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I agree the guy is a very normal dude.
And by normal I mean "non-needy", th world is an easy place for him. (which she feels)
As for whether an ugly/average dude should run the same game? Probably not. But it can be done.
And by normal I mean "non-needy", th world is an easy place for him. (which she feels)
As for whether an ugly/average dude should run the same game? Probably not. But it can be done.
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It's hilarious watching this, he reminds me of ME...
This is a perfect example showing that women love winning over men. (But the rarely if ever get the chance to) Lately I've called it "Building Anticipation" but when your being chased by women, the whole seduction is for you. Now I think I'm average looking (although many people tell me to get into modeling due to my LOOK) but I've seen MANY women who were highly attracted to me physically and I still sucked. Likewise, I have friends (community and non-community) who still don't get women because they just lack the finese. Heck, yesterday I bumped into my good community friend Jared! and a model friend we hang with. This guy is all sad with his girl while Jared! is making out and seeding the pull. I texted the model while we were all eating to stop being serious/uptight and to have fun fun fun with his girl play/flirt. This guy literally went to the bathroom, came back TOTALLY DIFFERENT and he too was making out with his girl. (That was very vague but he was diggin a hole to the point where he confessed why he was mad at her)
It's rare, you ever see a community guy being this way because most frames are "approach, chase, get her!"
- The guy is very vague, his aloofness and letting her slowly bring out his interest is making everything he does that more MEMORABLE
- She wants him, he maintains that throughout the whole thing (This is very obvious)
- The whole shake my hand goodbye (Perfect example of "the seduction is for him, it was in the bag from the start" assumption)
The best part that got my attention was the whole "Your more than welcome to come". This is exactly how I pull, if I had my own place it would be even easier/smoother. Any excuse to continue the interaction in a more isolated location where sex can possibly go down. The whole "He's good looking" will cause you to overlook everything. I hang around lots of male model dudes who are constantly trying to get at women with no dice. I like this guy, he reminds me of me, my interactions are similar.
This is a perfect example showing that women love winning over men. (But the rarely if ever get the chance to) Lately I've called it "Building Anticipation" but when your being chased by women, the whole seduction is for you. Now I think I'm average looking (although many people tell me to get into modeling due to my LOOK) but I've seen MANY women who were highly attracted to me physically and I still sucked. Likewise, I have friends (community and non-community) who still don't get women because they just lack the finese. Heck, yesterday I bumped into my good community friend Jared! and a model friend we hang with. This guy is all sad with his girl while Jared! is making out and seeding the pull. I texted the model while we were all eating to stop being serious/uptight and to have fun fun fun with his girl play/flirt. This guy literally went to the bathroom, came back TOTALLY DIFFERENT and he too was making out with his girl. (That was very vague but he was diggin a hole to the point where he confessed why he was mad at her)
It's rare, you ever see a community guy being this way because most frames are "approach, chase, get her!"
- The guy is very vague, his aloofness and letting her slowly bring out his interest is making everything he does that more MEMORABLE
- She wants him, he maintains that throughout the whole thing (This is very obvious)
- The whole shake my hand goodbye (Perfect example of "the seduction is for him, it was in the bag from the start" assumption)
The best part that got my attention was the whole "Your more than welcome to come". This is exactly how I pull, if I had my own place it would be even easier/smoother. Any excuse to continue the interaction in a more isolated location where sex can possibly go down. The whole "He's good looking" will cause you to overlook everything. I hang around lots of male model dudes who are constantly trying to get at women with no dice. I like this guy, he reminds me of me, my interactions are similar.
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I don't think it is the looks as much as it is the congruence and the self confidence. The guy is staring in his own movie and ALLOWING her to play a role.
I don't think it is the looks as much as it is the congruence and the self confidence. The guy is staring in his own movie and ALLOWING her to play a role.
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Why do you think this is bad game. He got what he wanted, did he not?
I get the feeling you aren't seeing reality, but are instead seeing some rosy PUAAH world. Just like when Marx was insulting the free market because it had all these "flaws." In the end, his communist utopia collapses everywhere it is instituted, while the free market just works.
You gotta let go of your pre conceived notions about how things are supposed to go, and just look at what's in front of you and what actually went down.
Or are you just denying it?
As far as your comment about 5'5 balding fat guy, that really all depends on the guy. I have seen short bald guys with a few extra pounds that still manage to look stylish. Part of that is how you dress, how you take care of yourself. Even if you're fat, you can do a lot for your appearance with well picked clothes. Women have known this for a very long time. Even then, how can you know how this girl would have responded if the guy wasn't hot? How could you really know? If you have an ugly dude who displays little attachment to a super hot model, doesn't that seem even more bizarre than a good looking guy doing the same? I mean really think about this: What do you associate with an ugly guy? All sorts of stereotypes about his lack of confidence, his clingyness, the way he idolizes every hot woman he sees.
So if you have a dude that doesn't do that, I think that would take precedence over looks. Look at Russel Brand for christ's sake. The dude isn't hot. He is a skinny dweeb with exotic clothes, like he stepped out of mystery method. But his personality makes him a sex idol to women.
This guy's personality just goes with his demeanor and looks. It's all congruent.
How much of their "date" did you see? It was an 8 minute segment. Do you really think they drove around, surfed, ate dinner, did all that stuff in 8 minutes? No. I'm sure there was conversation involved.
