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Acoustic

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Join Date: 10/22/2011 | Posts: 12

Hey guys, Acoustic here

Little about meself, 19 and Soph in college. Play guitar (hence the name) and been trying to develop my social skills and creating a better self for a few months now. Mostly started with CollegeFlirt which is a great site for dudes my age and has been extremely helpful but I have read a lot from RSD so I figured it was time to start posting. My overall goal here is to be able to take control of my life so I can be who I want to be and I'm sure RSD can help me make that happen.

Gonna post some old FR's from CollegeFlirt and see what you guys think. Like looking back at this overly-dense FR's I can see I 've grown a bit haha

05-01-2011
soup dawgs

sooo this is prob gonna be my only fr for a while bc last night was the last night to to go out for the rest of the semester cuz of finals.

Anywhoozle last night started out pretty routine, met up with some friends and went to a house party. They brought some hot fucking friends too so i tried chatting them up at first but nothing really happened. Get to the party and it's fucking bumpin, make my way to the keg and talk to some other friends there to try to get myself in state. However that didn't really work and got my AA bullshit as usual so I just kinda sat down and smoked some hookah with friends =/. This one girl sat down by herself to smoke so I chatted her up, she had a really stripperish name so I teased her about that but other than that it went nowhere.

Fast forward me going back and forth to the keg of few times and pussying out from talking to every girl I pass until I go check out what's going on outside where I start to get the ball rolling a little bit. I see my friend talking to two chicks so I go up to say hi and I starting talking to one of the girls. There was a game of zoomie zoomie going on next to us and she was curious about it so I just grabbed her and we jumped into it. Like 2 games later we're still talking and our faces are only like an inch apart so I just pull her in for the makeout. Cool. Anyway her friend comes along and is like blah blah who's this but I calm her down and it's all good.

Go back to my friend where he's still talking to the same chick but he tells me when she's gone that she's into me so i guess it's time to flirt. This goes eh as I said something teasing so she playfully hits me and I joke around how she's such a violent person and other bs. Then the po-po decided to come crash everything so we walked around town a bit and i had her in my arms and stuff but nothing really happened.
Now my groups getting pizza and we're getting into the cab to go home and a cute chick comes out of nowhere gets in the seat next to me. She starts talking about her pizza and asks if I want a bite so I pull her in and take one. Next thing you know we're singing green day together in the car and I'm carrying her to my friends room. We get on the couch I escalate like a mother fucker until we leave there and go to her room .

Heavy makeouts on the way, get into her room and get her on the bed and get the panties off. This is it where it gets annoying. She start giving me like some sort of LMR shit where she wouldnt take her shirt off or let me go any further than fingering her and when I tried to go further she would just smile, nod and giggle "nuh-uh". So I tried everything I knew to try to get this moving; back-up, continue escalating and try again but no dice. Tried being like I don't care if we fuck or not kind of approach but that didnt work either. She eventually let me eat her out but she was still smiling saying "you're not getting anything tonight" in a teasing kind of way. Part of me just wanted to just whip my dick out and just shove it in but the fact that she kept covering her up made me feel like that would be borderline rape. But looking at other fr's and looking it back at it now I should've just whipped it out and let her play with it being that she was rubbing it through my undies -__-. So we didn't fuck and I jus kinda crashed at her place and cuddle the whole time. Idk I guess a pussied out in a way but at least I set it up for seeing her again because turns out we have the same class and finals are coming up so I told her to come over and study . I really hope I didn't fuck this one up with not going all the way because she's easily the hottest chick I've been with.

Anyways this was the first time I went out trying to pick up in over a month so it's safe to say I wasn't really on the ball. The biggest sticking point I still need to get over is to stop being a and just fucking do things. Yeah so any tips to help me bang this chick before school ends in 2 weeks would be awesome and ya know, help with everything else would be chill too. Cheers
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09-09-2011
Summer's over and I'm back in college which means back to having some fun =D. Not much really happened over the summer, focused on getting my mindset straight for the most part. Other than that I fingered a girl on some dude's lawn until she said had to go bc her bf was looking for her lol.

Not gonna be a detailed FR just a quick summary of what's been going on. So it's like my 3rd week back at college and I can definitely tell that my confidence and ability has grown a lot since last year. When I go out I feel more social and I start saying hi and talk to more people than usual which I'm really glad about. Still have a bit of AA when it comes to certain instances but like everyone says I just gotta keep approaching. My hookup consistency has gone up too but my problem is that I can now get quick hookups no problem but I have trouble closing and pulling the girl home. I think my problem is that I never make a real connection with the girl because I always get the quick hookup or something. I think what I need to work on is setting a flirty frame but still make a connection with the girl so I can have a legit interaction. I think it also has to do with me not being totally congruent with myself yet because even though I've gotten a bit better with talking I still find myself in situations where I'm trying to think of what to say. So these are just some of things I plan to work on in the near future and I'll probably throw up a more detailed FR of the past 3 weeks tomorrow, just wanted to get back into the gist of things for now.
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09-24-2011
Man I'm shit with LMR

Quick summary of last night, went to a house party and did no approaches because the cops came as I was trying to get the social juices going. As always still need to work on AA because I'm inconstant as fuck due to relying on alcohol.

Went to another house party, same exact thing. However this chick I hooked up with last week was there and long story short it ended with me eating her out in the bathroom but didn't go all the way because she was too drunk (Logistics FTL!)

So I go up to talk to her to see if I could reignite the fire but she was in a bad mood because she was taking care of her belligerent friend. Anyways the good ol' authorities crash this place too so it's time to head home.

Text her that my friend is crashing in my bed so lemme come to hers, shes says "Okay but we're not having sex". From what I've read the fact that she's the one bringing up sex means it's on. I head over to her place and she's in her jammies and asks if I want some, I decline and say I prefer to sleep in my undies.

