THE FORUMS

 7-29-12 Sunday daygames at the mall.

Went to the mall this afternoon to do some approaches. I knew I was going to be lazy so I set a minimum of 5 approaches at the mall. End up doing like 10 which is pretty sweet. 2x what I wanted.
My fundamentals were off, so this was a good review session. Voice needed to be louder, vocal tonality was not the best.
One thing that was awesome, was I could tell that I was exerting social pressure on the girls. My mind would go blank so I would just smirk at them and be quiet. These girls I had entitlement on so they were cute, not super hot.
They would turn into a giggly mess and then just get overwhelmed and run away. So that was pretty sweet. Self amusing for me actually. Knowing that it was slightly akward and then just staying with it, with a flirtatious smirk. New skill maybe. Or I dont remeber the last time I was doing that.

Spent a couple hours at the mall. No numbers or anything.

Then I went over to whole foods. Where the real hotties are. The mall was like warmup for the wholefoods real deal, lol. 
6pm on sunday whole foods was packed.

This one girl was at the eating area with a text book. She was all flustered and paniced because she had to do lots of math homework. I went in direct, hey I was eating but I saw you and I think you're really cute. Her eyes lit up and she went anime eyes. Told her we should hang out another time when shes more free. Shes like cool. Just wrote down her number on a paper for me without me asking for it neato. Figured out her schedule will try d2 later this week. I was pretty stoked to get this number after a couple hours of mediocrity results wise at the mall earlier.

Then there was this other girl looking at some food. She said she likes to read science books for fun. A nerdy girl. Got her number in like 3 minutes said we should hang out another time, then she kind of ran off. Shes nerdy so socially akwardish I guess, I was a bit suprised when I asked for her number and she gave it actually. Doesnt feel solid, but never know I guess. Hit up all the numbers and see what happens its a % game. 


Then I went home took a nap since I was tired, I had a dream that I was trapped at whole foods and couldnt get out. I sorta was worried, but then I felt really happy because there is lots of good food and hot girls. If theres ever like a doomsday or something, whole foods would be a really good place to post up at. 

About to head out to mess around for some night game.

 7-30-12 Monday night

Was planning to just chill tonight and not go out. That didnt happen. lol.

Texted that girl from the end of last night HBshortboobs today.
"What are you doing tonight?"  4:04pm
-Hmmm im not sure yet I might have to work so im iffy about makin plans ..u?
"I have a dodgeball game at 7 but im free after that."
-Dodge ball? Sweet well Ill shoot you a text let u know  if I go to work or not.
"Sounds good where do you work"
-PLACE 4:14pm

"Yeah!! We won!!" 7:57pm
"U have work? Meet me :)" 8:10pm
-Hey whats up 8:38pm
"Adventure! I know a really cool spot amazing view we can blaze" 8:58
-Im going to eat with some friends at iron cactus 8:58
"I already ate. Text me after. I might be around" 9:30
-I think we are going to dizzy after this if u wanna meet up. 9:30
"Are you still out?" 10:38
-Yup. U coming dt 10:38
"yea omw" 10:45
-Im at 512  10:53

So this text message I wrote it out because I wouldnt mind some text game feedback.   Im proud of myself for turning this text into a D2 because my text game is pretty bad generally. She didnt text me as she said she would so I kind of freaked out with the second batch of texts, but It did turn into a meet which is nice. It took me a while to think of the "Adventure!" text and also what to reply after she was like im going out with my friends. When she was like im going with my friends im like fuck I wanted to hang out with just you in my head. I almost didnt go out, but then I was like wait, this girl is inviting me out. That would be pretty dumb to not show up. I was thinking what would Dave7 do? Of course show up and see what happens.

I get to the bar. As soon as I walk in, some girl waves at me. I dont recognize her instantly. Its her. Shes straddling her other girlfriend at a bar stool. Like sitting in santas lap, but straddle style. Im like wtf. The two girls are like cuddling each other. Cool. Also 2 other friends. So its me and HBshortboobs and 3 friends. I meet all the friends talk to them say hi. Then I just look at my phone because HB is sitting in her friends lap. Im like freaking out inside like what the fuck do I do.  I repeatedly rely on alex's teaching. I am enough. Everything is okay, just spend time with the girl and things will work out. So after a few minutes, this girl hops off of her friends lap, and so I start talking to her. I tell her a couple random stories about dodgeball, and some wierd guy I saw earlier and a cat with a leash. Cool. She shows me pictures of 3 people who came into the bar earlier. One guy 2 girls. They got naked and danced on the bar because they got points for a scavenger hunt thing. Damn hardcore scavenger hunt. 

