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Distant Light

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toasteroven
I never read cybernetics book, but how I do visualization is more through focusing "intent" based on the definition within MBT book...

Since everything is data, were consciousness interpreting the data. I create tools/interpretations to put meaning to the data. So for instance, say I wanna have a lucid dream that exposes fear/ego. I will visualize walking out of a car walking to a huge archive building, going to the front desk to process what I want to do then sit at the waiting room.

In real life, I am more phyiscal, those oneliners in vids that you hear are sort of expressions conveying "Its time for us to do it up"

The problem with NPMR is that its essentially just "virtual" data like PMR. We see things based on the makeup of our reality. I simply customize all my visualizations.

Gravity
Its hilarious I had ZERO CLUE how hot she was til a day later looking at the videos. Her friend was cute too just short and you know I like em 5'10+.

It didn't occur how much they wanted me til I remembered how she randomly threw it out that she was lituanhian which of course I was tell girls I love EEs and hipsters. Funny enough, I remember stating that was BS and she was americanized lituanhian which doesn't count hahaah.

Will see her probably Saturday

Richie Rich
Hahaahahahaha, most people think I am on drugs, from feedback I get, I'm considered very relaxed/upbeat. I always, act like I have cancer and its the last night to celebrate life.

Ontop of that, there is no AA, state/momentum issues, nor hesistation which really intrigues people since EVERYONE goes out "waiting for the metoer to strike and make there night epic".

I think the biggest thing is that I've come to know how I enjoy being at the CORE. Everything else is just add-on expressions that comes from new ways of being that I see when interacting. My frame is SOLID, not because of faith but because experiences have shown me the TRUTH. So...
- "I am the opportunity", a woman being in my presence is 99% guaranteed to have a fucking blast. I have a social life that I genuinely LOVE that she has the potential to come along in. Sexually, she has MOST LIKELY never been mindfucked nor experienced the level of pleasure I am capable of giving her.

- "My lifestyle is more important than women", I value having memorable "shared" experienes more than anything because its the only moment people can truly see TRUE LOVE. Not that needy BS we see on tv. Its pure expression without hidden agenda.

- "I'm KING and have MASSIVE SELF-RESPECT", unlike majority of men who are simply DTF once they see a girl, I am always SKEPTICAL. They have to meet the minimum criteria AND still they can't be crossing my BOUNDARIES. Don't care how long we know each other or what she adds to my life, if those boundaries are crossed or she no longer meets my criteria I WILL WALK AWAY.

- "SHE MUST FUCKING CHASE, or she will never have a chance", thing is I get zero validation from women. There is no actual benefit of me chasing any women because it can NEVER GO BEYOND A HOOKUP. I have zero interest in monogamy, fuckbuddies, or any form of dating.

- "My Philosophy Of Life", All women are my partner in crimes because whether we fool around or not she gets to enjoy my presence without and pressure or labels. I encourage girls to come hang, connect them with other guys and allow them to go meet and hookup with other guys. The door is always open for them to come and go. Which means if they stick around I know it wasn't due to me pressuring them.

"I'm the SUPERMODEL", they all want my body/soul because of how I am. Its fucking rare that a woman will ever meet a guy who is always having a good time and capable of SOCIALIZING with both men and women which results into some potentially epic social/sexual adventure. She can pass me up or misinterpret my value BUT at the end of the day after that moment is over I will still be bouncing around meeting new women, on some adventure and having another memorable experience. (Imagine 5 yrs from now, all the women who are no longer in my life or simply fucked up there opportunity from the get go...they won't be having as much fun as me)

As for money, I learned to be very resourceful especially due to NY being NY. I can strive in any high end scene around the world because they like WOMEN, FUN and CLIENTS. Also helps I am not much of a consumer, rather frugal minus willing to pay manhattan rent.

Press Play
My whole life is a big "exploration" that is meaningless beyond the experiences, lessons, and opportunities...

At any moment, I could lock myself in my room and just have experiences in "NPMR". (But, i'd end up having horrible imbalance again) On a PMR, level I've learned to have a blast ALONE or with others. Ontop of that I created a life I love.

