THE FORUMS
Thu, Jan 26th
Now I'm really back, bitches!
I think I'm now close to the level again on which I was before my break, things are finally taking up speed again! Went to Volksgarten with my wings Bernhard and Terminator, it's also good to roll with somebody else again, makes it easier. We go to Volksgarten where there was "Justizclubbing", an event basically made for law people (which I find boring as fuck, and you can believe my judgement, because I have studied this shit for two years).
But damn, those lawyers are horny! This is where two months ago I got my last SNL (see blog post "The law chodes of attraction") and back then, I remember walking in and thinking: "Those are LAW PEOPLE, this is never gonna work, law girls are way too prude for SNLs!"). Well, it was just a lesson in overcoming limiting believes...
We start to open, make some convo, I tell every girl: "Please tell me you are not in law, please tell me you are not boring!", and most ARE in law and interrestingly agree with me that law people are boring, it's just that she is an exception, lol! Well, prove it to me, baby! What's that, this necklace is made out of pieces of a coffee mug? Ok, I will let that count for now, bla bla... One girl is somehow hot and also attracted, but she got some cold, boring business vibe, I can't deal with it, I let it go. A couple of blowouts, fair enough. The venue is packed, the girls are really hot; not many guys approaching here, I wrote "Law Chodes" for a reason...
Terminator is making out with a girl, she is dragging him back to her cute friend on the dancefloor. I go in on the friend, tell her "You are cute and you look so bored!", she smiles. We dance, my calibration tells me that I can go for it after one minute, makeout. All four of us go to the bar to drink something, the next half an hour Terminator is making out with his girl a couple of feet away, and I with mine, a pretty little brunette. She hardly talks and prefers to have her tongue down my throat. I bite her a little bit, "I'm a vampire, if I bite you you will live forever!", I smack her ass, I'm getting a bit more aggressive than with previous makeouts, which is good! I rub her pussy for a bit, then she turns her body to prevent further rubbing. Terminator always gets his fingers in, I somehow always get the ones with pantyhose. She orders drinks, then asks me who will pay for them, her or me, looking at me expectingly... She would have to go to the cash machine first.... I tell myself whatever, this girl is not just trying to rip me off, she has made out with me intensely and is a little student 10 years younger than me at least, I don't want to look cheap, and I pay. Next time Im gonna mock her for it hard as well though.
Then some bartender apparently manages to misposition a candle and to set the hair of Terminator's girl on fire for a second, the girls disappear to the restroom. It takes some time, we wonder if they will be back, Terminator took his girls number. I don't want to look like I'm waiting forever, maybe I will meet them again later, so I just disappear into the venue, he stays. Later get a text from him:"They are back!", but I feel like letting mine wait and open a couple of other sets first. He later tells me a lot of attraction was lost, he couldn't really get it going again, but will contact her tomorrow.
Some pretty girl (HBAuthentic) is standing on the dancefloor, still in her coat, looking around. I walk up "Hey, you look like you are looking for something!", banter, attraction, she is looking for her friends, she asks me if she should introduce me to them, I say sure. A bigger group of guys and girls, I introduce myself confidently, make some charming small talk, everybody is very cool (and slightly drunk). What is happening now is something that only happens once or twice a month - a conversation with a girl I'm REALLY into: She is authentic, charming, entertaining, smart, loves art; just how I like it! She is just very young though, 21 years.
We talk for at least 40 minutes, she is demanding too, but clearly into me. There is something she doesn't want to tell me because it would make me "run away". She makes a funny face for me, I tell her she is so cute, most girls are just trying to keep their composure. I take her phone number, which on it's own is a process of 5 minutes as she is trying to make some kind of number puzzle out of it, ha ha! I tease her a lot, she tells me she is a hair dresser, which, of course, she is not, because she is studying law. But law people are boring she tells me, of course, except for her! This time I believe it though. I'm trying a kiss close two or three times, no go. She tells me she is not one of those girls, with 90% of girls you can makeout at the club, but she doesn't do it. I actually believe her, this one is hard to get. She has just come out of a 5 year relationship and is 21, go figure... So after some time I tell her I will call her and move on. This will maybe even take several dates, but I'm really enjoying this girls company and definitely want to meet her again, let's see... gonna text her later today!
