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Distant Light

Distant Light

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Pulled wednesday and almost didn't go out thursday due to me being in a bad headspace. Basically, I was annoyed at my laziness and incompetence because I simply got laid instead of doing what needs to be done and that is MEETING MORE WOMEN. I was so annoyed at past few days that I actually sat down and organized my cell phone which reveals their are 19 more or less hot women who I have no clue about. Also deleted a shitload of #s, consisting of average and/or short chicks. Not going to talk about the pull, all I know it opened my eyes since she basically lives in an apt that I'd ideally want to live in...

At the moment, I feel as if I'm in some form of BOOTCAMP mode because I don't want to hang/talk with anyone, just want to go out doing what I have to do. Went out thursday which revealed one of my BIGGEST PROBLEMS..

Assumptions & Expectations = Poison

So I ran into this swedish chick from monday who was so fascinated to see me and was talking about how awesome monday was. IN MY MIND, I thought at was a very chill night and would never get the stamp of being "Fun Night" since I'm used to having a BLAST where its super chaotic and sexual. This reminded me that the bar is VERY LOW but I'm looking through the lens of my own criteria which is intimidating me and me only. The samething applies with me not wanting to work until I can consistently roll with 30 gorgeous women and demand whatever I want. Potential partner revealed to me that I could bring 5 gorgeous women and still make a very nice income. That shit was mindboggling to me because my mind was focused on some extrme shit that no one is actually doing.

Tuesday was utter chaos, chick I was going to pull on sunday texted me BUT I wasn't going to leave when I was having a BLAST. Also ran into lingerie model who I possibly had drunk sex with, its always hilarious bumping into her. She might move to NY. Wednesday was a waste, just had sex and thursday was a waste, I just picked a venue with a sick DJ and danced danced danced. Two chicks were very fascinated by me who weren't attractive enough and of course chick I banged a year ago is at the same venue. Its so fucked up because she makes me seem like I'm a douche cause I don't talk to her other than saying "hi" and generally she's bored or standing around. (like all the other women)

It's about to start getting cold again and my ass has to go out in the daytime...ah shit!!!!

P.S...One thing about the pull that I will mention is that the chick thinks I'm BONKERS, we live totally different lifestyles. She knows almost NOTHING about me an kept probing and it got to a point where she then became fascinated when I started revealing alittle bit. We were basically in bed and she was like "Tell me more about xyz" and I kept saying NO since all this comes out over time not 1st day. I made it clear that I'm cool with never seeing her and that the ball is in court in terms of hitting me up. She said the best thing about being with me is how crazy I am and how she feels like she got the "inside nuggets" about me since generally I almost NEVER reveal anything about my life other than the shallow overview.
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Distant Light

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Focusing On The Big Perspective
It's not about me, the specific girls, the specific day, or situation...

Anytime I focus on something "petty" I end up falling off the wagon. It's ironic what got me out of my FLOW was actually pulling the chick on wednesday which as a byproduct it ALMOST caused me to almost bring her out again for round 2 or bring out this other chick who asked to take me home twice already. Thursday was a nightmare that spilled over into Friday afternoon where I went out solo in daytime only to STILL be "Closed Off".

Life As A "Closed Off" Being
For some reason I've been very comfy putting up this FRONT where I'm TRYING/ACTING as if I'm this chill person but really just hiding my awesomeness. The female version would be a gorgeous go go dancer who acts like an ice queen rejecting guys as she sits on a sofa. As of late, I've become aware of MANY people simply looking at me waiting/hoping/wanting to meet me. It's not THEY who are the problem, its ME...

Meet Lprince and Travolta an I can feel myself "Closed Off", even when they say we each have to talk to a gal on the street. I already pre-meditated to just say "Hi and Bye". We go to a bar in an area I rarely ever go which was pretty cool in terms of just hanging. Quality wise, I'm super spoiled so nothing at all even peaked my interest. Upstairs at least 3-4 different groups of unattractive chicks approached the crew while we were playing around.

