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May 18th, 2013
Indifference frame, the winning shit ?
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Misteral

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Join Date: 08/03/2009 | Posts: 26

Hi everyone!
I am in a stage of my game where I am looking for a girlfriend but I always fucks up at one point.
When I meet the girl , I am completely indifferent of her, I express myself, I tease her and start showing intent etc
But when I start liking her, I go for a more accessible frame, I still tease her in a sexual way but I become more accessible and I kinda lose my power.
And the girls runs away and I loose her.
I know I loose her at the point where I start liking her and become more accessible and I loose my indifference frame BECAUSE I want her.

Beleifs in my head:
When i meet a girl I chalelnge her and I am not emotionnaly involed with the outcome.
But when I start liking her, I become emotionnaly involved in the outcome and I sell myslef too easiyle because I like her.

Any advices because I fucked that up a lot of times now...

Any advices welcomed!

Thanks :)
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Dr Feelgood

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Join Date: 04/06/2011 | Posts: 1430

Stay indifferent.
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Misteral

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is it not counter intuitive if you like her?
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Dr Feelgood

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I meant stay indifferent till you have had sex with her.

It's totally counter intuitive, but that's what bitches want.
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Misteral

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OK, but how do you stay indifferent if you start liking her?
I mean you can not not be emotionnaly invested in the outcome if you like her no?
Fo example, I have a lot of girls, then one is cooler than the others, for me I will be outcome dependent on this one, how not to be and keeping this independent frame?
I get the ides/ concept but I do not know how to apply it...
Thanks for your answers Dr Feelgood!
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sirex

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Join Date: 04/11/2009 | Posts: 714

im a chode i do this too
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