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April 21st, 2014
When to say "I love you"?
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Apostle

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 I've read around and numerous people have recommended not saying I love you before the girl has said it or not to say it until after sex.

What's your take on this?
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Say it now, I say it all the time. Don't cage your feelings, they are meant to be expressed. If you think its cool so will she. The question is why do you need to say it??????????????
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Awesome F wrote:
Say it now, I say it all the time. Don't cage your feelings, they are meant to be expressed. If you think its cool so will she. The question is why do you need to say it??????????????
I don't need to say it, I want to. It's suffocating following the orthodox game paradigms of "don't say "I love you" until she does". I just want a decent relationship where openness is involved and not I shall do x when she does y.

The desire to express myself sums it up.
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Partyboy89 wrote:
 How old are you?
21...why do you ask? confused
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Partyboy89 wrote:
 A wise man once said 'No serious relationship before the age 35'
Haha. Saying "I love you" doesn't mean I want to marry her. teeth

Regardless, thanks for your advice it helped.
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 Just say it, give her a hug and move on.
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Partyboy89 wrote:
 A wise man once said 'No serious relationship before the age 35'
Who said that ? :)
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