Then appeared these tall chicks with pretty nice bodies, the whole crew approached the blondie when in reality I only liked the indian chicks body and dance moves. My boy comes up saying "we all approached and got blown out, your UP!" I wouldn't even play along in this "closed off" mindset. I know its a habit because when I first walked into the venue I was like that and then I seen a guy I knew and instantly it was like "blahblahblah...hahaha...yea yea". Then after he gave these 3 chicks who were fascinated by us the opportunity to meet us by asking for a picture and next thing you know I am "closed off" to the point where the girl actually says "Another one...Where is the personality? I need some personality" hahaha.

Friend of mine says the tall chicks were fascinated as they were looking dead at me while I was in my own world just waiting it out until it was time to hit the venue I love most, which before you know it I start opening up at that venue...

Focus On The Overview = Ideal
So I disliked wednesday despite pulling and I disliked thursday despite for the 1st time lots of electro music being played. All because I didn't meet no new highly attractive women. The possibility was there I was just too closed off majority of the time to even have such a choice. However, FRIDAY in my mind was a massive success as I ended up meeting some new highly attractive women and one in particular is this gorgeous exotic chick who about a month or so ago I remember seeing at another venue where I was having a blast and she was looking/waiting/hoping to meet me. My boy happen to see her once when I brought him to hang with lesbian model chick I know and her really liked her... (Her face is too exotic for me to show)



At one point french chick from potential yacht after party rolled with a huge group who couldn't get in. Bumped into tall lesbian who I kissed hello as the night goes on it seems like she still likes DICK because she was ignoring me while some guy was all over her. Our inside joke is to find "the one" so we can have a 3some. Turns out this girl's ex-husband family RINGS BELLS. She knows everyone at one of the top spots. She of course goes home alone, even though at the other venue she did makeout with one girl she met but we both thought she was too short haha.

Regardless, this was a GREAT night, way better than the night I pulled because I actually met new women and I want to go out right now to meet more new highly attractive women. I don't even want to text any chicks to roll out (but I will since some already hit me up) since many of them we'd end up potentially having sex. I'm actually thinking about having sex before I go out to the clubs that way I can focus on meeting new women and since its cold I don't want to be roaming around the city in that 9-11pm time gap.

Personal Power
Guy I bumped into who I know through a connector friend mentioned if I know about "pickup" because he wanted to point out to me that their was an instructor at the bar we were hanging at. (Ironically lots of community dudes go to this specific bar) Turned out this guy is divorced an then it was revealed that all the people he was friends with were in the community. On our taxi ride I mentioned, I only KNEW about the community but didn't really know much else about it hahaha...

He then said he figured I knew about it because he noticed I know LOTS of women which is interesting since it doesn't seem like that to me. In my mind, I need to meet WAAYYYY MORE, like I'm running at 20% or something at the moment when I could be pushing the limits. He also mentioned that I'm very upbeat/fun which women like so they'd gravitate to me like a magnet. Minus, him starting to say community shit, for a guy who is new he sure knows how to create opportunites to meet women and he's always socializing.

It was later when I OPENED UP, I seen my true power as our area became epic. When bi-sexual natural (hahaha) showed up it got even more chaotic because we have similar personality traits. (Minus him being gay and still liking women) Somehow, I end up meeting this very pretty hipster looking model type chick which is up their in terms of "ideal types". Right now, only chicks I really have in my phone are models looking or hipsters. I've cleaned my phone yesterday which was GREAT.



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Distant Light

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The Bi-Sexual Natural: First Edition
Where do I even begin? This guy is by far the best person I've ever seen at consistently getting gorgeous women. Lets just say my first memory of this guy is when he had a chick straddling him on a sofa and was banging her to the point where they almost fell onto the table. Last night I mentioned to someone that I was with him and instantly he goes "Do you enjoy his company? He's abit too crazy for me...Ever seen him and this one girl together TOTAL SHIT SHOW". I hangout with this guy because we have similar personality traits, it just so happens he likes guy and girls which from what he says he simply plays the MAN in both leagues of hooking up with men and women. To set the tone...