When I go out seeing these tall model types, it never registers how hot they are, I am just having a blast and the women have NO INFLUENCE on me. Yes if she is hot she might catch my attention BUT that's like an animal hearing a distant sound that catch there attention briefly, "don't mean shit".

These chicks see me doing me in a manner that's never been seen. How is it he just walked in and is having fun? Isn't he worried about looking dumb? Or being judged by others? NOPE, I am seeing abunch of fearful people who are dying to break out and have a blast, I gotta show them its OK. You are sittng at the bar playing with your phone, I am atleast giving people a chance to actually have fun. No one came to such a nice venue just to play on there phone and look at each other.

Say model chick goes out with her 2 gal friends 5x a week...
1. Walks in looking around to see if "the place is good"
2. Picks a spot to stop and scan the venue
3. Possibly plays with phone or comments to friend
4. Walks around the venue or hangs at a table scanning for the "meteor"
5. 30mins in opts to stay or check another venue
6. Stays due to free drinks from guys
7. 1hr in a few people are attempting to dance
8. Guys chatting her she chats since its better than nothing
9. 2hrs in people are abit drunk and lights are flashing, not much dancing but atleast energy is abit more lively
10. 3hrs in its about that time to hit that other club
11. 4hrs in, pizza times

Imagine that shit 5x a week FUCKING BORING, why the hell would you go out? (Welp, she can't potentially have sex and would have no social life if she stayed in)

I show, haven't been out in 5 days BUT so pumped up about the "usual" antics. Those 3 girls see me...
1. I am saying hello and joking with security
2. I randomly walking by saying hello to people
3. I stop for a moment to enjoy the beat about to drop and I laugh at my stupidity
4. I get caught up in the song an sorta strike a pose laughing at myself
5. I say hi to a random girl and walk off
6. I walk by those 3 model girls just saying "what up what up"
7. Pass them and open a chick with a cool hate
8. 2mins later off to get a drink and I am cheersing the group by me
9. Off to go smoke where those 3 model girls are, they are either gonna speak to me or I ask for a smoke. I introduced them to another group an walk of to talk to others.
10. I come back to those 3 models and ask what's on there agenda...

From there its up to them, they can continue with the "usual" boring shit. They already seen I have fun with or without them, they met new people and despite not hitting on them its obvious I am likeable just in my whole demeanor of randomly chatting and bouncing around.

Say I did bounce them to another club and on the walk I am recording saying "its about to go down, 3 new girls kidnapping me tonight, if you see this, I tried to spread love to all". Roll in 2nd venue and already I am chatting again. They have no influence in what I do so THEY BETTER COME AT ME and get my attention. Maybe take a picture and she press her tits in my face or something.

bottomline
I think I have decent game too BUT I know how I like to convey myself...

The other aspect is my processes, since I meet so many people and don't chase it causes a vacuum where it just so happen all these women are chasing.

HOTNESS, is only due to the fact that I purposely give the hot women the chance to meet me...
- Venue full of 30 women, 10 are models, I meet 25 of the women BUT only exchange contact with 5 models 1 non-model. Odds are if I get a text tomorrow it'll be a model type.
- Venue full of 30 women, 10 are models I meet 25 of the women BUT give my contact to 5 unattractive women who asked for it. Odds are an unattractive chick will be texting me.

So in 2 weeks, only texts I get are coming from tall model types. Since I don't followup and only mess with women who chase me consistency and ease is much higher. IMO, anyone can bang the quality of women that I bang its just either...
A. They aren't around them (shittyville hottest chick wears uggs)
B. They simply not giving them a chance
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JofSuperman

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Distant Light wrote:

I always, act like I have cancer and its the last night to celebrate life.

Ontop of that, there is no AA, state/momentum issues, nor hesistation which really intrigues people since EVERYONE goes out "waiting for the metoer to strike and make there night epic".

I think the biggest thing is that I've come to know how I enjoy being at the CORE. Everything else is just add-on expressions that comes from new ways of being that I see when interacting. My frame is SOLID, not because of faith but because experiences have shown me the TRUTH. So...

- "I am the opportunity", a woman being in my presence is 99% guaranteed to have a fucking blast. I have a social life that I genuinely LOVE that she has the potential to come along in. Sexually, she has MOST LIKELY never been mindfucked nor experienced the level of pleasure I am capable of giving her.

