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Distant Light:"10 Game" Lifestyle Design (Pics/Vids)
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#51

VanillaGorilla

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Join Date: 05/19/2011 | Posts: 34

Haha yea man, it aint shit without the economics sorted. I know when I started building my stuff up, chicks (and basically everything else) were a distant second to my business priorities. I slacked off some this summer, and it really is like night and day when you don't have your shit handled like it could be. Especially in NYC.

Send me those videos, both your 15 min and the promoter dude one.

@detour, i don't know his numbers or w/e, but hes probably lost more DTF chicks due to his logistics than most guys on the forum even makeout with...
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#52
Distant Light

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Join Date: 08/22/2006 | Posts: 2390

VanillaGorilla: Yep, its only recent that I actually started thinking like that. Before it was all about "Just change your being" but now I've changed an its like I'm not using even a fraction of my potential because I have no efficient process. That's why I was shocked that we ended up at that after hours, it didn't occur to me that you already was infront of the place and me telling the chick your out front. Meanwhile, I was still on the otherside of the city randomly meeting groups on the street. (how I met the dubai dude who also paid for the taxi) The VIP host of the club we ran late too was having a after party at his place with 30 people showing, he texted me saying he canceled. I forgot to tell him to send his people to where we were, if that had went down, WOW.

Detourxl~:
I'm not sure about my lay count in the past 6 months, in past 4 months maybe 5-6. (Either tall model-like or unique hipsters) Thing is, I'm in a situation where MONEY is needed badly (its hilarious to see how I live and to realize I am BROKE) and women have become the least of my worries haha...

I've passed up alot of pulls (basically chicks telling me come over or already agreeing that I'd come over at the end of the night) because it would cut into time with me connecting with the people I need to connect with. The irony is that usually things are overexggerated but vanilla gorilla is probably spot on and since I don't even really wanna pull at the moment, (MONEY!!!) so public sex never comes into my mind that much anymore. (Few months back took a chick on a random dimly lit street where I fingered her) This also explains why alot of women who text me there #s I forgot about because I used to remember women based on me wanting to bang them.

I'm not fearful of this area anymore though since probablities shown that if I setup a process that runs by itself, I'll have way more women than I could ever handle. Most of the women I bring out, I've fooled around with. For instance, saturday with vanilla gorilla, 3 of the 5 girls I've fooled around with. (and fooled around with 2 new women that night) I'm 22 and live by the whole "women aren't going anywhere" so now I'm money focused because that is my missing piece. I've reached a level internally that I don't worry about my internal state since its generally highly positive. Externally, I'm being a way that I truly love and I have a life setup in a way that is exciting to me. Experiences shown that its so fucking easy to get laid and get my boys laid too...
-  VanillaGorilla, fooled around with or pulled everytime we've hung out
-  My boy has a open relationship with a chick I banged best friend (Now working on building a harem which 2 of the women he met through me, 1 is a black model)

NOTE: There are 3 main ways that I'd be pulling... (Technically, I don't ever have to hookup with the same chick in order to maintain a consistent sex life)
-  Same Night, its so natural for me to bounce chicks with me. Two weeks ago, 2 random tall chicks were going to roll with me to an after party that I randomly setup with some guy. Would've been 5 hot chicks and 2 guys to start.
-  Sexting, I have things setup where women text me and lots of times women hit me up either to come out and party or to hookup. Honestly, it feels like I'm an escort especially the nights when I don't go out and my phone is getting blown up.
-  Friend Of A Friend, I don't even ask the women to bring along there friends but 95% of the women I've met through a friend were fascinated by how I am. Ranges from a fatties to gorgeous chicks who have been fascinated by me. Which in time I'd actually leverage this.

The Plan
Only missing link is money money money...MONEY!! Which the opportunity that I fucked up a few weeks ago (and actually the main reason I went out 110 out of 120 days) was more than enough money for me to maintain my lifestyle (while still living with parents) and it was just working ONE DAY. Now the newer opportunity has the potential to cause me to move out and live much closer to manhattan with just working one day...