This is the bathroom view of a club where my boys Jared! fooled around with 2 girls (1 banged, 1 blowjob) in that bathroom and VanillaGorilla banged a chick in the pool. The Bi-sexual guy had a 3some in that bathroom with two girls for atleast 10mins. When I first met this dude because he is very upbeat/energetic like I am, I thought he was coked out. Turns out this guy has never done drugs ever.

His Lifestyle & Side Effects

I don't think this guy has alot of guy friends as he stated most guys especially straight hate him because women gravitate towards him. He knows HOTTIES as he tend to bang model types almost exclusively. This guy just loves beautiful women which is why he is well connected and rolls with tons of women. Even more interesting is that I think he has way more sex with women than actual guys. (He did mention he hates venues that is plain gay aka "nothing but dudes") This guy is in a good living situation an has access to every high end venue whether its "hipsterish" or "model/celeb" venues. He told me a few stories...

He said some people are completely turned off by him which it showed as he got two women PISSED at him. First one was a girl that was in the group we had bounced with who simply became very annoyed as bi-sexual natural continues to push the envelope. He self-amuses so much that it actually made the chick seem like a vibe-killer. The second girl was pissed at him because he supposedly lied BUT before when I first met her you could already see she too was annoyed by him. Beyond all though he knows lots of women...

Social Extremist
This is the main reason why this guy reminds me of myself as I see alot of aspects about him in myself. Most important thing he probably mentioned to me was that he is the way he is because HE CAN. (get away with it) A moment I won't forget was on saturday he stopped those gorgeous black chick and followed up with "Didn't you suck my dick 2 weeks ago?" He said he did that because lots of black and latino chicks try to act all proper/civilized meanwhile white chicks are basically acting like total filth doing all sorts of things. Other things that stood out...

-  Guy meets LOTS OF HOT WOMEN almost exclusively, I didn't see him interacting with one chick who was average with the exception of decent women who stood out due to having height, tits or ass. Those girls he didn't seem to have an interest in ever fucking BUT would flirt with them. The guy is always ON, ready to mingle, even when in the taxi he was screaming to a guy and 2 girls in an SUV saying "You guys are beautiful!!! Come to xyz!!" They were willing to go but he never said the address. He didn't seem to care just the process of socializing is all he cares about. He basically met ALL the tall women and model-like women.

-  LEADS LEADS LEADS LEADS LEADS, heck he was leading me around which later on he mentioned something that was important to know. He says he NEVER waits for a (his words, not mines) because he doesn't need them. He clearly stated he does what he wants and they have to be ready in that moment or he's gone. We basically left these 3 chicks at one venue due to the 3rd girl taking long in the bathroom, he pointed out that those chicks love him so much that they will be texting him in abit. (They did) All the chicks he met he was basically grabbing saying "Come" and he actually pulled this one girl out of the club saying "lets smoke" only to find out this fucker doesn't even smoke. (He took a cigarette from her and everything)

-  SELF-AMUSING 24/7, if it was one thing that stood out about him is his shamless and unapologetic way of self-amusing. There is almost ZERO hesistation with this guy in terms of talking to people are doing things to see how far he can push it or what he can get away with. Anything that doesn't hit he apologizes for and then continues to self-amuse in a manner of "Bitch get with the program this is me". We were in the taxi an chick was super annoyed all he would say is stuff like "Bitch, you always got a fucking comeback!!! That's why I like her though...where are you from? O MY!! That's why you never shut the fuck up cause your a latina...If someone ever fucks with you just hit him with a goya can". He is aware that he can AMOG straight guys when needed by playing up the whole gay card which will make most straight men very uncomfortable.

-  Other key notes is ALWAYS BE FLIRTING, this guy is clearly a sexual dude always talking about beauty and ironically, he isn't that physical. Also his process exchange numbers is exactly the same, he has them put his number in their phone and text him. Only difference is that he will text back and forth, I never do that.

