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Distant Light:"10 Game" Lifestyle Design (Pics/Vids)
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M.Legend

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 your situation seems idyllic. Def following.Also orderd MBT upon your reading your sig. This book is changing everything! I love it!
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toasteroven

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Yo DL, I was wondering if you could write a little about your experiences with visualization? It seems like the big difference between you and everybody else here, and very little has been said about it. (I've just begun to read Psycho Cybernetics and it's just a new world opening up. Awesome book, check it out haven't already!)

Is it covered in My Big Toe? Plan to read that one as soon as I've digested Psycho Cybernetics. 
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TheSteak

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Hey Toast. Ive read half mbt and is actually going to finish psycho cybernetics myselfs before mbt. Psycho cybernetics is cool, but mbt goes way deeper. The visualisation in both books differs very much. In psycho cybernetics it's for a desired outcome and personal since ur supposed to visualize yourself, in mbt its medidating just to discover more of NPMR (non physical matter reality), maybe u dont understand but I can tell you they differ quite much.
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Interesting, thanks. Would still like to hear Distant Lights view of it. He seems to be on a different planet than every other person on this board. A much, much nicer planet actually.
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yee true dat
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Im going to try finish MBT before the end of the year. Its some heavy reading no doubt! But im starting to see what DL has taken from it principle wise.
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Distant Light

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----will get to replies in the future----

Progress Report: Best Night Ever!!!
Haven't been posting due to phone BS, almost lost morale again due to buying a phone that was already activated, fast forward a week later...

I was feeling very unproductive due to going out phoneless. Fast foward, I decide to pre-game in hopes of getting insanely drunk. FAILED, sorta, met these 2 girls outside who I ended up kissing both. Then met a 3rd girl who randomly walked by. I guess while drunk I got the idea of having the chick tell me her #. (She was very cute 4'10 chick) Fast foward, I run into an RSD guy I know at the pizza shop which of course I am drunk. Never been to this place sober.

Saturday Arrives...
Due to boredom I had to challenge myself, so I decided to test everything up to this point...
1.  ShowUp
2.  Create Opportunities via "Work The Room"
3.  Leverage My Lifestyle
4.  Choose a woman

Let's just say I SHOCKED MYSELF...
-  Unknown amount of women approached me
-  4-5 different chicks tried #closing me (no phone haha)
-  2-3 different women kiss me (not counting girl I pulled)

This doesn't include the random receptive women or women I never noticed. The night put in perspective how EASY n CONSISTENT things are if I simply execute.

Essentially I went out solo without a phone and bouncing around the daytime party amongst 3 different tables. 1st hour was overwheleming due to multiple women trying to move me around.

Ended up going to dinner with 2 new girls and the high fashion model. (1 of the new girls I didn't notice was GORGEOUS till looking back at the videos) Around 12, we hit a club and I end up taking some chick home after meeting her for 2-3mins.

I have reached another level sexually, first time I seen a chick squirt NOT "cream" nor was it once. Possibly 8 times and unfortunately I fucked up adding her on FB. However, I am learning I prefer one night stands.

The Pudding Was Tasted
To put in perspective of how last night was, the average 9-5er going out 1-2x a week could have sex with a different girl everyday if he so chooses...

Atleast, 8 girls were on me HARD, I didn't make it past 2am nor did I appoach anyone new after 10pm minus the girls who approached me and chick I pulled. Friday, had 3 new potential hookups and that was off 2hrs of pregaming.

I WILL NEVER EVEN THINK ABOUT CHASING or trying to get any girl ever again, there is no need...

My sense of self has also sky rocketed because not only am I a blast to be around and have a sick social life BUT I can bang a chick better than most. The amount of pleasure these women are having, I don't even experience 20% of that.

Looking towards the future...
Most reading this might think, I considered this night "best" due to the pull...NOPE!!!