I do a couple more sets, grope some very drunk girl who refuses to kiss me. Then I see HBBurnedHair and her cute friend again, I hesitate, then I force myself to re-approach, my girl is smiling, I want her to dance with me "Not to this song!", I stand there for a minute waiting like a moron for the song to end, then I just grab her, we dance, but makeout is a no-go. I grab her, slam her against a column, try again, no makeout, she walks away slowly. Suddenly HBAuthentic is standing next to us, slightly shocked, but greeting me ironically and motioning for me to go after the other girl. I probably look slightly embarressed at first, but regain my composure quickly. Those feelings of slight embaressment have to go.
At 4 am, the venue is emptying out. I'm going home.
Lessons:
This is gonna be my procedure after the makeout from now on, handcrafted to the customer:
- After 10 min. or so take number
- A little later put her hand on my cock, smack her ass
- A little later rub her pussy
- Take it back a step, talk about going home together (after 45 min to 2 hours)
If it's an instant makeout, I have to put in some good convo/ comfort there, either before or after ramping up the sexual tension!
Now I'm really back, bitches!
I think I'm now close to the level again on which I was before my break, things are finally taking up speed again! Went to Volksgarten with my wings Bernhard and Terminator, it's also good to roll with somebody else again, makes it easier. We go to Volksgarten where there was "Justizclubbing", an event basically made for law people (which I find boring as fuck, and you can believe my judgement, because I have studied this shit for two years).
But damn, those lawyers are horny! This is where two months ago I got my last SNL (see blog post "The law chodes of attraction") and back then, I remember walking in and thinking: "Those are LAW PEOPLE, this is never gonna work, law girls are way too prude for SNLs!"). Well, it was just a lesson in overcoming limiting believes...
We start to open, make some convo, I tell every girl: "Please tell me you are not in law, please tell me you are not boring!", and most ARE in law and interrestingly agree with me that law people are boring, it's just that she is an exception, lol! Well, prove it to me, baby! What's that, this necklace is made out of pieces of a coffee mug? Ok, I will let that count for now, bla bla... One girl is somehow hot and also attracted, but she got some cold, boring business vibe, I can't deal with it, I let it go. A couple of blowouts, fair enough. The venue is packed, the girls are really hot; not many guys approaching here, I wrote "Law Chodes" for a reason...
Terminator is making out with a girl, she is dragging him back to her cute friend on the dancefloor. I go in on the friend, tell her "You are cute and you look so bored!", she smiles. We dance, my calibration tells me that I can go for it after one minute, makeout. All four of us go to the bar to drink something, the next half an hour Terminator is making out with his girl a couple of feet away, and I with mine, a pretty little brunette. She hardly talks and prefers to have her tongue down my throat. I bite her a little bit, "I'm a vampire, if I bite you you will live forever!", I smack her ass, I'm getting a bit more aggressive than with previous makeouts, which is good! I rub her pussy for a bit, then she turns her body to prevent further rubbing. Terminator always gets his fingers in, I somehow always get the ones with pantyhose. She orders drinks, then asks me who will pay for them, her or me, looking at me expectingly... She would have to go to the cash machine first.... I tell myself whatever, this girl is not just trying to rip me off, she has made out with me intensely and is a little student 10 years younger than me at least, I don't want to look cheap, and I pay. Next time Im gonna mock her for it hard as well though.
Then some bartender apparently manages to misposition a candle and to set the hair of Terminator's girl on fire for a second, the girls disappear to the restroom. It takes some time, we wonder if they will be back, Terminator took his girls number. I don't want to look like I'm waiting forever, maybe I will meet them again later, so I just disappear into the venue, he stays. Later get a text from him:"They are back!", but I feel like letting mine wait and open a couple of other sets first. He later tells me a lot of attraction was lost, he couldn't really get it going again, but will contact her tomorrow.
Some pretty girl (HBAuthentic) is standing on the dancefloor, still in her coat, looking around. I walk up "Hey, you look like you are looking for something!", banter, attraction, she is looking for her friends, she asks me if she should introduce me to them, I say sure. A bigger group of guys and girls, I introduce myself confidently, make some charming small talk, everybody is very cool (and slightly drunk). What is happening now is something that only happens once or twice a month - a conversation with a girl I'm REALLY into: She is authentic, charming, entertaining, smart, loves art; just how I like it! She is just very young though, 21 years.