My plan for taking this week off was to write out a process/structure and just execute it that way I can setup this business which my first paycheck will lead to the other business opportunity. If I work these two ventures, by april/may I'd be living in manhattan and basically won the game of life because I'd be financially stable an simply live life an constantly build upon the lifestyle. Although, I'd potentially be making lots of money, I already have the knowledge to be very resourceful so I'd be saving way more money than I actually would ever need. (That tuesday when I probably had 6 dollars or something, I basically ate twice, drank champagne, and tons of tequila for a cost of 0 dollars)

Most of my money would be used to maintain an apartment, dining out, and doing things for the sake of my social life such as...
-  Pre Game and After Parties at my house almost everyday (Buying champagne for my apartment)
-  Getting discounted dinners at fine dine establishments, similar to my friend who spent 400 on a 1,200 dollar valued dinner for 15 people
-  60 dollar limos when were just a huge group and don't want to waste time looking for taxis (Which would turn into me cutting a deal with one of the limo drivers)
-  Travel to party, this new years eve "1oak Las Vegas" is opening up. I could basically fly to Las Vegas roll up with some hotties (since many NYers will be going over there) and get in for free since I'm good friends with the doorman and vip host. I know the model promoters who goes to st tropez every year, free villas and yacht parties. Miami, which is like an NY nightlife outpost. (My parents actually wanted to pay for my trip to vegas for new years eve but that would be a waste of time since I'm focused on making money and not just having another incredible experience)

When I reach this point of being financially stable, I have two choices... (or a mixture of both)
1.  Build a ridiculous "over the top" lifestyle in NY
2.  Build the same lifestyle in a different city every 1 or 2 months
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#53
Distant Light

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Back...Sober
Tonight was just a fun night with nothing serious...

Rolled up to 1 club with 1 girl, bumped into 3 chicks I know. How the hell do I know so many women when I barely even cold approach now. I decide to be sober and man o man is it good and bad...

I AM SO HYPED

It is ridiculous how upbea/energetic I am. I just kept a supermodel frame while bouncing between 3 chicks. One kept calling me back over (her friend) but I bounce early with 3 chicks to meet lez model an her crew, everything went down hill...

People are so aware of my presence, when I walked through club women fixated but I was too pumped up. I am on balcony-like area buggin out next to a tranny and cross dresser...O YEA (I know them, hilarious cause both look like tall women from afar and tranny is hotter than most real women)

Last venue consists of me making tons of noise. At this point I ran into 8 girls I know, which girl I am with is shocked that ALL 8 are gorgeous. (Ever since I been going to these venues, I stopped bringing average women into my life) Its crazy caused 3 of those women were all over me...

The only thing that is worth noting is this chick who taps me and I just kiss her. I bring this up because I used to do this back when I never drank and if a women approached me. This girl actually was gonna ask if I could just take a picture of her group. Irony is she didn't even acknowledge we kissed and she was in a mixed group of 2 guys 2 girls.

Night ended cause of dehydration, I was full of too much energy
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#54
Tezer

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Join Date: 01/14/2011 | Posts: 973

haha your money situation reminds me of my own so much it hurts to continue reading this!

If you don't mind PM'ing the 15 min vid I'd like to see it
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#55
TnTDub1000

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Join Date: 04/24/2011 | Posts: 22

 How do you maintain that super high level of energy in different situations? Sometimes when Im really high energy and I walk into a group of ppl with much lower energy, I feel it all get sucked out of me and flow into them. Like the levels just equilibriate. Works in the opposite way too.. do you experience that?  
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#56
Distant Light

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Bootcamp Times - "Attempt #...How far does this go?"

Only difference about this time around is that I have an actual structure full of many different processes. The main goal on the surface is to build an incredible lifestyle consisting of only above average women (since majority of women can't get into the clubs I frequent) and changing my way of being that makes me more efficient at doing all this...

Based off my non-community connector friends and vanilla gorilla, I've come to the conclusion that NO ONE is doing what I've envisioned and its way beyond what anyone is doing. A select few might do certain things but very inconsistently, I'm the type of person who would go out 7 days a week no problem and always up for pre-game, after parties, etc. (with the occasional brunch parties, which I tend to make it too late)

The video I made, everyone loved it besides me because it doesn't really show the actual craziness that goes on when I (and people around me) start buggin out. I've rarely captured moments where things are just out of control. (which happens EVERY night) However, this all comes back to my problem with expectations. In my mind, where my life is currently at, is still at a rather low level. Yes, if I started proactively pulling women, I'd most likely be pulling a hottie almost every night. (assuming logsitics are good) However, thats just a very small picture...