Im hanging out with these 4 girls. They are constantly petting each others hair, playing with each other boobs. Grabbing/slapping ass. Poking each others buttholes with various things. HBshortboobs crawls under her friends long dress. Just like craziness. Any read on this type of behavior? Just party girls I guess? I remain pretty unreactive but also pretty entertained.  

At the first bar, my girl leaves her group to stand by herself and so I go talk to her, I think she was doing this to give me a chance to talk to her which I did. Everytime she would go off by herself then I would go talk to her. Otherwise I would just watch sportscenter or the olympics on the TV or sometimes talk to her friends. In my brain i was like if I am a pimp I would do some cold approaches on other girls. That didnt happen lol.

The girls are running around they like talking to many guys. Alex said just be chill the girls love arousal so I just play it cool chill back and let them run around. I dont get too needy or whatever just have self trust that things are okay. 

They talk to many guys, I just stick in set. A few times I was freaking out on the inside like I just wanted to go home and run away from them because it wasnt going how I wanted it to. But then I was like no thats gay just stay out till the end. So probably for the first hour or 2 Its just me and the girls in the bar. But for the last hour or hour half. Of course this group of 4 hotties has many guy friends out. The dudes are pretty cool too. Attractive guys. There is a group of guys that are like bartenders/doorguys for other bars those guys usually work on weekends since its monday they are off partying at the bars. More and more guys enter into the set and talk to the girls. Plus the girls just talk to guys around them in general. 

I just play it cool stand off to the side and get more and more stifled. The guys lead the girls around to other bars and I just follow the group. Im a part of their group because the one girl likes me. The rest of the girls seem indifferent. I felt like fingerman. Just like follow the girls minimum effort game. With alex beliefs that everything is cool and it will all work out. I talk to my girl sometimes. Alot of playing with my phone acting cool and watching the sports on the TVs at the bar. Super like chode mode feeling. But then battling the chode stifling thoughts with I am enough.  Towards the end of the night. The girls have been drinking so they are drunker and more add. Plus more guys are with them.   And I am becoming more spectator more stifled not good. 

At like 1:50 or so my girl is sitting at the bar, she was talking to some random guys at the bar, they leave so its just her by herself. I go over and talk to her. Talk about some sillyness. I talk about wanting boobs to play with. Shes like do you like boobs. Im like yeah I do. She has amazing boobs btw. Im like rubbing my chest, saying that my boobs just arent that great to play with. She grabs my chest as I wanted her to. Then I grab her boob. Nice boob. Alls fair, you grab mine I grab yours. I get her laughing and stuff. 

The other guys are like looking at me talking to this girl in isolation, they arent super happy about it because shes hot and they want to bang her too. But yeah, my girl throughout it all she loves me. And then whenever they bounce to a new place she usually tells me to come along, or I just come along anyway. Just like being chill man, non needy. Not necessarily being awesome displaying value the whole time, but not needy the whole time just staying with the group. 

2:00 rolls around the bars close. The girls want to keep drinking. They are talking to the other guys. They all rode together so I wont be able to kidnap my girl from her friends. The other guys want to keep partying, but I dont think anything is goign to happen. Pretty sure the girls just go home. Or maybe I left and they fucked some other dudes I dont know. But I say bye to my girl she gives me a super tight hug and shes like holler at me later. I think she likes me. So hopefully the D3 can happen. Hopefully I can do it without her and her posse of friends. That makes it so much more difficult the 3 extra girls being there. 

Overall just was cool guy for a few hours, spent more time with the girl. Let her get more comfortable with me and stuff. Trusting that with patience it will happen.

After I leave the group of girls and HBshortboobs its like 2:15. Do maybe like 3 street approaches. Nothing sticks.
I feel sorta butthurt at the end of the night. Thinking like fuck that didnt go how I wanted it to go and stuff.
Outcome dependance and scarcity creeping in to mess me up. Im pretty sure its okay though and it was very minimal so im not blown out fully. I like this girls boobs, alot.




Sixth street crazyiness: There was some guys sitting on the sidewalk with a bloody face. The cops were there talking to whoever. Some of HB's friends saw what happened. Like apparently one of the guys was drunk and like shoved one of the bar workers or something. Then after that everyone else just ganged up on the one guy and his friends. Like the bartenders etc etc. Some other dude was like I dont know whats up but everyone is kicking these fools imma do it too.   So I dont know if anyone is going to get in any trouble for that which happened. Definately an unfortante situation. The guy who had his face bloodyied got a crazy unnecessary beating, but I guess you shouldnt start shit with a worker at a bar. Bad deal for everyone really. The girls were talking loud, and then the cops walked by and one of the guys who worked at the bar told her to shut teh fuck up. I think the bar staff is probably going to get away with beating a guy to the point of a bloody face because he like shoved someone. I didnt see what happend so I dont really know.