-  Demonstrates authority when it comes to beauty, nightlife, fashion and sexuality. It's not about the content BUT the fact that he makes it sound like he is at the cutting edge of everything in those areas. It's apparent in him talking about saggy tits, telling the chick how she can be hotter, letting the women know they too can be hot like those coke models who are sucking dick.

Self-Amusement: Majority of his things revolved around...
Beauty & High Fashion
-  "Your beautiful, just get some extensions cause your hair is abit thin...You'll be looking like a kardashian"
-  "Your lucky your beautiful because I will bash you over the head with a svedka bottle"
-  "You wanna be hot like those sexy modes, DO COKE"
-  "Let me tell you, I hate those tits that hang to there belly button..."

Racist/Stereotypical Shit
-  "First thing I asked this is DO YOU LIKE BLACK GUYS? She says no, now look at that baby pictures, YES YOU LIKE THAT BIG BLACK DICK"
-  "Let me tell you about the jewish guys and the black guys...Black guys will give up that money quick...Jews are cheap at first but if you wait it out YOU GOT BANK"
-  "Sometimes you gotta play that role if you want that cash...Better learn how to be a dumb blond"

Roleplays/Lies for Fun
-  Told the taxi driver he's from a part in england too just doesn't have the accent anymore
-  Some drunk asian is crying on the street and he says to the bouncer "You need me to talk to him, I know korean" (Asian was speaking in english who knows if he was even korean hahaha)

Hanging With Bi-Natural
Saturday, he brought along 3 tall attractive women and a trust fund kid. When we bounced to another venue all he would do is approach random people. At the other venue all he would do is lead, lead, lead, lead the chick he was with who I think he was going to try and pull. The girl finally says she was tired so him and I bounce to an after hours I had setup. The most interesting part was the taxi ride, which somehow we manage to squeeze a taxi full of 6 people (which almost is never allowed but this guy just does whatever the fuck) Once we hopped out the taxi he started flirting with 2 chicks who were waiting for a taxi and got their #.

Yesterday was the highlight though since he again came out with 3 girls and EVERY tall chick he met or somehow knew him. The 1st chick he later said he had zero interest in but he was bouncing outside to smoke. 2nd chick was cute they disappeared for abit and 3rd girl that I remembered had fake tits and we end up bouncing them to another club. At the other club we end up LEAVING them their (he doesn't wait, chick took long in bathroom) and going back to the 1st club. Which he then simply has his russian girl (who I happen to know) come from one club to the next and simply goes home with her and her friend.

The highlights though was in the taxi which I think at some point he was sucking on the fake tits chick titties. This guy was self-amusing his ass off to the point where all women simply love him for the fact that he is uncontrollably having fun. He'd be saying shit how they might run LA but they don't know shit about NY. What caught my attention though was outside when we were supposed to be smoking. In the taxi ride, I remember him critiquing the latina chick saying
never wear jeans she has to show off those long skinny sexy legs.

CHICK SHOWS HER TITS

So bi-natural and I are standing outside an he's like "Wow, these women look like they just came from eating mcdonalds" and next thing you know 2 chicks sitting down look at us and makes a comment saying "I look like I eat at mcdonalds". He then says "No, no, honey your beautiful...let me tell you something..." Which as I type this I realize he always takes the authority frame when talking to chicks might have something to do with him knowing that their are lots of hot women in the world. (He told latina chick being hot doesn't mean shit cause their are many hot bitches out their) I wanna say it's almost like he is demonstrating authority that he knows about beauty/women and sexuality. It could be total bullshit but he sounds good when he's saying it.