We talk for at least 40 minutes, she is demanding too, but clearly into me. There is something she doesn't want to tell me because it would make me "run away". She makes a funny face for me, I tell her she is so cute, most girls are just trying to keep their composure. I take her phone number, which on it's own is a process of 5 minutes as she is trying to make some kind of number puzzle out of it, ha ha! I tease her a lot, she tells me she is a hair dresser, which, of course, she is not, because she is studying law. But law people are boring she tells me, of course, except for her! This time I believe it though. I'm trying a kiss close two or three times, no go. She tells me she is not one of those girls, with 90% of girls you can makeout at the club, but she doesn't do it. I actually believe her, this one is hard to get. She has just come out of a 5 year relationship and is 21, go figure... So after some time I tell her I will call her and move on. This will maybe even take several dates, but I'm really enjoying this girls company and definitely want to meet her again, let's see... gonna text her later today!
I do a couple more sets, grope some very drunk girl who refuses to kiss me. Then I see HBBurnedHair and her cute friend again, I hesitate, then I force myself to re-approach, my girl is smiling, I want her to dance with me "Not to this song!", I stand there for a minute waiting like a moron for the song to end, then I just grab her, we dance, but makeout is a no-go. I grab her, slam her against a column, try again, no makeout, she walks away slowly. Suddenly HBAuthentic is standing next to us, slightly shocked, but greeting me ironically and motioning for me to go after the other girl. I probably look slightly embarressed at first, but regain my composure quickly. Those feelings of slight embaressment have to go.
At 4 am, the venue is emptying out. I'm going home.
Lessons:
This is gonna be my procedure after the makeout from now on, handcrafted to the customer:
- After 10 min. or so take number
- A little later put her hand on my cock, smack her ass
- A little later rub her pussy
- Take it back a step, talk about going home together (after 45 min to 2 hours)
If it's an instant makeout, I have to put in some good convo/ comfort there, either before or after ramping up the sexual tension!
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"Failure is caused by unwillingness to adapt!"
"If it's not rough, it is not fun!" - Lady Gaga, Philosopher
Doctor's Diary - my Field Reports live from Vienna: http://www.rsdnation.com/node/200128/forum
"If it's not rough, it is not fun!" - Lady Gaga, Philosopher
Doctor's Diary - my Field Reports live from Vienna: http://www.rsdnation.com/node/200128/forum
Sounds like a fun night!
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My adventures in Dallas - 2013
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My adventures in Dallas - 2013
My adventures in Austin - 2012
Tyler/Julien, Honolulu Bootcamp July 2011
Tyler hotseat2 x5 (2011-2012)
Alex hotseat x2 (2013)
girlslovepenis.tumblr.com
Hey doc. William-h-Bonney aka Billy the kid! watch the move young guns it's the shit! the guy in the avatar and actor is Emilio Estevez.... Can't believe you aint seen young guns dude!
Glad that my post helped and I see some that you started implementing it in your last entry
Keep up the good work
Glad that my post helped and I see some that you started implementing it in your last entry
Keep up the good work
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Read bonneys blog: http://www.rsdnation.com/william-h-bonney/blog
Awesome FR! :> Keep it up!
@roadrally: It sure was, man!
@Enough0: Thanks, you are missed in Vienna!
@Mr.Bonney: Oooohh, no Michael J. Fox, that's a pity, I liked that guy when I was a kid. I'm a young gun myself! Sadly, I had the night out in my last post before I read your post. To a certain degree I know myself what's missing (that's why I know you are spot on with everything you say), but still your feedback gives details and reinforces it, so it's much, much appreciated, like I said. Also, I have just been coming back from a break and have had really weak nights in 2012 so far. But maybe you will see some of your inspiration in this following report...:
@Enough0: Thanks, you are missed in Vienna!
@Mr.Bonney: Oooohh, no Michael J. Fox, that's a pity, I liked that guy when I was a kid. I'm a young gun myself! Sadly, I had the night out in my last post before I read your post. To a certain degree I know myself what's missing (that's why I know you are spot on with everything you say), but still your feedback gives details and reinforces it, so it's much, much appreciated, like I said. Also, I have just been coming back from a break and have had really weak nights in 2012 so far. But maybe you will see some of your inspiration in this following report...:
__________________
"Failure is caused by unwillingness to adapt!"
