THE FORUMS
Wednesday May 23
Sealed the deal with the girl from yesterday. She came over at around 10pm to go stargazing on the roof. I had her curl her hair and wear yoga pants, when she showed up I saw that she had obliged.
We went to my room and slowly escalated. Beautiful VAGINA. Brazillian waxed, tight, perfect taste. She didn't jump all over sucking my dick, which annoyed me. Banged twice then went on the roof with a blanket to watch the stars. She went home around 1am.
Sealed the deal with the girl from yesterday. She came over at around 10pm to go stargazing on the roof. I had her curl her hair and wear yoga pants, when she showed up I saw that she had obliged.
We went to my room and slowly escalated. Beautiful VAGINA. Brazillian waxed, tight, perfect taste. She didn't jump all over sucking my dick, which annoyed me. Banged twice then went on the roof with a blanket to watch the stars. She went home around 1am.
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Thursday May 24
Went out again tonight with the boys (RSD wing and non community guy) I dont really feel like going over the details of the night but I probly did 10 sets or so. Three numbers and makeouts. I've been texting one who is down to meet tomorrow to 'get a day buzz on', another hasn't responded, and the third... I almost PULLED but got sandbagged at the last minute. Heres the story
I approached cutie in a blue cocktail dress and heels. Shes half chinese half portugese, if you can imagine what that looks like lol. We dance makeout, then go get drinks.
"Hey, are you employed?"
"Yeah I work at xxxx :) "
"Oh shit, you should have said no, I was going to buy you your drink"
Goes great I meet the friends all good. They all love me. We all go get after hours food and were going to her friends house. The friends boyfriend is picking me, my girl, and my girls friend up. When the car comes we all get in and the guy looks back, "who is this dude?! wtf, no way your not bringing this guy to my place.." blah blah blah. I didnt freak out I just kissed my girl on the cheek and casually said, "see you tomorrow cutie" no real emotional reaction. Ive been on such a run lately I really didnt get that upset. One of my fuck buddies was harrassing my to come at 3am but I went home with my bros.
Well tomorrow will be good.
Went out again tonight with the boys (RSD wing and non community guy) I dont really feel like going over the details of the night but I probly did 10 sets or so. Three numbers and makeouts. I've been texting one who is down to meet tomorrow to 'get a day buzz on', another hasn't responded, and the third... I almost PULLED but got sandbagged at the last minute. Heres the story
I approached cutie in a blue cocktail dress and heels. Shes half chinese half portugese, if you can imagine what that looks like lol. We dance makeout, then go get drinks.
"Hey, are you employed?"
"Yeah I work at xxxx :) "
"Oh shit, you should have said no, I was going to buy you your drink"
Goes great I meet the friends all good. They all love me. We all go get after hours food and were going to her friends house. The friends boyfriend is picking me, my girl, and my girls friend up. When the car comes we all get in and the guy looks back, "who is this dude?! wtf, no way your not bringing this guy to my place.." blah blah blah. I didnt freak out I just kissed my girl on the cheek and casually said, "see you tomorrow cutie" no real emotional reaction. Ive been on such a run lately I really didnt get that upset. One of my fuck buddies was harrassing my to come at 3am but I went home with my bros.
Well tomorrow will be good.
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Friday May 25th
We threw a pre drink and I invited the cocktease from yesterday over. She was sober and DD for the group of girls. Anyway we flirted and made out at the predrink. She came to the club for a little bit but my ex was FUCKING NUTS and going crazy there. Later in the night I hunted down this blonde. I called her out for having fake blonde hair and cheating for height in her heels. All fake lol. We had to split up because she had fat cockblock friends. She texts me this later
"Okay something u should know, I never get butterflies talk to someone, except I do with you..."
When we had our 20 minute interaction I was ON. Unreactive, self amused, totally in my zone and acting through my intentions. I was being extremly sexual and escalating hard on her. This all resulted in 'butterflies' lol.
We threw a pre drink and I invited the cocktease from yesterday over. She was sober and DD for the group of girls. Anyway we flirted and made out at the predrink. She came to the club for a little bit but my ex was FUCKING NUTS and going crazy there. Later in the night I hunted down this blonde. I called her out for having fake blonde hair and cheating for height in her heels. All fake lol. We had to split up because she had fat cockblock friends. She texts me this later
"Okay something u should know, I never get butterflies talk to someone, except I do with you..."
