THE FORUMS
7.6.12
FRIDAY
Did 1 day game approach. She had to keep going. I know the power of my approaches have gotten much stronger. If I kept hitting up girls they would definitely stick around and talk. Going out at night has transferred a lot of power to my day game.
I hit up my first girl after about 20 minutes of being in the bar that had no girls in it yet. I saw her and opened, talked and kept the buyer sellers dynamic in mind. Towards the end of the interaction I felt the buyers dynamic start to shift to me as the buyer. It felt like a fight between who was the buyer lol. Brother and his civilian buddy and I headed out to the next club where we met up with Matt281 and SexMachine. Its cool having the RSD crew grow here in the city. Every place I go, I now run into guy I know who are getting better at this stuff. Love it. I only hit up the one girl there that was not surrounded by dudes. Turned out she worked there, we talked for a bit. Matt281 and the crew headed out. I stayed solo for a bit and just relaxed. I left 5 minuts later.
I went to the next bar and became a sexy spectator. I realized this and as I got into my head, I knew I just had to force myself to open. Opened a 2 set, turned out to be older. The girl was instantly into me. I was not into her. We talked for a bit, interesting conversation. I was about to leave when Converse shows up and we open set together. He is just plowing. Great watching him. My girl had her back turned as I was awkwardly placed. I just kept talking. She was not into it. Whatev. I left for the next club.
Behind me were these two guys that started talking to me. Cool guys. Like genuinely good guys. We started winging for a bit until I just started opening my sets and they kind of chilled and watched. Wish I pulled them into set because they were really good guys. I did open one girl and introduced her to one of the guys. Then ran into some female friends, then opened a set behind the girls. I talked for a while. Now that I think about it, I've gotta be aware of how fast I talk and slow the fuck down. Bad habits come back after not going out for a week. Tiger0 shows up and turns out he knows the girl that I am talking to. She apparently got opened by him days ago and was excite to see him. I was happy because I was into her white friend who finally started showing IOIs after Tiger0 took over the mixed girl. Then they "had to go to the bathroom." Sometimse I tell them, "oh no! Don't worry. We'll leave" which I mean genuinely and funnily because I think it sucks that girls constantly have to move to get rid of guys they are not into.
I headed home early to kick it with my buddy who is leaving for bosnia today.
Things to Remember:
-Slow down my speech. Chill out. Real personality. Don't try to be funny unless its fueling your self amusement or adding value to the interaction.
FRIDAY
Did 1 day game approach. She had to keep going. I know the power of my approaches have gotten much stronger. If I kept hitting up girls they would definitely stick around and talk. Going out at night has transferred a lot of power to my day game.
I hit up my first girl after about 20 minutes of being in the bar that had no girls in it yet. I saw her and opened, talked and kept the buyer sellers dynamic in mind. Towards the end of the interaction I felt the buyers dynamic start to shift to me as the buyer. It felt like a fight between who was the buyer lol. Brother and his civilian buddy and I headed out to the next club where we met up with Matt281 and SexMachine. Its cool having the RSD crew grow here in the city. Every place I go, I now run into guy I know who are getting better at this stuff. Love it. I only hit up the one girl there that was not surrounded by dudes. Turned out she worked there, we talked for a bit. Matt281 and the crew headed out. I stayed solo for a bit and just relaxed. I left 5 minuts later.
I went to the next bar and became a sexy spectator. I realized this and as I got into my head, I knew I just had to force myself to open. Opened a 2 set, turned out to be older. The girl was instantly into me. I was not into her. We talked for a bit, interesting conversation. I was about to leave when Converse shows up and we open set together. He is just plowing. Great watching him. My girl had her back turned as I was awkwardly placed. I just kept talking. She was not into it. Whatev. I left for the next club.
Behind me were these two guys that started talking to me. Cool guys. Like genuinely good guys. We started winging for a bit until I just started opening my sets and they kind of chilled and watched. Wish I pulled them into set because they were really good guys. I did open one girl and introduced her to one of the guys. Then ran into some female friends, then opened a set behind the girls. I talked for a while. Now that I think about it, I've gotta be aware of how fast I talk and slow the fuck down. Bad habits come back after not going out for a week. Tiger0 shows up and turns out he knows the girl that I am talking to. She apparently got opened by him days ago and was excite to see him. I was happy because I was into her white friend who finally started showing IOIs after Tiger0 took over the mixed girl. Then they "had to go to the bathroom." Sometimse I tell them, "oh no! Don't worry. We'll leave" which I mean genuinely and funnily because I think it sucks that girls constantly have to move to get rid of guys they are not into.
I headed home early to kick it with my buddy who is leaving for bosnia today.
