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Distant Light

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Yep, you're spot on about the "fun" theory...

Everyone goes out to have FUN (sex = fun too) and meet new people they just aren't willing to handle the pressure that comes along with it. People can easily judge you because your "out there" expressing yourself.

When you read about the crazy phyiscal shit, its like you said its NOT from a "trying to get her" frame its more of a "fun fun fun" frame. So I can kiss a chicks tits, start slapping her ass, and my newest thing mess up there hair so much it covers their face and I kiss them. If she isn't into it I can always just STOP PLAYING and to her its as if I never even tried anything. To me I know I was providing an opportunity/excuse.

Dancing is just one sub-set of it all, honestly I like to "hide" this aspect because its sooooo easy and to women its like "OMG he is so awesome". I like to understate everything so many times I go "in & out" of that state rapidly to show I have complete self control.

I still remember way back cops were on subway and I was completely unaware, I was PUMPED UP, the whole cart was looking at me wondering "what will the cops do?" I noticed the cops 15mins later BUT couldn't stop and risk looking suspicious because I did nothing wrong nor was I even fucked up, just having fun. When my stop came up I stood up normally and left. THE WHOLE SUBWAY was shocked and surprised that I had total control the whole time.

Back to what I'm saying, I like to convey this is an aspect of me that I like expressing especially with a mixed group...

The biggest issue IMO for anyone is the NOT CHASING because its the only thing that is similar to "community" culture where "If you drop this YOUR DONE". However, this is real and not like BS state/momentum. Only one person can chase in an interaction, you start chasing you automatically change the whole dynamic and fuck yourself over.

Andre~
Yea your right, to me that's sorta screening because your teaching HER how to CALIBRATE TO YOU...

In that high rhythm, I like upbeat qualification where its like...
- "Fuck!!! Why am I liking you so fast? Yo wtf did you do? I know, I know, its xyz..."
- "Holy shit!!! You can keep up, wow!!!"
- "I'm glad your not well behaved"
- "I must say right now were on the same frequency"
- "Yo where the hell did you come from?"
- "wait wait wait...where are you from? Omg!!!"

When people think qualification in community they think that dry/boring shit "what color do you like" hahahaha. All you need to know is your criteria/standards and just always interact like your probing/assessing.

Most would consider this dancing monkey or flash game but even if you don't dance and just work the room have 30sec interactions you just look like a guy who OWNS IT without being influenced by external BS. The night when gravity came out, later in the night after sorta ignoring a stomach ache for 8hrs I just sat down and STILL had the same responses of women wanting to meet me.

P.S...Your right that you can get carried away having too much fun dancing. I sometimes reach points where I am on sofa ALONE acting ridiculous to the point where I don't want no chick bothering me hahaha.
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Till_I_Collapse

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I found this post really motivating for myself, thanks. I tend to live my life as if the future I've envisioned for myself is promised and an inevitability which takes the hustler out of me.
Sky N wrote:
 Yeah after reading your last post I feel the need to comment. Truth be told I was a little jaded about this thread in the beginning. I could'nt really wrap my head aroud where you were coming from. To be honest it still confuses me sometimes, but I said fuck it if you look at thr rsdnation logo it says dating advice, social dynamics and SELF ACTUALIZATION.

Even if this is the FR forum, no one ever said it had to be speicifcally for fucking chicks. Now if you were keyboard jockeying at home that would be a problem, but you're pretty much out there every day/night. You've gotten laid before, and i'm sure you could get laid again whenever you damn well please so in my mind this thread is valid. In fact I think you offer a unique perspective that we probably would'nt get from anyone else on rsdnation.

Now on to the real ish. I'll say first off that this is an opinion, since I dont know you personally and can only get a vauge idea of the way things are in your life based on your writing. Take it as an opinion and if it helps in someway good, if i'm completely off base feel free to help me understand where you're coming from distant light.

In regards to your bigger and better mentality(which is the main reason i'm commenting) Nothings wrong with trying to step your game up to a level thats higher than everyone elses, even if it's just by 1%. Thats how most popluar bussiness/companies/people succeed, however it's weird to me that through your writing I can tell how dedicated you are to the process, and how much you want to succeed, yet you're delibrately attempting to skip a step. 

