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May 24th, 2013
Premature Ejaculation is destroying my sex life
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#21

Chase2

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Join Date: 07/08/2008 | Posts: 58

 Thanks for the advice guys.. i'm gonna look into some of it.

However, is there anyone on this board who has TRULY overcome premature ejaculation? So far in this thread I haven't seen it. I'd love to take some advice from people who have been through it. 
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#22
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Looks like you completely overlooked my post...
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sex god method
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#24
Graxin

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If u finish just go back to more foreplay/teasing/fingering then when ur hard again stuff her like a turkey
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#25
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Playboy wrote:
sex god method
This. At least for me, throwing the girl around, being really loud and getting really into it  the difference has been like retardedly better.
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#26
diggyisking

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Hey dude,
you'll learn to control it over time. Don't think about cumming while you bang her, don't allow yourself to think of it. Just try to be as present as possible and take deep breaths. Focus on your breathing and try not to think of your dick all the time while banging her.

And even if you do cum quickly, what about round 2 ten minutes later? If you worked her up good she'll want it more.
If you have to, cum before you see her and then you'll last much longer.

Try switching positions, usually when she's on top it really delays me cumming, she can ride for a long time and it usually doesn't make me cum.
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#27
DJMarco

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Easy:

get 2 shots in your system before fucking.

lol

anyway it works
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#28
Kuz

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 Yes, I briefly suffered from this - this happened following a period of erectile dysfunction i suffered taking hairloss pills to stop hairloss.

The two were interelated, because once i started getting consistent erections again, i was so concerned and terrified with losing it, that i'd tense up during sex and shoot my load quick.

The problem is over-excitement/over-stimulation. Norepinepherine is a key neurotransmitter involved in orgasm. It's the bodies "fight or flight" neurotransmitter - it's also what makes you "excited" in any task (raising your heart beat, opening your sweat glands etc. etc. it has many effects). It also causes and is raised by anxiety. Once you get anxious during sex (over coming too quick or losing your erection or not performing in any other capacity) you are likely to raise your nor-epi leading you to ejaculate too soon. It's a catch 22 situation. Your anxiety is making the situation much worse.

Also, your body/orgasm has a learning mechanism. There is a "point of no return" in orgasm, when your kegel muscles start contracting automatically and you start hitting the edge. If you train yourself to hit that point too quickly, then your body will automatically reach its orgasm-threshold in a matter of seconds after only a little stimulation. This happens to guys a lot who use "edging" during masturbation. It's easy to ride the edge of the orgasm when you control the stimulation with your hands, but inside a pussy, you can't control the stimulation. Your body learns to enter the "edge zone" in rapid time and then you go over the edge. The solution is stimulation without reaching the orgasm threshold.

The key here is to control your kegel muscles. Tense kegel muscles, after practicing kegel exercises, will malke you come too quick. Too relaxed kegel muscles, will also make you come too quick. The trick is to find the sweet spot in the middle. Too hold it there without letting it get too tense and without forcing your self to relax too much.

Practice normal kegel exercises as well as reverse kegel exercises. Easiest way to do this is, when you're going for a piss, practicing stopping pissing and then forcing yourself to piss really hard. Continously do this everytime you go for a piss to learn the neurological pathways which control your kegels. Remember, they don't have to be STRONG, you just need to be able to control them.

Then practice staying in that half-tense-half-relaxed sweet spot during masturbation. You should be able to stimulate yourself without going anywhere near the edge of orgasm for a long time,, until you let go of controlling your kegels, and then the orgasm should naturally rise up. With practice through masturbation, you should be able to masturbate at a furious pace FOREVER without hitting the point of no return, and then its a simple case of tensing your kegels and you'll hit orgams. You'll achieve total physiological control. This will take time and patience.

My other advice is to use anti-histamines, like zirtek. HIstamine is a neurotransmitter which amplifies the orgasm signal. Anti-histamines blunt this and should allow you to control it better without losing sensation.

The final more drastic option is to use an SSRI. Serotonin on the correct 5-HT receptors can either enhance orgasm or make it impossible for you to reach it. Most sertogenic will give you anorgasmia. Not something you want, but if you're that concerned about coming, then these will allow you to have full penetrative sex without ever cooming, no matter how hard you try - that can get very frustrating.

This is a premature ejaculation thread on ehealthforums:

http://ehealthforum.com/health/topic86215.html#b+

Read through all 149 pages and it will answer all your problems in its entirety. This thread is probably the best resource on PE on the web and will give you porn star control over your erections and orgasms.
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#29

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take a vicodin like 30 minutes before ur start... it will work wonders!
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#30
sabster

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 do not fucking take any prescription medications, ESPECIALLY SSRI's

also, don't take testosterone, or whatever random hormones these people are talking about. 

if you really want to help change this, change your diet, exercise everyday, stop masturbating, etc etc. naturally, your body will readjust. 
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