Get in the bed and start to makeout, slowly keep amping it up with subtle thinks like biting, pulling her and overall jus keep going harder, but she keeps saying "you're still not getting any". I try to put my hand down her pants or jus take her clothes off but she keeps grabbing my hand and stopping me. So I keep it up with the making out and just try to reiniate everything but to no avail.

She still has her clothes on but I'm in my undies while I'm rock hard and I'm grinding my dick against her vagoo and she starts to breathe a little heavier and wrap her legs around me. She clearly wants it but everytime I bring it a little further and go harder and harder she stops me.

So I go with plan B and say well I can control myself and you're the one who keeps bringing up sex. She obviously refutes such a claim but evidence shows otherwise. So I try to do the freeze out thing by saying whatever I'm going to sleep aaaand I accidentally do go to sleep bc I'm dead tired lol.

So looking at the LMR thread again I realized I should of got up and did something else or whatever but I didn't really figure that out at the time.

So I Guess what I need to work on is
1. Fucking approach
2. Inner game so I stop bitching out in everything
3. Establish better connection so no LMR

That's all I got for now lemme know whatchu guys think
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10-11-2011
I did it again lol

Friday night:
Went out but plans went to shit so drank at a buddy's house. After putting away some 40 ounces it was time to head home. Catch a cab with a few chicks and started to chat up one who had to sit on my lap hehe.

Get out of the cab start to walk back with her aaaand boom wall-slam makeout. After hooking up with her for a good amount of time outside I tell her to come back to my room and she says yes with a good ol' "but I'm not having sex with you". Heeeeere we go again.

Come back, start up slow, keep amping it up and soon enough I'm naked and she almost is but refuses to take off her panties. She keeps saying no sex but I respond by saying "You keep bringing up darling, besides I can control myself". She questions this so I say let's play a game to proove it but it requires us both to be nekkid. She still says that she's not taking her underwear off so I said okay then and get up to go play some words with friends.

At this point she tells me to come back and when I do she goes crazy on me, rough kissing and starts to stroke my penor a little bit. I finger her a little bit but she keeps pulling away saying no. This repeats til I get fed up and we both just pass out in my bed =/.

Only thing is that she said she still had her v-card and didn't wanna lose it yet and it was kinda believable by the fact she was a pretty bad kisser and had a little too much bush haha. So I guess that's my excuse for that one heh

Saturday:
Nothing too spectacular, went to a friends house and the only thing I could say is that I was working on forcing the fun factor by going around saying hi to everyone and starting games of flip cup and shit. Didn't really too much game-wise but by the end of the party I talked to about half the people there and felt pretty comfortable in my own skin which is something I really need to get down. Now just to work on flirting and whatnot

So yea fun weekend just still gotta work on my social interactions a little bit more with flirting and building connections.
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10-16-2011
Lesson of this weekend: Flavored Vodka fucks me up hard

Friday:
Went to a friends house, got extremely drunk and some larger girl was all over me... My friends say they tried cockblocking me but since I'm a super awesome PUA now I ended up fucking her later -__-... Now I'm never gonna hear the end of it from them haha. I was raped I tell you!

Saturday:
Tried going to a club with friends but ended up not getting in because they decided to change entry to 21+ again (This place used to be 18+ but now all clubs around me are 21+, super gay).
Went to my friends place again and played some drinking games while being ridiculed for Friday.

So yeah nothing much to report but my question is how should I go about keeping my reputation up? A bunch of my friends witnessed my whale harpooning excursion and I go to the place regularly (which is also another thing I need to work on, finding more places to go/increasing social circle). I guess the best thing is to not give a fuck but try to avoid doing it again. At least I got to put my dick in something for a change lol.
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Final little update, my apologies for the wall of old FR's lol

Been feeling like shit lately physically and mentally, feel like I'm in a funk. I been trying to pay more attention to my day game lately being that I want to develop a personality where I'm always able to be fun and flirty rather than just an "in-state" drunk guy at parties. My problem is that it's hard to motivate myself (esp. the way I feel now) to be fun/flirty so I'm usually just boring from my point of view.

Another thing I noticed is that during the day while I walk around or if I'm in class I can almost never maintain eye contact with a girl but I always do when I'm actually talking to a girl. It's weird lol. Like if we glance at each other I'll usually dart my eyes away quickly like it's an auto-response because I feel like I'd be creepy if I didn't. I guess the only way to work on this is just to try and hold it and smile and see what happens.

Lastly when I went out last night I had trouble approaching groups. I believe that's one of my biggest sticking points for now. Whenever I'm at a party girls are rarely by themselves and I guess you can say I get a bit intimidated when I need to approach a whole pack of 'em. When girls are by themselves I usually do fine, my conversational skills have gotten slightly better and I don't really get blown out much but it doesn't really go far either so I'm probably not pushing the boundaries enough.

So that's the quick bit for now, any tips to deal with this shit?
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ugh totally choded out last night

Simply put: Girl from first FR (we'll call her Ruski from now on being that I see her all the time) was at the same party I was at last night, I pretty much followed her around trying to make something happen but no dice. I've been kinda hung up on her I guess you can say because she sends me mixed signals all the time and I don't really know what to make of it (We're in a class together and have mutual friends so I see her/talk often). However last night she was really drunk and had little interest so I was a bit annoyed. I need to stop this feelings shit and stop talking to this girl.

Didn't really approach any other girls because like I stated before I get intimidated by groups and it didn't help that they were all on the dance floor too so I didn't really know how to go about it.

Was pretty beta this weekend and deserve to be slapped but next weekend is Halloween so I need to get my shit together so I can beast it.
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