So your goal is to become the best who ever did it right? Thats fine but from a strictly business standpoint, you're currently at level 0 i. You most likely have social skills that far outweight even some of the top promoters but yet you still want to wait until you "get there" before you start making money. Thats ass backwards man, and you know it!

You said yourself that you're stubborn, and thats fine too but lets be real for a minute. It makes much more sense to go from level 0 through 10 and then skip 11-99 and end up at 100, instead of trying to go from 0 to 100.

Keep in mind i'm not talking about your skills with these women, as thats probably already at 100. I'm talking specifically about you're inability to truly capitalize on the money you could get from bringing these women with you to venues. 


Just start small man. You are clearly upset about your financial situation, yet you do the absolute bare minimum to change it. You're literally doing "just enough" to justify staying on you're path. If you want 2k-3k a night, start with a few hundred. Theres nothing wrong with starting small and working your way up to something. Use those damn connections, because it's obvious they're more than willing to help you out, because seriously although as far as the women are concerned this whole thread i've seen nothing but improvement, but as far as everything else goes it seems like you're stuck in a loop of "get this # get that #, they'll be useful in the FUTURE but not right now....gotta meet more women that will help me in the FUTURE.

That future shit is not promised man trust me I almost lost this little life of mine recently and all I could do was be pissed at the things I did'nt get to do. Judging by how I felt, I think knowing you're going to die without fufilling what you wanted to has got to be one of the most fucked up things a person can go through, even more so if they're goal or ideal lifestyle orientied people and I wouldnt wish it on anyone EVER. 

You have the potential to do something a lot of people will only dream of, so please stop wasting it thinking about what you COULD become and start becoming it. 

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roadrally

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Or even just start your own modeling agency
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JofSuperman

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roadrally wrote:
Or even just start your own modeling agency
Hahaha thats what I'm doing. I could only imagine starting one in NYC. That would be unbelievable! The fashion mecca of the world.

Hey DL, have you been to NYC Fashion Week? What was your experience like if you've been...
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Distant Light

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Most Ridiculous Night Ever!!!!!!
Saturday night was beyond insane on so many levels, 1st to put into perspective...
-  Few nights back left an after party at 5pm!!!
-  Week or so back a night filled with lots of public sex

I was on all cylinders...

I'm not sure how it all begin but I remember running into the "legit model" who reveals her "best" friend dislikes me for hooking up with some chick and for that she must dislike me . I HAVE NO RECOLLECTION of this but all of a sudden model dude who just says hi starts to ignore me. KEEP IN MIND, I don't care I will still have fun its her who's limiting herself. I chat model dude later he says "your my boy, she was fucked up I had to put her in a cab you don't understand the issues she is dealing with." Welp, glad I am not having to deal with her issues hahaha. Not all hot girl are awesome.

Fast forward, somehow I end up in this situation...



Fast forward, turns out chica is part of a rich family AND I somehow have the brother of...



Rollin with me, its a bizarre night and we make it to dinner and continue partying. Now the interesting aspect about the girl is that she likes me a lot and says "I'm jewish, yes I think about big dicks but I'll introduce you to all my model friends" kiss kiss kiss.

Fast forward, all of a sudden I at another venue meet another chick who's parents are southern republican politicians. She keeps stating her family would hate our dynamic and that I should google her family name. I am having her stand with me as I smoke. A hilarious "moment" she kept mentioning how she has a ridiculous ass. We were sitting so I didn't notice, when she got up she had bubble butt effect. We are making out all over, she is too worried about her friends having fun though. She keeps saying...
- "another night when there not here, I want you!!!"
- "I find you so sexy, you can have me another night"
- "Like I really want you, but I gotta take care of my friends"

My friend even comes over stating that she said she wants me. MEANWHILE, I am getting a text... (NOTE NOTE NOTE, that is not me texting "of course I do" i'd never text that. My friend seen her "do u wanna fuck me" text pop up and decided to start texting randoms)



In the diner now, we are sitting down and either...
- I am a delusional motherfucker
- I don't realize how awesome I truly am

I see these 2 women with massive tits and lots of cleavage. I am speaking out loud "wtf!? Are you kidding me? They really wanna meet me!! Do you see this? These chicks with amazing tits trying to get me? O my, let me go meet them..."