Things to Remember:
-Slow down my speech. Chill out. Real personality. Don't try to be funny unless its fueling your self amusement or adding value to the interaction.
7.7.12
SATURDAY
Most notable set: The tranny.
Tonight was much different than the past couple weeks. An off night. Funny how most my bad habits returned and just kind made it a night with a lot of inconsistency. Brother mentioned how my sets may start out good at the beginning of the night and end up kind of shitty the rest of the night and I noticed this myself months ago. I'd go in and allow for rejections to suck my state.
I kept "running out of things to say" but what I realized was that the energy behind everything I said kind of sucked until I just started doing this breathing exercise I do to pick myself up and feel good.
I went out and failed to put in the energy to make my approaches fucking fun and entertaining for myself. Though I did have a lot of fun with the guys.
Towards the end of the night I realized I had a schtick going on and realized and I needed to put my "real personality on the line" which worked wonders compared to what I got through out the rest of the night.
I also noticed there was hesitation as I stepped up...and WASN'T stepping the FUCK UP. And I'm kind of irritated with myself for not playing to win. For not stepping up like a man and being a pussy as I stepped up. There is no reason to be nervous (i mean, with lenience). There is no reason to be afraid. There is no reason not to believe that the system works. That little hesitation I had as I stepped up cost me many sets.
Tiger0...Jesus christ. We were both out of it and he said mentioned the "20 second game." He would just follow right behind me yelling numbers as I would approach, which made approaching waayyy easier and nothing I took seriously. Must've been hilarious as a bystander observing him and I. He would get to 14...15.....16... I'd shove everyone out of the way and find a girl. If I couldn't find a cute one I just had to settle for an ug or a girl with a bf.
We finally hit up our last venue at 1:30am. Some dude flags me down and introduces himself. He saw me hitting up girls at the other venue. There was a blond next to him that I was about to talk to before he flagged me down. We talked for a bit, then I mentioned that I wanted to talk to the blond, but couldn't tell if she was old or not. Open blond. I like big fake blond pornstar hair. Makes me think of fucking a pornstar. And you know what's ACTUALLY phucked UP?! Brother comes and wings the friend. I'm talking to my blond and think, "damn my game is good right now and I don't give a fuck." Brother points to his phone with a serious face...I look at my phone, he sent a text: "Tranny alert"
Although this interaction was not with a chick, what I realized as I type this up, I shouldn't ping off of her to see of the interaction is "going well" I should assume its going in a good direction, be aware and work with it, but never think, is thing going well? Who cares. Keep talking like everything is great.
Things to Remember:
Step up like a fucking man.
Real personality on the line. Real man's blowout.
Speak up and allowed. RB tonality (back to some basic stuff again)
Command fucking respect...Don't be a passive chode that gets ignored or is treated condescendingly. I hate that. My ego fucking hates it. Don't accept that bull shit resistance. (Correct if I am wrong someone). Stand up and say something.
RELATE MAN TO WOMAN.
Be centered.
Feel good no matter what. No matter what the rejection is, make it funny or don't react. Approaching should fuel your state of mind. Approaching should make you smile by the fact that you took action.
Everything that happens is part of the process is meant to bring you to where you are now.
Positive thought loops. You're a sexy man.
Keep that positive emotion behind your words.
Be shameless! Wear your damn sexuality on your sleeve and show clarity of intent( something I really struggle with)
And as Owen said, these are the glory days.
SATURDAY
Most notable set: The tranny.
Tonight was much different than the past couple weeks. An off night. Funny how most my bad habits returned and just kind made it a night with a lot of inconsistency. Brother mentioned how my sets may start out good at the beginning of the night and end up kind of shitty the rest of the night and I noticed this myself months ago. I'd go in and allow for rejections to suck my state.
I kept "running out of things to say" but what I realized was that the energy behind everything I said kind of sucked until I just started doing this breathing exercise I do to pick myself up and feel good.
I went out and failed to put in the energy to make my approaches fucking fun and entertaining for myself. Though I did have a lot of fun with the guys.
Towards the end of the night I realized I had a schtick going on and realized and I needed to put my "real personality on the line" which worked wonders compared to what I got through out the rest of the night.
I also noticed there was hesitation as I stepped up...and WASN'T stepping the FUCK UP. And I'm kind of irritated with myself for not playing to win. For not stepping up like a man and being a pussy as I stepped up. There is no reason to be nervous (i mean, with lenience). There is no reason to be afraid. There is no reason not to believe that the system works. That little hesitation I had as I stepped up cost me many sets.
