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December 10th, 2016
FIRST EVER FIELD REPORT! very important for me
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Starchild.

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HERE WE GO GUYS!.

Nice and simple

I live in london and been going out practising "game" for bout 5 years.. Had lots of different experiences and different crazy relationships, Felt I was at a pretty good level then I discovered RSD.

Results been on and off til I started watching tylers free tour vids, reading articles by brad, jeffy and alex. THE LAST FEW MONTHS HAVE BEEN AMAZING

I literally addicted. But Im out everyday testing and im getting results like never before so I decided to share each night with you here. Plus an article by jeffy inspired me to write down the nights out which I have been doing, just not online

Okay so go to an XZIHBIT GIG on tuesday night

Pretty non eventful evening as there werent many ladies there. just lots of guys in caps. I decicded to dance as outrageous as possible, I really enjoyed myself

BUT.... before going into the venue I walked into a pub nearby leading my group of friends for a quick pre gig half of carlsberg, Upon entering the pub I intstantly sat next to a couple of blondes. 

No hesitation.. 0.1second rule.

"hey (breaking rapport tonality) the chips look good.! ."

good eye contact

Blank look from one, smile from the other.. 

"they are good"  replies one, then proceeds to tell me the different toppings.. 

She has amazing big red lips, fake eyelashes that I dont normally go for but look good on her.

she is fucking stunning

I randomly interupt her toppings list monologue  "jalepenos and sour cream!" 

statement, breaking rapport tonality

"mmm i love jalapenos" she respondes, "they should do that!"

Anyways, conversation from there on, just plain and simple.. I opened strong and kept in going without reacting too much. I then said we have to go and "you are coming to the xzhibit concert with me." 

The important thing about this interaction was I assumed they would follow me, I made some sexual references and knew it was on. important concepts that have really helped me over the past few months. 

Turns out they were sisters and both had extremely amzing bodies under the big furry coats they were wearing. ENGLISH BUT EXTREMELY RUSSIAN LOOKING, with more CURVES>>.  PERFECT.. I know its bad but I been perving over her facebook photos today.. Its a corner stone in my pick career. I wish i could share these photos with you guys. this didnt affect me at the time I knew i had to show no emotional signals towards this.. EYE CONTACT STRONG... CARRIED ON LEADING, GET THE JOB DONE.

Told them that they had to use fake names as a couple of girls flaked on me that were on the list. 

"JEMMA LOU" AND "JENNY PIER" 

then I created this little role play every now and then, "this is not the behaviour of jenny lou i know, youve changed! bad girl!" then give her a lil spank on arse!!

Okay so in the venue we danced a lot, got quite drunk but I carrried on giving attention to my friends and constantly focusing on my own amusement. before Id be calculating and thinking, "what else can I do to keep them around"

Because I was thinking this and just had fun.. They kept coming back for more.

Every now and then sexual dancing, got her number early, small kisses on those amzing lips.. not too sexual kisssing tho!! really building her up.

Then they went to the bar and disappeared! 

Oh well... but text her here and there and will def meet up..

Okay so I guess you could say this is a success story.. but everyone of my field reports will be a success story. because MY ONLY CRITERIA FOR SUCCESS IS I APPROACH! I approached only once tonight. I dont like to call them approachEs btw .. Its a word thats used on CRIMEWATCH too much.. 

"the man in question was APPROACHED by two males with black jackets"... 

Oh well.. im just rambling now..

been out every night since.. Been opening like a mofo..

going out tonight.. Field raport coming soon!!









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 CHEERS BRO
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 CHEERS BRO


LETS HEAR SOME LAY REPORTS BRO lol

looking forward to your stuff
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 Hey Yall.

Thia will be a journal of my nights out over the next few months while im still in london

Im sat in my room extemely hungover, hungry, feel like shit and I stink, But feel awesome as well due to realizations I have had over the last few days. almost calm and serene but alert!

Im on the verge of the tipping point, I can feel it. I love sharing with you people of RSD. 

Second ever field report and its taking a lot of motivation to bosh this one out. SLOWLY but surely I will piece together the main interactions and feelings I have experienced from the last 5 days and nights of going out. since first ever field report. See below once you have read this. 

 http://www.rsdnation.com/node/202380 my first field report. 

that day I felt like I had completely wiped all knowledge of pick up. starting again. A complete neewb.. It felt great, im very honest in that Im not getting laid as much as I want and I been going out for about 5 years practising lines routines etc.