- "My lifestyle is more important than women", I value having memorable "shared" experienes more than anything because its the only moment people can truly see TRUE LOVE. Not that needy BS we see on tv. Its pure expression without hidden agenda.

- "I'm KING and have MASSIVE SELF-RESPECT", unlike majority of men who are simply DTF once they see a girl, I am always SKEPTICAL. They have to meet the minimum criteria AND still they can't be crossing my BOUNDARIES. Don't care how long we know each other or what she adds to my life, if those boundaries are crossed or she no longer meets my criteria I WILL WALK AWAY.

- "SHE MUST FUCKING CHASE", or she will never have a chance", thing is I get zero validation from women. There is no actual benefit of me chasing any women because it can NEVER GO BEYOND A HOOKUP. I have zero interest in monogamy, fuckbuddies, or any form of dating.

- "My Philosophy Of Life", All women are my partner in crimes because whether we fool around or not she gets to enjoy my presence without and pressure or labels. I encourage girls to come hang, connect them with other guys and allow them to go meet and hookup with other guys. The door is always open for them to come and go. Which means if they stick around I know it wasn't due to me pressuring them.

"I'm the SUPERMODEL", they all want my body/soul because of how I am. Its fucking rare that a woman will ever meet a guy who is always having a good time and capable of SOCIALIZING with both men and women which results into some potentially epic social/sexual adventure. She can pass me up or misinterpret my value BUT at the end of the day after that moment is over I will still be bouncing around meeting new women, on some adventure and having another memorable experience. (Imagine 5 yrs from now, all the women who are no longer in my life or simply fucked up there opportunity from the get go...they won't be having as much fun as me)


This mindset right here is the holy grail. Well layed out fam, definitely taking notes.
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Dalight91

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Join Date: 08/31/2012 | Posts: 4

 Still such an awesome journal. One quick question. I know that you experimented with lucid dreaming, meditation and astral projection before reading MBT. But how did you get your ticket to NPMR? And how do you recommend others to get it? Meditation, reduce entropy in PMR (becoming love) or something else? Did it come gradually or one day you were able to OBE (i understand that it's a matter of datastreams) with a strong focused intent? How did you "get there"?

All the best
dalight
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 Shit, the lifestyle looks out of this world, really seems like you are taking it full circle, pimping skills combined with insane social circle, inspiring shit
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Distant Light

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Will reply to other posters later...

Progress Report: All Quiet On The Pickup Front
So I am no longer seeing myself as a community dude at all, I read other FRs and it sounds awesome...

While I've been thinking of some next level stuff, in actuality I am NOTHING. Its abit shocking how I still manage to do a lot. Thursday, I don't even remember. Friday I somehow end up in pizza shop drunk talking to chicks. Saturday, I rolled out solo BUT then ended up with 7 gals acting like I was hosting a table. (One girl was a tranny)

Then I somehow manage to #close a tall asian, a tall german and maybe 1-2 other cuties. IMO, nothing seemed real to me, I was suppose to go to heidi klums haunted holiday party but 1 of the 3 girls was a tall but slightly bigger chick.

Sunday rolls round, I am so chilled out I don't touch a hint of alcohol at first. I am VERY ANTI SOCIAL, although I still somehow interact with women. One german chick who on paper I would LOVE, she was in glitter booty shorts just moving non stop. I leave early...

I knew I was hitting a hiphop party so I drank drank drank in hopes of blacking out, DUMB DUMB DUMB...

My friends are with lots of tall model types, its ridiculous. I am awesome but zero intentions on doing anything of any sorts. I am also paranoid about losing my jacket that I just bought. (Thursday jacket got stolen, yep I've been ballin spending money)

How avoidance still yields results
See this is the line that gets me big time...

I know how I am will still produce results so I tend to not try at all. (I am in works of hardcore exploration) Sunday night I run into a girl I used to like and wanted to bang SHE KISSES ME. I forget her after this moment and end up craving a cigarette...

