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June 18th, 2013
Broke college student, no lifestyle whatsoever
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Mystic115

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Join Date: 12/08/2007 | Posts: 14

So my situation:

I am in college, I live with my high school colleagues in a rented flat, far from downtown and far from any dorms. I am at the university five days a week. I have no car.

I have no problems with so-called “game” or social anxieties. My problem is always logistics (lack of money, lack of lifestyle).

Even if girls in clubs want to leave with me (what happened few times), I never got ONS because of poor logistics. (it’s not really entertaining to travel 1 hour by bus at 3am to my apartment).

I have no problem approaching during day time, but once again I don’t know what to do next.

Of course I can stretch and go with one girl on a few dates and be with her boyfriend girlfriend but that’s not what I want right now. I want lots of girls and lots of sex.

I want lots of girls but I can’t afford thousands of dates with them.

I feel like all kids around me are pathetic. I hang out with few dorm kids, few who live in flats with mates, and they all doing nothing. All the people in dorms sitting in front of their computers all day playing stupid games. Typical party looks like this: few people sitting in the room and drinking cheap vodka. When we go clubbing all people dancing and waiting for a miracle to happen, while pretending they are having a great time. It is now what I saw in American movies hehehe.

Anyone was in similar situation? What are my options? What should be my game plan?

I study 5 days a week so it would be almost impossible to find a job.

Have no car so it is hard to pull ONS.

Can’t afford lots of dates with girls.
 
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can't get back to your place? fuck her in an alley (or her place, but alley sounded funnier.) seriously though, you would be surprised how far "nice" girls will go. it's fucking cool :)
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Mystic115

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 I am not talking about one ONS, I am not even that much concerned about club game.

I am more about day game, even if I can approach girl during day in mall/bus/street, take her phone number, I don’t know what to do next. I don’t really have much money for lots of dates with lots of girls.

I know how to approach, attract girl, escalate, etc. but I have issues with logistics, I live far away from center where the girls hang out, have no money, no car.
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Mystic115 wrote:

I am in college, I live with my high school colleagues in a rented flat, far from downtown and far from any dorms. I am at the university five days a week. I have no car.

I've got 100 hours of community service to do, I'm doing it all as quick as possible to gtfo to europe asap. Which means waking up at 7am mon-fri. I get home in the afternoon, do what I have to, nap, and hit the town midight-2am. Sleep 4-5 hours, rinse and repeat.

I have no problems with so-called “game” or social anxieties. My problem is always logistics (lack of money, lack of lifestyle).

There's no such thing, trust me.


Even if girls in clubs want to leave with me (what happened few times), I never got ONS because of poor logistics. (it’s not really entertaining to travel 1 hour by bus at 3am to my apartment).

I fucked a chick in the bathroom last week instead of giving into 'poor logistics' and the bs excuses that came to mind.
http://www.rsdnation.com/comment_redirect/772804
You really only need 1 square meter and semi-privacy to fuck.

I have no problem approaching during day time, but once again I don’t know what to do next.

Take her number with the plans of chillin at your place in x number of days. Make food together.
I've been wanting to try to go for the insta-pull for daygame lately, i know it's more than possible but i usually forget/pussy out


Of course I can stretch and go with one girl on a few dates and be with her boyfriend girlfriend but that’s not what I want right now. I want lots of girls and lots of sex.

Quickest way to achieve that is by going out A LOT.


I want lots of girls but I can’t afford thousands of dates with them.

The best dates I've had didn't cost shit. Search for date idea threads here, there's plenty of awesome low cost options.
Who are you kidding with "thousands of dates" lol


I feel like all kids around me are pathetic. I hang out with few dorm kids, few who live in flats with mates, and they all doing nothing. All the people in dorms sitting in front of their computers all day playing stupid games. Typical party looks like this: few people sitting in the room and drinking cheap vodka. When we go clubbing all people dancing and waiting for a miracle to happen, while pretending they are having a great time. It is now what I saw in American movies hehehe.

Stop looking at what others are doing and live your own life. If that means going out solo, so be it. The biggest jump in my progress was when I went out daily + solo. Amazing stuff. You'll meet some great people.

Anyone was in similar situation? What are my options? What should be my game plan?

Go out as much as possible, there's no better way to progress. When you have any descision to make, such as should I go out, ask yourself "What woul a MAN do?"


I study 5 days a week so it would be almost impossible to find a job.

I don't spend a dime when I go out. I don't drink and I sign up for any guestlists I can. If there's no guestlist, Ill usually get in for free using simple confidence tricks. Read: http://www.rsdnation.com/node/170393

Have no car so it is hard to pull ONS.