That was wednesday I wrote that, Its 5 days later

So here I am people. Naked Before you.. All my stupid shit. Missed opportunites and taken ones.

On a mission to get laid and end this little drought.

I work as a barman.  I have promoted a lot of the high end clubs in central london over the past few years. I also go out a lot with a friend who owns his own PUA company and he does get very good results, it seems. So I am forced to approach a lot. Athough he is very routines and lines based, he has a lot of conviction but also one hefty reputation as a excellent PUA on his shoulders to live up to. And over the last few months I have seen it holding him back time and time again.

Just as it did me, oh the stress of self expectation.

now im just as regular and ordinary as other guys. 

main interactions from
WEDNESDAY

Out with student and my friend. I give little hints but Im purely out for myself tonight. Still revelling in the hottie i met previous night. BOOBS OHHHH.  Thinking bout those lips and boobs making me so horny.



We try a few venues around covent garden, all private partys and we dont want to pay to get in anywhere as it was pretty dead. So off to soho it is.

Lots of cute girls in streets but hold back. One of my sticking points, Day game. Night game in bars no probs but working on this as im realizing there is no difference. I have approached a lot of women on streets but find it difficult to not have my mind racing. This is changing rapidly due to the concepts from RSD
Gay/ Bi bar in soho. Full of a mixture of girls, guys with guys and large groups of guys and one girl are very common. 

I used to feel guilt when in these venues, now I have framed it very differently and have made friends with a lot of people that go there and work there. No big deal. guilt not part of my reality anymore.

A year a go this would of been an amazing night out, now its just regular. Maybe even 6 months ago.

As we enter there is cute brunette outside the door, big fury jacket handing out flyers for a different venue. I grab her and say come with me. 
cheeky smile, eye contact, Rapport breaking tonality. Core stuff. CS!!!

Nice warm up with a mindset to un stiffle myself. Trying to get blown out early, Perfect little warm up. Builds momentum. No outcome as I didnt really want her to come with us but whatever. just fucking around. 

I lead her across the street she is giggling.

"I cant..my boss is watching" Furry coat flyer girl giggles

Starchild; " Im your boss!"

Anyways. She says she would love to come yadadadada.. See you later.

Pretty empty inside, PUA and student start to talk to some girls. Leave the group early. We gather round the bar.

Downstairs is empty part from a couple of groups of guys, and two seated groups of girls.  PUA approaches his "set". Gets them all up and dancing. Spins one, kisses her.. Good stuff actually. Student is impressed. And Im angry at myself for not doing this before him. 

Pole in the middle of dance floor. I love dancing. I dance as absurd as possible. I dance for me. No one else. im entertaining me and decide I have not danced like i chicken for while. Hand of back of head like a fin and cluck to the beat of the music. Inside im laughing my ass off. Plus no one else on this part of the dance floor. 

Little internal dialogue voice kicks in, "is anyone seeing you self amuse?" 

I stop dancing.

Seated group. 
starchild ; "Hey whats the occassion?"

Girls "she is visiting" points at cute blonde.

Give me some shit bout being lesbians etc, I know they are not. Or just project they are not. I feel small pangs of uncomfortable ness but this goes the more they invest and they more I assume the interaction to benefit them. 

I ignore most of the congruence tests, passing everyone of them. 

Hardly reacting at all, they just feel comfortable having me around. Lots of looking at lips and grabbing. One girl accidently whips me with her hair as she is head bopping. I quite like it and I tell her. 

One girl goes to the toilet and leaves me with the hottest one

"are you gay", she instantly tests me. 

I just point at the disco ball and say 

"shiny!, you look like you are from scandinavia!?"

Vibe a bit then odd chit chat turns sexual

Girls start askin me if I have any straight friends? She looking for fun. I read it as I fancy you and want to fuck you. 

One girl is cute than other. Brunnette and blonde, Brunnette is still in toilet. 
I start taking photos of us together. She pulls on my neck and we take photos of us having small kisses. 

Brunnette comes back and blonde goes to the toilet, same little routine that SHE initiates and I cant handle the fact that both are competing over me. One sees guy in hat and leaves, I eject and dance as I dont fancy the brunette.

Anyways, Good stuff BUT writing this I can see how easy it would of been to just take one of the girls out the venue into taxi and home. BUT at the time I wasnt thinking about this. I was out for practising that night, not out to get laid. Realization.