Its so packed, celeb rapper bdays and BS, well I go to gay party for cig where I GET HIT ON BY A GAY GUY who is plowing. I am cracking up at the hilarity especially since I know some of the trannies in the party and a few gays. So I am telling guy "no" but I can introduce him to people.

FOR SOME REASON, chick he is with who I exchange #s with is TONGUING ME DOWN. Like all I had to do was stick around and she would take me home. She kept telling guy to stop hitting on me. (He was trying to grab my dick) Eventually I had moved on to continue my road of BLACKOUT state. Never happened.

Overall, I can't remember any true PICKUP TIMES...
-  Friday, I remember 2 big booty chicks one black and other built like a white pornstar. I was slapping there ass to the beat, I know I wouldn't have been into it but I think I might like a big booty white chick.
-  Saturday, could have been solid but I just make a decision to sorta end the night by drinking till I blackout. The girls weren't ugly it was the fact that one was average sized so it woulda been no go at heidi klum party BUT earlier I was with an ideal german. (Cold approach and connections lead to randomly having 7 girls and acting like I was a promoter/host)

The line of cold approach, lifestyle and social circle is a blur...

So many women say they KNOW ME but they don't. They seen me around and I never met them, its obvious they always wanted to met me.

I am knowing so many cool guys now, someboday Saturday ran into me and said MY FULL NAME. Its shocking if someone knows my name since I never initiate introductions its even more bizarre if someone says my last name. The day before him and the girls I apparently knew were at one of the hottest clubs day before. Wtf!?!?!?!?

Thursday, met my boy for dinner and this blonde hottie knew me I of course don't know. Well, when she stood up I was shocked I didn't remember her since both her and her friend are 6'2 and on me hard. Wtf!?!?!?

No More Alcohol???
So a year ago, I barely even drank, then started drinking for the sake of keeping the vibe...

Welp, I noticed I've been drinking for the sake of chillin me out. Last week or so, I went out sober and ALMOST THREW UP. Maybe a few months back, I stayed sober and had to leave the club to throw up. (For some reason, when sober I think I can handle certain stuff, drunk I am aware of all important things so longs I don't blackout)

Anywho, drinking for me no longer even chills me out so I have been away to stop, since its how I've been blacking out. (6 months ago never really forgot even a min)
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psychopathic

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Join Date: 08/28/2012 | Posts: 906

Great journal Distant Light. I like how you have developed your own unique approach to Game and I enjoy reading about your journey.

Keep it up.
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Distant Light

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OMG its like a revolving door of "fucking up", phone kept crashing couldn't do anything so I did a factory reset only to learn...

THE NUMBERS I DIDN'T SAVE AREN'T SYNC'D

So that means "model looking asian" and one of the chicks who kissed me yesterday GONE.

Even worst, already my phone is sloppy as fuck. Contacts saved like...
- "sarah lil"
- "(guy) james models (guy)

I had to downgrade phone which is too damn slow and I can't group contacts unless I go on google website. Its looking like I need to crack down on these small habits or else I won't be getting anywhere in terms of working in nightlife.
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Blue x Light

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 no more drinking dude, new level, go for it
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Hey man...I'm new to this forum and have become quite intrigued by this thread. However, I don't quite understand your long term goal of creating the lifestyle of meeting beautiful women? I thought it be about pick-up and getting laid, but it doesn't seem that way. Anyway, very interested to know what the underlining goal is; if there is one.

Also, you mention in one post inviting multiple girls on a day2 (to save money or something). Let's say you want to have sex with all of them, is this good for setting up another date, but individually?

Peace.
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Dalight91
Everyone has a ticket sorta speak...

I've remembered lucid dreaming as far back as 6-7 years old. Been actively exploring lucid dreams, OBES, remote viewing for 9 years. (Way before I even heard about mbt)

MBT helped me understand how all those "states" work which helped me drop all the rituals/processes I used to do. The steps are...
1. Spend 6 months learning to gain "point consciousness" state through meditation and be able to hold steady for about 15-30mins. (Not any mind chatter without any effort needed for allocated time)
2a. Decreasing fears/ego or else it will heavily block you. Fear of the unknown is one of the worst since this area is drastically unknown. (No fear of death IMO is #2)
2b. Using your intent to navigate NPMR, while generating tools to help you focus.

