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June 19th, 2013
Men's Social Skills Are Embarrassing
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astral

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Join Date: 09/25/2011 | Posts: 34

I've been in the game for a decade now. Longer than that, actually. And one thing that's embarrassing is that men's social skills are seriously in decline. I've never seen it worse. There is more desperation than ever. Standards are lower, and declining. Guys can't cooperate for their mutual benefit and try to tool each other at the slightest opportunity.

Overall, this is a generation of fat, lazy guys obsessed with their computers and either ignoring women completely, or completely breaking down emotionally when they are trying to pick them up.

I'm more inclined than ever to just go out on my own, even though that's pretty much the last thing I want to do. Going out is supposed to be fun, you're supposed to have friends, but "men" are such losers these days, I'm starting to give this serious consideration.
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Trent3Reznor

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It sounds like you're outgrowing your old friends.  Completely normal, happened to me too.
Once you set higher expectations for yourself, its only natural you expect the same from your friends.
Remember that your time is valuable, and you only spend it with people who deserve it. 
If they dont deserve it, then fuck them.  There just a waste of your time. 
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Ronoc

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Join Date: 02/04/2011 | Posts: 187

Guys competing against eachother is the dumbest thing imo, we should be working together
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Cupcakes

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I hear you, half the time these days I actually prefer to go out alone because most of my friends just hold me back so much. I guess the solution is to make more friends...
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Gunner

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It's gonna get a lot worse man, a lot of kids dont even go out to recess to play anymore, they'd rather sit in the class room and play on their smart phones.
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Trent3Reznor

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On the other hand, you're going to meet guys with similar aspirations as you
Guys who would rather hunt pussy than stay home with mommy and xbox.
We're out here man, dont worry because you're not alone.
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markzor

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 Sounds like you are a negative person who would rather complain and focus on the problem, than on the solution.
it's you dependence on other guys, and you negativity, that is just as worse as the guys you dispise.

you could also gather a crew of awesome friends, focus on the positive, see how guys are trying to improve with this new field of PUA, etc....
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astral

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Join Date: 09/25/2011 | Posts: 34

Failed cold read. Perhaps you are projecting.

Let's put it the other way and see if it makes sense: young men today, despite spending records amount of time in front of the tv, computer and video games, and with internet porn, are MORE sophisticated and socially adept than ever! No.

Socially awkward guys are the norm now. Hanging out with cool bro's and kickass wings sounds like a great idea, if I could find them.
markzor wrote:
 Sounds like you are a negative person who would rather complain and focus on the problem, than on the solution.
it's you dependence on other guys, and you negativity, that is just as worse as the guys you dispise.

you could also gather a crew of awesome friends, focus on the positive, see how guys are trying to improve with this new field of PUA, etc....

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Mitizaro

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I agree that statistically the sitation is not good.

But the glass can be half full or half empty, dude.

In any case - there is life in everything! I mean in every misery there's a shaft of light. If you can find it - you probably won't be distracted by the negative side of today's society.
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markzor

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 Allright, failed cold read, but then tell me, what is the point of your post?

Because you aren't asking anything, you aren't offering value,.. you only state your opinion about men nowadays?
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chinaski

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 they are social skills, and as skills, you learn by practicing.

if you spend most of your youth on your own, studying or playing videogames, you're pretty much doomed to be and adult chode.

yes I think it's going to get worse. people are forgetting how to comunicate with each other, and let alone how to get girls.

but as long as clubbing is legal, it's all good. ;)
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