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December 5th, 2016
Level 3- The post bootcamp internalisation process
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detourxl~

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Was on a plateau. Did an Alexander bootcamp. Here is me being accountable on RSDnation as I go out and internalize the principles and ofcourse meet beauties.

I'm busy so will consist of listing positive reference experiences (Truefirmations) and negative ones (it's fine). As my reality grows.

Truefirmations from last Saturday

1. Was chilled and social
2. Was the party
3. Took action
4. Stayed in venue
5. Good long interaction with Fatima, was going to pull her home. Stupidly I was then meeting even
More chicks which she saw. Didn't know what to do when she was making out with Ollie, it was a test for me. But lesson learned - just be honest & don't be too clever.
6. Made friends with shed loads of people
7. Opening and hooking effortlessly in hula
8. Went to bdog ballroom solo, called two girls cuntsatins then pulled them
Into taxi to go home. They left taxi at last minute, I couldn't control them. But I was actually in a position to score a cold approach threesome.
9. Great interaction with blonde student

Negative references

1. Creepy pick up dudes at bar
2. Reacting to short fucker who made fun of my hair loss
3. Being thought of as wired by tatoo girls
4. My stomach sunk when I saw Fatima kissing Ollie
5. Was a bit upset when girls left taxi, I thought I was going to pull them home and fuck
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ALEXANDER BOOTCAMP REVIEW - Oslo, September 2011 http://www.rsdnation.com/node/200440

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detourxl~

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Night out bolton

Truefirmations

- relaxed in club
- opened first set at bar SOLID
- took these girls and LED, let's sit down. Worked well. Angela = fencer from
Bristol FANCIED ME. I expressed myself freely. Was having fun, chilled and relaxed with friends. I am enough, I
Am the source of good emotions. Escalated well. Did the long set like alex said. When they were going to club ? Should have joined. It was my first set of the nite & I wanted to practice more. This place was full of wall to wall pussy. Hot chicks with Guido chides
- practised using faux pas to elicit tests. She gave me limited tests. Got number early in
Interaction. One thing was I was not getting physically turned on for sexy times. Stuck in the friend zone despite escalating smooth as fuck. She was the one i would pull home.
- next in bar straight to hotmaster. Great open and well. And AGAIN led like a champ. Let's sit down, brush and lead baby. Fuck leading is simples, you just know you are enough. Again a few tests which are batted away effortlessly. "you're forward etc"
- more hot stains
- stayed in with a cold hard alex style. Hot to trot. Beat her tests effortlessly again when I saw her later in nite.
- got called "fit"
- two "almost" makeouts during makeout challenge
- very good 2min street interaction that G called "rapey". Women love the neck kiss.

Negative reference points

- getting told to fuck off
- being pushed away from a set of girls friends "she doesn't fancy you"
- called mr bean
- getting told to "do one"- some loser big dude as I was hitting up an attractive chick
- tension in shoulders
- calling nite off early as STILL tired from bootcamp. This was a good idea, but now I'm super fucking horny and probably wished I'd gone into club and had a late nite and taken someone home. Oh well.
- Angela didn't text back ... Wired. Think she was angry i didn't go to club with her.

It's funny, during your night you'll have lots of successes and lots of failures. It's just a cool guy is indifferent to both and is chill and just has a good time.

Current active sticking point:

- doing the 10minute make out challenge made me realise that my sexualising of the interaction is kind of lost to where it was a year ago. I used to donsome fucking good escalation then with hot chicks with good results. Ha ha - I simply couldn't go for ugs on the make out challenge.
- I am friendly cool guy who is "date worthy".
- now it's time to expand comfort zone to fuck worthy. Next time out play with "I am enough", leading and sexual frame.
I know alex doesn't really think make outs are good for pull, but I'll just get some in my next interactions as some positive references from
Which to pull. It was solid game last night with fencer, that's what it's meant to look like. Also need to turn girl on. I like time is my ally.
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MY PRE BOOTCAMP JOURNAL - a very honest account of a guy trying to transform this area of his lifehttp://www.rsdnation.com/node/176546

ALEXANDER BOOTCAMP REVIEW - Oslo, September 2011 http://www.rsdnation.com/node/200440

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Gemini

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Detourxl for president, yeaaaahhhhh budddy.
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detourxl~

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Just wanted to throw this up real quick.

As doing my upper body workout today in the cold garage, and sticking to diet it hit home a basic simple principle for success.

CONSISTENCY

It's not sexy, it's not instant magic pill, it's not immediate.

But if you simply take the right action consistently how can you not succeed?

Success is inevitable as long as you take the RIGHT actions.

I'm not super into doing my meditation now, but I know that doing it is good for me.

Consistency + patience + humility = success
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MY PRE BOOTCAMP JOURNAL - a very honest account of a guy trying to transform this area of his lifehttp://www.rsdnation.com/node/176546

ALEXANDER BOOTCAMP REVIEW - Oslo, September 2011 http://www.rsdnation.com/node/200440

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detourxl~

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Daygame yesterday

Truefirmations

EVERY fucking girl opened well. It was almost wired
I guess just when you have an honest simple vibe and smile, people respond.
It still blew my mind though
Bookstore girl was very interested and cute

Embarrassments

I was scared of doing daygame approaches. It was a wired feeling approaching strangers in the day.
It's fines.
It was fine.