"If it's not rough, it is not fun!" - Lady Gaga, Philosopher
Doctor's Diary - my Field Reports live from Vienna: http://www.rsdnation.com/node/200128/forum
"If it's not rough, it is not fun!" - Lady Gaga, Philosopher
Doctor's Diary - my Field Reports live from Vienna: http://www.rsdnation.com/node/200128/forum
Fri, Jan 27th
Going out with my wing Naturalito, later Terminator joins us too. I go up to the first set of the night, an HB7.5, alone and smoking, "You are cute and you are standing there pretty lost!" She teaches religion (and informatics) and right away offers the information that she thinks sex should happen with one person after marriage. I have to admit I would have left the set at this point, but Naturalito, who is half a natural, suddenly steps up and says:"Well, then you guys will have to get married on the spot! Luckily, I'm a certified priest!" I say no marriage in a church for us, because I'm without confession (I guess I didn't give a shit saying that to a religion teacher...). Naturalito is a great wing, you just have to take care when he steps in he doesn't out-alpha you unintentionally; he is talking over you and you have to get the power in the conversation back, at one point he even told me:"Be quiet when I talk!" Lol, he just wants to help!
So he is doing the ceremony, which, of course ends with: "You may now kiss the bride!" Which I do. No-go, but I try immedeately for a second time and third time and we are sucking each other tongues. WAAAAH, THIS IS SUCH A MINDFUCK! THIS GIRL WAS TELLING ME SHE BELIEVES IN SEX AFTER MARRIAGE 2 MINUTES AGO, AND NOW I GOT MY TONGUE DOWN HER THROAT! Lesson: DON'T EVER, EVER BELIEVE ANYTHING A GIRL IS SAYING!!!
We are standing there for 45 minutes or so making out, I ramp up the sexual tension, slam her against the wall in a dark corner, rub myself against her, she is caressing my chest all the time and looks really horny. I smack her ass, I tell her what she needs is a good hairpulling and ass-smacking when fucking. I caress her back underneath her shirt, then my hand wanders underneath her bra on her back, and around her body, so her tit is in the cup of my hand. Grinding, I massage her breasts and play with the nipple, I'm getting more and more aggressive with these makeouts, which is good! I put her hand on my cock and rub her pussy over her jeans, from what I can tell through the thick fabric, she must be soaking wet! A lot of roleplaying banter, some talks about her profession, she goes to Naturalito again to get divorced, etc etc. This one likes to talk more than the one yesterday, we kind of have the best form of comfort, the one while I'm rubbing her pussy...
We go to the bar, some dude starts to speak to her, I'm not decisive enough there, hesitate, befriend him, I should have cut him out with my back to him, after all we had been making out for quite some time. Or, much better, befriend shortly first, then cut out. She says the guy "wants to join in on the fun" and wants to go away, so I lead her back to the corner. She is from outside the city (the usual teases on her "being a little farmer's girl" "Can you milk cows?", ...), I tell her where I live, say we should go in a bit, start planting the seed in her mind (so I can plant it in her lap later), this is where she says a thousand times she won't come with me, she has to leave me, she is going now (saying "I'm going!" while just STAYING, it was like the end of the play "Waiting for Godot!", lol!). She says I would take any girl, I should go find another girl, she says that over and over and over again! I take her phone number.
I try some halfhearted push, she stays. Little religious teacher LOVES to get pressed against the wall and felt up by a real man, she is very, very horny and I know she is almost at the point of coming with me, but I don't know WHAT THE FUCK IS MISSING HERE! I remember reading on the forum that teachers are horny, well, point proven...
She says I should try to find another girl, if I still don't have anybody in an hour or so I should contact her. I finally let her go, she now really (halfheartedly) wants to go and I try to give her a little push on the way at least. Planning on getting her a bit later with fresh ideas.
The thought of what's missing here puts me a little bit in my head, then I approach some more. Some blowouts, boyfriends, bla bla... I look for her, but don't see her, Naturalito thinks she has left. Then I send her a text: "Guess who that is! I'm drowning my sorrows over our divorce in mineral water!" Stupidly, I'm sending this exactly one hour after she left me, which means I did exactly what she wanted (fell into her frame). I SHOULD HAVE REAPPROACHED AFTER 15 MINUTES!