Somehow he ends up talking about how her tits are good and other women tits are saggy. Next thing I know chick is qualifying herself on how people think her tits are fake but they just stand well. ALL OF A SUDDEN this chick pulls out her tits and he starts touching them while saying "Wait, I feel silcone...O no thats food...You got perfect tits and your nipples are so perfect". After about a few mins her tits are back in her shirt and he non chalantly says "Are you going to be back inside? K cya". Before she pulled out her tits she for some reason had her legs spread kinda trying to show the imprint of her pussy.

What I learned
If you just shamelessly and unapologetically BE then you'll get away with whatever. The mere fact that you just BE how you BE cause you CAN will cause people to just accept how you are regardless what your common experiences are. When we went back to the club the tables we were out were gone, only a bottle buyer left who he basically said "Act like you didn't know" and so he took a drink. When the bottle buyers cameback pissed he acted like he didn't know since we were their earlier. In the taxi, he only had 100 and a few bills so he said "act like your super drunk" so we never even tipped.

I can see how he manages to have a 3some in the bathroom or play with some chicks tits right infront of the club as if its nothing. Cause he CAN and because to him its no big deal. In his mind, people are filthy but try to be all civilized, he thinks people should just let go and do whatever. He won't sway from how he's being and it seems like SEX is just a thing that happens in his life, he never seems like he's trying.

All I know, I can see the potential possibility of some wild experiences. More to come on this guy...Tonight if I actually have money to even make it to the city, we are going to one of the hottest venues where he says their are legit models. Let the fun times begin. (I need to start making money, its my biggest limitation)
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Distant Light

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Before I roll out wanted to post a few things before I forget...
- Saturday, was an epic night and totally unplanned. Mix forced me to approach these 3 chicks, I DID NOT WANT TO TALK. I walk over and in 30secs they're following me to a venue they HATE. These chicks are annoying but like me. Inside, I just chode telling the I bouncing elsewhere in an hour. Meanwhile miami chick shows up and I somehow walk up to a chick, bring her to table and give her my number. I have ZERO intention of knowing those women.

- Saturday, plans were all fucked, was with Lprince, miami chick and 1 guy. 3 guys and 1 girl is a pull at high end hipster venue. HOWEVER, doorman puts us with inhouse promoter which was a highly generous move. Even crazier the guy leaves and gives me SIX COMP BOTTLE tickets. I kept getting champagne bottles hahaaha. Minimum for a table here is 1500. Also turn out the bottle girl here really likes me a lot, saw her talking to my boy on Friday about me and Saturday we spoke for the 1st time.

- Saturday, #closed a tall chick, I prob fucked it all up since she texted me normally. Then after my 1st text she asked if I was a promoter. Not Good, technically I've almost never successfully promoted hahaha, I suck. Its so incongruent to how I am. O well.

- Sunday, people hit me up to partay (Only way I've been able to successfully promote) and I hang wth bi-natural. Bounce a 3set hot latina and tall fake tits chick. I was super laid-back becaue Saturday was such a crazy night. Hung over all Sunday, threw up at 11pm, pulled myself together and made it out at 1230am. While choding/observing the room, chicks were hitting on me. This also happened on friday in that bar. One average sized chick (big compared to model types) is like "Oooo chocolate daddy and starts shaking her ass".

Overall, seems like I in my own way, still "closed off" did not want to talk to those 3 girls on th street at all BUT some reason if I show up people like me. I am so aloof nowadays cause of the whole "I have nothing to prove"
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#25

lala

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Join Date: 12/05/2009 | Posts: 209

 This bi guy wouldnt happen to be black would he? Would his first name possibly start with a C and last with an S? Being a prep school kid myself, this guy youre describing sounds like he could definitely be a friend of mine.
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Trent3Reznor

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Join Date: 09/19/2011 | Posts: 456

Distant Light wrote:
Some notes...
- I talk about nothing at all, friend and I ban LOGIC so vibing back and forth became a way of life. We've gone as far as making a joke whenever something TOO LOGICAL is being said. (Ironically, it has influenced logical people to be more free flowing when in our presence)