When we had our 20 minute interaction I was ON. Unreactive, self amused, totally in my zone and acting through my intentions. I was being extremly sexual and escalating hard on her. This all resulted in 'butterflies' lol.
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Great thread bro.
I will say looks matter though. I have got laid without even raising a finger before. You still hav eto lead somewhat and all of that, but if a girl likes how you physically look, it can be that much easier. Doesn't mean they are the end all and be all of getting with women though. :et's not act like we know what women find physically attractive anyways, different girls like different things. Some girls will only date guys of certain races for goodness sakes. Shouldn't be something that holds us back from going after women we want though because again, we NEVER know what the women is thinking, because if they say what they are "thinking", its probably a lie anyways lol
I will say looks matter though. I have got laid without even raising a finger before. You still hav eto lead somewhat and all of that, but if a girl likes how you physically look, it can be that much easier. Doesn't mean they are the end all and be all of getting with women though. :et's not act like we know what women find physically attractive anyways, different girls like different things. Some girls will only date guys of certain races for goodness sakes. Shouldn't be something that holds us back from going after women we want though because again, we NEVER know what the women is thinking, because if they say what they are "thinking", its probably a lie anyways lol
ilb wrote:
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My game is the result of small chunking it in over YEARS. (3 years I've been into RSD and working on this)
I went through long chode droughts of apathy. I've also manned up. There was a period where I would go and get rejected by 20-30 girls a night, never getting laid. I kept going out EVERY NIGHT. I've put so much focus into self improvement its retarded. I've read pretty much every book rsd recommends. Actually I didn't just read them, I went through every one with a highlighter, reread my notes, and written book reviews the help me internalize the concepts. I've seen every video every rsd instructor has ever released. I've watched the blueprint three times and taken pages of notes. I've gone to the hotseat. I've taken two bootcamps with RSD. I've gone through the painstaking process of changing my daily habits. I've implemented a meditation practice, regular reading, and exercise. I've changed my life proactively to live with the values I think are important. I’ve wrestled with alligators, I’ve tussled with a whale. I done handcuffed lightning and thrown thunder in jail. I WILL SHOW YOU HOW GREAT I AM.
Dude, I like that you're taking hold of your life and taking actions to do what you want to do. Props, mad props.
The biggest thing for anyone is making changes in their life and constantly making improvements. Too many guys get complacent and settle for less than that they can achieve. It's really sad to see tall, good looking guys walking around holding hands with some hideous walrus, it's common in Seattle.
I'm curious, why are you staying in Victoria? Have you thought about moving to LA, New York, Las Vegas for the hotter girls?
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My game is the result of small chunking it in over YEARS. (3 years I've been into RSD and working on this)
I went through long chode droughts of apathy. I've also manned up. There was a period where I would go and get rejected by 20-30 girls a night, never getting laid. I kept going out EVERY NIGHT. I've put so much focus into self improvement its retarded. I've read pretty much every book rsd recommends. Actually I didn't just read them, I went through every one with a highlighter, reread my notes, and written book reviews the help me internalize the concepts. I've seen every video every rsd instructor has ever released. I've watched the blueprint three times and taken pages of notes. I've gone to the hotseat. I've taken two bootcamps with RSD. I've gone through the painstaking process of changing my daily habits. I've implemented a meditation practice, regular reading, and exercise. I've changed my life proactively to live with the values I think are important. I’ve wrestled with alligators, I’ve tussled with a whale. I done handcuffed lightning and thrown thunder in jail. I WILL SHOW YOU HOW GREAT I AM.
The biggest thing for anyone is making changes in their life and constantly making improvements. Too many guys get complacent and settle for less than that they can achieve. It's really sad to see tall, good looking guys walking around holding hands with some hideous walrus, it's common in Seattle.
I'm curious, why are you staying in Victoria? Have you thought about moving to LA, New York, Las Vegas for the hotter girls?
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Proactive Action
" also focus on the STEPS, all this talk about "i feel this way" and "i FEEL that way" who gives a shit how you fucking FEEL. Focus on EXECUTION"--jlaix
"Self improvement is masturbation, now self destruction ..." - Tyler Durden (Fight Club)
" also focus on the STEPS, all this talk about "i feel this way" and "i FEEL that way" who gives a shit how you fucking FEEL. Focus on EXECUTION"--jlaix
"Self improvement is masturbation, now self destruction ..." - Tyler Durden (Fight Club)
Two more back to back lays.