Many blowouts during the rest of the night, the most interresting set was an HB7 who thought she was a 10 and shittested me HARD: I was so impolite (on teasing her), I was so weak (on not teasing her), my wristbands made me look like 18 years old, her boyfriend was at the venue, oh, there her girlfriend is, it's not her boyfriend, they are lesbians, she doesn't want to tell me her name, and on and on. I gave her a hard time too, she got slightly pissed several times, the whole convo felt like an infight... I could move her which meant attraction and also saw that she was really impressed by me handling her shit that well. She even said: "You Austrians are so courageous, you don't shy back from anything!" (Who else? Whatever...) Still, I couldn't get her to makeout, she said (several times, thus not quite convinced): "You are just looking for any girl, take somebody else!"
On the hallway to the toilets, I run into her again, block her way, molest her a bit, she is still resistant, loves to flirt though, points at a girl dressed as a pantyhose-bee:"Take her!"; Me:"Thats a bee!"
At home, brushing my teeth, I have an epiphany: IT WAS QUALIFICATION! I had player vibe there, I would have had to qualify, maybe push some more. Lesson learned.
Lessons:
- WHEN MAKING OUT, QUALIFY!
- When making out or having a lot of attraction, PUSH a bit! PUSH!
- Reapproach QUICKLY!
- Dudes: Cut them out with your back to them, maybe befriend first
Tonight probably the same venue!
Going out with my wing Naturalito, later Terminator joins us too. I go up to the first set of the night, an HB7.5, alone and smoking, "You are cute and you are standing there pretty lost!" She teaches religion (and informatics) and right away offers the information that she thinks sex should happen with one person after marriage. I have to admit I would have left the set at this point, but Naturalito, who is half a natural, suddenly steps up and says:"Well, then you guys will have to get married on the spot! Luckily, I'm a certified priest!" I say no marriage in a church for us, because I'm without confession (I guess I didn't give a shit saying that to a religion teacher...). Naturalito is a great wing, you just have to take care when he steps in he doesn't out-alpha you unintentionally; he is talking over you and you have to get the power in the conversation back, at one point he even told me:"Be quiet when I talk!" Lol, he just wants to help!
So he is doing the ceremony, which, of course ends with: "You may now kiss the bride!" Which I do. No-go, but I try immedeately for a second time and third time and we are sucking each other tongues. WAAAAH, THIS IS SUCH A MINDFUCK! THIS GIRL WAS TELLING ME SHE BELIEVES IN SEX AFTER MARRIAGE 2 MINUTES AGO, AND NOW I GOT MY TONGUE DOWN HER THROAT! Lesson: DON'T EVER, EVER BELIEVE ANYTHING A GIRL IS SAYING!!!
We are standing there for 45 minutes or so making out, I ramp up the sexual tension, slam her against the wall in a dark corner, rub myself against her, she is caressing my chest all the time and looks really horny. I smack her ass, I tell her what she needs is a good hairpulling and ass-smacking when fucking. I caress her back underneath her shirt, then my hand wanders underneath her bra on her back, and around her body, so her tit is in the cup of my hand. Grinding, I massage her breasts and play with the nipple, I'm getting more and more aggressive with these makeouts, which is good! I put her hand on my cock and rub her pussy over her jeans, from what I can tell through the thick fabric, she must be soaking wet! A lot of roleplaying banter, some talks about her profession, she goes to Naturalito again to get divorced, etc etc. This one likes to talk more than the one yesterday, we kind of have the best form of comfort, the one while I'm rubbing her pussy...
We go to the bar, some dude starts to speak to her, I'm not decisive enough there, hesitate, befriend him, I should have cut him out with my back to him, after all we had been making out for quite some time. Or, much better, befriend shortly first, then cut out. She says the guy "wants to join in on the fun" and wants to go away, so I lead her back to the corner. She is from outside the city (the usual teases on her "being a little farmer's girl" "Can you milk cows?", ...), I tell her where I live, say we should go in a bit, start planting the seed in her mind (so I can plant it in her lap later), this is where she says a thousand times she won't come with me, she has to leave me, she is going now (saying "I'm going!" while just STAYING, it was like the end of the play "Waiting for Godot!", lol!). She says I would take any girl, I should go find another girl, she says that over and over and over again! I take her phone number.