The ability to roll out and dominate socially while women are chasing hard. All that's required from me is to CHOOSE. Things that stood out for me...
- I couldn't CHILL for even 2mins because either i'd get approached or someone was trying to chat/meet me
- Legit High fashion model chick who called me a month ago rolled to dinner BUT it never even occured to me due to bringing 2 girls along. One who IMO was hotter than the model. (Was 5 but I let 3 impatient girls leave)
- Free dinner, thanks to a guy I ran into. Ended up being dinner for 15, 4 guys and 11 girls at a trendy restaurant.
- Hit up another venue, doorman knows me somehow, champagne the whole time with a new group of about 10 girls 4 guys.
- I had zero intentions of kissing any chicks BUT they were grabbing/kissing me.
- So many women wanting to meet me

If it isn't obvious yet, having a sick crew of party girls is more important to me than actually pulling. Heck, actual hookup took 3-5mins its not the highlight. Also, I didn't mention many girls I introduced to male model dudes haha. Just so happens lately been aligning with male models.

Long term, is for me to go out every night with a mixed group of naturals, bottle buyers and the coolest party chicks I can find. So an average night would be...
1. *weekend only* Brunch Party
2. *weekend only* Daytime Party
3. Pregame/Dinner
4. Clubbing
5. After Party

I realize I am not a consumer, so i'd just use money to take things to the next level. Cutting a deal with a limo driver would be awesome since I hate killing the "group vibe" when transitioning. Bottle buyers love me and have cash they're willing to spend. Saturday was the glimpse of what's possible.

Also I am around so many women who are my type that I no longer even notice how attractive certain women are. One of the girls who was with me for most of the night before I pulled... (I notice I am considering lots of hot women as average, think I need to humble myself and sit outside during the day and notice I don't live in a common world)



Secret sauce? No one has a blast like me, everyone is so caught up in "value taking" BS. Its like a fool proof drug, people know if I show up 99% chance you are gonna have a blast. NO ONE CONSISTENTLY has as much fun as I do.

With that said, I've been using that to kind of fuel me for when my phone is back...tues/wed...I go back out THURSDAY!!!!

P.S...Starting to notice, I am going off to the deep end, as my awareness expands more and more. NY nightlife is gonna become wilder thanks to the mixed crew I bring out 7x a week.
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Gravity

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is it bad that i am totally in love with that chick....?
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Distant Light

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toasteroven
I never read cybernetics book, but how I do visualization is more through focusing "intent" based on the definition within MBT book...

Since everything is data, were consciousness interpreting the data. I create tools/interpretations to put meaning to the data. So for instance, say I wanna have a lucid dream that exposes fear/ego. I will visualize walking out of a car walking to a huge archive building, going to the front desk to process what I want to do then sit at the waiting room.

In real life, I am more phyiscal, those oneliners in vids that you hear are sort of expressions conveying "Its time for us to do it up"

The problem with NPMR is that its essentially just "virtual" data like PMR. We see things based on the makeup of our reality. I simply customize all my visualizations.

Gravity
Its hilarious I had ZERO CLUE how hot she was til a day later looking at the videos. Her friend was cute too just short and you know I like em 5'10+.

It didn't occur how much they wanted me til I remembered how she randomly threw it out that she was lituanhian which of course I was tell girls I love EEs and hipsters. Funny enough, I remember stating that was BS and she was americanized lituanhian which doesn't count hahaah.

Will see her probably Saturday

Richie Rich
Hahaahahahaha, most people think I am on drugs, from feedback I get, I'm considered very relaxed/upbeat. I always, act like I have cancer and its the last night to celebrate life.

Ontop of that, there is no AA, state/momentum issues, nor hesistation which really intrigues people since EVERYONE goes out "waiting for the metoer to strike and make there night epic".

I think the biggest thing is that I've come to know how I enjoy being at the CORE. Everything else is just add-on expressions that comes from new ways of being that I see when interacting. My frame is SOLID, not because of faith but because experiences have shown me the TRUTH. So...
- "I am the opportunity", a woman being in my presence is 99% guaranteed to have a fucking blast. I have a social life that I genuinely LOVE that she has the potential to come along in. Sexually, she has MOST LIKELY never been mindfucked nor experienced the level of pleasure I am capable of giving her.

