THE FORUMS

 Friday January 13th, 2012

Me and my wing are rolling FULL SOBER.  We arrive at the club and wait in line till it opens.  Never been to a club at the open before...

We get in and stroll around, get a water.  The chodiness begins.

Interesting being sober, jeezus.  Gotta get more comfortable with this. 

Neither me nor my wing did anything to impressive.  I'd say all our approaches were about 70%.  We hung out by these tall tables in a causeway and would venus fly trap girls that walked by.  I had a decent dancefloor approach but alas ejected.

MAJOR ISSUE

Okay heres the problem we realized.  When were sober we EJECT EARLY and RUN OUT OF THINGS TO SAY.  We stale out.  This happened EVERYTIME.  I think it was a product of being uncomfortable sober and lack of social momentum.  Our solution obviously was to just keep plugging away sober


We bounced to a different club around 2:30.  Before we even check our coats in the next venue we see one of the girls in my rotation on the dance floor.  My wing goes home and I approach my fuck buddy.  I grab her by the wrist, dance for 15 seconds "okay lets go"  

Back to her pad for sexual festivities.


 

 January 15th, 2012

Sunday night.  I was on my computer from 11 - 12:30 and spiralling into lower conciousness.  My wing gives me a call, he just fucked his day 2. 

I didnt want to go out, its great what a good wing will do though.  He pushes me enough on the phone.  

I get out of bed, put my club clothes on and roll.  

We meet and hit the sunday spot.  Its closed@  

Next bar, almost empty.  Each approach one.  meh.

Next spot.  sucks

Next spot.  fucking no one.

McDonalds then home.

 January 18th, 2012

Turns out my wings girl (from the night before) got a call from her ex boyfriend just before they got to his apartment.  She ended up bailing RIGHT OUTSIDE HIS PLACE.  

So he called our friend steeve at 2:30 in the morning and decides to drink a bottle of spirytus with him.  For those of you who dont know, this is polish moonshine.




So my wing is fucked today.  Lost all color in his face, no way hes making it out tonight.  Guess tonight im ROLLING SOLO.

Funny, the past 5 months I've had a solid rsd wing whos down to go out 6/7 days a week.  I've built up a fear of going solo and have this wing reliance.  

Throughout the day I did my regular routine.  Went for a jog, played some guitar, 30 min meditation (trying holosync this month), read a some tolle... almost done power of now (working through my big toe and radical honesty as well), ate healthy.  Im feeling good about myself and am kind of excited to roll solo tonight.  


I searched all the rsd threads on solo gaming and got some advice.


Before I head out I get my two roommates to have some drinks with me in the kitchen, get socially lubed up.

I drink some vodka, then roll out at midnight.  

Into the first venue.  Im surprisingly positive but can feel the rationalization cycle happening.  I end up wandering the club (its not that busy either)  at a point I remember saying to myself "OKAY, your fucking up.  Go to the dancefloor and the girl you see you must tap on the shoulders"

First approach, I come up from behind and triple tap each of her shoulders.  She turns to look at me and I just stare.  Gods not giving me anything.  She looks confused then I just wave to her.  She smiles and I pull her in.  We start dancing.  

At this point I was thinking "OKAY, this is totally possible.  I can do this solo"

I ejected myself out of set then walk around the club.  Im at the bar choding.  As the bartender comes to me I run away, not wanting to drink.

Did one more set then hit the wednesday SPOT.

Into the club.  Line to check jackets is huge so I decide to do a set then ill come back.  I walk around and dont do any sets.  Then I decide to take a piss.  SHIT.  Im fucking up again.  rationalizations and avoidance.

"Okay" I tell myself, "Pick a fucking set and when you leave the bathroom you MUST APPROACH"  

I spot a seated two set with room for me.  I go into the pisser and can feel my brain creating all this resistance.  When I leave the bathroom I diligently approach and talk to them.  Goes surprisingly well but not sexual at all.  I say goodbye and wish them a good night.  

To the bar.  Vodka redbull.

This club has a wicked high traffic area and you can sniper girls walking through pretty easy.  

I pull one girl in but get blown off.  I hit the dancefloor.  

Three set.  I tap the one not facing me on the shoulder.  She turns, I stare at her, then wave and take a sip of my vodka redbull.  I extend my hand to take her and her friends literally PUSH her onto me.  We dance, get sexual.  I repeately stop the dancing to grab her neck and pull her ear close to me and we introduce and have a bullshit conversation.  

Continue dancing.  Im getting in touch with my man to women communication.  

Keep trying for the make out but no go. 

Then someone grabs my ass.  I turn around and this girl ive been banging and her friend are in the club.  I look at her but dont acknowledge and keep dancing with my girl.  My fuckbuddy is orbitting me hard, trying to get my attention.

I get the makeout, my fuckbuddy sees and storms off with her friend.  

I ditch my girl for some reasoon and go talk to my FB.  We makeout, then I hit the bar for another drink.  I tell her ill come talk to her in a bit.  

Approach a three set by dancing in then picking up the shortest one and taking her away.  Shes all giggily.  silly girls.

I go back with the shortone into the set and meet everyone.  I shake all their hands then take shorty to the dancefloor.  Im 6'5 she was 5'1 ish .  We dance and make out and dance and grind.  The she grabs my hands and I follow her through the crowded dance floor.  