Few other interactions that night, nothing special.

THURSDAY.
Okay I go to bar sit by myself and wait for PUA and student in fulham. We go to small empty bar in fulham and I instantly dance like a fool when entering the venue. Get comment from couple a of blondes sat in the otherwise empty room. 

Student goes over while I drink at the bar and has 15minutes of nice chatting. Him doing a lot of nodding and then shakes her hand before coming back to us.

Hmmm. 

leave venue and go to Elk bar. 

Very busy and very cheap mojitos. I drink about 5. Bit tipsy but not full on drunk.I "pose" down in front of large group, bump and grind one girl then move on. they are all wetting themselves laughing. I feel very relaxed at this point but I know this isnt from the alcohol.

Stand and chill for a bit with PUA while student destroys the room. student chats to cute three girls tempted to go in and help but for some reason I dont. Nevermind lesson learnt. I see one girl looking over from the group and slightly bottle it. Then completely bottle it.

Very cute girl sat next to me on her own. LOOKS EXTEMELY BITCHY. I look at her. Mimic her. fold my arms and pull a real sad face. 
Starchild "I hate this place as well" 

Continue to make statements about random shit I hate.

Cute sad bitchy girl just stares at me, I keep mimic her and eventually she smiles. Guy comes in tries to drag her away. i cuddle him saying sorry bro and he laughs. he seems very nervous. I have good interaction with both of them and turns out she is french, speaks no english. I dont waste my time. Although now I think I should of pushed harder as I could sense small weakness in this guys conviction. plus Im sure she fancied me.

Drunk group of girls walk past and one tries to push past me. I stick my finger up at her and hold eye contact trying to break her. 
Her friend pushes me into PUA, beer goes everywhere and the drunk girls keep walking. 

Some people are pissed off. This sort of thing used bring out emotional response, working in a busy pub I see it all the time, I dont let it ruin my night ever. 
Not letting into my frame. PUA sees girls chatting to the bouncer. He comes over and I calmy tell him what happened. Social ninja strikes again. He shakes my hand tell him to join us for a beer when he finishes. Situation pacified with little effort. If I had protested It would of resulted differently. This is one of my strongest skillz. 

On dance floor and REALLY high energy dancing, not giving a shit. Usual bullshit. Chicken dancing, LOTS of stupid faces and pointing. Having lots of fun making up stupid song lyrics, normally really disgusting sexual ones. Us three are now going crazy and we are getting a lot attention.

 Girl starts GRINDING me. chode guy gets angry starts trying to muscle me out. I sense this, STAY IN and offer no resistance infront of my target. stop dancing and start chatting to her. He is a big fucker but I dont really let this bother me. He comes in to mock me. "Yeah cool" I respond a lot of the time. He eventually leaves me chatting to cute girl. I get her number and she goes to toilet. Hasnt replied. That was probably her boyf. Could of gone for kiss at the time, maybe was a bit soft on her. Not sure. she seemed pretty in to me though.

Feel very relaxed now. In an amazing state of just feeling comfortable and congruent. Lots of women looking at me and one girl just opens me. Cant remember much else of that night, got too drunk.

Could of a couple of times islolated in these interctions bouncing them back to mine

I know now from writing this that I missed a alot of oppurtunites from these two nights.

"Playing not to lose rather playing to win" jeffy
FRIDAY
okay fuck it, I have kick boxing lesson now and even though im fucked I still need to go regardless. I cant reinforce the habit of not going
I will write up friday, sat and sunday when I get back tonight. 
They are amzing nights and I do some pretty cool shit that have me feeling pretty excited today.
Laterz guys I hope this has helped in some ways.
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 will post friday and sat events tomorrow as I think they are very helpful
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Here again

Awesome, Okay so lets get down to these two awesome nights out. 

FRIDAY.

Okay I had little expectation as I had not had an amzing night results wise thursday night. It was because of this that I think I had a good night, No dependency on outcome. Its the key to a good night out.  It seems a pattern emerges when I go out a lot of nights in a row. Good night-okay night-good night-okay night- good night- okay night etc. up down, up down..

I think i just lower the bar for a great night on a sub con level

ONLY CRITERIA FOR SUCCESS. I approach. SO... That I did. 

Anyways, I was with a friend (read previous reports for info) and he is very much into the whole getting good with girls thing etc. One of us, should I say. We try not to coach eachother when out and very rarely talk about success or blow outs. It just IS as at IS. No thought just out having interactions. okay i try not to he talks about this and that... reputation etc .. its hard work sometimes but I just zone it out now. or I just accep he is like that.