And lastly, have you ever considered that if the chick was bitchy and standoffish, that might be something he wouldn't want in his girl? Therefore, his behaviour would actually screen her out.
I certainly don't see anything attractive about a woman who behaves like a stuck up bitch just because of something genetics determined for her.
There are many different types of women, and many different types of personalities. The fact that we as humans are so attracted to so many people of different walks of life, just shows that you don't have to fit into one narrow type of personality to attract the opposite sex. And among all of these different people, there are also hot ones.
This video is just one example. If you find something else works for you, then so be it. But don't sit here ragging on the man for not doing things the "right way." when what did clearly worked. That's just being out of touch with reality.
I get the feeling you aren't seeing reality, but are instead seeing some rosy PUAAH world. Just like when Marx was insulting the free market because it had all these "flaws." In the end, his communist utopia collapses everywhere it is instituted, while the free market just works.
You gotta let go of your pre conceived notions about how things are supposed to go, and just look at what's in front of you and what actually went down.
Or are you just denying it?
As far as your comment about 5'5 balding fat guy, that really all depends on the guy. I have seen short bald guys with a few extra pounds that still manage to look stylish. Part of that is how you dress, how you take care of yourself. Even if you're fat, you can do a lot for your appearance with well picked clothes. Women have known this for a very long time. Even then, how can you know how this girl would have responded if the guy wasn't hot? How could you really know? If you have an ugly dude who displays little attachment to a super hot model, doesn't that seem even more bizarre than a good looking guy doing the same? I mean really think about this: What do you associate with an ugly guy? All sorts of stereotypes about his lack of confidence, his clingyness, the way he idolizes every hot woman he sees.
So if you have a dude that doesn't do that, I think that would take precedence over looks. Look at Russel Brand for christ's sake. The dude isn't hot. He is a skinny dweeb with exotic clothes, like he stepped out of mystery method. But his personality makes him a sex idol to women.
This guy's personality just goes with his demeanor and looks. It's all congruent.
How much of their "date" did you see? It was an 8 minute segment. Do you really think they drove around, surfed, ate dinner, did all that stuff in 8 minutes? No. I'm sure there was conversation involved.
And lastly, have you ever considered that if the chick was bitchy and standoffish, that might be something he wouldn't want in his girl? Therefore, his behaviour would actually screen her out.
I certainly don't see anything attractive about a woman who behaves like a stuck up bitch just because of something genetics determined for her.
There are many different types of women, and many different types of personalities. The fact that we as humans are so attracted to so many people of different walks of life, just shows that you don't have to fit into one narrow type of personality to attract the opposite sex. And among all of these different people, there are also hot ones.
This video is just one example. If you find something else works for you, then so be it. But don't sit here ragging on the man for not doing things the "right way." when what did clearly worked. That's just being out of touch with reality.
sub-comm? You are talking out of your ass. People on here seem to think that game is going from a weirdo to being normal, instead of going from normal to VERY good.
This dude is normal, he dont have "good game", and he doesnt have some supreme subcommunication. Do you really think this girl would have been all over him if he was 5'5, balding and fat? He is VERY uninteresting, he is a bad conversationalist, the only thing he is doing good is leaning back and thats an effect of her being all over him from the first place. IF this girl had been bitchy, challenging and hard to get, he would have never have gotten her.
This dude is normal, he dont have "good game", and he doesnt have some supreme subcommunication. Do you really think this girl would have been all over him if he was 5'5, balding and fat? He is VERY uninteresting, he is a bad conversationalist, the only thing he is doing good is leaning back and thats an effect of her being all over him from the first place. IF this girl had been bitchy, challenging and hard to get, he would have never have gotten her.
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Hate to double post and all, but dude.
Russel Brand.
/end of conversation.
Russel Brand.
/end of conversation.
The only issue in his game is that he is indiscrete, it's pretty badly calibrated to be on camera and hint at sex, some girls would lock up on that. But it takes more than one thing to fuck up your game.
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It's rare, you ever see a community guy being this way because most frames are "approach, chase, get her!"
- The guy is very vague, his aloofness and letting her slowly bring out his interest is making everything he does that more MEMORABLE
- She wants him, he maintains that throughout the whole thing (This is very obvious)
- The whole shake my hand goodbye (Perfect example of "the seduction is for him, it was in the bag from the start" assumption)
all of that shows that the guy's got game for sure. despite of this girl basically chasing him from the start he's centered he controled himself and the whole interaction all the way to the end ocasionally prolonging and screening even harder. great example of buyer/seller dynamic in action and maintaining the balance (tim's rhythm). also being in shape helped him no doubt- The guy is very vague, his aloofness and letting her slowly bring out his interest is making everything he does that more MEMORABLE
- She wants him, he maintains that throughout the whole thing (This is very obvious)
- The whole shake my hand goodbye (Perfect example of "the seduction is for him, it was in the bag from the start" assumption)
personally i love this type of game when i can flirt/tease the girl really ENGAGING her instead of being "yes man" chasing chasing chasing
interestingly.. watching this guy (who allegedly split up with GF lately) also indicates that losing "game" (aka personality/strenght etc) while being in relationship is major bullshit. only boys depending on techniques may lose their shit due to not practicing but not the guy with strong identity.
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