I like this rule, too many people discuss pick up in the field when they really should be letting loose.  Being ILLOGICAL solves that problem, vomiting stupid shit is contagious and fun as hell!
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Distant Light

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Lala: Thankfully, no its not him hahaha, this guy never let's me record or take pics and for good reason. We didn't hangout today as I got out late. Seems like being "closed off" is my biggest problem. I will say he is domincan black, his name could be a lie for all I know. Reason I hate giving details is because him and I cleary standout. A hitman could easily spot us.

trent3reznor: Its interesting because now our crew has a whole dictionary of inside jokes. Anyone who comes into the group 1st day will hear atleast 2hrs worth of backstories as to how those words came to be. There is one girl who refuses to take a lose verbally, she is so logical that her name is now a vocab for someone who refuses to take a lose and always logically has a comeback. She is no longer logical when with me because I told her i'd body slam her repeatedly if she keeps being logical.

This same chick pointed out that my friend and I were best friends because all we were doing was saying inside jokes and 1upin each other. All chicks were after each other to the point where we would say...
- "its obvious she was looking at your glasses to get the reflection of me
- "why the fuck won't that black guy go away so I can meet his friend"

There is a whole lot of nothing but good vibing...
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Trent3Reznor

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Distant Light wrote:
trent3reznor: Its interesting because now our crew has a whole dictionary of inside jokes. Anyone who comes into the group 1st day will hear atleast 2hrs worth of backstories as to how those words came to be. There is one girl who refuses to take a lose verbally, she is so logical that her name is now a vocab for someone who refuses to take a lose and always logically has a comeback. She is no longer logical when with me because I told her i'd body slam her repeatedly if she keeps being logical.

This same chick pointed out that my friend and I were best friends because all we were doing was saying inside jokes and 1upin each other. All chicks were after each other to the point where we would say...
- "its obvious she was looking at your glasses to get the reflection of me
- "why the fuck won't that black guy go away so I can meet his friend"

There is a whole lot of nothing but good vibing...

Thats awesome, most people are naturally illogical when they're kickin it with their friends. 
But suddenly when a hot chick rolls by, they get uptight and all that fun spontaneous energy gets sucked out of them. 
I think the key to vibing with anyone, is letting loose and not afraid to look like an idiot.  We do this all the time around our friends!
We all have that fun charismatic side to us, its just a proccess of stripping our filters and releasing that six year old inside of us.
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TnTDub1000

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Youve got some seriously inspirational stuff here. Really appreciate it.
I read in your big toe post that you switched to being continuously positive. How did you do that? Was that a general process, or was it something you did (like a cleansing)? I know theres some legit* shit out there like chi kung /"energy work" with that kind of potential (it continually freaks me out how powerful it is). With the right vibe a single glance can make people drop all of their problems and negativity. What was your approach?
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Distant Light

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Will answer above later, right now I am walking to train, chick dtf but LOGISTICS!!!!!!! That shit is a problem...

We fucking tried to use false name and me acting super drunk. Man it was so obvious I was not a student of the dorm, I supposedly was a person who lost his ID, fucking security calls room # and saying he will have to call his supervisor or cops to handle this situation. I say I will just stay at a friends place. It was so obvious we reeked "were about to fuck"

Pull was dumb easy, she thought I was gay at first due to how I dance and cause my lesbain model hangs with gay guys. (1 guy was crossdressing) I simplY LEAD LEAD LEAD, and just makeout, til her she can play wih me tonight. Taxi her place, rubbin.

However, shit didn't go down, I try to hit a park to fuck, we get to one but nowhere to fuck. She has school an seeds for sex tomor, BUT phone isn't even on. I like a dumbass called up friends who lived in city, hoping to pull.

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Somethings to note...
- Chick said I have swag
- Chick said I am abit crazy (in a good way)
- Chick was implying that I am abit a cocky (she never said it but me stealing chick frames I notice I taunt them abit, will get in detail tomor)

Still abit drunk and hungry will finish tomor, we decided to have sex tomor before I go out and party...
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