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May 20th, 2013
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charliealien

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Join Date: 09/16/2011 | Posts: 2

I can approach one woman
I can approach 2 women if there is a guy with me who will take care of one.

I can talk to 2+ girls by myself but it always bombs.

I CAN'T talk to girl and guy. Some guys get really annoyed really quickly.

When i talk to 2 women, either:

1-I have to talk to one girl than the other. It feels like a lot of work.
    I have to remember not to let one girl feel ignored.
2-I talk to 2 girls at the same time. It feels like i am performing to an audience.
3-I could ignore one girl. I haven't done that yet.



Girls sitting down is even worst.
It feels like i am inviting myself to their circle.
Very akward.
The rejection is even more akward.


Finally i can't get two women apart.  they stick together like glue.and give each other looks.


So my question is, if you are comfortable talking to one chick

what advice could you tell me to be more comfortable talking to 2 chicks

and also to 2 chicks sitting down?

That may seem trivial, but my friends don't know about PU so i go out alone
and i need advice.


PS: I don't have approach anxiety. I just have "this is going nowhere frustration" or physical anxiety
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jRad

jRad

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Join Date: 05/23/2009 | Posts: 488

You're outcome dependant BRAH.

Just vibe with the chicks. Don't expect ANYTHING from them - you're just there to spread you're fun, have some conversation and shoot the shit.

After a while of doing that, more than half the time they'll suggest going somewhere else (alone) or they'll be instantly receptive to you trying to isolate.
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charliealien

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Join Date: 09/16/2011 | Posts: 2

jRad wrote:
You're outcome dependant BRAH.

Just vibe with the chicks. Don't expect ANYTHING from them - you're just there to spread you're fun, have some conversation and shoot the shit.

After a while of doing that, more than half the time they'll suggest going somewhere else (alone) or they'll be instantly receptive to you trying to isolate.
that's not what i wanted to hear.
I guess i have to enjoy more talking.
that way people will enjoy listening.
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