I try some halfhearted push, she stays. Little religious teacher LOVES to get pressed against the wall and felt up by a real man, she is very, very horny and I know she is almost at the point of coming with me, but I don't know WHAT THE FUCK IS MISSING HERE! I remember reading on the forum that teachers are horny, well, point proven...
She says I should try to find another girl, if I still don't have anybody in an hour or so I should contact her. I finally let her go, she now really (halfheartedly) wants to go and I try to give her a little push on the way at least. Planning on getting her a bit later with fresh ideas.
The thought of what's missing here puts me a little bit in my head, then I approach some more. Some blowouts, boyfriends, bla bla... I look for her, but don't see her, Naturalito thinks she has left. Then I send her a text: "Guess who that is! I'm drowning my sorrows over our divorce in mineral water!" Stupidly, I'm sending this exactly one hour after she left me, which means I did exactly what she wanted (fell into her frame). I SHOULD HAVE REAPPROACHED AFTER 15 MINUTES!
Many blowouts during the rest of the night, the most interresting set was an HB7 who thought she was a 10 and shittested me HARD: I was so impolite (on teasing her), I was so weak (on not teasing her), my wristbands made me look like 18 years old, her boyfriend was at the venue, oh, there her girlfriend is, it's not her boyfriend, they are lesbians, she doesn't want to tell me her name, and on and on. I gave her a hard time too, she got slightly pissed several times, the whole convo felt like an infight... I could move her which meant attraction and also saw that she was really impressed by me handling her shit that well. She even said: "You Austrians are so courageous, you don't shy back from anything!" (Who else? Whatever...) Still, I couldn't get her to makeout, she said (several times, thus not quite convinced): "You are just looking for any girl, take somebody else!"
On the hallway to the toilets, I run into her again, block her way, molest her a bit, she is still resistant, loves to flirt though, points at a girl dressed as a pantyhose-bee:"Take her!"; Me:"Thats a bee!"
At home, brushing my teeth, I have an epiphany: IT WAS QUALIFICATION! I had player vibe there, I would have had to qualify, maybe push some more. Lesson learned.
Lessons:
- WHEN MAKING OUT, QUALIFY!
- When making out or having a lot of attraction, PUSH a bit! PUSH!
- Reapproach QUICKLY!
- Dudes: Cut them out with your back to them, maybe befriend first
Tonight probably the same venue!
__________________
"Failure is caused by unwillingness to adapt!"
"If it's not rough, it is not fun!" - Lady Gaga, Philosopher
Doctor's Diary - my Field Reports live from Vienna: http://www.rsdnation.com/node/200128/forum
"If it's not rough, it is not fun!" - Lady Gaga, Philosopher
Doctor's Diary - my Field Reports live from Vienna: http://www.rsdnation.com/node/200128/forum
Hahaha, can´t wait to read here that you pull out your dick in the club and have sex with a girl in a club.
ChinaMan
ChinaMan
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@Chinabeast: Lol, for now sex in my bed will do, we 'll see...!
__________________
"Failure is caused by unwillingness to adapt!"
"If it's not rough, it is not fun!" - Lady Gaga, Philosopher
Doctor's Diary - my Field Reports live from Vienna: http://www.rsdnation.com/node/200128/forum
"If it's not rough, it is not fun!" - Lady Gaga, Philosopher
Doctor's Diary - my Field Reports live from Vienna: http://www.rsdnation.com/node/200128/forum
Sat, Jan 28th
Did not have a good night yesterday. I was very tired and out of it from the previous two nights, I felt somehow stiff and wooden, the witty and spontaneous element was missing. With Naturalito again. The first set asked me: "Are you doing pick up?" She used the English word "pick up", which let me draw the conclusion she had heard of the community. But I was a Judas, I was denying the community and just said: "Yeah, of course I'm trying to pick you up!" Should have talked about the community with her, the set wouldn't have gone anywhere anyways, but at least I would have gotten into being authentic and it would also have been fun.