- "My lifestyle is more important than women", I value having memorable "shared" experienes more than anything because its the only moment people can truly see TRUE LOVE. Not that needy BS we see on tv. Its pure expression without hidden agenda.

- "I'm KING and have MASSIVE SELF-RESPECT", unlike majority of men who are simply DTF once they see a girl, I am always SKEPTICAL. They have to meet the minimum criteria AND still they can't be crossing my BOUNDARIES. Don't care how long we know each other or what she adds to my life, if those boundaries are crossed or she no longer meets my criteria I WILL WALK AWAY.

- "SHE MUST FUCKING CHASE, or she will never have a chance", thing is I get zero validation from women. There is no actual benefit of me chasing any women because it can NEVER GO BEYOND A HOOKUP. I have zero interest in monogamy, fuckbuddies, or any form of dating.

- "My Philosophy Of Life", All women are my partner in crimes because whether we fool around or not she gets to enjoy my presence without and pressure or labels. I encourage girls to come hang, connect them with other guys and allow them to go meet and hookup with other guys. The door is always open for them to come and go. Which means if they stick around I know it wasn't due to me pressuring them.

"I'm the SUPERMODEL", they all want my body/soul because of how I am. Its fucking rare that a woman will ever meet a guy who is always having a good time and capable of SOCIALIZING with both men and women which results into some potentially epic social/sexual adventure. She can pass me up or misinterpret my value BUT at the end of the day after that moment is over I will still be bouncing around meeting new women, on some adventure and having another memorable experience. (Imagine 5 yrs from now, all the women who are no longer in my life or simply fucked up there opportunity from the get go...they won't be having as much fun as me)

As for money, I learned to be very resourceful especially due to NY being NY. I can strive in any high end scene around the world because they like WOMEN, FUN and CLIENTS. Also helps I am not much of a consumer, rather frugal minus willing to pay manhattan rent.

Press Play
My whole life is a big "exploration" that is meaningless beyond the experiences, lessons, and opportunities...

At any moment, I could lock myself in my room and just have experiences in "NPMR". (But, i'd end up having horrible imbalance again) On a PMR, level I've learned to have a blast ALONE or with others. Ontop of that I created a life I love.

When I go out seeing these tall model types, it never registers how hot they are, I am just having a blast and the women have NO INFLUENCE on me. Yes if she is hot she might catch my attention BUT that's like an animal hearing a distant sound that catch there attention briefly, "don't mean shit".

These chicks see me doing me in a manner that's never been seen. How is it he just walked in and is having fun? Isn't he worried about looking dumb? Or being judged by others? NOPE, I am seeing abunch of fearful people who are dying to break out and have a blast, I gotta show them its OK. You are sittng at the bar playing with your phone, I am atleast giving people a chance to actually have fun. No one came to such a nice venue just to play on there phone and look at each other.

Say model chick goes out with her 2 gal friends 5x a week...
1. Walks in looking around to see if "the place is good"
2. Picks a spot to stop and scan the venue
3. Possibly plays with phone or comments to friend
4. Walks around the venue or hangs at a table scanning for the "meteor"
5. 30mins in opts to stay or check another venue
6. Stays due to free drinks from guys
7. 1hr in a few people are attempting to dance
8. Guys chatting her she chats since its better than nothing
9. 2hrs in people are abit drunk and lights are flashing, not much dancing but atleast energy is abit more lively
10. 3hrs in its about that time to hit that other club
11. 4hrs in, pizza times

Imagine that shit 5x a week FUCKING BORING, why the hell would you go out? (Welp, she can't potentially have sex and would have no social life if she stayed in)

I show, haven't been out in 5 days BUT so pumped up about the "usual" antics. Those 3 girls see me...
1. I am saying hello and joking with security
2. I randomly walking by saying hello to people
3. I stop for a moment to enjoy the beat about to drop and I laugh at my stupidity
4. I get caught up in the song an sorta strike a pose laughing at myself
5. I say hi to a random girl and walk off
6. I walk by those 3 model girls just saying "what up what up"
7. Pass them and open a chick with a cool hate
8. 2mins later off to get a drink and I am cheersing the group by me
9. Off to go smoke where those 3 model girls are, they are either gonna speak to me or I ask for a smoke. I introduced them to another group an walk of to talk to others.
10. I come back to those 3 models and ask what's on there agenda...

