THE FORUMS

as a little continuation to my last post's topic, some thoughts i had today. i sometimes have the mindset that girls are basically adults and it's fine to give her some responsibility for us coming together, as she's gonna make her own decisions anyways. when i tried to pull yesterday i caught myself thinking "it's gonna work out, she likes me, logistics will be fine" although i obviously should've paid more attention to the logistics. oftentimes when dudes would come talk to my girl i would back down, thinking "she likes me anyways, she will choose me over him". this works if the dude's a chode (which is very often the case), it's not ideal though.

however, i guess it's better to take full responsibility yourself for stuff like that. rigorously working out the logistics and then giving her and even her friends the excuse. giving her the words to say to her friends, haha, as if she's a little puppy. when some dude comes talk to your girl blowing him out. LIAR. the girl doesn't give a fuck who wins, so if you wanna be with her you better blow that dude out.



now the report for tonight, friday. head to hollywood with hitmelightning, we're not sure where to go, consider las palmas but eventually end up somewhere else. this place is quite good, only 10$ cover, quite crowded and some hot girls. at first we chill a little but then start approaching. play the 30 seconds game, meet some brazilian girls, make out with them. there is a third chick though, we're not sure if this leads anywhere and the chicks are not super hot so we leave them.

some more approaching, it's quite good today i would say, but nothing leads anywhere. in the end, around 1.15 i lose my motivation a bit, get tired, and start choding around. i'm not hard on myself though, i do 2 or 3 more approaches, but that's it. at 2 we get kicked out, 13 approaches, it was a good night.

been out at roxbury tonight. hitmelightning texts me during the day that he's not gonna make it, i text back that i'll be going out alone so that i'm committed. smart boy. i'm pretty chilled during the day, knowing that i'll go out alone. good. so i get in there by 11.30, it's not very crowded yet. i get a beer and bum a smoke, chill for 15 minutes. hover around a bit but then make my first approach. she's into me, makeout very soon. sweet. she wants to look for her cousin or so and leaves. i hang around, talk to one more girl.

find the first girl again, make out some more, after some time she leaves again. i meet some chick whose birthday it is, she's hot. she likes me but it fizzles out after some time, i'm too chode. i meet some other ppl, smoke and hang out a bit with them. my state is pretty good the whole time, i think because i made out with the first chick. i recognized that when i'm out alone, as soon as i make out with the first chick, i lose that weird "omg, i'm alone" feeling that i have before.

eventually bump into birthday girl again, this time i get more physical and dominant, we dance, she rubs my cock with her ass really nicely. she's pretty drunk, i drink most of her vodka cranberry, which makes my stomach hurt! my stomach still hurts now, like 1 hour later! my body gets really fucked in the ass as soon as i drink a little.. i lead her outside, try to make out. she blocks, says she's a good girl. i say she doesn't have to if she doesn't want to. she says i'm nice and i should stop being nice... haha.

finally i approach some other hot chick, she wants to give me her number, i call her so that she's got my number too. after that i take off, it's 1.50, take a taxi home. 5 approaches, out alone, good night. in the taxi the chick whose number i got calls me, tells me my girlfriend yelled at her. i tell her i have no girlfriend and i can't explain that.



she tells me to text her tomorrow. in retrospect it must have been birthday girl who yelled at her, damn funny though!

@rightnow911go: thx man. i'm mostly out in hollywood and the clubs there seem to be 21+...



another night out. head to moscow with hitmelightning, we get there around 10.30. i start approaching, talk to some blonde chick, apparently she's into me, we make out. i decide i need to meet some more chicks, leave her and approach more girls. it's going quite good tonight, i feel comfortable and similar to the time when i used to go out a lot back home. you feel like the lord in the club.

blonde chick comes back up to me and slaps me, later i find out hitmelightning told her to do so. we make out, i slip my finger under her skirt. she's like "not here where everyone can see us," i take her by the hand and pull her to the boys' bathroom. fuck her in there. i was really surprised how quickly that went, i maybe talked to her for 15-20 minutes. didn't even plan to reapproach her.... so thanks to my wingman! my first bathroom action in the states and i was completely sober tonight.

so i keep approaching, nothing exciting from there. i can't even remember the girls i talked to right now. i just know it was 12 approaches overall. hang out with blonde girl some more, she's like "where have you been, did you fuck other bitches in the bathroom?" and i'm like "no, just you." in the end i get really tired and hungry so we leave at 1.45. kind of a lame report but honestly that's all i can remember right now.

yea, moscow on wednesday. it wasn't dead last night ;)



so tonight i've been out again. hitmelightning picks me up, we head to echo park, go into the first place. it's kinda mellow, i talk to some ppl. then approach a 4-set at the bar. i haven't approached a 4-set in a while, haha. it goes good, it's the one chicks birthday party, some other chick lived in germany for 7 years so we talk a little in german. i end up talking to another chick though, she's cute but i'm friend to friend. sucks. exchange numbers and we bounce.

the second place is like a sports bar, kinda trashy, a lot of dudes. at first i chode, finally do 2 approaches, both not very good. we figure out we both don't like this place so we bounce again, to downtown. the place is called sevengrand, it's kinda mellow too, but there's a 2-set i wanna approach before we leave. i roll up and they're nice, hitmelightning comes in, i talk to my chick for a while. it's fun but in the end we bounce again.

it's pretty late by now (around 1.00), we don't find another place that's still good so we eventually head home. so kinda "ok" night, 6 approaches. i wasn't doing so bad but hitting up the bars always makes it hard for me to do a lot of approaches. it also makes me tend to go friend to friend and not physical. turns out echo park maybe isn't the best spot for thursdays.

saturday night and i haven't been out. wasn't feeling like it today and as i've already been out 4 times this week (i count yesterday although it was a houseparty because i approached..) and hitmelightning wasn't going out either, i figured there's no need to force myself into going out alone. as least not tonight ;)

later it turns out there is gonna be something at my place, i go check it out, it's really mellow. there's some cute girls though and i even talk to 2 chicks, nevertheless i don't work up the courage to approach the challenging and therefore interesting girls. kinda feel like a chode because of that. the party gets shut down really early and afterwards i just hang out.

bump into freakout girl from yesterday again, we go hang out next go her room to have some water. turns out she's a virgin and lectures me about the distinction between sex and love. she's cute though, but obviously not down to what i want to do, hehe. short makeout, then i leave.