IT'S ALL FINE
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ALEXANDER BOOTCAMP REVIEW - Oslo, September 2011 http://www.rsdnation.com/node/200440

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detourxl~

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Truefirmations today

The Oslo girl is still ficking texting me from daygame. This is ridiculous she is STILL thinking about me.

I am MORE than enough
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MY PRE BOOTCAMP JOURNAL - a very honest account of a guy trying to transform this area of his lifehttp://www.rsdnation.com/node/176546

ALEXANDER BOOTCAMP REVIEW - Oslo, September 2011 http://www.rsdnation.com/node/200440

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detourxl~

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Truefirmations

The girls at work are now getting nervous around me, quiet and attentive. Full weird
Went out tonight just for an hour as I'm pooped
Met really nice girl holly, pretty hot. Seems like solid number. Very effortless.
Escalated well
Like the "you're awesome" in the ear. It gets me turned on
Realised what alex meant bout making girl comfortable immediately
I was fucking side to side on that shit
Another hot girl who is into me
Super friendly French dude
Girl in White jumperino
Now on pof

Embarrassments

Two non receptive chicks at bar
Me getting depressed bout my
Hair loss but going out anyway - I've got a tyler like hairstyle at the mo
Feeling nervous and ugly on walk in - just accepted it then was FULL CHILL and relaxed

I am enough, fuck. Who would have thunk it :-)

Daygame and big night out tomorrow. FULL ESCALATION times

I must say, today really felt like a natural genuine pickup. Was really fun and pretty effortless.
Will be looking to seal some deals in the upcoming 4 weeks

GIRLS TO FOLLOW UP ON (just to remind me)

Holly
Natasha
Debs
Angela
Amy
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MY PRE BOOTCAMP JOURNAL - a very honest account of a guy trying to transform this area of his lifehttp://www.rsdnation.com/node/176546

ALEXANDER BOOTCAMP REVIEW - Oslo, September 2011 http://www.rsdnation.com/node/200440

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detourxl~

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My saturday night was crazy and intense, it was like bootcamp night. Probably more intense though. Had my trusted wing gem out with me. Steve wanted to join me for daygame - vibe was a bit pickupy for my liking. Think I'll do daygame sessions sober.

Daygame Truefirmations

- relaxed and confident during day
- talking to strangers
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MY PRE BOOTCAMP JOURNAL - a very honest account of a guy trying to transform this area of his lifehttp://www.rsdnation.com/node/176546

ALEXANDER BOOTCAMP REVIEW - Oslo, September 2011 http://www.rsdnation.com/node/200440

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detourxl~

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I've not even finished posting learning and realisations from Saturday. It seems like this week was a massive shift for me. A lot of principles - bootcamp and non bootcamp clicked for me. Will have to
Put up Saturday cos there was so
Much I learned it hurt, also got punched by a lesbian for kissing her girlfriend, the moment our lips touched I felt a shitty punch tommy right cheek.

Anyway, a quick realisation that is being internalized deeply. ANXIETY.

I'm feeling a bit anxious this morning as I have a semi
Challenging day at work.

What is anxiety? = worries about the future, that you can't handle a situation

Cure for anxiety? = you know deeply in yourself that you can handle anything life throws at you. Trust in yourself deeply = ultimate awesome man.

Ponder on that whenever you are anxious
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MY PRE BOOTCAMP JOURNAL - a very honest account of a guy trying to transform this area of his lifehttp://www.rsdnation.com/node/176546

ALEXANDER BOOTCAMP REVIEW - Oslo, September 2011 http://www.rsdnation.com/node/200440

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cool journal, keep it up!
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detourxl~

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Cheers dz - like ur shit too, especially ur consistency

I haven't even put down my learning from Saturday and I've got even more insights, it's like the bootcamp
Itself is not the thing that changes you. It's the time afterwards when you go back to your life and each time the lessons get reinforced. Like something will happen and you'll be like "yeah! Alex said that shit would happen"

I've worked really hard on myself these last 2 years. More than anyone I know. And it's fucking paying off, my god, this shut is fucking paying off. All those tomes when I doubted myself, I doubted the process, I was right to keep going. Each of those times I could've settled down, I kept going - and at times I regretted it! But it is starting to pay off and fucking hell - I'm going to enjoy it, I gucking DESERVE this shit.

Anyway some cool shut today:

I realised I am fucking high value guy that is a role model to many, and I get shot HANDLED. Like hardcore alpha male in the pretty woman sense of the world.

- did some cool operations that helped people's lives
- taught my junior
- given a thank you card by a med student for helping her career
- got called a "real man" by one of the secretaries - she is right. This is what a real man looks like in a world of beta males
- fed my mother, who is unwell
- realised the importance of "bringing others up to your level" (cheers alex mate, that's a fucking golden lesson and I owe you for that)

Ok, I'm still letting saturday settle in but the learning points were awesome and I owe it to
Myself to write it down.

Now gonna watch the matrix then fo my
Meditation. Consistency cunts and YOU CAN'T NOT TRANSFORM
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"let the game be beautiful" Ryan~

MY PRE BOOTCAMP JOURNAL - a very honest account of a guy trying to transform this area of his lifehttp://www.rsdnation.com/node/176546

ALEXANDER BOOTCAMP REVIEW - Oslo, September 2011 http://www.rsdnation.com/node/200440

POST BOOTCAMP JOURNAL - holding myself accountable, seeing how far I can go. http://www.rsdnation.com/node/201364
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