Tiger0...Jesus christ. We were both out of it and he said mentioned the "20 second game." He would just follow right behind me yelling numbers as I would approach, which made approaching waayyy easier and nothing I took seriously. Must've been hilarious as a bystander observing him and I. He would get to 14...15.....16... I'd shove everyone out of the way and find a girl. If I couldn't find a cute one I just had to settle for an ug or a girl with a bf.
We finally hit up our last venue at 1:30am. Some dude flags me down and introduces himself. He saw me hitting up girls at the other venue. There was a blond next to him that I was about to talk to before he flagged me down. We talked for a bit, then I mentioned that I wanted to talk to the blond, but couldn't tell if she was old or not. Open blond. I like big fake blond pornstar hair. Makes me think of fucking a pornstar. And you know what's ACTUALLY phucked UP?! Brother comes and wings the friend. I'm talking to my blond and think, "damn my game is good right now and I don't give a fuck." Brother points to his phone with a serious face...I look at my phone, he sent a text: "Tranny alert"
Although this interaction was not with a chick, what I realized as I type this up, I shouldn't ping off of her to see of the interaction is "going well" I should assume its going in a good direction, be aware and work with it, but never think, is thing going well? Who cares. Keep talking like everything is great.
Things to Remember:
Step up like a fucking man.
Real personality on the line. Real man's blowout.
Speak up and allowed. RB tonality (back to some basic stuff again)
Command fucking respect...Don't be a passive chode that gets ignored or is treated condescendingly. I hate that. My ego fucking hates it. Don't accept that bull shit resistance. (Correct if I am wrong someone). Stand up and say something.
RELATE MAN TO WOMAN.
Be centered.
Feel good no matter what. No matter what the rejection is, make it funny or don't react. Approaching should fuel your state of mind. Approaching should make you smile by the fact that you took action.
Everything that happens is part of the process is meant to bring you to where you are now.
Positive thought loops. You're a sexy man.
Keep that positive emotion behind your words.
Be shameless! Wear your damn sexuality on your sleeve and show clarity of intent( something I really struggle with)
And as Owen said, these are the glory days.
Things I want to focus on...
I want to make a commitment to hitting it up every fucking day. I go in and out of doing this. I mean if I can't go out at night, hit it up in the day while going to class. I am literally in the best position possible for day game and must push for it. I did about 5 sets today. But I 5 today doesnt matter if I am not consistent everyday. I want to hit it up just for fun. I want to see this growth take place. If I want to be in an even better place months from now, I REALLY need to be putting in the time and effort for the sheer enjoyment of it all. Sometimes I have a crap week in terms of my goals. But when I pursue multiple goals, I at least shine at one of them at any given time whether this be in the gym, school or game.
I want to make a commitment to hitting it up every fucking day. I go in and out of doing this. I mean if I can't go out at night, hit it up in the day while going to class. I am literally in the best position possible for day game and must push for it. I did about 5 sets today. But I 5 today doesnt matter if I am not consistent everyday. I want to hit it up just for fun. I want to see this growth take place. If I want to be in an even better place months from now, I REALLY need to be putting in the time and effort for the sheer enjoyment of it all. Sometimes I have a crap week in terms of my goals. But when I pursue multiple goals, I at least shine at one of them at any given time whether this be in the gym, school or game.
7.10.12
DAY
I thought I would quickly FR this interaction I had last week. I pulled a girl off campus and to my bed, made out. rode my hand up that sexy sun dress and touched that puss from the outside. She said dinner first.
I was out of it and hesitant when I saw her. She was sitting alone looking at her phone outside the library. I was intimidated, but I went up and said congruently,
Me: Hey...I saw you...and debated whether I should meet you *put hand out* I'm muzzi. (the context meant that I was too nervous to step up, but I did anyways).
We chit chatted for a bit about classes, etc She stood up to go, I said, "coffee tomorrow." She said okay, I gave her my phone to put her number in, I told her to text me...Then said it again cuz I thought she didn't lol. So she did. I remembered to text within an hr of meeting her or so. And to lead the conversation even if it appeared to end. I continued texting her..
Me: So..umm....*twiddles fingers* Wanna get coffee today at 6:30?
HeR: Im in class till 6:50
Me: meet at 7 at xyz
Her: I'm down.
We get together. Talk. I had a slight front up. When I realized this and couldnt get rid of it, I thought to myself, "whatever. Work wtih it." We get coffee at a place near my house. I never sit ni the coffee shop, I always walk around outside. We get near my house..
Me: I live just over there. Wanna hang out at my place?
Her: Yeah sure.
