THE FORUMS

Yeah I'm not really cut out for the single life, but I made the commitment in order to get hotter girls, so I have about 3.5 months left and then I'm probably gone forever. =(.

Or until i get dumped as bad as I did last year LOL.

Making moves baby =D

First day back since Saturday. That was now the longest break I’ve taken from the field since I began over 8 months ago. 6 days.

the rust was there.

However I pushed it well, thanks to Torres who was pushing me every step of the way. The first girl I opened hooked, and she was a stunner. Then she said she was leaving soon, and I kissed her on the cheek and said bye. Could have gone for the number, or seeded a pull.

The next few were half hearted attempts that just walked past. Then I approached this petite Mexican girl, she half hooked, then it fizzled.

Ok I am comfortable with my time in between sets, great improvement from the usual.

We went to crocodile, and I start to feel shitty. I wasn’t going to approach again at all. Torres becomes my hype man, and proceeds to egg me on. I love him for this, so I approach 2 more on the dance floor, niether hooked but he gave me props.

I feel defeated at this point.

We walk to nicks. I start talking to this weird girl that looked gypsy. She had either a lot of gold, or a lot of FAKE gold, which is weird either way in itself.

She was acting completely weird, and zoning out of conversation. Very uncomfortable.

AND THEN!>…..

I realized I was choding and coming up with excuses while Torres opened this blond stunner.

At this very moment I remembered the assessment style I am now using on nights out.

So I summoned every last bit of will left, and approached the hottest girl in the bar. She had a backless top.

Me- Hey your cute, who r u?

Her-? What?

Me- whats ur name?

I think I just shook her hand, then it fizzled due to no escalation chodery.


Assesment for the day- 83%

Execution was pretty shitty, party because I didn’t meditate but my effort carried me through the night satisfactorily.

So the cool thing about doing cold approach for a sustained amount of time is not only the lifestyle improvement, but how it moves you toward self relliance. I mean really guys, who does this shit???

Go up to the hottest girl in the club night in and night out, understanding it is a process, and subjecting yourself to it.

Half of your friends think you're crazy, the other half think you have super human powers. So it forces you to find frames to lok at the world that serve you the best.

just crazy.

Really props to the guys that are out cold approaching as a lifestyle.

So I'm trying something that I think is totally controversial. It basically goes as follows:

I realized I feel shitty when not in the presence of friends and or hot girls.

I suspect it comes from me placing the criteria for success of doing cold approach on the RESULTS, namely the options I have for people I hang with, and the quality of women I meet and fuck.

Kind of like wearing a sign that says "I Have options"

So in theory I understand that this may not be the healthiest thing, but I have found that if I do what is contemporarily suggested by the community: place criteria for success on something more rigid, like the process I go through, it doesn't feel natural. Like I am faking my motivation.

Doesn't particularly feel great, and usually the girls I talk to are clueless to my intentions.

So for the next month I'm going to wholly embrace placing my criteria for success on the quality of girls I bang, and keep around.

I feel nervous as to what this will bring, kind of like when I first started cold approaching.

It's funny I always shift back to theoretical mode when I start school back up.

I think we can all agree though: Theory<Actually going out and approaching mutherfucker

lol

So with school, and ALL morning classes, my clubbin schedule has been dramatically effected. Coupled with cherishing times with the amazing girl that I'm fucking right now and I was barely able to get the 3 nights in this week.

However this week was another peak in my development. I have sorrounded myself with female friends, and their attention is awesome. Some of these friends I bang, and some I don't. I can't stress enough how important it is to have AT LEAST as many if not more female friends than guy friends. I have a video I'm putting up on the blog next week about it, so tune in =).

I felt drained going out last night. Haven't been to this spot in years, and was invited for a birthday party. So I walk up and the line is already long. 30 minuters mutherfucker! It was not warm out either.

Finally got in, and I guess you could say the place was worth the wait. Plenty of 9's prancing around. I was in no mood to begin approaching so I figure I'm just going to chill on the side with friends for a while, drinking a club soda mind you ;-)

I did something that I used to do back in the day. I allowed myself to chill, and set a time (12:30) when for better or worse I would start approaching hunnies. 12:30 came, and from the balcony I spotted a 9 dancing with friends. I rush downstairs, and go to pull her in. Nope.

So I walk around to shake it off. then I run into my best friend from gradeschool. It was cool seeing him, we start exchanging info, and my blackberry falls right into a circle of dancing girls. lol

3 fatties, and one 7. No pressure, so I slowly go to retrieve it, and the circle opens up, then I go and pull the 7 in. haha. Her girls start laughing, so I crack up, and got blown out. funny shit.

I walked around a few more times, opened a few high 8's to which 2 said "I'm good".

Yeah it was a fun night, the fuckbuddy even came over after I went home with my dick in my hand, and she inserted it in her... well yeah, ya'll know where I'm going with that.
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Also a productive night, girls tht I openned I quickly went for physical escalation. I'm going to get back to writing FR's in this manner. I think it's pretty funny.

HACE CALOOOOO O O R
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