Saturday May 26th
Went to Vancouver to meet a girl I knew from back when I was a VIRGIN. Over six years ago. Still in high school, she was my neighbour… I would walk her dog with her and talk about my chode insecurities lol The first girl I ever made out with. EVER.
I friendzoned myself obviously and we developed a close relationship. Things happened and we went our separate ways (different cities). Once a year or so we would try to coordinate a meetup but it would always fall through. On Friday she texts me out of the blue
What are you doing this Saturday…..?
Come to a comedy club..? ;D in Vancouver
Holy you back from Australia???
I think that sounds great!
Yuuuuup! :D
Hahaha yay! So you wanna come.?
Im down! Details! Should I come early? What are you doing for a place to stay?
I currently live with my best friend SP! :D and you can stay here in my bed…. As long as you smell good: SP says :p show starts at 8pm gotta be there by 7:30 and im not working that day so we can hangout earlier!! If you want!!! :D
So to Vancouver I went.
Shes staying with her friend who has this boss pad right on Granville street over the clubs. Made me a little envious. She had scored 5 free tickets and invited me and four of her friends, all girls. After the show we drink at the place and get ready to hit the club. Five girls just pinging doing what girls do. I understand and am in touch with my masculine polarity and I had several realizations throughout the night. As girls saw me congruent over the course of the night they started reacting to me, seeking validation, touching me, etc etc.
Don’t feel like writing out the details of the night but my experience guided me. The girl I banged was hot and when she gets into a club its standard operating procedure for her. Go see the bartender, get into VIP, go dance on a podium, get some free drinks. Im just a man and don’t fit into that equation in the moment. So I went with her less attractive friends and facilitated them having a BLAST on the dance floor. “Your such a fun dancer” they would say. I would see my girl periodically throughout the night, we’d dance a little and make out etc. Then she’d be off. No reaction or chode following or worry on my part. Made the friends fall in love with me and she followed.
---Fun part of the story---
We get to the apartment and my girl yells, “NO PANTS PARTY!!!” and all the girls strip to their thongs and bras. They are wiping off their makeup, drinking water, dancing around the apartment. Im just in the middle like :O
Eventually me and my girl settle into the pull out couch and reminisce over our younger years shared together and the journeys we’ve been on. We make out and I start rubbing the vag through her underwear. She pushed my hand away, “I wish we could just have a few more hangouts before we have THAT hangout” [implying sex – she feels she doesn’t know me well enough] I totally chill. No concern over sex, I don’t push it at all. Outcome independent.
We just talked about life etc. I go full expression and talk about my deepest views on life, trying my hardest to get to the most authentic place I can get too. Not to seek validation from her (shes a dumb girl why would I care) and not to impress her (I know first hand trying to impress her will not lead to sex) Im just pure expression. Going on about the way I think about the world and whats interesting to me at the moment. She reciprocates by opening up totally and we connect. While im talking I start rubbing her clit. She mounts me and I get a finger in. We strip naked and I get it in with her ontop. We have passionate [while trying to keep quiet] sex.
Today I was crushing hard over this girl. If you ever met her you would know. She has such a STRONG feminine polarity and quirky personality that she owns. Sigh…
Sunday May 27th
This was a great lay. Both the sex and how it all went down.
Hit on this girl for twenty minutes in the club on Saturday. She texted me that I gave her butterflies in her stomach when I talked to her. Now I have been trying to eliminate day 2s and I think I have done it.
“Hey come over and shoot some pool with my and my roommates, I’ll throw an extra steak on the bbq for you” (I love how this removes any stigma associated with dating, it is so casual you are talking to her like shes any of your friends, and you cut the middle man and have her come straight to your house, so effectively awesome)
She came, we played pool, cooked steaks, and bantered with the roomies (so easy to get in state/ situational confidence/ social value through the roof in ‘my house’)
Once I get her into my room its all over. Again not trying for sex just full expression about who I am and what Im interested in. This is where my biggest epiphanies have been lately, at the end game. Opening up and being as authentic as possible regardless of what judgment or validation they throw back at you. It is SO EFFECTIVE at giving the girl a chance to see who you really are in a very short amount of time. We banged within two hours then again two hours after that.
One more solidly in the rotation. I will try to get a picture of her bum next time because it is very nice.
Saturday May 26th
Went to Vancouver to meet a girl I knew from back when I was a VIRGIN. Over six years ago. Still in high school, she was my neighbour… I would walk her dog with her and talk about my chode insecurities lol The first girl I ever made out with. EVER.