We go to my house. I whip out the projector I rented from the school. I'm sitting in my chair as we watch puss in boots. She's sitting on my bed. I move to the bed and I have my arm over her. An hour into the movie, she turns around to make out. Im rubbing her legs, pull her dress up. I touch her puss from the outside. She says dinner first...
Her: dinner first...
Me: pizza....
Her: Frozen pizza...
Me: No..pizza from Trader Joes...
Her: Frozen?
Me: No they have all the materials. You just make it.
She leaves at 11pm. I whip out the books and start doing homework. The entire time I was wtih her, I just wanted to do hw. I got behind. Plus I was not that interseted because I had just had some of the hottest sex ever with my blond earlier that day. I fucked her in heels. She got new hot panties and undies. Wouldn't send me a pic. Would only show it to me in person...
So I changed HB Library's name to kevvin in my phone...I have another friend kevin...I did it cuz I had HB blond over a couple nights.
I never changed it back....
So get a text from who I think is Kevin....
Kevvin: Oh booo, who givess a test on a fridaY? I guess that means you can celebrate hard that its over no the weekend
Me: Celebrate with getting laid, ya dude, who does thatt? then again 2 tests on 1 day would suuuck.
Kevvin: hahaha, getting laiid is the best way to celebrate...
(fuuuuckkkk wrong person.... totally forgot its not my guy friend kevin....so I cover up..)
Me: Thats why we're hangging out this weeked ;) forward I know. Pizza with dog ears, ur favorite.
Kevvin: that was my plan for the weekend too. glad we're on the same page.
Kevvin: no dog ears though
DAY
I thought I would quickly FR this interaction I had last week. I pulled a girl off campus and to my bed, made out. rode my hand up that sexy sun dress and touched that puss from the outside. She said dinner first.
I was out of it and hesitant when I saw her. She was sitting alone looking at her phone outside the library. I was intimidated, but I went up and said congruently,
Me: Hey...I saw you...and debated whether I should meet you *put hand out* I'm muzzi. (the context meant that I was too nervous to step up, but I did anyways).
We chit chatted for a bit about classes, etc She stood up to go, I said, "coffee tomorrow." She said okay, I gave her my phone to put her number in, I told her to text me...Then said it again cuz I thought she didn't lol. So she did. I remembered to text within an hr of meeting her or so. And to lead the conversation even if it appeared to end. I continued texting her..
Me: So..umm....*twiddles fingers* Wanna get coffee today at 6:30?
HeR: Im in class till 6:50
Me: meet at 7 at xyz
Her: I'm down.
We get together. Talk. I had a slight front up. When I realized this and couldnt get rid of it, I thought to myself, "whatever. Work wtih it." We get coffee at a place near my house. I never sit ni the coffee shop, I always walk around outside. We get near my house..
Me: I live just over there. Wanna hang out at my place?
Her: Yeah sure.
We go to my house. I whip out the projector I rented from the school. I'm sitting in my chair as we watch puss in boots. She's sitting on my bed. I move to the bed and I have my arm over her. An hour into the movie, she turns around to make out. Im rubbing her legs, pull her dress up. I touch her puss from the outside. She says dinner first...
Her: dinner first...
Me: pizza....
Her: Frozen pizza...
Me: No..pizza from Trader Joes...
Her: Frozen?
Me: No they have all the materials. You just make it.
She leaves at 11pm. I whip out the books and start doing homework. The entire time I was wtih her, I just wanted to do hw. I got behind. Plus I was not that interseted because I had just had some of the hottest sex ever with my blond earlier that day. I fucked her in heels. She got new hot panties and undies. Wouldn't send me a pic. Would only show it to me in person...
So I changed HB Library's name to kevvin in my phone...I have another friend kevin...I did it cuz I had HB blond over a couple nights.
I never changed it back....
So get a text from who I think is Kevin....
Kevvin: Oh booo, who givess a test on a fridaY? I guess that means you can celebrate hard that its over no the weekend
Me: Celebrate with getting laid, ya dude, who does thatt? then again 2 tests on 1 day would suuuck.
Kevvin: hahaha, getting laiid is the best way to celebrate...
(fuuuuckkkk wrong person.... totally forgot its not my guy friend kevin....so I cover up..)
Me: Thats why we're hangging out this weeked ;) forward I know. Pizza with dog ears, ur favorite.
Kevvin: that was my plan for the weekend too. glad we're on the same page.
Kevvin: no dog ears though
Yeah dude, even though you might not realize it, you can do 10 mins of approaching every day. It is really good to do that to establish the HABIT.
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Yeah dude, even though you might not realize it, you can do 10 mins of approaching every day. It is really good to do that to establish the HABIT.