Okay so chat to girls in street asking for directions for shop that sells chewing gum. Feel already very relaxed.. If you are unsure what state is and think its a high energy thing. I suggest you read alex awesome article on relaxed arousal. Cant find the link at the moment will add it in later. But basically A shift happens from reacting to your environment to simply observing without emotion, its very relaxing and comfortable. Would love to hear others comment on this as I have been experiencing this a lot more recently, its the zone but almost like feeling invincible. anyways....

Cute girl with phone outside tube station typing text

starchild; "0751....!!!"

cute girl looks up. I hold eye contact and start telling her my number again. she busrts out laughing. This one of my favourite things to do as I always seem to find it funny. But sometimes Im doing it for a reaction so It comes off needy. This was a big realization for me and its the main reason openers and routines canned matarial is flawed

she says "nice try" and ignore her and just keep saying my number. she types it in and then i command her to call me. she does.. i ask her name and she says "sophie" nice to meet you sophie.. fluff a little then. she says she has to go. big hug kiss each cheek and one big overly exagerated one on lips..  texts me an hour later. VERY cheeky joe. but I liked it. - sophie x x

Go to a bar in mayfair where there is always celebs and very wealthy people. I find it funny that I go there as I never buy a drink and I just interact with people, I never say things like.. these girls are stcuk up, as you can def seee why this attitude really dont help guys.. I see a premier league footballer who is in all the newspapers and say hi im a big fan etc. Next to him is stunning tall blonde. I say hi and general chit chat, invite her to club etc.. now. I noticed at this point, why didnt  I get physical with her.?Entitlement issue maybe? The fact that she is probably very rich. Something made me think twice. She was sat with loads of fat banker types that were all buying champagne etc. I bottled it I guess. But there is never an issue with me gettin physical etc. But It was early in the night and I guess I had little momentum as later this night if id met her it would of been diff story.

As we leave I see two tall blondes that are sat near exit. Pretend to stroke furry weird elephant statue next to them. say hi etc tell them that they should drink up and come to whiskey mist etc. It was bout 8.15 at this point and we cant get into whiskey mist til 1030, I dont tell them this at first and we leave together. Pure assumption that they will follw. whiskey mist is high end club at the bottom of the hilton on park lane, Its full of promoters and other people spending money trying to be "somebody".. you get the picture

We walk to a bar near the club and they follow. Turns out they are latvian and are kind of hot but very demanding. There was a time I couldnt handle this type of girl as I would always buy into her reality. I just kept leading the conversation, ignoring and passing congruency test by agreeing with them on these topics. they are pissed off at one point because we didnt buy them drinks. Either way It dosent affect me. Its just no big deal for us. She quickly realises our lack of reaction and stops this behaviour

"you two dont really know each other do you?"

"Its our first date.." I reply.. then point at something and make statment like. I like that car.  That sort of shit. 

Then randomly bump into a old fuck buddy of mine. she jumps on me.. I can feel the jealousy pangs of the other girls as Im pinning this girl up against some posh hotel wall in mayfair. I dont kiss her but tell her to go home and get changed she is coming out. she does. 

Was quite good tming because I was starting to put pressure on the night and as It was quite early I was tempted just to bounce one of the latvians home. I was thinking too much and was in the wrong head space. I think its tricky to know when to say stick or twist? I quickly forgot about it. The night has ups and downs always. this is getting less and less. sometimes im trying. Sometimes im not. I think inaction causes my conruency to fuck up as there are times I dont go and speak to girls

Get to doors of hardrock cafe, Cute girl on door. Hey guys how are you? I tell her the truth. I want a beer to take the edge off my hangover. she is into me hard style. Writing this now i realise I should of just got a number atleast. Benefits of writing field reports are thingd like this as I probably would of forgotten this. Was more focused on gettin a beer as I was feeling a bit shitty.

After a pint in this place and me telling the group how much I love led zeppelin with extreme passion and detail ( this wasnt intended, I have a passion for them) my wing says hey great dhv story about led zepp. i just look at him. This was no technique. I can talk very passionately when I feel it. if not I shut the hell up. Its incongruent to force. Rather I just say yeah I love led zepp. End of convo. I dont force it. This Is one of my biggest realizations when It comes to congruency. 