From there its up to them, they can continue with the "usual" boring shit. They already seen I have fun with or without them, they met new people and despite not hitting on them its obvious I am likeable just in my whole demeanor of randomly chatting and bouncing around.

Say I did bounce them to another club and on the walk I am recording saying "its about to go down, 3 new girls kidnapping me tonight, if you see this, I tried to spread love to all". Roll in 2nd venue and already I am chatting again. They have no influence in what I do so THEY BETTER COME AT ME and get my attention. Maybe take a picture and she press her tits in my face or something.

bottomline
I think I have decent game too BUT I know how I like to convey myself...

The other aspect is my processes, since I meet so many people and don't chase it causes a vacuum where it just so happen all these women are chasing.

HOTNESS, is only due to the fact that I purposely give the hot women the chance to meet me...
- Venue full of 30 women, 10 are models, I meet 25 of the women BUT only exchange contact with 5 models 1 non-model. Odds are if I get a text tomorrow it'll be a model type.
- Venue full of 30 women, 10 are models I meet 25 of the women BUT give my contact to 5 unattractive women who asked for it. Odds are an unattractive chick will be texting me.

So in 2 weeks, only texts I get are coming from tall model types. Since I don't followup and only mess with women who chase me consistency and ease is much higher. IMO, anyone can bang the quality of women that I bang its just either...
A. They aren't around them (shittyville hottest chick wears uggs)
B. They simply not giving them a chance
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JofSuperman

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Distant Light wrote:

I always, act like I have cancer and its the last night to celebrate life.

Ontop of that, there is no AA, state/momentum issues, nor hesistation which really intrigues people since EVERYONE goes out "waiting for the metoer to strike and make there night epic".

I think the biggest thing is that I've come to know how I enjoy being at the CORE. Everything else is just add-on expressions that comes from new ways of being that I see when interacting. My frame is SOLID, not because of faith but because experiences have shown me the TRUTH. So...

- "I am the opportunity", a woman being in my presence is 99% guaranteed to have a fucking blast. I have a social life that I genuinely LOVE that she has the potential to come along in. Sexually, she has MOST LIKELY never been mindfucked nor experienced the level of pleasure I am capable of giving her.

- "My lifestyle is more important than women", I value having memorable "shared" experienes more than anything because its the only moment people can truly see TRUE LOVE. Not that needy BS we see on tv. Its pure expression without hidden agenda.

- "I'm KING and have MASSIVE SELF-RESPECT", unlike majority of men who are simply DTF once they see a girl, I am always SKEPTICAL. They have to meet the minimum criteria AND still they can't be crossing my BOUNDARIES. Don't care how long we know each other or what she adds to my life, if those boundaries are crossed or she no longer meets my criteria I WILL WALK AWAY.

- "SHE MUST FUCKING CHASE", or she will never have a chance", thing is I get zero validation from women. There is no actual benefit of me chasing any women because it can NEVER GO BEYOND A HOOKUP. I have zero interest in monogamy, fuckbuddies, or any form of dating.

- "My Philosophy Of Life", All women are my partner in crimes because whether we fool around or not she gets to enjoy my presence without and pressure or labels. I encourage girls to come hang, connect them with other guys and allow them to go meet and hookup with other guys. The door is always open for them to come and go. Which means if they stick around I know it wasn't due to me pressuring them.

"I'm the SUPERMODEL", they all want my body/soul because of how I am. Its fucking rare that a woman will ever meet a guy who is always having a good time and capable of SOCIALIZING with both men and women which results into some potentially epic social/sexual adventure. She can pass me up or misinterpret my value BUT at the end of the day after that moment is over I will still be bouncing around meeting new women, on some adventure and having another memorable experience. (Imagine 5 yrs from now, all the women who are no longer in my life or simply fucked up there opportunity from the get go...they won't be having as much fun as me)


This mindset right here is the holy grail. Well layed out fam, definitely taking notes.
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