I just gottttaa get into the habit....in the past when I have gotten into the habit, life was just a lot more satisfying. I really shouldn't stop.
Yeah, you can get into it by doing ONE approach a day, seriously, don't let your ego say that it's not enough to do just one. B/c if you rationalize it that way then you might not do any on any given day.
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I see all these other guys on the forum, they make these game resolutions and say that they're going to approach XX number of girls a day. Then, they'll post maybe a few field reports, and then they give up and never post again.
The reason is very simple, it's easy to make resolutions, it's easy to say I'm going to approach 30 girls a day or some other bullshit. But, the actual follow through, the actual planning, the actual execution, that's the hard part, that's where almost all guys fail.
So, I avoid doing these kind of silly resolution type bullshit.
Instead, I make plans. I plan out what time I'm going out. I plan where I'm going. I plan how long I'm going to stay in field. I plan what I'm going to wear. I plan what I'm going to do. And, I execute the plan. over and over and over and over. I am creating a habit, habit of success.
Evil stifler has a great example on day game in this video. He describes his daygame habit, he starts at 8:00 am, goes to starbucks, art schools, dress sharply, and has a guitar to stand out. This is the reason why this guy fucks so many girls, he is methodical in his approach to pickup girls, he leaves NOTHING to chance. Watch this video.
The reason is very simple, it's easy to make resolutions, it's easy to say I'm going to approach 30 girls a day or some other bullshit. But, the actual follow through, the actual planning, the actual execution, that's the hard part, that's where almost all guys fail.
So, I avoid doing these kind of silly resolution type bullshit.
Instead, I make plans. I plan out what time I'm going out. I plan where I'm going. I plan how long I'm going to stay in field. I plan what I'm going to wear. I plan what I'm going to do. And, I execute the plan. over and over and over and over. I am creating a habit, habit of success.
Evil stifler has a great example on day game in this video. He describes his daygame habit, he starts at 8:00 am, goes to starbucks, art schools, dress sharply, and has a guitar to stand out. This is the reason why this guy fucks so many girls, he is methodical in his approach to pickup girls, he leaves NOTHING to chance. Watch this video.
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Proactive Action
" also focus on the STEPS, all this talk about "i feel this way" and "i FEEL that way" who gives a shit how you fucking FEEL. Focus on EXECUTION"--jlaix
"Self improvement is masturbation, now self destruction ..." - Tyler Durden (Fight Club)
" also focus on the STEPS, all this talk about "i feel this way" and "i FEEL that way" who gives a shit how you fucking FEEL. Focus on EXECUTION"--jlaix
"Self improvement is masturbation, now self destruction ..." - Tyler Durden (Fight Club)
Yeah except I actually did 1 approach a day.
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FRIDAY
Make out. But it was damn fun.
Went and saw Aziz Ansari do his stand up! Nearly epic stand up except for the part where I fell asleep from having such a long day. Caught the very for his encore though.
We got out and started hitting it up at 12:45am. I have been focused on school all week and didnt really go out the entire week. So I was indifferent and knew what patterns to expect.
One thing Learned OVer and over again...NEVER ESCALATE IN FRONT OF HER FRIENDS! Fuck. I need to get this through my head. Too many hot girls lost due to escalating in front of friends. Common sense, but I'm just not thinking in the moment.
Whenever I hestitate to open a hot set, I realize, why not? Just do it. Anything. And I do. And sometimes fun shit happens. ITs all for fun. I am literally craving going out tonight because the process is so fucking fun. I love it! I've gone out for the past year and now know what to expect.
Towards the end of the night I saw this petite girl and her friend. I opened and Brother winged the friend. HB7 was down for me to escalate. Cute girl. We were right in each other's space. I kept in mind what Adjunkie told me about getting close into her space and leaning back. I knew I could make out with her right then, but chose to let the tension build. She mentioned being thirsty. I brushed it off and kept talking. Pulled her closer to the bar area a few feet away from her friend. We talked and danced and fuuuuck this girl could dance....She would be such a good fucker!! I eventually turned her around and started making out. Short spirts of make outs. I pulled my phone out to get her number just incase, she wouldn't put it in. Tells me she has a bf. I say BS. But eventually I realize she's telling the truth (after she leaves later). She says she's a bad girl and I couldn't handle her. I grab her neck and lightly choke her and make out some more. The lights turn on. Bar closes. They head out and me and Brother start hitting up the streets.
I've become kinda stifled on the streets. Gotta make sure to play to win and fully put myself on the line to make shit work.
I'm upset that I won't be going out tonight....Hate it. Exam on Monday, which is far more important if I want to think about living in this city after college. Lots of jobs with a math degree out there. Gotta get it.