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December 8th, 2016
Going Out Every Night To Tighten You Up And Bring You Back To Reality
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Tyler

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So I've been out every single night for quite a while now.  Even taught BC the night my kid was born -- yes this is a lil deranged. :)

What I really love about it is not just what it's been doing for lifestyle-wise, which (being blunt...) has been pretty wild and obnoxious, but rather how it keeps bringing me "back to centre" so to speak.

Here's what I mean.......

I'm naturally an introverted and shy type of guy.  From the first 20+ years of my life being trapped in my head and at times suicidally depressed, my tendency is to go back into that "lower consciousness" type of mode if I don't challenge myself to self-elevate.

Women really motivate me.  Like pretty much every guy on the planet, I have a massive fascination and titillation with attractive women, and being out in venues where there's gorgeous girls enlivens the fuck out of me.  It compels me to get out of my head and be "that guy" who they'd want to be with -- and who FRANKLY is probably the most "natural" guy you can be.

When I'm getting lazy in my day to day life and generally NOT in the type of mode where I feel like a champion, staring at the girls who I'm too mentally unfocused to go and get reminds me that I need to tighten it up and become awesome again.  It reminds me over and over, night after night.  And then as the adventures rack up, it reinforces the positive behaviors.

OTOH I find that when you're having a lot of success you sometimes don't feel as inclined to do things properly.  You eat shitty food or don't go to the gym because your brain tells you "HELL YA SON!  You're the shit the way you are, bitches are all about it blah blah..."  So the successes are best when they further reinforce the rampage of champion-ness as opposed to making you feel complacent.

Anyway I just got back to LA from Austin a few hours ago -- slept only a few hours in Austin because I stayed up after BC to shoot video blogs before leaving town -- and even though I'm on several days in a row of 3 hours sleep I STILL ran out and hit up a sick ass club.  This is pretty funny to arrive home at 1AM from a trip and stumble up the street to get there before it closes, but to me it's worth it.

There were gorgeous women everywhere and I was simply too tired to get much going with any of them -- mostly I just wandered around  and  blown out -- though there were a few brief incidences of minor debauchery that I suppose a newbie to this would think is cool.  Nonetheless I LOVED my night out.  I'm sitting here typing this about to do meditation, just loving the fact that I feel motivated to get back into champion mode tomorrow and go kill it.

**If I'd stayed in tonight I may have not been as motivated to get onto my day tomorrow.  But instead, just feeling like a lil tonight reminds me that there is no rest for a true champ. :)  So tomorrow I'll kill it and go out that night ready for adventure. ;)

The main point here?  Bad nights aren't bad.  They're good.  They put boobies in your face you can't have and say to you, "Hey lil you want those?  Wake up tomorrow ready to GO GET THEM... They'll be waiting here for you when you're back on point."

Gets you out of your head -- all your stupid notions of how the world should be like this or be like that -- and back into the realm of real life experience, HOW THINGS ACTUALLY ARE.  Obviously a lot of this is extreme and not for someone more casually into this --  more for the guys who live this shit 24/7 for whatever reason has compelled them to do so -- for me it's just the ultimate fucken hobby.  Really love this shit more and more every single year.

Tyler
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MastahDeft

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Fuck yeah!

Fo me 5 months going out non stop meant huge belly, tits a drug problem and my dreams falling before my eyes BUT 30+ women.

Good thing I got my shit together & now im killing it off field too.

Peace.
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flux

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I think viewing it as a hobby to go out all the time is a cool mindset.

Everyones gotta do something with their time so why not do this? It's better to go out as a hobby, for "fun and relaxation" than simply the outcome dependent "to get good"...thats more a side effect.
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jlaix

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Hey OP: you realize this isn't normal, right? In fact, it's probably indicative of some sort of pathological problem.
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jlaix wrote:
Hey OP: you realize this isn't normal, right? In fact, it's probably indicative of some sort of pathological problem.

haha we're all a lil fuckin crazy dog, Tyler just likes to shove it in our faces a lil more than normal

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jlaix wrote:
Hey OP: you realize this isn't normal, right? In fact, it's probably indicative of some sort of pathological problem.
Yeah, he pathologically craves titties.
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CBAABC

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 Yes Tyler. I love your drive. Love your enthusiasm.

I think i am gonna do the same. I wanna spend like 30 or more hours per week infield.

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GoldenGun

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This stuff is so fun, ill admit im so addicted to this but yeah its more of a hobby or a sport I enjoy playing... Its kinda hard for me right now to imagine me NOT going out... I have a friend who says he can't be bothered because this takes up too much energy, and im like "what?, too much energy?" this doesnt even compute in my head...
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LethalLex

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This motivates me to get my shit together and pump out all my varsity work during the day so that I can go out every night. Man it takes motivation but I want it friggin bad.
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William-h-bonney

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jlaix wrote:
Hey OP: you realize this isn't normal, right? In fact, it's probably indicative of some sort of pathological problem.



I thought the same thing but didn't post it because it was tylers thread. (how gay is that) Going out seven days a week is stupid in my opinion. Unless it's your job.
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