Blowout here, blowout there. Some ugly girl tools me: "The problem is, you are not cute!", "Have you ever been in conflict with the law?", insinuating on her being a jurist and pressing charges against me. No good responses from me, my mind is slow tonight. Then Prodigy's "Smack my bitch up" comes on in the club, I go over again and tell them that's their song, making a hand gesture as if I was smacking their faces. She gives me the middle finger. Well, it's always just the ugly girls who are really bitchy, peaked girl just needs dick desperately. In between she even took a step back, leaned against the wall next to me and asked me how my night was going.
Some sooo cute Spanish girl doesn't really comply, I love those dark chicks, I speak Spanish to her, I mock her about the unemployment rate in Spain, bla bla... A couple of sets seem a bit attracted (flipping back their hair), but I'm a dancing monkey till they got enough and leave. Over 10 approaches, so that's at least something.
But here comes the good part: I texted HBreligious from yesterday (girl whom I humped in the club), minimalistic style "Come to [club]!", with NO expectation of her answering whatsoever. I just did it to not leave anything untried and to get it over with. However, one hour later her reply comes in, this is our text convo:
Me: Come to [club]!
Her: I'm in Linz [other city] today... But we can definitely meet some other time...
[Next day, which is today]:
Me: Ok, when are you back in Vienna?
Her: Depends on what is awaiting for me in Vienna... Do you want to meet to go out on the weekend, or do you have other plans with me?
Me: Lol, I have pretty dirty plans with you.. we should carry on where we left off last time...Let's go get a drink first (eg at [bar])
Her: Yes, we can do that...
When?
Me: Tomorrow, 8 pm, at [bar] on Mariahilferstrasse
Then you can also tell me how your life works geographically...!
Her: Will get back to you a little later about if tomorrow is ok... I'm not at home at the moment...
Me: Ok
Her answers mostly came pretty quickly, mine took 40-60 min initially and got fast in the end. I think my text game is not bad, it's because I really have time to think it over and body language/ tonality is not a traitor there. I basically know the mechanics. What I have learned from Presence is: Be minimalistic, invest as little as possible! You can see that in my first message, which works very well indeed. Basically, putting it in context with our interaction on the previous night (much grinding and licking, little talking, her not replying to my text then - see last FR), the translation of her first reply here is: "Please fuck me hard, and please do it soon!" And I will. What a horny, horny little girl!
HBauthentic has responded again too, she let me wait a day. I'm only gonna let her wait two or three hours, the basic rule is not to let it LOOK like you are letting her wait on purpose. Don't be predictable. I sometimes answer fast after a slow reply, but only if the convo is going good/ she is giving me value.
Will hopefully meet and fuck this girl tomorrow (hard), it has basically been agreed on in text. Going out next time on tuesday probably.
Did not have a good night yesterday. I was very tired and out of it from the previous two nights, I felt somehow stiff and wooden, the witty and spontaneous element was missing. With Naturalito again. The first set asked me: "Are you doing pick up?" She used the English word "pick up", which let me draw the conclusion she had heard of the community. But I was a Judas, I was denying the community and just said: "Yeah, of course I'm trying to pick you up!" Should have talked about the community with her, the set wouldn't have gone anywhere anyways, but at least I would have gotten into being authentic and it would also have been fun.
Blowout here, blowout there. Some ugly girl tools me: "The problem is, you are not cute!", "Have you ever been in conflict with the law?", insinuating on her being a jurist and pressing charges against me. No good responses from me, my mind is slow tonight. Then Prodigy's "Smack my bitch up" comes on in the club, I go over again and tell them that's their song, making a hand gesture as if I was smacking their faces. She gives me the middle finger. Well, it's always just the ugly girls who are really bitchy, peaked girl just needs dick desperately. In between she even took a step back, leaned against the wall next to me and asked me how my night was going.
Some sooo cute Spanish girl doesn't really comply, I love those dark chicks, I speak Spanish to her, I mock her about the unemployment rate in Spain, bla bla... A couple of sets seem a bit attracted (flipping back their hair), but I'm a dancing monkey till they got enough and leave. Over 10 approaches, so that's at least something.
But here comes the good part: I texted HBreligious from yesterday (girl whom I humped in the club), minimalistic style "Come to [club]!", with NO expectation of her answering whatsoever. I just did it to not leave anything untried and to get it over with. However, one hour later her reply comes in, this is our text convo:
Me: Come to [club]!