I sit down, I am grilling both of their breasts while screening. Soooooo easy, gave # she texts me. MEANWHILE, my friend who seen the "wanna fuck me" text a chick sent and decides to text like 3 random girls. He later texted this big tit chick who honestly was trying to hookup too.

By this time though I was headed down a road...

We met my friend in another restuarant and this is where dynamics got crazy/fun/hilarious. My friend is COKED OUT OF HIS MIND doing lines at table, asking gay waiter if he wants, approaching girls, mentioning after party. Meanwhile, he's with a drug dealer who gives my other friend free mdma.

Fast forward were in brooklyn supposedly lots of euros in his 5 bedroom apartment waiting for us. Were 2hrs late, everyone already fucks and sleep. My coked out friend reveals he met this drug dealer on the street a few hours back and now he's at the deli with his keys buying rolling paper.

5mins later we hear people coming in, I assumed we woke someone up THIS DRUG DEALER MET 3 GIRLS at 7am at the deli and got them to come over. They were really dumb hipster chicks so I was turned off almost immediately.

I didn't get home til 12pm, it was one of the craziest and funniest nights. I have so many #s that I can't recollect. I then woke up 10pm and got to the clubs at 1am

Sunday adventure
Not sure what I did, all I know I hate hiphop parties...

So got wasted and started acting crazy, woke up to some chick texting me, I look at my phone and see pics...





Funny all these chicks most of my high school friends would love also love me.
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Do you consider yourself high energy, like when you're partying?
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Distant Light

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^^^

Only when I dance dance dance, I resemble a cokehead. LOTS OF PEOPLE think I am pumped up on cocaine. Other than that I tend to be calm/relaxed with an upbeat vibe. In acting school I lacked expression, to me expressing more felt so tryhard when in reality my expressions seemed blank.

Last night was fun showed up 130am, girl wise ended up with this norwegian 6ft girl who likes me. I was so drunk telling her monogamy is BS and she didn't wanna kiss so I told her "now were friends". Somehow this resulted in me pulling my dick out in pizza shop, she didn't think I would take out my dick. I have had so much public sex. A bouncer seen me though so I put it away laughing. I wanted her to grab it.

I must admit I like this girl, all the 6ft women I like at the moment...
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roadrally

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Thanks for keep sharing your insights DL
You are definitely a model of success. I am super lucky how much good informational signposts there are out there pointing me in the right direction of entering pimpdom.

I read gravitys breakdown of your method + some stuff Tyler said at a hotseat recently is helping me understand the social dynamics of awesomeness and sexual abundance
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I just want to enjoy amazing girls. Crazy what sort of journey ive embarked on pursuing this quest.
My adventures in Dallas - 2013
 My adventures in Austin - 2012  
Tyler/Julien, Honolulu Bootcamp July 2011
Tyler hotseat2 x5 (2011-2012)
Alex hotseat x2 (2013)
girlslovepenis.tumblr.com 
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 Awesome shit right here!
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-Jeffy

 "Never really all that interested, but I find myself telling her how beautiful she is anyway. ’cause it’s true – all women are, in one way or another. You know, there’s always something about every damn one of you. There’s a smile, a curve, a secret. You ladies really are the most amazing creatures. My life’s work. But then there’s the morning after. The hangover, and the realization that I’m not quite as available as I thought I was the night before. And then she’s gone. And I’m haunted by yet another road not taken."
- Hank Moody

"By seeing beyond what is visible to the eye. Now there are those, of course, who do not share my perceptions, it's true. When I say that all my woman are dazzling beauties, they object. The nose of this one is too large; the hips of another, they are too wide; perhaps the breasts of a third, they are too small. But I see these women for how they truly are... glorious, radiant, spectacular, and perfect, because, I am not limited by my eyesight. Women react to me the way that they do, Don Octavio, because they sense that I search out the beauty that dwells within until it overwhelms everything else. And then they cannot avoid their desire, to release that beauty and envelope me in it."
- Don juan Demarco
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