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June 20th, 2013
How do you handle the boyfriend confrontation?
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tyler0351

tyler0351

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Join Date: 09/17/2011 | Posts: 196

The other day I was out and a guy approached me saying "My girlfriend said you hit on her." I went into the dumbass dominant male-gorilla mode and told him I did and that he wasn't going to do shit about it. In the end, albeit no fight happened, my group got kicked out of the bar. I was having a great night until that happened.

I don't remember exactly what I said to his girlfriend because I talked to a lot of girls that night, but I remember that it wasn't anything offensive and she just pretty much ignored me. I didn't even know the bitch had a boyfriend until he came up to me. If a guy is willing to confront me over something as little as that, I can see this continually happening in the future. Obviously if I fight every guy who confronts me then my pickup career will be short as I'll be in jail or in the hospital.

How do you save face and still avoid the fight? Looking like a bitch in front of a group of girls would really hurt whatever momentum that I had been building up all night. How do you be assertive, yet avoid it?
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Sexybanana

Sexybanana

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Join Date: 07/06/2011 | Posts: 20

 ''Really, that's your girlfriend ? Sry bro... well your a lucky man. Introduce me to your sexy friends then !''

That way you get pussy, save yourself from a fight and you dont end up being kicked out !
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Insanitydefined

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Join Date: 10/01/2011 | Posts: 156

Sexybanana wrote:
 ''Really, that's your girlfriend ? Sry bro... well your a lucky man. Introduce me to your sexy friends then !''

That way you get pussy, save yourself from a fight and you dont end up being kicked out !

Good answer, there's no reason to get hostile with somebody over something like this especially considering its not going to do anything but make matters worse.
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gamejunkie

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Join Date: 10/18/2011 | Posts: 88

Sexybanana wrote:
 ''Really, that's your girlfriend ? Sry bro... well your a lucky man. Introduce me to your sexy friends then !''

That way you get pussy, save yourself from a fight and you dont end up being kicked out !
This only works if you say from a place FREE OF FEAR. If you don't then he'll tool you some more... "They're all my girlfriends [Arm around them, girls smile at him]." Your state will be even more shot. I don't care what you say: "it doesn't affect me" or whatever. For most guys that say that, I've actually noticed that it does effect them. They'll tense up and get more stiff, and it will carry on for even as long as the rest of the night. All while they're saying "trust me bro it didn't affect me." 

Don't get me wrong, for some guys it doesn't affect them, but these are the guys who can use lines like this from an authentic, free of fear, place. And, sometimes the outcome is still rejection as nothing is perfect, but in those cases these type of guys will maintain their clear headspace (i.e for these guys, it truly doesn't affect them).
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Cupcakes

Cupcakes

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Join Date: 12/14/2010 | Posts: 1274

You don't have to be so aggressive ("what you going to do about it"?!?!).
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CAN'T TALK TO WOMEN?
GET THE FUCK OUT THERE AND TALK TO THEM.
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EMBRACE THAT OR BE A LOSER.
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