Her: I'm in Linz [other city] today... But we can definitely meet some other time...
[Next day, which is today]:
Me: Ok, when are you back in Vienna?
Her: Depends on what is awaiting for me in Vienna... Do you want to meet to go out on the weekend, or do you have other plans with me?
Me: Lol, I have pretty dirty plans with you.. we should carry on where we left off last time...Let's go get a drink first (eg at [bar])
Her: Yes, we can do that...
When?Me: Tomorrow, 8 pm, at [bar] on Mariahilferstrasse
Then you can also tell me how your life works geographically...!Her: Will get back to you a little later about if tomorrow is ok... I'm not at home at the moment...
Me: Ok
Her answers mostly came pretty quickly, mine took 40-60 min initially and got fast in the end. I think my text game is not bad, it's because I really have time to think it over and body language/ tonality is not a traitor there. I basically know the mechanics. What I have learned from Presence is: Be minimalistic, invest as little as possible! You can see that in my first message, which works very well indeed. Basically, putting it in context with our interaction on the previous night (much grinding and licking, little talking, her not replying to my text then - see last FR), the translation of her first reply here is: "Please fuck me hard, and please do it soon!" And I will. What a horny, horny little girl!
HBauthentic has responded again too, she let me wait a day. I'm only gonna let her wait two or three hours, the basic rule is not to let it LOOK like you are letting her wait on purpose. Don't be predictable. I sometimes answer fast after a slow reply, but only if the convo is going good/ she is giving me value.
Will hopefully meet and fuck this girl tomorrow (hard), it has basically been agreed on in text. Going out next time on tuesday probably.
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"If it's not rough, it is not fun!" - Lady Gaga, Philosopher
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Dr Feelgood
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Join Date: 04/06/2011 | Posts: 1430
By the sounds of it there are a few things that I can see you could improve on.
Narcissism: there is no hint of any self love in your writing. You do not think your the shit,why? Obviously you are taking more action than 99% of dudes which means you are cooler than those dudes. Maybe it's not good to compare yourself to others but like in combat sports you can only beat who is in front of you,if all you see is chodes then you must be the shit. When I get ready to go out with my fly shit on I love myself a little too much.. More than I should be willing to admit lol you need to write a list of reason you are the coolest guy on this planet
Assume value: to much trying to get the girl to like you, skip that shit. Get the narcissism stuff down, assume. Skip the getting to know you building attraction phase. Work on going from 0 to 60 right off the opener. This will increase your effectiveness and lower the amount of effort made.
Get horny: get in touch with your sexual feelings and that will enable you to generate attraction easier. The mirror neurons thing is real! What you feel they feel... It's so real. My game have greatly improved since I started to understand this for properly.
Don't let bitches fuck with you: that's it basically. They is no fucking with Bonney... Bonney will stick his foot in your ass.
What I would say is you know what the fuck your doing but you too nice still and that's a shame coz its nice to be nice. To be real I could probably take a leaf out of your book and be nicer coz I'm kinda evil lol
Sorry I can't break shit intellectually down aswell as other dudes on the forum but I got mad love for my home boy doc so I hope this helps
Nice to be nice, lol! Yeah, maybe the problem is that to a certain degree I can "afford" to be nice. I consider myself goodlooking and I'm 6'4" (190cm), so I get some attraction anyways, but this bullshit niceness has to go now!
But hey, yeah, wow, this is exactly what I need. I'm not hard enough on bitches, and I'm too try hard for sure. I should assume value, not try. Will print your post out and read it again, I still have your post about escalation on dates lying around, it surely helped me on my last date.
"Will stick his foot in your ass".. lol...
There is just one thing where you are dead wrong: "Sorry I can't break shit intellectually down aswell as other dudes" - well, apart from the instructors, you are one of the best analysts on this forum!
Love,
Dogg
(I mean Doc)
PS: What does your nickname mean? I finally have to ask. And who is that in your avatar, Robert Redford? I always have to think of Michael J. Fox, but he wouldn't have so much love for his gun...
"If it's not rough, it is not fun!" - Lady Gaga, Philosopher
Doctor's Diary - my Field Reports live from Vienna: http://www.rsdnation.com/node/200128/forum