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December 10th, 2016
Jeffy HotSeat in Amsterdam
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Maha

Maha

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Join Date: 12/22/2009 | Posts: 225

Hey guys,

this is a report from the JeffyHotSeat in Amsterdam, 03. Sept. 2011.

Saturday morning, 10am, I wake up HUNG OVER in a fucked up Hostel in Amsterdam. I unfortunately met some Australian Guys who loved to buy me shots...

The event started at 2pm. and took nearly 10 hours until midnight. To my surprise Alex was also there and doing a little part. You all know whats going on on HotSeat, so I am not going into that. Jeffy and Alex are both cool guys.


After the HotSeat we went out beasting.

As follows I try to demonstrate my 5 main realizations I gained from the program, and how they were applied later that night.

#1  Getting physical and escalating

Honestly, I have read about how important physical escalation is for years! On the Hotseat you really gain deep insights on what this looks like. Later that night when we were out partying, I found myself being IMMENSE Physical all the time, like doing 80s HighFive, lifting girls up, spinning, hugging, kicking....
Honestly, before HotSeat I just knew how to stand there and look good, but not really how to touch the girl.

As jeffy says, its about PARTY AND DONG. Being fun AND sexual, both need to go together hand in hand.


#2 Tetris Texting
This was relly one of my sticking points: How to lead a conversation and how to vibe. What you basically do is just talking bullshit, just expressing, letting the words flow. You are not looking on how the girl reacts to every thing you say. This was awesomely nice demonstrated in Alex's video, where he literally speaks absolute bullshit to a girl on the dancefloor. For like the first 8 minutes the girl says like 2 or 3 sentences, and shit tests a lot.

When I would try this later in sets, it worked like a charm to keep the vibe going and cut through bullshit.

#3 Online Dating = Fun

Jeffy showed us okcupid aswell as sms messages he had with the internet girls. He would also show videos of the actual date. What I learned: On the date itself just be interested and interesting. Chill the fuck out, check for logistics beforehand, ideally you wanna take her to a place u are familiar with.

Also: Sending MASS text messages, like hundreds or thousands.

#4 There is no clear definition what "game"looks like
We were shown videos from Tyler, Brad, Alex, Evil Stiffler and Jeffy. What I realized: Their game is enormously different, depending on the personality. For example: Evil Stifler would still have success with lame ass conversations, interview style. Jeffy has in my opinion quite a strong verbal game, like the shit he says really is hilarious.

In contrast, Tylers game seemed to be entirely on another level.. like in another dimension or some shit. We were shown a 30min video of him. Tyler just protects this "feel good" vibe on everybody. Even when some bodyguard douchebag tries to push him away from the girl... in which case many other guys would have given up, he just keeps pushin WHILE SEEMING ENTIRELY comfortable.

#5 In the end its UPON YOU. It takes time, seriously....
It's so easy to find excuses NOT to go out and take action. You cant expect to start with this stuff and fucking BEASTING like the RSD Instructors... You will mess it up, you will fucking scare the shit out of yourself in some situations. Pushing the comfort zone...

Being Pro-Active despite your fears and thoughts is what u invest, but what u get out of it is an improved better self...

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We scratched the surface here what the HotSeat gives you, I can recommend taking it. For me it was absolutely worth the money, for I am the guy who READS TOO much on this fucking forum...

I will stay 3 more nights in Amsterdam, doing Day and Nightgame.... it-s fucking awkward sometimes to be in a foreign city by yourself... but u also meet so many interesting men and women... Since arriving here I already have like 15 new Facebook friends :D yeah faebook...

After that I'm gonna hit up DUBLIN for another week... glorious times.



Enjoy this crazy ride called life...


Thx, have a good time, I'm getting a drink at the Hostel bar and start talking to those human beings over there.



Stefan
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VGAlan

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Join Date: 12/23/2010 | Posts: 227

 Fuck man, Dublin! I envy you bastard ;)

I went there last weekend and it was awesome! I don't know if you've already been there, otherwise I can recommend: in the weekend Fitzsimons ( a 4 floor place in Temple bar) and during weekdays (especially sunday( Copper face Jack, near Camden street; ask the locals. Have fun!
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Maha

Maha

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Join Date: 12/22/2009 | Posts: 225

VGAlan wrote:
 Fuck man, Dublin! I envy you bastard ;)

I went there last weekend and it was awesome! I don't know if you've already been there, otherwise I can recommend: in the weekend Fitzsimons ( a 4 floor place in Temple bar) and during weekdays (especially sunday( Copper face Jack, near Camden street; ask the locals. Have fun!
thx man,

Diceys Garden is also a cool place, 2 euro drinks on mondays :O

I've lived in dublin for like 4 months, people drink a lot there, big fun.


cheers
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DukeDevlin

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Join Date: 04/08/2011 | Posts: 538

 Awesome write up thanks Maha
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Join Date: 08/20/2006 | Posts: 8800

genius... beastmode deluxe. You should hit up leidseplein thats pretty much where we go every night. There's some hipster bars there with dudes with rollie fingers moustaches; makes me feel like I'm home in SF. haha. lots of hot girls too
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The jazz

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Join Date: 08/13/2009 | Posts: 244

 guess i missed it , when are you guys comming to belgium
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Maha

Maha

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Join Date: 12/22/2009 | Posts: 225

ok, just had my first visit to BANGTOWN DUBLIN after hotseat with this sweet polish ballet dancer.

Before HotSeat I probably wouldn-t have known how to effectively extract her to the apartment. She was with 2 ugly friends at the club. So I remembered from HotSeat that in this case u can just bring home ALL 3 GIRLS, have some drink at the apartment, and just chill out until her friends decide to go home.

That was exactly what happened. After 1 hour of chatting with all the girls; her friends got to see that I'm a cool guy and they can leave her friend alone with me without concerns.

So they left, and we had some good times together. Good Stuff. Love life.
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