As we wade through the crowd of people a tall girl is coming the opposite direction.  We lock eyes and are BEAMING.  As we pass each other I lean in.  we make out.  all done in the three second we had passing each other, never seen this girl before (although I think she saw me kissing other girls earlier and I was pretty in state as we walked passed each other)  I continue holding the hands of shorty as she leads me off the dancefloor, she didnt see any of this go down LOL.

I hang with shorty and her friends.  

To the bar for more vodka redbulls.  Open a two set.  cold shouldered.  I dont feel like plowing. 

Sniper a girl as she leaves the bar mayhem.  Pull her in, she tries to leave but I persist.  I get her right in my arms and we talk for a second, 'I HAVE to go!" she says and then forces herself out of my lock and leaves.

This american guy who was at the bar is snickering at me.  I look at him 'gotta do what you gotta do man'

We end up talking for a little he was cool.  He couldnt believe that someone would roll solo.  I remember reading something from brad where he says be totally unapologetic about it.  most people will be envious and jealous that you can roll solo.  This was true with this american guy.

My fuckbuddy comes by, we make out.  Shorty sees from across the venue.  Apparently got upset and left.  (I got her friends to give me her number later though ;)   )

Anyway, more bullshit throughout the night, had another makeout on the dancefloor and a couple blowouts and some dry sets.  

Around three oclock the bar is starting to empty.  My fuck buddy has gone home, and shorty who had good logistics left as well.  I dont have a phone so I cant hit up any numbers.

I get a water stand around for a bit.  Finally decide I burned the venue pretty hard but had a very succesful night for rolling solo.

Out of the club a tall hot eastern european girl is walking towards me on the sidewalk.  I stop her and pull her in, inquiring 'who are you?'  at this point i was totally indifferent and had been approaching all night.  Talking to this girl on the street i was very sexual right off the bat.  I try to kiss her and she calls me a crazy canadian.

She had been at work and was going home.  I convince her to roll into the club with me for a bit.  

She gets I.D.'ed at the door and cant get in.  She tells me shes going to go home and get her id then come back and that i should wait at the club.  in my head im like yeah right, but hell shes hot and its worth a shot.

She literally RUNS into the closest cab and is gone.

I go back in the club.  Get another water. Open a two set, goes nowhere.

Behold, this girl actually came back to the club!

She sees me and she coatchecks.  

She grabs a drink, I get another water.  I get shittested over drinking waters.

We go sit down.  

All the sudden she gets wierded out, and is STARING at someone at the other end of the room.  She tells me it was a client from earlier (this is when i deduced she was a stripper)

She then tells me he was obnoxiously trying to pay her for a BJ but she wouldnt (This is when I really knew she was a stripper)

Anyway, we hit the dancefloor.  Its only 40% full now.  

She doesnt want to grind but HOLY SHIT she could move her body.  Defs a stripper, huge tits amazing ass. yes.

We smoke a cigarette, have another drink then bounce.

We hop in a cab and go to her house.  When we get there she has this tiny little dog and we walk it around the block at 5am.

Back in her place and she makes me some tea and feeds me.  

Then she makes the bed and just takes her clothes off.  Down to bra and thong.  Hops in the bed.

I catch up and strip to my boxers.  

In the bed now and she wont even kiss me.  Shes dropping 'were not going to fuck', 'your just horny' as I made my advances.  

I got the vibes that this girl was strong of will so I didnt push.  

I ended up cuddling a stripper all night.





In the morning we wake up spooning.  I reach my hand around and start rubbing her vadge through her thong.  She opens her legs up more.  I start fingering her....  we bang.

   January 19th, 2012

Had a good night.  Rolled with a crew of 9.

Me and my wing did a street set on the way to the club.  Three set.  We try to get them to come with us. 

Were fooling around, I pick my girl up and carry her around the corner, we make out.  She returns to her group and they urge us to come with them.

We meet up with our crew at the club, its closed so we bounce to the second venue.

Inside I see one girl from the previous night (shes with her friend)  I go in double claw, kiss my girl, kiss her friend, then push them on each other.  Three way makeout.


Back to the crew.  In our crew theres a canadian girl with us and me she is SO OBVIOUSLY looking to get stuffed.  Her friends told us she hasnt been laid in 4 months.  

Me and my wing are obnoxiously joking about double teaming her to her face lol.  My wing makes out with her then throws her to me.  I take her to the dance floor and get the make out.  haha, later that night im making out with her and my wing is grinding her from behind reaching around grabbing her tits, then she turns around and kisses him and im grinding her from behind.

In the end my wing took her down.

My wing opens a two set and im in there.  Its going okay and we decide to apocolypse.  "do you guys want to come to our place and have a foursome?"  were just being retarded now. 

Actually I had my second makeout open during that set.  I remember were talking to these two girls and I turn around and see a girl leaning on the wall eye fucking me.  (she was a maaaaaybe a 7...)   I eject from the set and extend my hand to her, she obliges and comes in.  I just pull her face up to mine and we make out.  Then i turn around and go back into set with my wing like nothing happened lol.

Me and a buddy ended the last 1.5 hours of the night dance/makeout/smoke/talk cycle with these two girls.  When the club closed she wasn't down for the pull.  Either she was too conservative or my game was off.  O well