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Make out, but why no pull - your opinion?
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Dr Feelgood

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Another in-field situation from my nights out; I'm describing this as detailed as possible so you can get to a well grounded conclusion:

This girl was looking at me (and probably at some other guys too) with bedroom eyes, I just opened her, saw that she was down and kissed her within one minute. She was Russian, 30 years or so, I would give her a 7, good body though. I drag her to the dancefloor for some grinding and some more making out, but after a while she resists the makeouts, only grinding. I put her hand on my cock, in my experience usually girls will be hesitant to do a lot there, but she grabs it HARD. Kiss her throat and neck, and rub my fingers on her for a bit (over pantyhose). After 15 minutes she leaves. We have only talked a few sentences, bad English on her part too.

Another guy I'm there with says I should pull, and pull her out of the venue hard without showing any hesitation. So after 20 minutes I go in again, some more grinding, but hardly any kissing, I pull on her hand say the RSD patented "Sko!", but to no avail. I tell the other guy he should go in and try it, he tries to do it very quickly, no success either. Later I see her kissing another guy, and even later I see her alone, so that guy couldn't pull her either.

Question to the pros: This girl had an EXTREMELY sexual vibe to her, so why could nobody pull her? She really looked like she could slip and land on somebodies cock at any moment, plus she was there alone, another sure sign she was looking for something. Where did I go wrong, or was this simply a borderline impossible pull?
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Amazing1985

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Oh, women.  When will us men be able to figure you out?

My guess would be that you did not build up enough attraction.  As crazy as it sounds.  Did you beast on any other girls while you were there?
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Aj Deluxe

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wut da fuck

you tried for 15 minutes didnt get the pull and gave up?

as Alex always says bro, expect to waste a few hours with a girl before you take her home

and just party with her till the end of the night and when she leaves leave with her 
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eckhart tolle

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why this chick? was she super hot or something.


if she wasnt all that hot or there was other hot chicks then move on.
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Dr Feelgood

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Amazing1985 wrote:
Oh, women.  When will us men be able to figure you out?

My guess would be that you did not build up enough attraction.  As crazy as it sounds.  Did you beast on any other girls while you were there?

Yeah, I did, but without any success that's worth mentioning. I usually escalate hard, get therefore blown out in many sets in which I already have attraction and am left with the ones who are really down. Why are you asking?
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Dr Feelgood

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 @AJ Deluxe: So how exactly would you have done it? More escalation (in which form) talking, moveing her, etc.?

@eckart tolle: Well, moving on was what I did. I just wonder if it was the right thing to do.

I like how the two posts of you guys are giving me the exactly opposite advice, ha ha...!

Also, I should have gone for the phone number (although I have the feeling she wouldn't have given it to me). Should have gotten it to maybe try a little later the same night.
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Dr Feelgood

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 Thanks, bullet, can you give specific examples? Tease her verbally, physicaly, how? Showing willingness to walk away how?
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Dr Feelgood

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 I did that physical teasing stuff, I just might have done it too much.

Maybe I should have walked away before she did. Gonna try that one next time a girl I have made out with resits the pull.
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Mack Swagger

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Dr Feelgood wrote:

Question to the pros: This girl had an EXTREMELY sexual vibe to her, so why could nobody pull her?



You probably easily could have if you hadn't acted like a derranged  sex starved virgin bro. No offence but making out with a girl who is already clearly into you is not a big deal at all, doesnt mean you taking her home. The girl was obviously into you, but you came on way too strong. You didnt need to do that. Next time try being more efficient. There IS a happy medium. You don't have to fuck the chick on the dance floor to convince her your man enough to take her home.

You kiss the girl  then stop it first and blame it on her for being so sexy and turning you on. Then you act like your trying to be a gentleman and you take her somewhere and talk to her for a little bit. Then you escalate again. Then you stop again. Then you dance again. Then you get her to come outside because you gotta show her something. Then you flag down a cab. Done.
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William-h-bonney

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She sounds like she wanted validation and had no intension of fucking that night.
Your over eagerness to keep kissing her gave her all the validation to realise that the old ruski still had it.
Should have moved on earlier and forgot about her.
If shit like this happens you shouldn't even remember it the next day because it is irrelevant
On the flip side good to analyse sometimes to see what you could have done.
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William-h-bonney

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Old school pick up tac tic, when making out always pull away first to tease and keep the buyers frame. Sometime I will pretend to wanna make out when they close inn I turn away, kinda a silly move but shows your not too invested.
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