If things were ideal at this moment, I'd be planning to hit the grand opening of 1oak Las Vegas for NYEs. Hitting up lingerie model to bring her west coast looking (plastic, fake tits) friends and her europeans. Then rolling up to the doorman n vip host who I know from hanging out in NY. Have a fucking blast and of course after party. The amount of "moments" would be ridiculous. Which brings

Structure/Process

The foundation of it all is the fact that I'd continually pipeline new women into my life. I've come to realize this is the benchmark as to how consistent I can be and the scale at which I can do things. Right now, almost ALL my gals have left NY again. This is probably the 3rd or 4th time this has happened (since I love being around europeans, only americans I sometimes give passes to are hipster/model types)

My lifestyle is the overview, the non-stop partying, high end social events, group fine dining, acting/films, and outdoor adventures. There is always a neverending cycle of connecting with new people and businesses that gives you more access to leverage your lifestyle. (This is how I love a life that I actually can't even afford) The funniest part is when people ask me what I do and I give them my "title" along with the description of what that entails.

For me its way beyond women, although based on the environments I'll always be around hot women and my social group MUST consist of hot women. I want to be able to get the word that a brunch party is going on in st barts and fly down there with a group of women to party it up for 2-3 days. I want to be on a level where the model promoters are asking me to come with them to st tropez providing my own villa for my crew to stay at. However, 1 step at a time, I've already connected with almost all the night venues I need to have access too. Like I said in last post, I ran into 8 different women that knew me, all above average. Women aren't going anywhere in terms of me hooking up.

So what does this all currently look like?
At first I wasn't going to post this, but then I figured "why not?" IMO, actually showing the video would probably present an opportunity for others to live their life in whatever manner they see as ideal. (Obviously not everyone is a party junkie like I am) It also shows what could be done in a couple of months of simply focusing on building your life, because if you being you already draws women in then you won't have no problem actually attracting women while focusing on living your life.



NOTE: This whole lifestyle building stuff has helped me internally grow since each time I play this video back it reminds me that majority of that was built in the span of 3-4 months. Its like, I know clearly what I'm offering to the world and when people don't have no interest in coming along, I don't care because I have nothing to lose. RECENTLY, this also made me realize when I don't even present an opportunity to someone who peaks my interest, its selfish because they never even got a chance when I was open to the possibility of bringing them along. An beyond that I'm starting to realize "Just go go go" because whether or not they come along, if I don't even give them a chance its an automatic no anyway. So might as well let them make that choice since I obviously was willing to potentially let her come along.
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#57
ceoarob

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 God your dance moves are sexy as fuck. 
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#58
DizzBit

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I concur.
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#59
Distant Light

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Tntdub1000: A few screws aren't too tight hahaha. I am just a total cluster fuck of energy. I am certain that I suck, any normal person could use my body and personality to KILL IT. As women think I am a model and I get opened a lot hahaha. People who aren't down don't even get acknowledged...

If you read a few posts back there was a chick I shutdown on and didn't go home with. WELL vanillagorilla had a 3some hahaah with both girls. Tonight I somehow kissed some chick hello (like last night) and she ends up going to diner with me. Nothing happens besides me shutting down again.

I drank, chilled me out, some chick opens me but I introduce her to some other dude who pulls. I am so caught up with myself and my issues hahahaha. I'm prob done with the whole working in nightlife, I don't have the personality to genuinely bring people along. I don't care about the money nor the person, I just do me acting stupid and go home to sleep. People have high expectation of me as if I am going to pursue and try to win them over...Um, no.

Drunk typing maybe, but I over it all...
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#60

RagingHormones

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Join Date: 07/27/2011 | Posts: 280

Dude, I saw the part at the end where you were in the hospital? 

What happened?  Hope you're ok.
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