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Posted October 15th, 2011 at 10:12 AM

ChPalmer

Junior Member

Join Date: 05/15/2008 | Posts: 18

So I am dating a woman who lives in california (i'm in northeast). I go out to CA for work fairly often so we've gotten together several times while I've been out there. The weird thing is that she seems to alternate from being super into me to not wanting to have anything to do with me. Hung out last saturday all day long. Went to lunch, her friend's party, hooked up in my hotel room. Then I tried to call her on Sunday and she sent me a text message saying she was hanging out with her parents and would call me in an hour. Hours went by and no call. Tried calling her again and got text that she was out running errands. i sent an annoyed text like whatever. next day she calls me. i was back home. talked for a while, then i tried calling yesterday and no response. anyone ever had experience of someone whose interest seems to wax and wane like this?

Posted October 17th, 2011 at 2:57 PM

Jojje

Member

Join Date: 10/22/2010 | Posts: 42

many girl are like that... they dont really have any thought about it.. and do not see it as you do of not beeng interested.
They just live in moments and might be busy.. then forget.. and not give it another thought.. many are a bit too self involved so they dont really think that you might actually react to not getting the actuall call bacl that night/day... and maybe you shouldnt react to that either... seems that u might be a bit outcome dependent on this 1 and thats not good

Posted October 26th, 2011 at 7:00 AM