to speak louder, and keep better eye contact.
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True pimpin lol. 
First some negativity. Pushing my limits really hard with massive amount of approaches, and ballsy openers is seeding MASSIVE gains. My daygame wing and I can push each other really really hard. And this could make us really good and pulling in less then a month. To bad he pussied out today and yesterday, I dont get it, if you have something that improves your game with 110% then use it.  

Ok now the positive, even though I didnt really do the ballsy obnoxious openers I did a lot of approaches got 8 numbers today. Also longer sets, mostly around 15 min. My wing silky told me to focus on this, and it definatly worked. The first girl I approaches was a bit taller then me, with a cute face. I went up to her, and then opened direct, she said she had a bf so she couldnt go for a coffee. I explained why I came talking to her, and kept talking for 15 min or seomthing. We talked about hobbies, study and meeting people. And suddenly I made an ''end'' to the conversation because she had mentioned her bf a lot of times in the beginning of the interaction and I didnt want to waste my time. So I almost back away but kept eye contact. Then after some time she said I can give you my facebook, which I rejected, and then I told her to put her number in my phone. She did, and I hugged her afterwards, exchanged names and I walked away. She was going for dinner, so couldnt pull, but even if she didnt want to go to dinner I doubt I would have gone for the pull. Thats where a wing comes in, who can push you.

This reinforces my belief that the gains arent made when you get numbers or positive feedback, but by taking action, stepping massively outside your comfortzone. Making it HURT, yeah baby you have to go through the negative emotions. I can compare it with weight training, for example when I train my biceps, I focus solely on contracting my biceps muscle. Somewhere far away I feel the pain of my muscle contracting, but Im not paying attention to it, I block it out and focus entirely on contracting my biceps. Its called the mind-muscle connection and an important part of growth.
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Getting numbers regurly now. Also some girls not wanting to give their number so I ended up with some emails as well.. 
Anyway Last days I did a couple of balssy approaches aside from normal approaching and asked a girl if she wanted to mary me in broad daylight lol. Also I feel that the time between seeing girl and approaching is almost none. So Im starting to be an approaching ,machine which is good. I hurt my arms during weight training so Im probably taking a week off. That means full daygaming :D. 

Starting off with tommorow solo daygaming, gonna try more ballsy approaches (also mixed and sets with mother daughter, and mb a couple milfs lol ) and going for 40 approaches. :D. Approaching girls is getting addictive!

I decided to write some longer reports now, with detailed information about the sets I did to make it more fun to read. 
Also Im gonna push myself this week beyond the ''NUMBER'' guy to the ''GETTING LAID'' guy. Gonna transfer myself to getting instadates + pull cuz.
To do that Im gonna do some crazy shit this week, if you guys have some suggestions for me during daygame like going for a makeout without saying anything or tell a girl she is so hot I wanna take her home :p.
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becoming an "approacher" is good for losing approach anxiety, your ego, and learning how to do good approaches

However, the "approacher" identity will play against you later in the process. You must not approach to approach and practice. You must approach keeping in mind that you are going to fuck that woman. Paradoxically.. your approaches become 100% when you focus on the end point.

Approach to fuck, not to have a conversation with a girl


Opening 40 women with the objective of approaching to see what happens, could be equivalent to opening 2 women with the objective of "ima take this girl home with me and this is WHY i am doing this approach". 

Also.. approaching is just one stage of the whole game. Focus on densification too
There is a julien video on this but dont have time to find it hehe

This is something ive learned in the last month :P I have created such a deep approached identity that i am having trouble trying to leave it.. but i am working very hard on it... and indeed.. it does help a lot.
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Campos: You are r ight about t hat, however thats definatly not one of my sticking points right now.

Last couple days I said I was going to do 40 sets etc. Well I did on 2 days, doing around 30 sets and doing some obnoxious openers etc. And the other days i just did 2-3 approaches Like really not feeling it. Getting the numbers though, but I feel have to bust through some layers of ego to be truely authentical and awesome and doing that alone is kinda hard...
I went with a wing who does a more structured type of game. Almost routines etc, and he told me that I go in to weak, and mb to direct. And even though it doesnt really matter what you say when you open he is right about this one. Because i go uber direct, I immediatly make the conversation into yes/no interaction. Better to just Open direct and then talk talk talk, without going for the instadate inmediatly. 

Also I got 2 mb 3 weeks without weighttraining ahead of me and I want to game everyday. Would be kinda hard, cuz I have still days that Im not really in the mood to do approaches, or go hardcore, so Im gonna do some days with wings.
I read a report on another forum and they mostly get laid within a couple weeks. Even the most fucked up person, he was almost autistic and he went out approached every girl in the club for a couple nights and got laid after 2 weeks or seomthing. So thats my aim too. 
Getting laid within 1 week. I have some experience so it should be attainable.

Goal 1st week: Getting laid before sunday 24 march.
Gonna do daygame everyday, and thursday, friday, saturday nightgame. Starting tonight with nightgame

This is gonna be an 14 day challenge, mb 21 day if my elbows are still not recovered. Im gonna evaluate after week 1 how it went, and adjust my goals accordingly.
Im also gonna write down after each day what happend, with you guys to keep me accountable.
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