We go to 28TH floor hilton bar. Amazing view and the girls loved it. really recommend you check this out when in london next. Hilton hotel, Park lane. Expect to pay about 8 quid for a beer though. Old fuck buddy turns up who we shal call (scarecrow as she kind of looks like a hot one) within about 45 mins wearing very sexy dress. long black socks. Made me ver horny.  Itroduce everyone.. yadadada

We leave as a five go to the club. I feel very relaxed at this point. Go for instant kiss close in cub get blown out, speak to other group of girls etc. we tear it up. I play thumb war wih bar girl. Great ratio of girls to guys. Flick between dancing like a dick and just standing completely still. i felt good.

It was strange how much tylers vid on "schtick" helped me. I recommend it. I always used to "try" and be cool. Now I just feel comfortable. 

Being real vs being fake 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wb7vBGk2Vd8


Nothing else really big happend in this club , we decide to go to another one. As I write this I can see so many ways I could of just taken different hot girls home. I didnt approach a lot as I didnt want to burn the room out early. We decide to go where our friend Jo is dj'ing.  she maybe the cutest girl I know. Hmm okay she is up there. 
Just beautiful. Met her through a friend bout 3 years a go. Nothing ever happened between us and I was instantly in the friend zone due to my ultra chode ness.. we go there and ditch all the girls. tell them to meet us there. scarecrow goes to another venue to meet a mate. I forgot how crazy she was. I know its done and in the bag for the future. And writing this now I know I was right lol :) awesome..

The whole night was leading up this one point where I was just opening a kiss closing like a mofo. I felt awesome. In the zone. hot coals. laser stare. no outcome. pure zen. i then just went and stood next jo's table and was just almost being harrassed by diff girls, jo was talking to my friend and breaking convo with him to speak to me.

she was acting very diff around me. This is very hard shit to describe and at the time I was really doing nothing. I feel annoyed I didnt capitislize on this state more but all of the girls have been texting me saying lets meet up soon. and I felt it was diff with jo. I dont think I could do anytihng with her i just had no intention of trying to impress like before. One girl even called me to tell me an hour later that she was very horny and wanted to fuck me.. this shit has never happened before. It was fucking awesome.  I have k closed girls instantly before but before I was thinking "oh shit this is awesome" now I kind of think its funny.

Jo goes home to her boyf and takes her little army with her. All pecks on lips. Im in the fucking zone now. Leave with three cute girls, tall blonde from scotland very hot. I chat with her. we order food. the leave and I go home alone.


HMMMM.. oh well.. Play to win next time bro...

would love to hear any similar experiences guys? I am on the verge of the tipping point I can feel it. I have set up bout three definate fucks from this night alone. I could of got laid that night but didnt want to spend money on taxi unless she is super fucking hot

hope u can relate this guys

Peace out fellow RSD peps
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Starchild. wrote:
HMMMM.. oh well.. Play to win next time bro...

would love to hear any similar experiences guys? I am on the verge of the tipping point I can feel it. I have set up bout three definate fucks from this night alone. I could of got laid that night but didnt want to spend money on taxi unless she is super fucking hot

hope u can relate this guys

Peace out fellow RSD peps








Oi Starchild,

Good thread. Subscribed.

Yes, i can relate. I just moved to a new town 3 weeks ago, so im expanding and building a new circle.

Fortunately i can travel to my old area if i really want to go that far with that ole stuff  - the same old faces at the same old places. meh.

Whats interesting is i have just JUST startedd sensing a diff in my entitlement criterion, that is when im back home in my old town, 30 miles south, ive given myself permission to push harder and pull faster, because there are new circles to explore closer to me.  It matters less to me if I the old ones. Anyway on a bad day i can blow up a room, and three days later its fresh again, no one remembers who said what...

Know what I mean?  I dont know if that helps or even relates, but anyway HELPFUL THREAD, KEEP IT UP!

rock on
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 Yeah man thank you very much for the good feedback. 

I had the same experience from moving to london but It costs me a lot to get home from central to where I live so I gamble and stay out longer. I have decided to start shitting on my own door step. I work in a bar. literally a gold mine ol lovely girls, never got numbers til last night. Very cute french girl and another hot english girl. the point is it was just smooth and cool. I see alot of girls come in to the pub that I have met on random nights out, including a porn star who I am working on. she seems to be into me and Im going for i when I see her out in my part of town.

Cant wait man.

thank you for your support brother
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