I friendzoned myself obviously and we developed a close relationship. Things happened and we went our separate ways (different cities). Once a year or so we would try to coordinate a meetup but it would always fall through. On Friday she texts me out of the blue
What are you doing this Saturday…..?
Come to a comedy club..? ;D in Vancouver
Holy you back from Australia???
I think that sounds great!
Yuuuuup! :D
Hahaha yay! So you wanna come.?
Im down! Details! Should I come early? What are you doing for a place to stay?
I currently live with my best friend SP! :D and you can stay here in my bed…. As long as you smell good: SP says :p show starts at 8pm gotta be there by 7:30 and im not working that day so we can hangout earlier!! If you want!!! :D
So to Vancouver I went.
Shes staying with her friend who has this boss pad right on Granville street over the clubs. Made me a little envious. She had scored 5 free tickets and invited me and four of her friends, all girls. After the show we drink at the place and get ready to hit the club. Five girls just pinging doing what girls do. I understand and am in touch with my masculine polarity and I had several realizations throughout the night. As girls saw me congruent over the course of the night they started reacting to me, seeking validation, touching me, etc etc.
Don’t feel like writing out the details of the night but my experience guided me. The girl I banged was hot and when she gets into a club its standard operating procedure for her. Go see the bartender, get into VIP, go dance on a podium, get some free drinks. Im just a man and don’t fit into that equation in the moment. So I went with her less attractive friends and facilitated them having a BLAST on the dance floor. “Your such a fun dancer” they would say. I would see my girl periodically throughout the night, we’d dance a little and make out etc. Then she’d be off. No reaction or chode following or worry on my part. Made the friends fall in love with me and she followed.
---Fun part of the story---
We get to the apartment and my girl yells, “NO PANTS PARTY!!!” and all the girls strip to their thongs and bras. They are wiping off their makeup, drinking water, dancing around the apartment. Im just in the middle like :O
Eventually me and my girl settle into the pull out couch and reminisce over our younger years shared together and the journeys we’ve been on. We make out and I start rubbing the vag through her underwear. She pushed my hand away, “I wish we could just have a few more hangouts before we have THAT hangout” [implying sex – she feels she doesn’t know me well enough] I totally chill. No concern over sex, I don’t push it at all. Outcome independent.
We just talked about life etc. I go full expression and talk about my deepest views on life, trying my hardest to get to the most authentic place I can get too. Not to seek validation from her (shes a dumb girl why would I care) and not to impress her (I know first hand trying to impress her will not lead to sex) Im just pure expression. Going on about the way I think about the world and whats interesting to me at the moment. She reciprocates by opening up totally and we connect. While im talking I start rubbing her clit. She mounts me and I get a finger in. We strip naked and I get it in with her ontop. We have passionate [while trying to keep quiet] sex.
Today I was crushing hard over this girl. If you ever met her you would know. She has such a STRONG feminine polarity and quirky personality that she owns. Sigh…
Sunday May 27th
This was a great lay. Both the sex and how it all went down.
Hit on this girl for twenty minutes in the club on Saturday. She texted me that I gave her butterflies in her stomach when I talked to her. Now I have been trying to eliminate day 2s and I think I have done it.
“Hey come over and shoot some pool with my and my roommates, I’ll throw an extra steak on the bbq for you” (I love how this removes any stigma associated with dating, it is so casual you are talking to her like shes any of your friends, and you cut the middle man and have her come straight to your house, so effectively awesome)
She came, we played pool, cooked steaks, and bantered with the roomies (so easy to get in state/ situational confidence/ social value through the roof in ‘my house’)
Once I get her into my room its all over. Again not trying for sex just full expression about who I am and what Im interested in. This is where my biggest epiphanies have been lately, at the end game. Opening up and being as authentic as possible regardless of what judgment or validation they throw back at you. It is SO EFFECTIVE at giving the girl a chance to see who you really are in a very short amount of time. We banged within two hours then again two hours after that.
One more solidly in the rotation. I will try to get a picture of her bum next time because it is very nice.
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What a gem of a journal. Well done man. Props.
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I'm curious, why are you staying in Victoria? Have you thought about moving to LA, New York, Las Vegas for the hotter girls?
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Just read your journal from beginning to end. The growth you've gone through since last Septemeber is inspiring!
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