OBE back when I was 14-15 years old took about 2 months. Now it takes me about 10-20mins to navigate and almost 1-5mins to reach minor altered states.


Rise
So funny, I never used to drink and now start of the night I stay sober trying to act "low key". Never worked so far, I start socializing, having fun and thinking "shots shots shots".

Sean Delicious
Yep your right its not about about getting laid anymore...

My main goal was to be a guy who CONSISTENTLY has options with his ideal types (models, hipsters, huge fake tits) and I basically reached that. Now its to make a living working in nightlife while living a sick sick "party" lifestyle.

My dream is to travel/party at all the different ("high end") hotspots either solo or with a mixed group and simply have a blast!!!!



How I see it now...
- I can go out banging the hottest women most nights I go out till death. (I like partying so that's 5-7 days a week)
- I can have an incredible lifestyle that has many lifelong memories and benefits the overall world

So WAY #1, I fly to a city solo, go to a random club and pull a chick by the end of the night. Pulling 5 out of the 7 days

Or

WAY #2, imagine, pre-planned you and 3 of your fav guy friends, you guy's bring together 12 of the hottest women you know and split amongst 2 boats all focused on having a blast. There will be way more memories overall than just a hookup and still you will either hookup with NEW women you cold approach or within your crew. What do I mean...



My model promoter friends every year flies into st tropez and have models from all over the world fly in to stay at a villa and party it up for 10 or so days non-stop. To paint a picture...
-  3 Men based in NY, 4-5x a week hangs with model types partying
-  2 Men based in Milan rolling with model types
-  1 Man based in Sao Paulo rolling with model types

Fashion week in paris/milan comes around, everyone flies in and pull together there resources.



Tonight, I am meeting my friend with a gal I used to fool around with. Were getting a free dinner/drinks at 10pm in a venue that is the size of a living room. There will be atleast 5-7 other women as hot as the girl I am bringing. We haven't even begun to mention "the venue" after dinner which has more women.

Women will always be there, getting laid is now "background noise" its cool but not the substance.

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Last Night
Tried to be as low key as possible...FAIL

I don't even get into the club and atleast 2-3 girls start calling out my name. Inside, I try to remain "low key" just chillin BUT I forgot I invited the best friend of a chick I banged awhile back. As a result, I take her to a table to get some free champagne...

10mins later, table is filling up with TALL BLONDS, one of the girls says hello and is on me hard. (How I forget so easily is ridiculous) Then one russian blond is there too. Now I am cheersing and drinking. I NEED A CIGGY...

Outside, meet a HOT ROMANIAN, all I am talking about is how "1 on 1 sex" is boring. Its hilarious because 2 girls are listening in. I offer my number...

Why I wish I didn't aspire to work in nightlife
This romanian was my type of gal, 5'11 eastern euro, slim/petite and very feminine. She asked if I was a table host, I told her sometimes. Had I not been, she woulda wanted to just HOOKUP. She mentions her loyalty to her friend who works in nightlife, which I accept and let her be. This has happened many times over.

As she left, the 2 girls opened me BUT then I got distracted so they left. Also, the "legit model" was there so we were having abit of fun. By this time, I am drunk drunk drunk...

Black chick I know starts hanging around me, I am lifting her up, stimulating clit, kissing her neck BUT the whole time I am saying "not to do it".

new criteria
I don't get any validation whatsoever from banging a chick and as of late I noticed I only want girls I really find very attractive. Why?

Last girl I hooked up with slept in her juices as she squirted so many times, it went all over my face, I couldn't stop eating her and at one point her body looked so sexy I was licking from her to her ass. (rocco siffiredi style)

So now I take into account how passionate I am and only gorgeous women motivate me to do such things. I rather no sex than sex where I am not willing to give 100%.

Other Interesting Highlights
- Female friend mentioned the next day that I was interacting with a well known black model and her friend. I prob spoke with her 3-4 times in the night.
- Some chick outside with a guy MAKING OUT, but later in the interaction she starts HOLDING MY HAND in a "don't go" manner (I wasn't leaving regardless) WHILE SHE IS KISSING THE GUY. After all that, we EXCHANGE NUMBERS
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