Fuck in the club, outside, her car, her place, parks, beaches, etc. If you insist on pulling to your place, get a bike and make it capable to carry a girl. Read:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/164918
If you think you live too far to bike, move godamnit, why did you decide to live so far?
I built one of these in my teens:



 $300 for a kit, strap some pegs onto that baby and youve got yourself a 50km/h pulling machine.
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 join a fraternity. and get new friends.
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Nice post. I feel you man. If there's a will there's a way.
-oasis- wrote:

Mystic115 wrote:

I am in college, I live with my high school colleagues in a rented flat, far from downtown and far from any dorms. I am at the university five days a week. I have no car.
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I've got 100 hours of community service to do, I'm doing it all as quick as possible to gtfo to europe asap. Which means waking up at 7am mon-fri. I get home in the afternoon, do what I have to, nap, and hit the town midight-2am. Sleep 4-5 hours, rinse and repeat.
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I have no problems with so-called “game” or social anxieties. My problem is always logistics (lack of money, lack of lifestyle).
[='Courier New']
There's no such thing, trust me.
[/]

Even if girls in clubs want to leave with me (what happened few times), I never got ONS because of poor logistics. (it’s not really entertaining to travel 1 hour by bus at 3am to my apartment).
[='Courier New']
I fucked a chick in the bathroom last week instead of giving into 'poor logistics' and the bs excuses that came to mind.[/]
http://www.rsdnation.com/comment_redirect/772804
[='Courier New']You really only need 1 square meter and semi-privacy to fuck.
[/]

I have no problem approaching during day time, but once again I don’t know what to do next.

[='Courier New']Take her number with the plans of chillin at your place in x number of days. Make food together.
I've been wanting to try to go for the insta-pull for daygame lately, i know it's more than possible but i usually forget/pussy out[/]


Of course I can stretch and go with one girl on a few dates and be with her boyfriend girlfriend but that’s not what I want right now. I want lots of girls and lots of sex.
[='Courier New']
Quickest way to achieve that is by going out A LOT.[/]


I want lots of girls but I can’t afford thousands of dates with them.

[='Courier New']The best dates I've had didn't cost shit. Search for date idea threads here, there's plenty of awesome low cost options.
Who are you kidding with "thousands of dates" lol[/]


I feel like all kids around me are pathetic. I hang out with few dorm kids, few who live in flats with mates, and they all doing nothing. All the people in dorms sitting in front of their computers all day playing stupid games. Typical party looks like this: few people sitting in the room and drinking cheap vodka. When we go clubbing all people dancing and waiting for a miracle to happen, while pretending they are having a great time. It is now what I saw in American movies hehehe.
[='Courier New']
Stop looking at what others are doing and live your own life. If that means going out solo, so be it. The biggest jump in my progress was when I went out daily + solo. Amazing stuff. You'll meet some great people.
[/]
Anyone was in similar situation? What are my options? What should be my game plan?

Go out as much as possible, there's no better way to progress. When you have any descision to make, such as should I go out, ask yourself "What woul a MAN do?"


I study 5 days a week so it would be almost impossible to find a job.

[='Courier New']I don't spend a dime when I go out. I don't drink and I sign up for any guestlists I can. If there's no guestlist, Ill usually get in for free using simple confidence tricks. Read: [/][='Courier New']http://www.rsdnation.com/node/170393[/][='Courier New']
[/]
Have no car so it is hard to pull ONS.
[='Courier New']
Fuck in the club, outside, her car, her place, parks, beaches, etc. If you insist on pulling to your place, get a bike and make it capable to carry a girl. Read: [/]
[='Courier New']http://www.rsdnation.com/node/164918[/][='Courier New']
If you think you live too far to bike, move godamnit, why did you decide to live so far?
I built one of these in my teens:[/]



 $300 for a kit, strap some pegs onto that baby and youve got yourself a 50km/h pulling machine.

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RSDNationer

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Join Date: 03/27/2009 | Posts: 2680

Story of my friend:

-He moved to colorado from middle of nowhere
-He had no friends  in town and knows no one
-He is just learning game so his game is terrible
-He lives an hour BIKE ride to the bar and has no cash or car
-HE BIKES TO THE BAR 3-4 NIGHTS A WEEK SOLO because there was no beastmode crew in colorado yet
-He bikes home at 3am and gets home at 4am. His nights were so bad that he would CRY on the way home because he realized how BAD he was and how much more work he has to go.
-He did this for a YEAR before he had a beasting buddy.
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XXL

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Join Date: 03/16/2011 | Posts: 491

simple stuff really. if you're more about day game then focus on college campus go for instant dates (cheap stydent type hanging out) or take phone numbers to set up going to club together.

at night go takeover college campus parties and clubs. use phone numbers you got earlier and you're good to go. girls' dorm rooms are great place to bang. damn you can even invite more chicks to bed. with alcohol/weed running the whole campus it's not that hard

and after adventures you can go back to your peace and quiet place
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